I can figure out kung siya na ba talaga. Niyaya uli ako magpakasal ng bf ko of 6 years. I feel like nasasakal na ko whenever he mentions of us getting married.

Ung first na aya niya, may plano na pero I was just too young. I knew. So i seek out my parents help para di pa matuloy.

So, tuloy nanaman relationship namin. Ngaun 6 years na kame. Feeling ko, nasa right age na ko, kaya lang parang di ko pa yata kaya.

Iniwan kame ng dad ko, so parang nprapraning ako.
Mahal na mahal ko talaga ung bf ko, pero ngaun, I don't know...
I'm so confused talaga...

May mga things din ako nakikita na ayoko sakanya. Hindi kame magkasundo sa pera!!! Siya save ng save para sa kasal namin. Hindi siya bumibili ng gamit niya para lang may maisave tapos ako opposite.

Thanks po sa mga mgaadvice!
:help:

sa tingin ko nga sayo bata ka pa kung sa tingin mo na di patalaga sya ang taong gusto mo makasama habang buhay wag ka munang mag pakasal dahil ang pag papakasal ay di kanin na isusubo mo pag napaso ka luluwa mo.ok pag isipan mo muna bago ka mag pakasal ok...

kung may doubt ka wag mo ng ituloy...
kung talagang mahal mo ang isang tao at sure ka na sa kanya wala kang makikitang mali sa kanya kasi you'll be blinded by love.pakiramdaman mo sarili mo.dapat talaga sure ka before ka magpakasal...

if you're not really prepared then tell your bf... tell him everything so he'll know and understands you... i've been there already... i mean, ganun din situation ko dati... tlagang nakakapraning ang ganyang sitwasyon kasi...aabot kayo sa puntong mag-aaway na sa maliliit na dahilan... kasi nga u cant tell straight to his face that you are NOT prepared...don't put urself into a situation na sobrang alanganin... goodluck sis... PM mo na lang ako kung gusto mo tlga pag-usapan :giggle:

it's normal, given your circumstances. but just be open to him and say why you aren't ready yet. don't give him a false impression that you have lost love for him but your just too afraid to tell...

tell him the truth, the truth that you really love him, but you just aren't ready yet. Nahihirapan din kaming mga lalake na manghula e... di lang mga babae marunong manghula :clap:

At least this way, everything will be fine.

And mga away? Normal lang yan. Pag nagkaasawa ka, lalo pa kayong magaaway. Ang mahalaga, di nyo malilimutan si God, kasi sa mga kinakasal na nagdidivorce, nakakalimot sila na kay God sila nangako.

So kung ako sayo, build your relationship with God first. Your current relationship with your bf should be mediated by God. I mean, God should be included in your decisions. That way, even if your having a hard time sailing through a storm of problems, you'll never forget that God holds you the two of you in His arms to help you get by.. :pray:

onga.all you have to do is be frank
at sabihin sa kanyang hindi ka pa ready.
hindi ba naman halata?e kasasabe mu lang
na sya nga e save ng save,ikaw naman ay direct
opposite.sabihin mu sa kanyang hintaying na
lang nya na dumating ang panahon na
maging ready ka..

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at bakit mu naman nasabing:
"Mahal na mahal ko talaga ung bf ko, pero ngaun, I don't know...
I'm so confused talaga..."

napakasakit pakinggan. :weep:
it sounds as if you want a breakup.pero
anyway,whatever it is,sana maayus nyu na
yan.para sa ikabubuti ninyung dalwa. :)

..it's a matter of preparation or readiness in a married relationship. hanggang 'di mo inihahanda ang sarili mo sa relasyon , lagi kang confuse nyan...i think , u r still fortunate sa bf mo..don't be confuse of the loss of ur dad..lyf must go on..u nid to face the present & ur future...Trials were given for u to surpass & part of ur growth as a person. A lot of trials might come ur way as u plan out ur wedding. U might feel discouraged bcoz of the negative attitudes of ur bf.. But sometimes don just look at the negative side of a person, learn to acknowledge the positive/ gud side of ur bf too. If u are determined to enter the married relationship, set plans, fix ur decisions & start a gud relationship with ur bf. Its all ur decsions, not somebody's decision. Gud lak ...:pray:

girl isipin mo ng maraming beses bago ka mag decide.. hindi ka na pwede mag back out pag nag oo ka na.. tell him that this marriage thing is giving you an incredible amount of pressure.. just be frank.. you're future, relationship with him, especially your life depends on it..

kung di ka pa ready kelan ka magiging ready? 6 yrs. n kyo, i think there's something wrong na talaga, maybe syo talaga ang problem, you need to grow up be old enough na isipin na "hey im not getting any younger anymore"

hi po.. same pala tayo situation... :) my bf also asked me to marry him na after 5 yrs of being bf-gf pero ayoko pa talaga (cguro takot din me sa responsibility), nahalata nya naman na may doubts pa ako so we talked kailangan lang kasi maging open ka sa kanya. Sabihin mo lahat lahat gaya nung ginawa ko so yun naggive way sya.. hehehe.. so yun namove yung wedding date namin.. i know ur bf will understand if he really loves you. basta maging honest ka lang. good luck...

wow... thanks po sa lahat ng advices niyo. :thumbsup: