Symbianizers, Is Hate the opposite of LOve? Or is it Apathy? Apathy means lack of interest, of enthusiasm ... Can You Share some Thoughts? :)

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I have a "friend" ... we quarrel a lot ... we argue ... we feel hate at times we flare up.. so i ask myself? he doesnt love me anymore? because he hates me? ..... and what about apathy? what about ignoring me at all? showing no feelings at all? is that the exact opposite of love? is hating me means, loving me more? :giggle: .............

"Great hate follows great love." - Irish Proverb

maybe telling urself u hate that person means thinking of him more...u don't really hate d person... wat u hate is d situation everytime u both have a misunderstanding....

hate is totally d opposite of luv...but most of d time hate will jaz lead u to luv d person more...

tama... hate begets love.... kasi dahil sa hate... nalalaman mu ung mga differences nyo sa isa't isa...

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"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering"

Symbianizers, Is Hate the opposite of LOve? Or is it Apathy? Apathy means lack of interest, of enthusiasm ... Can You Share some Thoughts? :)

:ranting: :giveheart:

May napanood ako sa tv before, na ang opposite daw ng love ay indifference. Kapag di mo na love ang isang tao ay di naman ibig sabihin hate mo na siya, yun nga lang wala ka ng paki sa kanya..gaya ng words na "Khit sang minuto di na ko makakatagal sayo!!!!"
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i have a frend...pag super inis ako sa kanya i always say "i hate him" to myself...to the extent na buburahin ko lahat ng contacts ko sa kanya sa inis ko pero at the end of the day thinking of the frendship and memories we built together... i just simply smile and say "i still care"

i luv this quote from text quote of anachist...


You'll know that you miss someone very much when every time you think of that person, your heart breaks into pieces and just a quick "Hello" from that person can bring the broken pieces back.

it is 100% true coz me myself experience that from day to day basis!!!

:noidea: so, it means when i hate that person, i love him more? ..... i guess its true :noidea:

depende sa hate algie... baka u jaz hate him coz u simply miss him...

:lol: ... partly correct .. i hate him whenever he didnt met my expectation ... i dunno, thats why im asking is hate the opposite of love? cause, im not actually apathetic to him ...its just, we argue a lot! :noidea:

hate naman na nararamdaman mo di naman totoong hate... un nga sinagot mo na ung tanong... u simply hate him kc di nya meet mga expectations mo coz u have a special feelings for that person kaya may mga expectations ka...di hate un INIs tawag doon...pero u have to accept na di sya perfect at di rin nya mabibigay lahat ng expectations mo...u just have to learn to accept kung ano lang meron sya...im sure it will settle most ur differences...

ACCEPTANCE is the key to a good relationship!!

Absolutely Eleven .... I Hate him because i started to like him ... :noidea:

three... wow naman inluv na yata pretty sis ko...:yipee:

:rofl: waaa naging obvious na ang HATE ko :lol:

hate kasi dipende yan sa reason bakit mo sya hate
ang love doesn't always need a reason why you love someone
pero kung hate dapat may rason
tulad ng i hate you because you don't love me
or i hate you because you hate me too
tulad din ng love marami ding stages ang hate
ang hate nasa pinakailalim yan therefore mabilis ding mawala
e ang love biglang bigla yan di yan mawawala

:ranting: pretty jeng i hate him kasi seloso!

hahahaha in love si Algie
algie this song is purely heartfully chickaly dingdong dedicted sa iyo

Rihanna Hate that i love you

That’s how much I love you
That’s how much I need you
And I can’t stand ya
Must everything you do make me wanna smile
Can I not like it for awhile
No.. but you won’t let me
You upset me girl, then you kiss my lips
All of a sudden I forget that I was upset
Can’t remember what you did

But I hate it
You know exactly what to do
So that I can’t stay mad at you
For too long, that’s wrong
But, I hate it
You know exactly how to touch
So that I don’t wanna fuss and fight no more
So I despise that I adore you

And I hate how much I love you boy
I can’t stand how much I need you
And I hate how much I love you boy
But I just can’t let you go
And I hate that I love you so..

And you completely know the power that you have
The only one that makes me laugh
[Hate That I Love You lyrics on

Sad and it’s not fair how you take advantage of the fact that I
Love you beyond the reason why
And it just ain’t right

And I hate how much I love you girl
I can’t stand how much I need you
And I hate how much I love you girl
But I just can’t let you go
And I hate that I love you so

One of these days maybe your magic won’t affect me
And your kiss won’t make me weak
But no one in this world knows me the way you know me
So you’ll probably always have a spell on me

That’s how much I love you
That's how much I need you
That’s how much I love you
That’s how much I need you

And I hate that I love you so--
And I hate how much I love you boy
I can’t stand how much I need you
And I hate how much I love you boy
But I just can’t let you go
And I hate that I love you so
And I hate that I love you so.. so..

heres a poem

http://www.srichinmoypoetry.com/imagelib/unmesh/clbw3.jpg
Love - Hate Poems

by Sri Chinmoy



"Hate is often an obverse form of love.
You hate someone whom you really wish to love but whom you cannot love."

~~~

"Hate is a disguised form of love.
You can only hate someone that you have the capacity to love because if you are really indifferent,
you cannot even get up enough energy to hate him"

~~~


No remedy for black hate?
Who says?
Just love
And love more,
That's all.

~~~

Love yourself
Lo, you have begun
Your lifelong romance.
Hate yourself.
Lo, you have begun
Your lifelong battle.
Love God.
Lo, you have established
Your supremacy on earth.
Hate God.
Lo, the fool in you has caught
The fool you are.

~~~


I do not hate the world,
Not because I do not know
How to hate,
But because God does not want me
To hate.
I love the world,
Not because I know how to love,
But because God,
Out of His boundless Bounty,
Loves the world
In me, through me and for me.

What are the circumstances kung bakit mo hate yung tao? If you're just talking opposites malabo talaga. Bakit mo hate yung tao? Ano pinag-aawayan nyo?

when you love a person, it is only natural that you will hate him or her at some point in time. hate is not the opposite of love at all...indifference is the opposite of love.

when you love a person, you care, you hate... but still you care.

when you don't love a person, you don't care, you don't hate... the person simply just don't matter at all.

:hi: salamat sa opinion nyo .....
now, naging indifferent siya, i think so .... ya, i think so ... parang di niya ako nakita....waaaaa :panic: ... i wanted to ask him, why? but...... :noidea: i cant!

y u can't three?

minsan pag lag mo hate yung tao..lagi kayo quarrel, parang nakasanayan mo na .... Apathy is the opposite of Love .. tama yung opinion ng iba ... Hate? may feelings pa rin eh, deep within that, may LOve yan .. i know, im experiencing it (NOW) ..... but when suddenly, the person becomes indifferent, couldnt find time to,een say hi .. thats when he falls out of love ... NO feeling? Manhid in tagalog... Thats the exact opposite of Love .....

I think you're trying to find meaning in your hate for this schmuck. Mag usap kayo. Walang mangyayari kung puro ganito na lang. Talk it out, pero better be prepared kasi hindi mo masasabi na baka may masabi sya sayo na masakit. Minsan rin kasi ang tao ma-pride and won't take the first step to reconcile with a person, lalo na kung loved one, mas mahirap. Good luck na lang.

http://www.webalice.it/attony/yoda2.jpg

"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering"

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come my padawan learner join me to the dark side.:rofl:

hmmm di parin convince

may the force be with you...:lol: sakin hindi opposite ang hate at love...sabi nga nila,the more you hate the more you love...pano mo hate yung tao kung the more na hate mo sya,the more pala na love mo sya...getz nyo?http://i163.photobucket.com/albums/t297/dogpatrol/Vader.jpg

come my padawan learner join me to the dark side.:rofl:

I think hate is not the opposite of love.

Hate is one of the fuels of love.

:noidea: so, it means when i hate that person, i love him more? ..... i guess its true :noidea:

Parang hindi ata, kse pano mo mamahalin yung taong hate mo nga...di ba?Unless you only lie to yourself denying your true feelings for that person....makes sense???:noidea:

Parang hindi ata, kse pano mo mamahalin yung taong hate mo nga...di ba?Unless you only lie to yourself denying your true feelings for that person....makes sense???:noidea:

I think it can happen. Sometimes we are afraid to admit that we love someone, maybe because something happened in the past, sometimes our ego can be the reason as well, or maybe we just dont want to be vulnerable. So hate becomes our shield or defense mechanism. Just like the crab, hard outside, soft and vulnerable inside.

I think it can happen. Sometimes we are afraid to admit that we love someone, maybe because something happened in the past, sometimes our ego can be the reason as well, or maybe we just dont want to be vulnerable. So hate becomes our shield or defense mechanism. Just like the crab, hard outside, soft and vulnerable inside.

so ano ang ini reiterate mo? na posible na hate and love mo ang isang person or the statement na nagpe pretend lang na hate ang isang tao because of varied reasons but ang totoo is mahal niya??

getz ko na...:yipee:

getz ko na...:yipee:

alin ang gets mo na???:noidea:

so ano ang ini reiterate mo? na posible na hate and love mo ang isang person or the statement na nagpe pretend lang na hate ang isang tao because of varied reasons but ang totoo is mahal niya??

Yep. Highly possible po.

alin ang gets mo na???:noidea:

yung pinag-uusapan...:clap:

May napanood ako sa tv before, na ang opposite daw ng love ay indifference. Kapag di mo na love ang isang tao ay di naman ibig sabihin hate mo na siya, yun nga lang wala ka ng paki sa kanya..gaya ng words na "Khit sang minuto di na ko makakatagal sayo!!!!"
:boxer:

exactly, indifference is the exact opposite of love

exactly, indifference is the exact opposite of love


thanks, uv got my analysis for this matter.:excited:

yeah..for me indifference/apathy is the opposite of love...

LEO BUSCAGLIA: I have a very strong feeling that the opposite of love is not hate - it's apathy. It's not giving a damn.