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-black panda-
3rd Mar 2008, 08:34
HOW TO CONVINCE YOUR PARENTS TO LET YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND
Getting to convince your parents to let you have a boyfriend takes a lot of courage and it's tough when you have strict parents. Follow these tips and good luck!
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STEPS
1. Come out straight and tell your parents you need to talk. Say this confidently. Make sure your parents are in a happy mood or either really busy.
2. Before dropping the bomb, tell your parents that you have thought this through and that they should respect your opinion.
3. Tell them that you think you are old and mature enough to date the person you like, and that you will be careful in every situation if they just give you a chance and trust you on this decision.
4. If your parents say no right away, ask them "why?" in a calm manner. Have a disappointed, sad look on your face, but don't cry. That's a sign of weakness to most parents. If your parents are very sensitive to this matter, let the oceans pour!
5. When they explain their excuse, don't lose your temper, but suggest they meet the guy you like first and see how he is and let them decide then.
6. Tell them that you will be responsible with your actions and that you will suffer the consequences if anything bad happens.
7. If your parents say yes, and give your parents a hug and a kiss to show your affection and happiness!
8. If your parents still stay no, try asking again or just wait until the time comes for you to date. Or ask your parents if you can go on a group date with your friends and your crush. With this, your parents will feel more comfortable since you will be with other friends, rather than alone with your crush.


TIPS
* The best time to ask your parents is when they are extremely busy, distracted, or really happy.
* If your parents say no, and you feel like you are going to explode, excuse yourself, go to your room, bury your head on your pillow and scream so your parents won't hear you. Then take deep breaths.
* Stay calm throughout the discussion until your parents say yes. Then you can let your happiness out.


WARNINGS
* Do not blow up in your parents' faces if they say no. This will only make your chances of dating slim.
* Make sure the person you like is worth it.


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-black panda-
3rd Mar 2008, 08:51
HOW TO CONVINCE YOUR PARENTS TO LET YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND
Getting to convince your parents to let you have a boyfriend takes a lot of courage and it's tough when you have strict parents. Follow these tips and good luck!
[edit]

STEPS
1. Come out straight and tell your parents you need to talk. Say this confidently. Make sure your parents are in a happy mood or either really busy.
2. Before dropping the bomb, tell your parents that you have thought this through and that they should respect your opinion.
3. Tell them that you think you are old and mature enough to date the person you like, and that you will be careful in every situation if they just give you a chance and trust you on this decision.
4. If your parents say no right away, ask them "why?" in a calm manner. Have a disappointed, sad look on your face, but don't cry. That's a sign of weakness to most parents. If your parents are very sensitive to this matter, let the oceans pour!
5. When they explain their excuse, don't lose your temper, but suggest they meet the guy you like first and see how he is and let them decide then.
6. Tell them that you will be responsible with your actions and that you will suffer the consequences if anything bad happens.
7. If your parents say yes, and give your parents a hug and a kiss to show your affection and happiness!
8. If your parents still stay no, try asking again or just wait until the time comes for you to date. Or ask your parents if you can go on a group date with your friends and your crush. With this, your parents will feel more comfortable since you will be with other friends, rather than alone with your crush.


TIPS
* The best time to ask your parents is when they are extremely busy, distracted, or really happy.
* If your parents say no, and you feel like you are going to explode, excuse yourself, go to your room, bury your head on your pillow and scream so your parents won't hear you. Then take deep breaths.
* Stay calm throughout the discussion until your parents say yes. Then you can let your happiness out.


WARNINGS
* Do not blow up in your parents' faces if they say no. This will only make your chances of dating slim.
* Make sure the person you like is worth it.