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symphalion
26th Apr 2009 Sun, 19:48
Sex in a Relationship

In this thread i want to let anyone know what are the things that should be remembered and think about in "sex" in a relationship

cause as we know that sex "make love" now had many meanings and misunderstood

below are the things should be considered and realized by anyone of us, ranked 10 to 1

10. Sex can't be force

forcing sex is first a rape, which means its illegal without the approval of the person being used, second forcing it might

end up causing unwanted pregnancy, making it hard to take care of the child.

9. Sex shouldn't tell or show to others

sex or "making love" is sacred, that's why he/she trusted you to do it because he/she knows that you won't share it to others.

8. Lust of sex is not Love

having sexual drive or attracted to your opposite sex is not love, its just a sex appeal or you're just fantasizing the body depending in where you are attracted to

7. Sex is not for everyone and it's not a thing

sex is not for everyone, because its not right to have one night stand to anyone you don't love, what's the point of calling it "make love"if the both of you only have lust.

Sex is not thing, for some of us asking sex is just like asking a candy for others, but its just because they know that

they had done that in other girls, remember baby/embryo/fetus is NOT A THING! Its LIFE that we're talking here.

6. Sex is not anyone's life

sex shouldn't be considered as anyone's life, or a need to live, you're just fooling yourselves if you think that you can't live without sex. Sex is not a food nor

a vitamin to be considered that helps you to have energy, now you're thinking WRONG! you just creating your own imagination, thinking that you can't live without sex!

anyone can live the same without sex, how can you survive your childhood if you're thinking you can't lie without sex!

5. Shouldn't be misunderstood

if your partner doesn't want to make love, then so be it! try to ask why and not force him/her because you are in the mood,

try to think if there's a problem with him/her, if he/she don't want to make love it doesn't mean that he/she don't love you,

he/she just knows what consequences both of you will be facing if you won't do it right (safe)

4. Should be concerned

you should be concerned with you and your partner if you are making love, if she's hurt or afraid, don't just wait there, comfort and tell her you won't continue

and its OK if the two of you don't do it, don't make it hard for your partner to know that you really want to make love, what's the point of making love if you only have is lust.

3. Should be responsible

be responsible if you and your partner accidentally make a baby, it's you and your partners fault, face the consequences the both of you where in to,as what #7 said, THE BABY/EMBRYO/FETUS is NOT A THING! And ABORTION is not the answer!

2. Should have respect

Learn to Respect the rights of your partner to say NO or to have SAFE SEX, you're not the only one who will be worried in case there is an accident happened to the both of you,

respect that he/she will feel that you loved him/her for what he/she have and not because of sex that he/she' been giving you.

1. Sex is love

Sex is created because of love, that's why it is called as "make love", making love isn't just a name of term of sex,

it's called make love to let everyone remember what is the meaning or essence of sex.

you just don't do it because you want to, you also want to share the feeling you have to your partner,

the feeling of making love is better when both of you and your partner love each other.. :salute:

Always REMEMBER this message and realize the things that people around us or even us doing wrong.

this is based from my experience and my friends experiences

SAFE SEX is always the right way and all the things written in my thread :D


Note to Mods: Paki move na lang po kung wrong section, naisip ku for "love" din yung topic ku.. :peace:

NmEmoniC
27th Apr 2009 Mon, 22:21
sana may tamaan :lol:
joke lang.


im a responsible boy.
alam ko na yan :naughty:
gusto mo may iba pa :lmao:

sandwich20m
27th Apr 2009 Mon, 22:54
pano ba to gawin? hihihih nice post

mitchren
27th Apr 2009 Mon, 22:56
tamaan sana kayo ung parang matahuhan kayo :lol:

symphalion
27th Apr 2009 Mon, 23:30
tama po kayo sana maging safe lahat sa "make love"

to make them realize how important life is..

not for us but for the one we made, unexpectedly or accidentally... :(

and the reason why "make love is called "make love"

"salute" ako sa mga marunong magingat at responsibilidad s kanilang kasalanan :hat:

PINOY_RADICAL
27th Apr 2009 Mon, 23:57
7. Sex is not for everyone and it's not a thing

sex is not for everyone, because its not right to have one night stand to anyone you don't love, what's the point of calling it "make love"if the both of you only have lust.

