What if we walk or talk to finally "LET GO..."

BADTRIP!!!

Masakit di ba?

It breaks your heart even more...
kung alam mo
sa sarili mo na...
sobrang LOVE mo siya!!!

Like,
you've sacrificed A LOT!!!

Marami ka nang nagawa na di mo nagagawa sa
iba...

Pero di niya lahat nakikita yun!!!

He was so blind!!!
to see...
and so deaf...
to hear!!!

Why?!

Ewan ko ba...
kung bakit may mga tao na...

Sobrang...
MANHID!!! manhid!!! Manhid!!! manHID!!!

Or probably nag-mamanhid-manhidan lang cla...

Dahil ba...
HINDI ka talaga niya GUSTO!!! or
IBA
ang MAHAL niya...

ang SAKIT-sakit!!!
diba...

Hindi mo tuloy alam if you should let go of your
feelings for him or not!!!
once and for all...

my GOD!!!

As I've said...

Mas madali siguro mag-LET GO...
if you know
he doesn't give a thing about you...
els DESERVEs YOU!!!

Syempre kung meron...
hindi niya pababayaan
na MAWALA ka...


But if you think na...
OK lang sa kanya yun...

Don't be a FOOL!!!

LET GO...
na!!
How would you fight for THE ONE you LOVE?

eh "mahal" ka ba naman...





Hmmn...
MAHAL mo nga!!!
pro habang ipinaglalaban mo
naman siya...

WALA LANG SA KANYA!!!

What are we to do? E ganyan talaga!!!

REALITY BITES!!! ika nga!!!
(as the saying goes...)

MASAKIT, MAHIRAP, PARANG di MO
MAKAKAYA...

OO, that's NORMAL sa pag LE-LET GO.

Sometimes...
you'd really want to forget all the
hurts and convince yourself that YOU'LL BE
LOVING HIM NO MATTER WHAT!
COME WHAT MAY! FOR THE REST OF YOUR
LIFE!

SWERTE nya!!!
MALAS mo...

Ang nakapagtataka pa dun...
bakit ayan ka na naman...
di mo naisip...

Pag may kasalanan siya,
NAPATAWAD mo siya
agad!!!
at nakalimutan ang sakit...



WALA SIYANG GINAGAWA KUNDI SAKTAN
KA!!!

ang mas masakit pa dyan...

THE DANG CYCLE GOES ON AND ON AND
ON...

Paulit-ulit lang yan...

OK!

Palusot ng IBA...
pag mahal mo,
di ka
dapat magsawa!!!
"mahal mu eh"



C'mon!!!
MAGSAWA NA tayo sa MGA SAKIT
na binibigay nila!!!




THINK MAN!!!


mahal ba natin sila dahil ganun sila?

O...

ganun sila dahil ALAM nila na mahal natin
sila!!!

:kainis: nuh...

Hai...
hay...
buhay...
kumag talaga ang mga taong katulad
MOH...

AY!!!

nila pala!!!

Dahil pinakawalan nila ang katulad natin!!!

TAMA!!!...

Im NOT expecting you guys to absorb dis!!!
everything i'm trying to say here...

All I want is for u to REFLECT...

BIBITAW NA BA AKO?




Who knows...
pag bitaw mo sa kanya...

MAY DARATING na MAS DESERVING...

Someone who will hold your hand and
"GROW OLD" with you...

So now...

Will you?

MOVE ON AND LET GO!!!

or be like that for life???

ikaw...

it is your choice...

o0 nga ate :kainis: reality bites talaga :sigh:

f0r my part..masakit talaga..

per0 walang masama k0ng aalamin m0 muna y0ng tot0o.. :sigh:

y0ng tip0ng..sasabihin kung an0 ba talaga ang situati0n niy0.. :slap:

kay0 ba talaga??0r may mahal siya iba.. :sigh:

ate yannah :comfort:

:noidea:

na:hilo: ako dun sa nabasa ko ha pero gets ko naman point :D

it is soooooooo hard to let go kasi mahal mo pa sya pero wala na tayong magagawa if your other half (x) wants to move on... without you :sigh:

just try to give each other a peaceful and heart to heart talk one more time :mass: then if he decided to start his journey without you... it is time to let go :weep:

i'm on the same situation also sis yannah, i know i have to let it go pero mahirap but i'm trying, and hope one of this day tapos na sana ang paghihirap ko.

sis yannah, everything you said is true.

ang galing poh!!!!!! sa mga guys din meron katulad ng ganyan........ naguguluhan din........ pero it takes time to heal nmn po db....... un lng po.....

tama ung post sa taas. it taked time to heal. the best thing you can do is to keep yourself busy. trust me, it works....

ang hirap mag comment, pag inlove ka, kasi everything turns out good ei.. but ill try,

i think ill let go,if the other one is uninterested, yun lang yun..letting go now, doesnt necessarily make you broke in your entire life.it will give you the courage to embrace pain ,temporarily ... cry it out ynna , it sure will help ease you up a bit ...

ummm baby yannah...

mahrap tlga mag let go lalo n kng mhal m tlga xa ng sbra pro ang mbuting gwin mgusap tlga pra mgkalinawan db tska kng wla n tlga pag-asa at least frends pa dn db un ang mhlaga dun tska mas mkakabuti kng aalamin muna ung totoo wag muna mag judge or makinig kng kani-knino kc problema nyo yan and its better n kau ang makaka ayos db andito kme pra kme para magpayo pro n sau pa dn ung desisyon kng ano tlga ung gs2 m gwin at nrrmdaman mo for him...so un lng...sna mkpagusap kau ng maayos....

and2 lng aq plge tandaan m yan baby yannah...

oo nga kung ayaw syo at d n sya masaya syo, y continue diba! s pagmamahal mahalaga n parehas kyo nagakkaunawaan, if the other party is not happy ung relationship nyo d n magiging ok for sure, at ang mahalagang bagay s pagmamahal ung wla kang masasagasaang iba.

Nangyari na sa akin ng ganyan... ang hirap talaga para bang napapaiyak kana na sobrang sakit. lalo na kapag sinabi sayo na she need to space pero malaman nlang na ipinagpalit kana... i will try to fight my feeling for her baka sakaling bumalik sa akin pero maslalo ako nasasaktan... ang sakit dahil yung taong pinaglalaban mo iba yung pinaglalaban nya.. kaya i decide to let her go nalang.... para di nalang ako lalo masaktan... :weep:

sis i know the feeling... i've been there three months ago.
ang hirap pakawalan ng isang tao n naging bahagi ng pang'araw-araw na buhay mo.
and everytime you let go of someone, you leave a part of yourself behind but you will always take a part of him with you and that part is enough to still keep you whole.


"Sometimes you have to let go of someone to see if there’s anything there to hold on to."

:weep: oo nga..mahirap yan...parang ako..mahal ko nga..di ko naman maipaglaban kasi siya mismo itinataboy at pinapasuko na ako..:weep:

:slap: yha...mahirap talaga pag inlove k sa isang tao...:upset: lahat ng mali ay nagiging tama....:slap:

Kung sa panahon ngayon, i will definitely choose to "Let Go".. Every hours, minutes and seconds count so dont waste it for such things..

*Nothing More To Say*

goodbye is the hardest word we can say to our beloved 'coz its only mean one thing...

PAIN...

but, what else we can do kung gusto n nyang bumitiw...

hindi naman natin hawak ang feelings nya...

kung hindi na sya masaya sayo...

ano pa ba ang nararapat mong gawin?

di ba ang mag let go and move on...

kesa naman umasa ka pa na magbabalik lang uli sa dati ang lahat...

tapos sa katotohanan, ayaw nya na talaga...

ang hirap talaga, pero sabi nga...

ang mga pangyayaring ganito sa buhay natin,

ang nagpapatatag at nagpapalakas sa ating pagkatao...

YOU can survive sis yannah!!!

