ShaneIshA
24th Sep '07 Mon, 22:43
It's not how you forgive but how you forget. Not how you listen but how you understand. Not how you see but how you feel. And not how you hold on but how you let go. Be not fearful of the pain you found when you love, for it is rare that the chance to love deeply comes your way. Love has its ups and downs. Its twists and turns. Love leaves you pain till you learn and even if love takes so long, it always takes you where you belong.
Whats a sign that a person really loves you? Its not the things that he gives you, like flowers or kisses, it is the things that he does not give you, like tears in your eyes and pain in your heart.
Destiny decides who you meet in life, but its only your heart that can decide who gets to stay in your life. Its a nice feeling when someone you love, loves you in return. So when you know the one you love has special feelings towards you, never let them go, because its rare to find two hearts that beat as one. When you love, you must not expect anything in return, for if you do, youre not loving but investing. If you love, you must prepare to accept the pain, for if you expect happiness, you are not loving but using.
Love is a risk. Sometimes you win sometimes you lose. Whether its pain or joy, whether its right or wrong, love doesnt have room for mistakes. Only lessons. Sometimes the one you love turns out to be the one who hurts you most and sometimes a friend, who takes you in his arms and cries when you cry, turns out to be the love you never knew you wanted. Why do you close your eyes when you dream? When you cry? When you wish? When you kiss? That is because the most beautiful things in life are unseen. Its funny how you set qualifications for the right person to love while at the back of your mind, you know that the person you truly love will always be an exemption.
In your life, love is never planned nor does it happen for a reason. But when love is real, it becomes your plan for life and your reason for living. The perfect person only exists in dreams. In this life you have to settle with whoever comes close, someone not perfect but REAL. A HEART TRULY IN LOVE NEVER LOSES HOPE, BUT
ALWAYS BELIEVE IN THE PROMISE OF LOVE. JUST TRUST YOUR HEART, TIME IS CAPABLE OF UNDERSTANDING HOW GREAT LOVE IS.
How to define love: fall but do not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain.
To love is to risk rejections, to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. Risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risking nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose true self, to love is to risk not to be loved in return.
If someone comes into your life and becomes a part of you, but for some reason he couldnt stay, dont cry too much, just be glad that your paths crossed and somehow he made you happy even for a while.
Love strives in hurting. If you dont get hurt, you dont learn how to love. Love doesnt hurt all the time though the pain is still there to test you and to help you grow. Dont find love, let love find you.
Thats why its called falling in love because you dont force yourself to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages.
Slow down and enjoy life. It's not only the scenery you miss by going too fast - you also miss the sense of where you are going and why.
Whats a sign that a person really loves you? Its not the things that he gives you, like flowers or kisses, it is the things that he does not give you, like tears in your eyes and pain in your heart.
Destiny decides who you meet in life, but its only your heart that can decide who gets to stay in your life. Its a nice feeling when someone you love, loves you in return. So when you know the one you love has special feelings towards you, never let them go, because its rare to find two hearts that beat as one. When you love, you must not expect anything in return, for if you do, youre not loving but investing. If you love, you must prepare to accept the pain, for if you expect happiness, you are not loving but using.
Love is a risk. Sometimes you win sometimes you lose. Whether its pain or joy, whether its right or wrong, love doesnt have room for mistakes. Only lessons. Sometimes the one you love turns out to be the one who hurts you most and sometimes a friend, who takes you in his arms and cries when you cry, turns out to be the love you never knew you wanted. Why do you close your eyes when you dream? When you cry? When you wish? When you kiss? That is because the most beautiful things in life are unseen. Its funny how you set qualifications for the right person to love while at the back of your mind, you know that the person you truly love will always be an exemption.
In your life, love is never planned nor does it happen for a reason. But when love is real, it becomes your plan for life and your reason for living. The perfect person only exists in dreams. In this life you have to settle with whoever comes close, someone not perfect but REAL. A HEART TRULY IN LOVE NEVER LOSES HOPE, BUT
ALWAYS BELIEVE IN THE PROMISE OF LOVE. JUST TRUST YOUR HEART, TIME IS CAPABLE OF UNDERSTANDING HOW GREAT LOVE IS.
How to define love: fall but do not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain.
To love is to risk rejections, to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. Risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risking nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose true self, to love is to risk not to be loved in return.
If someone comes into your life and becomes a part of you, but for some reason he couldnt stay, dont cry too much, just be glad that your paths crossed and somehow he made you happy even for a while.
Love strives in hurting. If you dont get hurt, you dont learn how to love. Love doesnt hurt all the time though the pain is still there to test you and to help you grow. Dont find love, let love find you.
Thats why its called falling in love because you dont force yourself to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages.
Slow down and enjoy life. It's not only the scenery you miss by going too fast - you also miss the sense of where you are going and why.