Sex is not thing, for some of us asking sex is just like asking a candy for others, but its just because they know that

they had done that in other girls, remember baby/embryo/fetus is NOT A THING! Its LIFE that we're talking here.



lagi kong ipinagdarasal na hindi mabuntis nang maaga yung taong mahal ko. mahal ko siya. she's still young para mabuntis. para din sakanya yung sinasabi ko.

akosialan
28th Apr 2009 Tue, 10:33
memoy :laugh: parang ang laking kasinungalingan :lmao:

kahit naman bgyan natin sila ng mga ganitong klase ng guidelines nasa kanila parin kung iaabsorb ba nila or ndi...ang akin lang old fashioned relationships are still the best..:thumbsup:

Timoy®
28th Apr 2009 Tue, 10:44
agree ako dun sa sex shouldn't tell to others..:thumbsup:..but may mga ibang guys na pinagsasabi na may nangyari sa kanila nung gurl...what a pest attitude..kahiya hiya yun sa girl..:furious:
:nice: symphalion..:approve:

pot2
28th Apr 2009 Tue, 11:03
SAPOL BA??????????? :rofl: BATO-BATO sa LANGIT tamaan wag magagagaLIT :rofl:

Edgetripper01
1st May 2009 Fri, 01:17
Bakit ba kasi nakiki PAG SEX ang mga Tao ngaun kahit di pa KASAL....

Prang pag GF na or BF na Legal nang MAG SEX which is MALI ......

Kakatihan Lang Yun.....

Kahit ANo pang Dahilan Magiging Responsible Pa sia or Pakakasalan o Sobrang Mahal Nio ung Tao... Wala Paring Karapatan Maki Pag Sex kung Di kau Kasal....

janz13
9th May 2009 Sat, 12:10
di aq mka relate.. joke :thanks:

voyager
3rd Jun 2009 Wed, 15:14
Sex in a Relationship

In this thread i want to let anyone know what are the things that should be remembered and think about in "sex" in a relationship

cause as we know that sex "make love" now had many meanings and misunderstood

below are the things should be considered and realized by anyone of us, ranked 10 to 1

10. Sex can't be force

forcing sex is first a rape, which means its illegal without the approval of the person being used, second forcing it might

end up causing unwanted pregnancy, making it hard to take care of the child.

9. Sex shouldn't tell or show to others

sex or "making love" is sacred, that's why he/she trusted you to do it because he/she knows that you won't share it to others.

8. Lust of sex is not Love

having sexual drive or attracted to your opposite sex is not love, its just a sex appeal or you're just fantasizing the body depending in where you are attracted to

7. Sex is not for everyone and it's not a thing

sex is not for everyone, because its not right to have one night stand to anyone you don't love, what's the point of calling it "make love"if the both of you only have lust.

Sex is not thing, for some of us asking sex is just like asking a candy for others, but its just because they know that

they had done that in other girls, remember baby/embryo/fetus is NOT A THING! Its LIFE that we're talking here.

6. Sex is not anyone's life

sex shouldn't be considered as anyone's life, or a need to live, you're just fooling yourselves if you think that you can't live without sex. Sex is not a food nor

a vitamin to be considered that helps you to have energy, now you're thinking WRONG! you just creating your own imagination, thinking that you can't live without sex!

anyone can live the same without sex, how can you survive your childhood if you're thinking you can't lie without sex!

5. Shouldn't be misunderstood

if your partner doesn't want to make love, then so be it! try to ask why and not force him/her because you are in the mood,

try to think if there's a problem with him/her, if he/she don't want to make love it doesn't mean that he/she don't love you,

he/she just knows what consequences both of you will be facing if you won't do it right (safe)

4. Should be concerned

you should be concerned with you and your partner if you are making love, if she's hurt or afraid, don't just wait there, comfort and tell her you won't continue

and its OK if the two of you don't do it, don't make it hard for your partner to know that you really want to make love, what's the point of making love if you only have is lust.

3. Should be responsible

be responsible if you and your partner accidentally make a baby, it's you and your partners fault, face the consequences the both of you where in to,as what #7 said, THE BABY/EMBRYO/FETUS is NOT A THING! And ABORTION is not the answer!

2. Should have respect

Learn to Respect the rights of your partner to say NO or to have SAFE SEX, you're not the only one who will be worried in case there is an accident happened to the both of you,

respect that he/she will feel that you loved him/her for what he/she have and not because of sex that he/she' been giving you.

1. Sex is love

Sex is created because of love, that's why it is called as "make love", making love isn't just a name of term of sex,

it's called make love to let everyone remember what is the meaning or essence of sex.

you just don't do it because you want to, you also want to share the feeling you have to your partner,

the feeling of making love is better when both of you and your partner love each other.. :salute:

Always REMEMBER this message and realize the things that people around us or even us doing wrong.

this is based from my experience and my friends experiences

SAFE SEX is always the right way and all the things written in my thread :D


Note to Mods: Paki move na lang po kung wrong section, naisip ku for "love" din yung topic ku.. :peace:

Hehehe.. akala ko sa Adult Chat ko lang makikita ganito topic.. Well, what's wrong with SEX? SEX is the most beautiful thing that God created for humanity.. sabi nga - go and mutliply but not in your kapitbahay...What went wrong?.. kasi nagamit ang SEX in the wrong way, like in Bold movies etc..dapat sacred talaga to dahil you are doing this --- ano nga tawag kung hindi THING? is IT or THING? ewan.. but doing SEX in a relationship is not like a routine way that pag may GF or BF ka, dapat magkaroon kayo ng SEXPerience?.. hindi naman diba? Kung mahal ninyo talaga ang isat isa then go on be it legal para wala kayong regret sa isat isa kung mag SEX man kayo.. Dapat talaga maituro ang SEX education sa lahat ng schools na maiintindihan ng bawat lalake at babae in a good sense para alam nila ang responsibilidad nila kung mapapasok man sila sa ganoong sitwasyon..sensitibo ang ganitong usapin kaya dapat naituturo ito sa eskwelahan man o sa [I]tahanan na may inaalalang damdamin ng bawat tengang makakarinig..[/INDENT]

645F
26th Jul 2009 Sun, 14:11
hehehe.. dami tinamaan nyan sigurado..
buti naka ilag ako.. hehehe

jenntoot
10th Dec 2009 Thu, 17:21
Bakit ba kasi nakiki PAG SEX ang mga Tao ngaun kahit di pa KASAL....

Prang pag GF na or BF na Legal nang MAG SEX which is MALI ......

Kakatihan Lang Yun.....

Kahit ANo pang Dahilan Magiging Responsible Pa sia or Pakakasalan o Sobrang Mahal Nio ung Tao... Wala Paring Karapatan Maki Pag Sex kung Di kau Kasal....

i dont think na mali makipag sex kung hindi pa kasal.,
nasa pag uusap naman yan ng mga mag karelasyon kung gusto nila 2 gawin.,
kelangan lang is marunong sila ng control sa sarili at maging responsable..
but i agree sa top10 n dpat iconsider :thumbsup:

HighDefinition
11th Dec 2009 Fri, 21:15
may GUIDELINES pala yun???

basta ako SEX lang ng SEX kapag nangatog tuhod COBRA lang katapat!!!

:lmao:

jangnara
20th Dec 2009 Sun, 23:32
ang SEX ay para sa mga taong tunay na nagmamahalan at binasbasan ng kasal :thumbsup:

iloveme08
24th Dec 2009 Thu, 15:50
..... Basta dapat walang kiss and tell. Agree ako dapat kasal muna, pero nasa mag kasintahan na kung ano yung gusto nila.

uchihame
27th Jan 2010 Wed, 14:28
oo nga...sex is holy

jeck025
29th Jan 2010 Fri, 13:37
sex is holy, lets enjoy sex...

uchihame
1st Feb 2010 Mon, 17:53
hahahha...nice one

aj_sarsi
1st Feb 2010 Mon, 18:06
kasal muna bago sex!!

uchihame
2nd Feb 2010 Tue, 08:05
kasal muna bago sex!!


tama ka sarsi...pero maganda rin na sex muna...hehehehhe..:yipee::yipee::yipee:

pautastic
7th Feb 2010 Sun, 14:41
Depende na lang yan sa kamulatan ng isang tao. :))

zxcvbnm_07
9th Feb 2010 Tue, 23:18
Diba mas maganda sex muna bago kasal? Pano kung di ka niya pala kayang isatisfy tapos nakatali ka na? Maghahanap ka ng iba? Mas maganda try muna bago purchase ahaha

darkdangem
10th Feb 2010 Wed, 23:44
hahahaha Buti nalang Virgin pa ako BLEh!!! Sna Tamaan kayo

(Guilty)

mark_yuji
20th Feb 2010 Sat, 05:23
hehe nyz post to ah...oi, may VIRGIN p pala nowadays?? jowk...:slap:

ferofax
6th Mar 2010 Sat, 00:30
yep, most often is virgins by default, haha.

makatiboi
17th Mar 2010 Wed, 02:45
agree ako dun sa sex shouldn't tell to others..:thumbsup:..but may mga ibang guys na pinagsasabi na may nangyari sa kanila nung gurl...what a pest attitude..kahiya hiya yun sa girl..:furious:
:nice: symphalion..:approve:

Yung mga ganung klase ng lalake malaki ang insecurity at mababa ang self-esteem kaya parating naghahanap ng self-validation kaya kailangan nya pa ikwento sa iba kung ilan nakakasex nya at kung sino mga mga mgagandang girls na naikama para lang magmukha syang macho at tumaas tingin sa kanya ng mga barkada. They are using a woman and degrading a woman to uplift himself, what a disgusting attitude. I've seen a lot of them and it's really pathetic buti na lang I'm smart enough to read them through kaya pag ako nakakasalamuha nila at kinkwentuhan pinapahiya ko sila ng harapan pinagsasabihan ko.

dimplez13
17th Mar 2010 Wed, 21:34
have a safe sex!!! be responsible!! ayun lang

keinge29
17th Mar 2010 Wed, 22:18
sabi ni ----->> Edgetripper01

Bakit ba kasi nakiki PAG SEX ang mga Tao ngaun kahit di pa KASAL....

Prang pag GF na or BF na Legal nang MAG SEX which is MALI ......

Kakatihan Lang Yun.....

Kahit ANo pang Dahilan Magiging Responsible Pa sia or Pakakasalan o Sobrang Mahal Nio ung Tao... Wala Paring Karapatan Maki Pag Sex kung Di kau Kasal....

Opinion ko lang puh--> kse po iba nah ngaun sa dati dba? halos mdami na nag bago , kse honestly d nmn tlga msma mkpag sex bxta nsa tama prang katulad ng sinabi ni otor nah

1. Sex is love

Sex is created because of love, that's why it is called as "make love", making love isn't just a name of term of sex,

it's called make love to let everyone remember what is the meaning or essence of sex.

you just don't do it because you want to, you also want to share the feeling you have to your partner,

the feeling of making love is better when both of you and your partner love each other..

at wla kpadin krapatan na sbhan ang kapwa nten na kakatihan lang yun d nmn lhat ng nkkpag sex kakatihan dba?? pag na prove mu na lhat ng nkkpag sex kakatihan gwin mu ko alila ^_^ ty opinion klang po yun wag po yun hehehe

agaxent
17th Mar 2010 Wed, 22:48
ser anu po yung sex??

ganun panu po magkakasya yan sa bio data ko

joke peace!!!!

tyki
2nd May 2010 Sun, 09:33
kailangan ba yung sex? eh kamunduhan lang yun eh! hehe... pwera biro...

kimagure
2nd May 2010 Sun, 09:59
actually hindi kailangan yun kung kaya ninyo magsurvie na without sex but im sure meron pa din kuryente on both of you kaya impossible na mangyari to...... my answer oo kailangan kung hinahanap mo pero kung hindi naman ok lang

spuxtm
5th May 2010 Wed, 16:55
SEX no matter what kind of situation you have without the PROPER SANCTITY in between it's NOT PERMITTED!!!
SEX is a previlege between a husband and wife... if you are not a husband and a wife yet so DON'T DO IT!
Husband and Wife are only those persons between a SANCTIFIED MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIPS!!!
if your RELATIONSHIP was other than MARRIAGE, you are doing a BIG SIN... ADULTERY!!!
no other laws are higher than what GOD has given to mankind, if you think that your HUMAN mind and moral and laws are higher than what GOD has given to you, GO TO HELL!!! do the adulterous sex.

tyki
5th May 2010 Wed, 17:01
sinong kokontra! ha? :lol:

tama - sex is for husband and wife ONLY...

