hello!!! wat will u do if ur starting to feel special for ur frend?

wow, interesting jeng...its happening sa akin eh....we've been friends for a couple of years...at, kakulitan ko dati...but just lately he started asking me for a date..syempre nung una, with friends muna..unitl he asked for another date na kami lng dalawa...dun start lahat..our friendship turn out to be more than that...after friendship, courtship na level na..... :giggle:

wow naman algie... basta merong luv ok lang yan!!!

I have a friend...actually he's my bestfriend...palagi kami mag-kasama...kahit sa pag-pasok at pag-uwi galing sa school...kadalsan...akala nila bf ko sya...aaminin ko muntik na maging kami...pero...narealize ko...mas maganda kung bestfirend ko lang sya...mas ma-eenjoy namin yung company ng isa't-isa...ngayon ngang 2nd year...lokohan naming mag-bestfriend ay yung pag tawag ko sa kanya ng 'mhavs' short for my loves...taz sya ropeline ko ang tawag nya sakin...pero...hanggang dun lang yun..

baka magselos c kerzey nyan rhope ha!!!

sa akin naman... nung maramdaman ko na nagugustuhan ko na bestfriend ko (shes a girl syempre) .... medyo dumistansya ako ng konti... kasi nung panahon na yun.... nangliligaw ako sa crush ko.... at ang lapitan ko ng tulong eh yung bestfriend ko... :hyper: waaa... magulo.... basta eto lang maishashare ko... hihihi... sorry jeng.. :hyper:

ay uu nga pala jeng... ang ganda ng avatar mo!!! ikaw ba yan... :wow: talaga...

wala lang guys... hekhek.. wala lang disturbing para sa'kin yung mga gantong sitwasyon... hekhek...

that's really hard but it's still up to you if you're ready to face the consequences.

for me xe... love iand friendship are two totally different things... parang dalawang parallel lines... kahit anu gawin mu eh di talaga pwedeng magcross...

pakiramdaman mo na, kung or you think that the girl has also feelings for you, try to ask another common friend about it ask her or him about your idea to pursue courting the girl. then jokingly ask the girl about it, pero minsan alam nyo naman ang mga girls di uma-amin kahit 100% obvious na may gusto, and try to evaluate the outcome kung handa kaba na mawala ang friendship nyo, pero its up to you naman kasi yan, you would still be friends e kaso di na the same kaysa noon. its about risk or sacrifice

i think dapat iconsider u kung may nararamdaman sya para sayo. Try u muna mga pabiro-biro na tanong kung love ka nya basta wag halata. Mahirap ma-inlove sa friend. Bakit? Una, dahil kapag sinabi u n mahal u xa, mag-iiba sya dahil nag-iba ka. Di na kayo tulad ng dati. Iba na din trato nyo sa isa't isa. 2nd, magkalayo ang friendship sa love dahil sa friendship, marami kang ka-share pero sa love, solo ka lang. 3rd, mahirap madistinguish kung un love e as a friend or as lover.lalo kpag sobrang close friends na kayo, mahirap talaga. tapos pag di ka pala nya talaga love, ayaw ka nya masaktan kaya magdurusa kayo. at 4th, nareceive ko ito as txt. Ang friendship, pwede (pero mahirap) dumiretso sa love pero ang failed love, napakahirap bumalik sa friendship

i think dapat iconsider u kung may nararamdaman sya para sayo. Try u muna mga pabiro-biro na tanong kung love ka nya basta wag halata. Mahirap ma-inlove sa friend. Bakit? Una, dahil kapag sinabi u n mahal u xa, mag-iiba sya dahil nag-iba ka. Di na kayo tulad ng dati. Iba na din trato nyo sa isa't isa. 2nd, magkalayo ang friendship sa love dahil sa friendship, marami kang ka-share pero sa love, solo ka lang. 3rd, mahirap madistinguish kung un love e as a friend or as lover.lalo kpag sobrang close friends na kayo, mahirap talaga. tapos pag di ka pala nya talaga love, ayaw ka nya masaktan kaya magdurusa kayo. at 4th, nareceive ko ito as txt. Ang friendship, pwede (pero mahirap) dumiretso sa love pero ang failed love, napakahirap bumalik sa friendship

you are absolutely right...failed love mostly don't end up good kaya madalas hatred natitira instead of a good memories of the failed relationship...

ay ganda topic...kso naputol...tgal npla ang thread na to.... ahihihi.....bat kya ang mga guys pag obvious nman nffall na cla sa gurl nla na frend... mas iprefer na manligaw sa iba pra lng matakpan ang nrramdaman... sound s2pid.....:ranting:

nang yari na 2 sa clasma8 ko dati..bestfriend cla nung guy and naging cla pero hndi ngtagal ung ralationshp nla kc..nung naging cla na namis nla ung dati nila relationshp na mag estfriend cla..but now after nung break up nila friends parin cla:)

ahh.... mkailang kung ganun......db? sbgay.... magnd nlang yung frends tlga

simple lang...tell the person you are falling for..pag d nya tinanggap eh d sori...pag ok eh d jackpot..me friend ka na me syota ka pa....just learn to balance things first before making the move...hehehehehe

hahaha....korak! pewo in real life hirap xa gwin db?

ay ganda topic...kso naputol...tgal npla ang thread na to.... ahihihi.....bat kya ang mga guys pag obvious nman nffall na cla sa gurl nla na frend... mas iprefer na manligaw sa iba pra lng matakpan ang nrramdaman... sound s2pid.....:ranting:
merun kcng mga parang test driver ng kotse kailangang matesting ang sarili kung pwede nang sumabak sa grand finals. bad ito kc gumamit k p ng friend mo bilang test dummy.

ay ganda topic...kso naputol...tgal npla ang thread na to.... ahihihi.....bat kya ang mga guys pag obvious nman nffall na cla sa gurl nla na frend... mas iprefer na manligaw sa iba pra lng matakpan ang nrramdaman... sound s2pid.....:ranting:

not all guys do that... ako ndi ganyan. :lol: i think aside from the reason above, some guys are just afraid that if they try to court and they fail, they can't bring back their past friendship... but then, using dummies is wrong, but i think it still depends.

yes that happened to me... i courted a girl.. gave her ,my time, love and patience.. but she went away when i confessed my feelings... never seen her since.. :weep: real trauma..

maybe its just me.. or somthing else.. but in someways that helped me move on.. I'm free from the fool i once called my self.. :yes:

kaya pla kau afraid 2 take some risk...kc traumatic ang experience nyo....am i ryt?

na trauma sila sa akin! :lol:

friends are friends... pero you need also friendship in love... OK lang to pagka nasa tamang lugar. co-confess ka may BF/GF pala na mahal (pa)... tiempuhan. pero kung talagang MU, well fine. ok na... you have to try. In my opinion, its worth the loss of the friendship. galingan mo lang chika senses mo.

Been in this situation once. Hirap. I fell for this guy who's really nice but I kept my mouth shut. The suppression was too much to take. I didn't tell anybody about this. I wanted this guy to be happy since he was having problems with his girlfriend (now ex). Everything was okay. We'd have lunch together, he'd run to me for help, we'd smoke together, regularly text each other. Until the day he told me that he has a big crush on one of our friends. It was devastating but I kept quiet. Buti na lang. He's now married and has a baby. The wife? Our friend. I orchestrated everything for them to be together. I had to. I wanted him to be happy. We remained friends til today. Never told him about how I felt for him.

Been in this situation once. Hirap. I fell for this guy who's really nice but I kept my mouth shut. The suppression was too much to take. I didn't tell anybody about this. I wanted this guy to be happy since he was having problems with his girlfriend (now ex). Everything was okay. We'd have lunch together, he'd run to me for help, we'd smoke together, regularly text each other. Until the day he told me that he has a big crush on one of our friends. It was devastating but I kept quiet. Buti na lang. He's now married and has a baby. The wife? Our friend. I orchestrated everything for them to be together. I had to. I wanted him to be happy. We remained friends til today. Never told him about how I felt for him.

don't you ever regret the fact that you just kept your mouth shut? wala ba "WHAT IFs"?

what if you told him your feelings baka naging kayo pa at the end?

pero i admires for that sultry because you never thought of doin something to break them apart so you can have the guy...:thumbsup:

No regrets Jeng. Am happy that he's happy. No what if's. I know where I stand kasi. Plus, I can't. That would go against my morals. I'm the one who's taken. Okay lang. What I felt for this guy died a natural death. Tao din lang kasi ako. Nagkakaron pa din naman ako ng crush (kahit gurangot na! :lol:) but I'd rather not act on it. Tama na lang yung maramdam ko para walang gulo.

No regrets Jeng. Am happy that he's happy. No what if's. I know where I stand kasi. Plus, I can't. That would go against my morals. I'm the one who's taken. Okay lang. What I felt for this guy died a natural death. Tao din lang kasi ako. Nagkakaron pa din naman ako ng crush (kahit gurangot na! :lol:) but I'd rather not act on it. Tama na lang yung maramdam ko para walang gulo.

ayyy sori di ko alam na taken ka na that time...akala ko you're both single pa...:smack: