symphalion
26th Apr '09 Sun, 19:48
Sex in a Relationship
In this thread i want to let anyone know what are the things that should be remembered and think about in "sex" in a relationship
cause as we know that sex "make love" now had many meanings and misunderstood
below are the things should be considered and realized by anyone of us, ranked 10 to 1
10. Sex can't be force
forcing sex is first a rape, which means its illegal without the approval of the person being used, second forcing it might
end up causing unwanted pregnancy, making it hard to take care of the child.
9. Sex shouldn't tell or show to others
sex or "making love" is sacred, that's why he/she trusted you to do it because he/she knows that you won't share it to others.
8. Lust of sex is not Love
having sexual drive or attracted to your opposite sex is not love, its just a sex appeal or you're just fantasizing the body depending in where you are attracted to
7. Sex is not for everyone and it's not a thing
sex is not for everyone, because its not right to have one night stand to anyone you don't love, what's the point of calling it "make love"if the both of you only have lust.
Sex is not thing, for some of us asking sex is just like asking a candy for others, but its just because they know that
they had done that in other girls, remember baby/embryo/fetus is NOT A THING! Its LIFE that we're talking here.
6. Sex is not anyone's life
sex shouldn't be considered as anyone's life, or a need to live, you're just fooling yourselves if you think that you can't live without sex. Sex is not a food nor
a vitamin to be considered that helps you to have energy, now you're thinking WRONG! you just creating your own imagination, thinking that you can't live without sex!
anyone can live the same without sex, how can you survive your childhood if you're thinking you can't lie without sex!
5. Shouldn't be misunderstood
if your partner doesn't want to make love, then so be it! try to ask why and not force him/her because you are in the mood,
try to think if there's a problem with him/her, if he/she don't want to make love it doesn't mean that he/she don't love you,
he/she just knows what consequences both of you will be facing if you won't do it right (safe)
4. Should be concerned
you should be concerned with you and your partner if you are making love, if she's hurt or afraid, don't just wait there, comfort and tell her you won't continue
and its OK if the two of you don't do it, don't make it hard for your partner to know that you really want to make love, what's the point of making love if you only have is lust.
3. Should be responsible
be responsible if you and your partner accidentally make a baby, it's you and your partners fault, face the consequences the both of you where in to,as what #7 said, THE BABY/EMBRYO/FETUS is NOT A THING! And ABORTION is not the answer!
2. Should have respect
Learn to Respect the rights of your partner to say NO or to have SAFE SEX, you're not the only one who will be worried in case there is an accident happened to the both of you,
respect that he/she will feel that you loved him/her for what he/she have and not because of sex that he/she' been giving you.
1. Sex is love
Sex is created because of love, that's why it is called as "make love", making love isn't just a name of term of sex,
it's called make love to let everyone remember what is the meaning or essence of sex.
you just don't do it because you want to, you also want to share the feeling you have to your partner,
the feeling of making love is better when both of you and your partner love each other.. :salute:
Always REMEMBER this message and realize the things that people around us or even us doing wrong.
this is based from my experience and my friends experiences
SAFE SEX is always the right way and all the things written in my thread :D
Note to Mods: Paki move na lang po kung wrong section, naisip ku for "love" din yung topic ku.. :peace:
In this thread i want to let anyone know what are the things that should be remembered and think about in "sex" in a relationship
cause as we know that sex "make love" now had many meanings and misunderstood
below are the things should be considered and realized by anyone of us, ranked 10 to 1
10. Sex can't be force
forcing sex is first a rape, which means its illegal without the approval of the person being used, second forcing it might
end up causing unwanted pregnancy, making it hard to take care of the child.
9. Sex shouldn't tell or show to others
sex or "making love" is sacred, that's why he/she trusted you to do it because he/she knows that you won't share it to others.
8. Lust of sex is not Love
having sexual drive or attracted to your opposite sex is not love, its just a sex appeal or you're just fantasizing the body depending in where you are attracted to
7. Sex is not for everyone and it's not a thing
sex is not for everyone, because its not right to have one night stand to anyone you don't love, what's the point of calling it "make love"if the both of you only have lust.
Sex is not thing, for some of us asking sex is just like asking a candy for others, but its just because they know that
they had done that in other girls, remember baby/embryo/fetus is NOT A THING! Its LIFE that we're talking here.
6. Sex is not anyone's life
sex shouldn't be considered as anyone's life, or a need to live, you're just fooling yourselves if you think that you can't live without sex. Sex is not a food nor
a vitamin to be considered that helps you to have energy, now you're thinking WRONG! you just creating your own imagination, thinking that you can't live without sex!
anyone can live the same without sex, how can you survive your childhood if you're thinking you can't lie without sex!
5. Shouldn't be misunderstood
if your partner doesn't want to make love, then so be it! try to ask why and not force him/her because you are in the mood,
try to think if there's a problem with him/her, if he/she don't want to make love it doesn't mean that he/she don't love you,
he/she just knows what consequences both of you will be facing if you won't do it right (safe)
4. Should be concerned
you should be concerned with you and your partner if you are making love, if she's hurt or afraid, don't just wait there, comfort and tell her you won't continue
and its OK if the two of you don't do it, don't make it hard for your partner to know that you really want to make love, what's the point of making love if you only have is lust.
3. Should be responsible
be responsible if you and your partner accidentally make a baby, it's you and your partners fault, face the consequences the both of you where in to,as what #7 said, THE BABY/EMBRYO/FETUS is NOT A THING! And ABORTION is not the answer!
2. Should have respect
Learn to Respect the rights of your partner to say NO or to have SAFE SEX, you're not the only one who will be worried in case there is an accident happened to the both of you,
respect that he/she will feel that you loved him/her for what he/she have and not because of sex that he/she' been giving you.
1. Sex is love
Sex is created because of love, that's why it is called as "make love", making love isn't just a name of term of sex,
it's called make love to let everyone remember what is the meaning or essence of sex.
you just don't do it because you want to, you also want to share the feeling you have to your partner,
the feeling of making love is better when both of you and your partner love each other.. :salute:
Always REMEMBER this message and realize the things that people around us or even us doing wrong.
this is based from my experience and my friends experiences
SAFE SEX is always the right way and all the things written in my thread :D
Note to Mods: Paki move na lang po kung wrong section, naisip ku for "love" din yung topic ku.. :peace: