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ShaneIshA
24th Sep '07 Mon, 21:20
Share ko lang :)


"Have you even been in love? Horrible,
isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable.
It opens your chest and it opens your
heart and it means someone can get
inside you and mess you up. You build
up all these defenses. You build up
this whole armor, for years, so
nothing can hurt you, then one stupid
person, no different from any other
stupid person, wanders into your
stupid life... You give them a piece
of you. They don't ask for it. They do
something dumb one day like kiss you,
or smile at you, and then your life
isn't your own anymore. Love takes
hostages. It gets inside you. It eats
you out and leaves you crying in the
darkness, so a simple phrase like
maybe we should just be friends or how
very perceptive turns into a glass
splinter working its way into your
heart. It hurts.Not just in the
imagination. Not just in the mind.
It's a soul-hurt, a body-hurt, a real
gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart
pain. I hate love."

kerstinne25
24th Sep '07 Mon, 21:45
For me...no matter how painful it is...im still happy i am able to experience love in all its splendid beauty..nyahahaha...emote bigla :weep:

pag nasaktan ka ng biglaan...sobrang hate mo talaga love..but eventually...dapat makamove on din.

Naalala ko tuloy si Joe d Mango:

"We may stumble and hurt those we love but there is no mountain so high that love cannot climb over. There is no sea so wide that it cannot cross. Let us always remember that when there is love there is forgiveness and when there is forgiveness there is a hope for a new life, a new beginning and a promise of a beautiful forever."

"There are times when no matter how much we show our love and give so much of ourselves to someone, we still cannot find enough reason why he or she doesn't seem to care about us."

"When we start assessing the value of someone, quantifying and qualifying the kind of person he or she is, we begin to lose grasp of the real essence of love. Real love doesn't look at reasons to love. When we truly love a person, we just love that person regardless of what he or she can or cannot give us back. When we start to have reasons for loving someone, then we're bound to fall out of love when we lose these reasons. It has been said that the greatest measure of love is its ability to continue loving even when we cannot find a reason to love anymore. That is the real essence of love. When we can think of one reason not to love a person, then we can't be capable of truly loving because love doesn't keep a scale of what it can gain from a relationship. Real love is unselfish."

"Let your bittersweet memories remind you of how much you have loved, but let it also remind you how much more beautiful it would be if that love is shared with someone who will accept you for who you are, and love you not for what you can become but what he becomes because of you."

"Yes, it's true that time heals all wounds, that one day our hearts will heal and when that day comes, we will be able to love again.

Let us always remember that the broken pieces of ourselves are the foundation with which we build a stronger and better us. Many who have loved have experienced pain. Look everywhere. There are people who bear the scars of their failures but they are happy. And when we ask them why, they would tell us that they are happy not because they have failed but because they have moved on and given themselves the chance to find love again."


**emote mode**

ShaneIshA
24th Sep '07 Mon, 21:56
awww.... ang ganda naman nun kers...

"There are times when no matter how much we show our love and give so much of ourselves to someone, we still cannot find enough reason why he or she doesn't seem to care about us."

and

"Yes, it's true that time heals all wounds, that one day our hearts will heal and when that day comes, we will be able to love again."


Ang sad sad naman... nahanap ko lang naman yung quote pero ayun...

For me, di mo naman dapat ma-hate ang love kase you experience it everyday of your life, sa mga friends, family and the likes... Cguro yung mga inaayawan lang nila yung mga love ng lovers...right? Dun lang naman madalas nasasaktan ang mga tao e... Pero like what you've posted... When the wounds are all healed, ready kna ult mag love ng ibang tao lalo na pag anjan na din yung right person :)
Mahirap lang dun yung feeling na you still continue to love that person kahit na parang wala ng reason to love him/her... yung ikaw na lng yung naglolove... :)

kerstinne25
24th Sep '07 Mon, 22:15
Mahirap lang dun yung feeling na you still continue to love that person kahit na parang wala ng reason to love him/her... yung ikaw na lng yung naglolove... :)

nakow..sinabi mo pa sis..ang hirap talaga..alam mo un..parang may sariling isip ung puso mo...nagmamahal pa din sa taong ayaw mo ng mahalin...hindi mo madiktahan na "pde bang tigilan mo muna yang pagmamahal.." hindi talaga e...hindi sya magpapapigil...

....at kapag nasaktan na tau...dun na natin sisimulan na umayaw sa pag ibig..


:weep::weep::weep:

ano ba yan.. na super emote naman ako dito

:weep::weep::weep:

vandike
2nd Oct '07 Tue, 15:44
we're born to be mutual..

ang pag-ibig paran college.. u may fail.. but atleast you learn sumthing.. at pagkaRepeat mo, your better than before and more mature.. papasa din tau!!! ahahaha..

