" Sometimes it seems like "everyone" your age is having sex. Forget It!


What other people do doesn't matter. Only you can answer the question:

Is this the right time for me?

Asking questions of yourself and your partner, talking to people with experience, getting prepared and understanding what the first time might be like can help you decide whether you are ready for sex. What won't help you is making the choice while under the influence of alcohol, drugs or pressure from a partner or peers.



now tell me are you ready or not?

For me, I was ready for this stuff when I was 26.

I made sure first that I finished my studies,

I have work so if ever I would get pregnant i have sort of "money".

And quite sure that the guy would be responsible for it.

Gladly, this guy married me.:cloud9:

I think i am not ready yet ... :lol: la pa chance eh :lol: no..seriuosly? i am not ready yet.inisip ko lang sa maaaring mangyari after that ... :)

sa girl side talagang ganyan ang mga inaasahang sagot ... sa later age na nila pwede gawin yun... pero kapag ang tukso ay dumating... ewan ko na lang...ego or super ego mo na lang ang sheild mo to control yourself....

for me as a guy... at my age... seriously... wala pa ako experience sa sex thing... pero i cannot say that i am not ready.... maraming di inaasahan na pwede mangyari kaya mahirap magsabi... all i can say is that im not ready for the side effects kung mangyari man ito... sobrang masisira ang pAGTINGIN NG MGA TAOng nakapaligid sa akin... they all know me and i know na hindi ko or they(i hope) knew na hindi ko magagawa yun... pero gaya ng sinabi ko... mahirap magsabi ng tapos... hehehe

ako rin... talagang di pa ko ready sa stuff na yan. bata pa ko. :pacute: di naman ako atat or something like that. kahit merong "peer pressure", di ako padadaig dun.

at iisipin ko rin ang possible consequences ng ganyang klaseng bagay. :read:

:rock: ready ako kahit anong oras pero i respect my gf so much kaya wait wait wait :whistle:

not yet ready...kasi kung mangyari yun, ano naman papakain ko sa magiging anak namin at sa asawa ko.,eh student pa lang ako..tska mahirap buhay ngayon eh.. pangit naman kung aasa ka sa parents mo na naghihirap magtrabaho.. sa tingin ko pag nakatapos ako ng pag aaral ko at kung may maayos akong trabaho..ready na ako!! hahahaha :rofl::excited:

ako? yeah, ready na ako sa sex na yan, matanda na rin ako.. :lol:
pero yung after-effects nito? like kunwari, pumalya ka, kunwari, nabuntis mo yung girl? alangan papalaglag niyo yung batang walang kasalanan? o kung hindi naman ipapalaglag, sa edad kong ito, mabubuhay ko kaya yung bata? e umaasa pa lang ako sa mga magulang ko.. :)

Ang gagaling ninyo namang sumagot...may mga kabataan pa palang paris ninyo.:clap:

May your tribe increase!:thumbsup:

not yet ready...kasi kung mangyari yun, ano naman papakain ko sa magiging anak namin at sa asawa ko.,eh student pa lang ako..tska mahirap buhay ngayon eh.. pangit naman kung aasa ka sa parents mo na naghihirap magtrabaho.. sa tingin ko pag nakatapos ako ng pag aaral ko at kung may maayos akong trabaho..ready na ako!! hahahaha :rofl::excited:

oo nga naman zen... tama ka jan. :salute:

hindi pa ako ready for now (studies muna aatupagin ko)....by the time na ready na ko is cguro ung meron na akong maipagmamalaki sa lahat at alam ko na kng pano ihandle ung consequences.:)

hindi pa ako ready for now (studies muna aatupagin ko)....by the time na ready na ko is cguro ung meron na akong maipagmamalaki sa lahat at alam ko na kng pano ihandle ung consequences.:)

oo...tapusin mo na muna studies mo..para wala kang pagsisihan....

hindi pa ako ready sa ganyan... kasi madami pa akong pangarap sa buhay at isa na don ang mabigyan ng magandang buhay ang magiging asawa ko (na sana ay ang gf ko na :pray: ) nagaaral pa kasi ko eh...

am I still qualified to answer this? :D seriously, most of you know that I'm soul's mom. Since 2 of my boys are now teenagers I already talked to them about premarital sex. There are a lot of factors that a parent should look into as to why teenagers dive head first into something they're not even prepared for. I won't be there to stop them from doing that. But are they ready for the consequences that lie ahead for just a few minutes of pleasure? Are they willing to forgo their plans in exchange for something so uncertain?

Pabaon ang kaya kong ibigay sa mga anak ko. Words of wisdom, ika nga. Ipinamulat ko sa kanila ang hirap ng buhay, ang hirap na magtaguyod ng pamilya, ang mga sakripisyong kelangang gawin ng 1 magulang maibigay lang ang lahat para sa mga anak. Kung hindi pa sila handa wag na muna sila magsubok. Sa pusok ng mga kabataan sa henerasyon ngayon nagiging totoo lang ako sa kanila at sa aking sarili.

Of course I fear for my children. There are teenage girls as well who are daring and willing to explore and pressure their boyfriends to do it just for the heck of knowing how it feels and that they have something to compare with with their BFFs. I always reiterate that I trust them and that they should always remember that I won't be around forever to help them in case they get in trouble. Hindi buhay ko ang sisirain nila kundi kanila kung magmamadali sila.

am I still qualified to answer this? :D seriously, most of you know that I'm soul's mom. Since 2 of my boys are now teenagers I already talked to them about premarital sex. There are a lot of factors that a parent should look into as to why teenagers dive head first into something they're not even prepared for. I won't be there to stop them from doing that. But are they ready for the consequences that lie ahead for just a few minutes of pleasure? Are they willing to forgo their plans in exchange for something so uncertain?

Pabaon ang kaya kong ibigay sa mga anak ko. Words of wisdom, ika nga. Ipinamulat ko sa kanila ang hirap ng buhay, ang hirap na magtaguyod ng pamilya, ang mga sakripisyong kelangang gawin ng 1 magulang maibigay lang ang lahat para sa mga anak. Kung hindi pa sila handa wag na muna sila magsubok. Sa pusok ng mga kabataan sa henerasyon ngayon nagiging totoo lang ako sa kanila at sa aking sarili.

Of course I fear for my children. There are teenage girls as well who are daring and willing to explore and pressure their boyfriends to do it just for the heck of knowing how it feels and that they have something to compare with with their BFFs. I always reiterate that I trust them and that they should always remember that I won't be around forever to help them in case they get in trouble. Hindi buhay ko ang sisirain nila kundi kanila kung magmamadali sila.


Oo nga, listen to her.

never engage in sex before marriage..the bible forbids that....now its up to you to decide..u were given free will....ciao

testosterone - check!
condom - check!
place - check!
"toys" (optional) - check!
financial stability to raise a child - uhhmmm, no
mental readiness to raise a child - uhhmmm, no

You do the math.

wow.... :yipee:

my sumagot nman pla sa nipost ko hehe,.. tagal kong di nakavisit
sa mga ni post ko..

ganda ng mga answers nyo.

keep it up!! :clap:

i'm not ready yet... planning a family is not easy you should be prepared emotionally, spiritually, psychologically and financially.

nakakatuwa naman to know that most here are aware of such circumstances...

if you think you are ready na to do it and you think you can and you're responsible enough to face the reality of life then go on... just think first before you do anything, sabi nga nasa huli lagi ang pagsisisi... ;););)