kasmot sadamori
23rd Sep 2010 Thu, 01:09
anything that is outside sexual purity is wrong. in the first place, filipinos are naturally born conservative, hindi cool ang pakikipagsex outside the marriage. una, binabastos niyo unknowingly ang bawat isa. second, if ever mabuntis ang girl, manganak, lumabas ang bata at magkaisip, magkakaron siya ng inferiority complex dahil maiisip niyang bunga siya ng pagkakamali at kung sakali mangmagpakasal yung parents niya, napilitan lang yun dahil sa kanya. on the other hand, dun sa mga nagkaanak at di pa din nagpakasal, magiging factor yun sa magiging ugali ng bata at malaki ang chances na gayahin niya kayo na magkakaanak ng produkto ng broken family. isa pa, kahit na ilang taon na kayong magBF/GF, di niyo pa kilalang maigi ang bawat isa. makikilala niyo ang tunay na ugali ng BF/Gf niyo pagkinasal kayo. the best way to do things is to do it right. focus on your goals, achieve them. hindi minamadali ang nga bagay lalo na ang sex. dadating yan sa tamang panahon, oras at yun nakalaan para sayo. walang ginawang pangit ang diyos at kahit pa ibang diyos ang lumikha sayo, dadating at dadating din yung oras na makikilala mo ang taong para sayo. ;)

thutz
24th Sep 2010 Fri, 00:51
haha.. tamaan sana ang dapat tamaan..

rj_em
24th Sep 2010 Fri, 00:56
SEX no matter what kind of situation you have without the PROPER SANCTITY in between it's NOT PERMITTED!!!
SEX is a previlege between a husband and wife... if you are not a husband and a wife yet so DON'T DO IT!
Husband and Wife are only those persons between a SANCTIFIED MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIPS!!!
if your RELATIONSHIP was other than MARRIAGE, you are doing a BIG SIN... ADULTERY!!!
no other laws are higher than what GOD has given to mankind, if you think that your HUMAN mind and moral and laws are higher than what GOD has given to you, GO TO HELL!!! do the adulterous sex.

tama ka dud. For Husband and Wife lang.

evaone
1st Oct 2010 Fri, 19:09
para sa mga lalaking babaero at di marunong magseryoso basahin mabuti to...ang tamaan wag sana masunog!

zdecayjay
12th Nov 2010 Fri, 10:01
in every actions we are responsible... good or bad....

but honestly speaking mas xcited ako sa lust...... :):yipee:

peace po sa ma offend..:pray:

nhoj24
12th Nov 2010 Fri, 10:10
sa panahon kc ngayon immune na ang mga kabataan
about sex kaya kahit hindi pa napapnahon sa kanila nagbubuntis kagad
akala nila masarap ang may anak kagad, sa hirap ng buhay ngayon!!!!
tsk tsk tsk esep esep muna kayo!!!!!

unhappy
16th Nov 2010 Tue, 12:11
nice one.....:yipee:

grimmyrippy
23rd Dec 2010 Thu, 15:24
hooooh tinamaan ako sa #7 ah pero nagsisisi ako sa twing akala ko buntis ang mahal ko kasi pumapasok sa isip ko ABORTION sana mapatawad ako ni God but until now hindi pa naman siya nabubuntis o nag papalaglag keep sharing now i realize that abortion is not always the answer because that is the consequence of what we have done :clap:

jeannie01
1st Jan 2011 Sat, 21:46
nice topic/thread

:thumbsup::clap:

genoziede
1st Jan 2011 Sat, 22:04
mataamaan sana ang dapat na tamaan haha...

@TS nice thread po. malaki tulong nito sa mga tao na takot sa responisbilities.

di maganda na pakasarap ka na lang, isipin mo may consequences lahat ng bagay,

melala
9th Jan 2011 Sun, 16:14
Sa totoo lang, pag enjoy ka sa friends,family, work or other activities, hindi mo maiisip yun. TS, nice thread! :~) Very informative.

leonard1928
9th Jan 2011 Sun, 17:41
tama tama..hehe

akosimissmalakas
10th Jan 2011 Mon, 00:24
nice.:)

jamir57
10th Jan 2011 Mon, 01:20
Dapat meron:yipee:

janry20
10th Jan 2011 Mon, 01:47
oo nga...pde lng ang sex pag kinasal na kyo...sagrado na ang relation ninyo...right?

makatiboi
17th Jan 2011 Mon, 15:56
Hindi mawawala yan sa relationship eh.. part yan ng human nature to express their sexual passion kaya masama na isupress yan pero kung gagawin man yan ay dapat observe all precautions para di mapreggy. Be responsible ika nga.

kenedyman12
5th Feb 2011 Sat, 17:07
Sir yan nga ang tamang sex....

Pero kanya kanyang trip/hilig naman eh....