View Full Version : If You Want To Be Better... You Cannot Be Bitter


JenG
25th Apr '08 Fri, 13:14
each of us will have some disappointments in our life. how we react to those disappointments shapes our lives and relationships for the rest of our lives.

life is full of disappointments and regrets. we should apply them positively to our own selves because the lesson we learned from them will give us more strength to move on and start new.

the saying is right that you cannot fix something that is already broken. just have to stand up and face the journey of life again. the reality is that you are in emotional crisis for certain but the fact is that you will mend the broken heart and heal the hurting mind. you need to support your body, and ask the questions that show that no matter how much the hurt you will survive and find happiness again.

i am starting my journey in life again. i am proud to say that life is beginning to make sense. i am much happy and contented to all the blessings that is happening to me right now. i also realize that a lot of people in this world that you can be friends with. don’t lock yourself to someone. explore the world around you and you’ll see the people you think don’t exist because the only focus you have are the ones in front of you.

good friends are precious. they support you, listen to you, and stand by you no matter what. so why would you ever feel the need to say goodbye?

"unfortunately, some friendships aren't meant to last a lifetime

of course, no friendship is wonderful all the time. just like any relationship, a friendship can have its ups and downs, and good friendships can take some work to thrive. lots of situations make it difficult to see where you stand with a friendship. but whatever the case, if a friendship is not adding to your life, you may have questions about its value for you. the good side to gently drifting apart is you might be able to keep a more limited friendship and reduce the amount of drama involved in changing the status of the friendship.

kerstinne25
25th Apr '08 Fri, 20:36
Sis, tamang tama ung nakasulat dito :D

Just accept the truth. Let go. Move on.

Smile :)

There. You'll feel better.

:kiss:

JenG
25th Apr '08 Fri, 21:14
sis pag emotionally stress ka kahit ano masusulat mo :D
ung mga drama lumalabas :lol:

myragarcia
26th Apr '08 Sat, 08:15
pano po ba mag move on kung lagi mo pang naaalala yung tao na yon.at till now he love that person...hirap di ba?

JenG
26th Apr '08 Sat, 09:27
pano po ba mag move on kung lagi mo pang naaalala yung tao na yon.at till now he love that person...hirap di ba?

maybe he didn't yet completely let go of that person kaya di pa sya makapagmove on... yaan mo lang sya mahalin nya pa kung sino man un... all you have to do is wait na makamove on sya complete... basta wag ka lang aalis sa tabi nya so he will realized may iba pang pwede magmahal sa kanya at pwede rin nya mahalin :wub: di mo kasi sya pwede pilitin na wag na nya mahalin ung isa :upset:


Letting go is:

A decision to take an action that will result in a significant change in your life or in the lives of others.

Taking a risk to change the status quo.

Releasing yourself or others from a real or perceived guilt-arousing obligation.

Freeing yourself or others to be themselves without fear of rejection or disapproval.

Granting to others the personal responsibility for their own lives.