JenG
3rd Oct '07 Wed, 06:52
"There are times when no matter how much we show our love and give so much of ourselves to someone, we still cannot find enough reason why he or she doesn't seem to care about us."


Mahirap lang dun yung feeling na you still continue to love that person kahit na parang wala ng reason to love him/her... yung ikaw na lng yung naglolove... :)

painful reality is most of the time we can never have the one that our hearts really desires...

but i realized that no matter how painful love is...you'll have something to smile on as you look back at the memories you once shared together...

ShaneIshA
3rd Oct '07 Wed, 21:24
painful reality is most of the time we can never have the one that our hearts really desires...

but i realized that no matter how painful love is...you'll have something to smile on as you look back at the memories you once shared together...

That absolutely true! Because memories are all you have for you to appreciate the love you used to have :(

kerstinne25
3rd Oct '07 Wed, 21:43
That absolutely true! Because memories are all you have for you to appreciate the love you used to have :(

and we should always be thankful enough that love has come our way db...

:) smile pa rin...pag nakita kang umiiyak..sbhin mo tears of joy :)

JenG
3rd Oct '07 Wed, 22:12
and we should always be thankful enough that love has come our way db...

:) smile pa rin...pag nakita kang umiiyak..sbhin mo tears of joy :)



:rofl: yup kers

"TEARS OF JOY yan eh ano sa tingin iniiyakan kita"

ok na ba un? :rofl:

K1Lm0r3
3rd Oct '07 Wed, 23:50
all that you ever wanted it comes with a price...:weep: that's the world I know... You enjoy love for making those things you cherish deep inside of you... all those moments... You'll hate love beneath the solemn happiness the hurt of separationthe despair of losing someone you ever wanted to be with the one you love...

ang tao dobleng nasasaktan sa pagiging masaya sa simula...


di yan napulot sa kung saan it's based on my own experience... share ko lang...un lang..

chundyong
4th Oct '07 Thu, 13:47
touch naman po ako dito

K1Lm0r3
4th Oct '07 Thu, 18:35
thanks tsong...

ShaneIshA
5th Oct '07 Fri, 18:43
all that you ever wanted it comes with a price...:weep: that's the world I know... You enjoy love for making those things you cherish deep inside of you... all those moments... You'll hate love beneath the solemn happiness the hurt of separationthe despair of losing someone you ever wanted to be with the one you love...

ang tao dobleng nasasaktan sa pagiging masaya sa simula...


di yan napulot sa kung saan it's based on my own experience... share ko lang...un lang..

MAybe it's better for us not to be bitter about our past. If that love didn't work out for you, maybe there's someone better meant to love you more. Being bitter gives you more reason to cry over that person, think about that person and of course you're hurting yourself more. Maybe you loved that person as much as he/she loved you before, but as kerstinne was saying just be thankful that love once pass your way. And always remember, though that person left you, you will always have your memories in your heart. Don't hate love if you've been hurt, maybe the right time hasn't arrived yet.

K1Lm0r3
5th Oct '07 Fri, 19:14
Thanks sis... nice advice...

marjorie
21st Nov '07 Wed, 17:26
: astig nman to.. vandike.. :D

enajyram14
21st Nov '07 Wed, 19:13
hate love??????????

why should i hate love?

wen it is the main reason why i am here on EARTH...

di ba me kasabihan pa na "it is better to be loved and lost than not to be loved at all..."

vandike
4th Dec '07 Tue, 17:11
pansin ko, inglesan dito ah?

ahahhahaha....:rofl:

ashyael
4th Dec '07 Tue, 17:21
love is mystery game played by the gods,
whoever's mystery unfolds first, loses the game.
but what if everything remained uncovered,
then you should hate love by then
because it becomes meaningless...

jeffcanlas30
4th Dec '07 Tue, 21:58
theres no such thing as meaningless, it becomes that way because we set it aside but it will have its own worth... the value and meaning of one thing depends on the one who see's it...

ashyael
5th Dec '07 Wed, 10:46
theres no such thing as meaningless, it becomes that way because we set it aside but it will have its own worth... the value and meaning of one thing depends on the one who see's it...

:help:it seems like you dont get my point.. it becomes meaningless when it remains a mystery because feelings aren't expressed and thoughts remain hidden... you continue on deceiving the one you love and you know you're being unfair

jeffcanlas30
5th Dec '07 Wed, 11:16
:help:it seems like you dont get my point.. it becomes meaningless when it remains a mystery because feelings aren't expressed and thoughts remain hidden... you continue on deceiving the one you love and you know you're being unfair

feelings and thoughts that is unexpressed or we can say hidden becomes a mystery for some reasons.. maybe there are things that wont work just right but still he/she stood by there to fight what is going inside....