Ka dramahan noh? :unsure: :lol:

may ganun tlga. kung anu anu nang kabaliwan, kagaguhan, kahirapan, katangahan ang ginawa natin para sa isang tao, eh parang wala lang sa kanila na para bang, sa isip nila, ginawa natin yun dahil kelangan at di nila naisip na ginawa tlga natin yun para sa kanila. kamanhidan nga siguro yun.

Kung ako ang nasa kalagayan mo...

Na nag-mahal nang lubusan...

Definitely...

I'll fight for her/him...

Kahit kailangan ko pang pumatay gagawin ko para lang sa kanya, dahil minahal ko siya nang buong puso't pagkatao ko...

Oo nga madaling sabihin pero puso mo na rin ang magdidikta sa 'yo...

Kasi ikaw na rin nagsabi na marami kang nagawa sa kanya na hindi mo nagawa sa iba...

Eh! ano pa kung papatay ka for the sake of your love for her/him...

Kaya ka nga nagmahal 'di ba...

I'm just siting an example what love can lead you to...

Pero siguro by the time na nabasa mo 'to eh! nakapag isip-isip ka na kung ano yung dapat mong gawin...

I'm just here to help my fellow SYMBS...

Nakasalalay pa rin sa'yo yung desisyon mo para sa kanya...

move on and let go...........
i have been in this situation...........
for almost nine years ive been
blind and deaf.......
ginawa ko lahat para mag work relationship
nmin, d ako nag give up, and i pray alot......
but it really wont work if only one
is making the actions for both of you.
for how many times nagkasala nagkamali
sa sa akin, bat then pag bumabalik xa
isang pitik lng tanggap ko na xa..........
but then it reaches the dead end of my patient.

(tagal din 9 years bago ako natauhan :slap:,
ung mga last 3 years ng relationship namin
dun xa nagbago dun ko xa pinagtiisan
na baka bumalik ung dating xa, pero d
nangyari)

i give up and let go, and just a second
nalaman ko nlng na may bago na xa....
ganun nya ako kabilis pinalitan......
pero dahil sa mga naranasan ko sa kanya
i am surprise kasi d ako nasaktan,
nawala na feelings ko sa kanya
d na nga ako nanghihinyang sa 9 years
na tinagal namin, and now d ko na xa
naiisip unlike before, a second, minute
hour a day wont pass that i will not think
of her.

i just put on my mind, he will never find
a man like me.....
now im happy with my life......
isa isa nnmn natuutpad mga dreams ko.
hehehe ang drama na ata, cge gang dyan
nlng...........

Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting yourself from all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart

To let go of someone doesn't mean that you have to stop loving. it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back

-JDM


************
Naranasan ko na din makipaglaban pero makalipas ang anim na taon, napapagod din ang puso at natututong magpakawala ng mga bagay na napamahal na sa kanya kapalit ng pangakong bukas..isang umagang kayganda ang muling sisilay na magbibigay ng bagong buhay :kiss:

ah, the dilemma :slap: to stay in the relationship and exhaust all possible means to keep it going or to let go of the man you love. in the process of staying in the relationship you fight for your man and your emotions even if it means hurting yourself, the room for growth for you and your partner becomes smaller. you argue over small things; petty quarrels left and right. but letting go means not having to be with him and the painful truth sets in that he will no longer be doing things with,for and to you but with,for and to someone else.

we always say "if you love someone set him/her free". and we always counter: "easier said than done". but looking at it from another angle, would you rather give him hell or make his life miserable because he just wants to live the life he wants to and you won't let go? do you want to live day after day after day thinking if he still loves you and torture yourself some more by letting him take you for granted?

you get hurt because you truly loved.if there's no pain and you took it all with a grain of salt then i guess fighting for the man and the relationship is useless. if both parties are not growing in a relationship then i think it's time for both parties to move on. pick up the pieces, learn from your mistakes, keep the good memories and stash it in that soft spot in your heart that you have for him , grieve for the loss, accept the bitter/harsh truth and move on.

let it work to your advantage. he will never find another one like you; he will never be loved the same way you loved him. let it be his loss, not yours :D

take care gorgeous! :kiss:

well...that's life..ganun tlaga..i prove na 22o pla na pag nilet go mo xa...may dadating pa na much better pa sa knya..everything has it's own reason..:thumbsup:

ah, the dilemma :slap: to stay in the relationship and exhaust all possible means to keep it going or to let go of the man you love. in the process of staying in the relationship you fight for your man and your emotions even if it means hurting yourself, the room for growth for you and your partner becomes smaller. you argue over small things; petty quarrels left and right. but letting go means not having to be with him and the painful truth sets in that he will no longer be doing things with,for and to you but with,for and to someone else.

we always say "if you love someone set him/her free". and we always counter: "easier said than done". but looking at it from another angle, would you rather give him hell or make his life miserable because he just wants to live the life he wants to and you won't let go? do you want to live day after day after day thinking if he still loves you and torture yourself some more by letting him take you for granted?

you get hurt because you truly loved.if there's no pain and you took it all with a grain of salt then i guess fighting for the man and the relationship is useless. if both parties are not growing in a relationship then i think it's time for both parties to move on. pick up the pieces, learn from your mistakes, keep the good memories and stash it in that soft spot in your heart that you have for him , grieve for the loss, accept the bitter/harsh truth and move on.

let it work to your advantage. he will never find another one like you; he will never be loved the same way you loved him. let it be his loss, not yours :D

take care gorgeous! :kiss:

pinaiyak mo ko dito mami.
sapul ako :D

buti ako naka let go na :D

finally :)

pinaiyak mo ko dito mami.
sapul ako :D

buti ako naka let go na :D

finally :)

sabi nga ng iba ate kers: "experience is the best teacher". people learn from their mistakes. i learned from mine. and most of the time i learn my lessons the hard way kaya naman pag nadapa ako flat on my face talaga :lol: di kasi natingin sa nilalakaran :lmao: I'm so happy to know na you've moved on na. i know for a fact that you've learned from that experience and the pain you felt taught you a lesson that you won't forget :D :kiss:

ganda naman nyan. :help: Pano nga ba mag move on till now mahal mo pa yung tao na yon.Hirap di ba...:weep:

line from a song...

"you know i'll fight for you but how can i fight someone who isn't even there...."

:weep::weep::weep:

Napakasakit po talaga ng ganun,,mahal mo siya pro parang my iba siyang mahal, i think the best dyan sabihin mo sa kanya ung sakit na nadarama mo sa iyong puso, pra kahit pano eh maibsan ang nararamdaman mo,after nun tignan mo reaction nya, kung mahal ka nun magababago un,kung wala lng sa kanya ung mga sinabi mo cguro meron syang iban mahal or d sya seryoso syo.iwan mo n sya kung ganun.. d siya deserve pra syo marami pang tao na magmamahal syo. d nga ganun kadali na kalimutan ang isang bagay na halos part na ng life mo, pro kung lagi ka naman nagpaparaya, tama lang na kalimutan mona sya..
love hurts ika nga masarap ang feeling ng nagmamahal lalo pag minamahal ka rin.. pro dapat handa ka rin masakatan..:weep:

ahhhh, love.... masarap pakinggan..:) I know im not an expert on relationship thingy though i experienced those things before also. It hapens to guys as well, tears, depression, suicidal tendencies at kung anu pa jan, yep, we hav it also.. kaya ito lang ADVICE ko sau..

E-M-B-R-A-C-E I-T..
embrace the fact that you feel LOVE in itself..

Isnt being in love the ultimate gift God has given to humans?FEEL LOVE in its purest form..

lot of ppl want to feel love, hurt or joyous love, as long as its love..the ultimate thng that humans will ever experience thoughout his/her life, and i tell you it doesnt come to us when we want it, it strucks whenever, whoever it wanted and IT makes you realize that your human..

Feel it while it last because you may never experience it again or even the way or the depth or feeling that you have now..


If i were you, cry if u feel like it, when you have nothing to do but stare at the roof, think about the times you've been with hm, till youd travel far, think deeper than youve actually done before..(as the saying goes..ull find wisdom when ur sorrow..hehe) Dont force yourself to move on..let it consume you... then cry again...tears dont come cheap these days...:) not much ppl cry u know(for men ofcourse) :)

Dont bother about if he loves you, dont ask yourself about that, im sure hes not feeling the same way as you do right now, and isnt it great that you felt it? LOVE? huraaaaay, INLOVE CYA... congrats gurl..natamaan ka.. and its a great thing...

I'm old now, 27 y/o and i'd like to experiece again how it feels like and how it tore me apart..because at this age.. love is different na..more mature, nurturing each other..etc etc..it may hurt a little but not like the first or second time.. kung baga namamanhid..:)

yun lang po..hope you get the idea..
PS.. dont worry, 5 monts from now..ud be laughing at urself for the embarasment that uv been through..hehe someone told me about that and its true..hehe cxiao

let go nalang po kesa sa msaktan kau!:D

:weep: yannah! apir tayo! kala ko me lang may ganyang situation d2 sa symb..
let go nlang din ako? i prayed for that guy eh, oo dumating nga sya...but where is he now? i wanted to talk wihim nga for proper closure, di nga tinutupad usapan namin eh.. feeling ko tuloy he doesnt want to really "close" it pa ksi if he needs or wants to move on na without me,heart to heart talk sana kmi para no bitterness and holding a grudge against each other pa dba? kaso di pa nagpapakita eh.. feeling ko lang yn ah.. wawa nman ko still hoping..hoping for nothing.. he doesnt wanna see me nga cguro.. :weep: para sa kanya di na cguro kelangan pa mag usap ksi cguro "it's totally over" na for him.. :weep: :cry: yannah! it takes time..

na appreciate ko lahat ng comments niyo :)

thanks po sa inyong lahat.. i've finally let him go..

kesa naman keep ko sya pero balewala lang din naman :)

thanks po sa inyo:)

Napakasakit po talaga ng ganun,,mahal mo siya pro parang my iba siyang mahal, i think the best dyan sabihin mo sa kanya ung sakit na nadarama mo sa iyong puso, pra kahit pano eh maibsan ang nararamdaman mo,after nun tignan mo reaction nya, kung mahal ka nun magababago un,kung wala lng sa kanya ung mga sinabi mo cguro meron syang iban mahal or d sya seryoso syo.iwan mo n sya kung ganun.. d siya deserve pra syo marami pang tao na magmamahal syo. d nga ganun kadali na kalimutan ang isang bagay na halos part na ng life mo, pro kung lagi ka naman nagpaparaya, tama lang na kalimutan mona sya..
love hurts ika nga masarap ang feeling ng nagmamahal lalo pag minamahal ka rin.. pro dapat handa ka rin masakatan..:weep:


minsan hindi rin ok na sabihin mo na nasasaktan ka.. kasi mas malaki ang tendency na mas masaktan ka kung makikita mo ang reaction nya. ewan ko tol ha.. pero yun ang totoo.. tama ka pag tlgang mahal mo, hindi talaga ganon kadaling makalimot. sobra yun. kahit yung tipong 3years kau naging kayo.. (to think na nabuhay ka ng 23 years na wala sya) ako, hindi ako handang masakta. kaya eto, duguan pa rin ako.. nagmahal ako ng sobra e. hindi nya alam na nasasaktan ako. akala nya ok na ako..

para sa akin, move on. grieve and let the pain wash all your pain away.

na appreciate ko lahat ng comments niyo :)

thanks po sa inyong lahat.. i've finally let him go..

kesa naman keep ko sya pero balewala lang din naman :)

thanks po sa inyo:)

make sure na tlgang nakapag let go ka na ha.. wish you goodluck.. :)

Ploning kaw ba yan? toink!
hehe.. joke lang ate yannah :smack:

mm.. ang gaganda ng mga sagot lalo na yung kay mami sult at yung sa guy na 27yrs old na, kumpleto. andun na lahat, mahusay :clap::clap: mm.. may napulot din ako.. :thanks:



-------------------

letting go doesn't mean you gave up.. :pacute:

What if we walk or talk to finally "LET GO..."

BADTRIP!!!

Masakit di ba?

It breaks your heart even more...
kung alam mo
sa sarili mo na...
sobrang LOVE mo siya!!!

Like,
you've sacrificed A LOT!!!

Marami ka nang nagawa na di mo nagagawa sa
iba...

Pero di niya lahat nakikita yun!!!

He was so blind!!!
to see...
and so deaf...
to hear!!!

Why?!

Ewan ko ba...
kung bakit may mga tao na...

Sobrang...
MANHID!!! manhid!!! Manhid!!! manHID!!!

Or probably nag-mamanhid-manhidan lang cla...

Dahil ba...
HINDI ka talaga niya GUSTO!!! or
IBA
ang MAHAL niya...

ang SAKIT-sakit!!!
diba...

Hindi mo tuloy alam if you should let go of your
feelings for him or not!!!
once and for all...

my GOD!!!

As I've said...

Mas madali siguro mag-LET GO...
if you know
he doesn't give a thing about you...
els DESERVEs YOU!!!

Syempre kung meron...
hindi niya pababayaan
na MAWALA ka...


But if you think na...
OK lang sa kanya yun...

Don't be a FOOL!!!

LET GO...
na!!
How would you fight for THE ONE you LOVE?

eh "mahal" ka ba naman...





Hmmn...
MAHAL mo nga!!!
pro habang ipinaglalaban mo
naman siya...

WALA LANG SA KANYA!!!

What are we to do? E ganyan talaga!!!

REALITY BITES!!! ika nga!!!
(as the saying goes...)

MASAKIT, MAHIRAP, PARANG di MO
MAKAKAYA...

OO, that's NORMAL sa pag LE-LET GO.

Sometimes...
you'd really want to forget all the
hurts and convince yourself that YOU'LL BE
LOVING HIM NO MATTER WHAT!
COME WHAT MAY! FOR THE REST OF YOUR
LIFE!

SWERTE nya!!!
MALAS mo...

Ang nakapagtataka pa dun...
bakit ayan ka na naman...
di mo naisip...

Pag may kasalanan siya,
NAPATAWAD mo siya
agad!!!
at nakalimutan ang sakit...



WALA SIYANG GINAGAWA KUNDI SAKTAN
KA!!!

ang mas masakit pa dyan...

THE DANG CYCLE GOES ON AND ON AND
ON...

Paulit-ulit lang yan...

OK!

Palusot ng IBA...
pag mahal mo,
di ka
dapat magsawa!!!
"mahal mu eh"



C'mon!!!
MAGSAWA NA tayo sa MGA SAKIT
na binibigay nila!!!




THINK MAN!!!


mahal ba natin sila dahil ganun sila?

O...

ganun sila dahil ALAM nila na mahal natin
sila!!!

:kainis: nuh...

Hai...
hay...
buhay...
kumag talaga ang mga taong katulad
MOH...

AY!!!

nila pala!!!

Dahil pinakawalan nila ang katulad natin!!!

TAMA!!!...

Im NOT expecting you guys to absorb dis!!!
everything i'm trying to say here...

All I want is for u to REFLECT...

BIBITAW NA BA AKO?




Who knows...
pag bitaw mo sa kanya...

MAY DARATING na MAS DESERVING...

Someone who will hold your hand and
"GROW OLD" with you...

So now...

Will you?

MOVE ON AND LET GO!!!

or be like that for life???

ikaw...

it is your choice...







hay talagang ganyan ang mga guy's habang pinakikita mong mahal mo sya lalong lumalaki yung ulo nila.dahil alam nila na taong mga babae pag nag mahal sobra sobra lahat gagawin wag lang sila mawala...ganyan tayo mag mahal...pero siguro kung ginagawa ka ng tanga mas mabuti pang i let go mo na ...