sUrVeY LaNg pO...


"wHeN LOVE sTaRTs To hUrT...sHoULd oNe hoLd oN oR LeT gO?"

hiraP kASi iF uR miNd iS rEadY To LeT gO bUT uR hEART sTiLL waNTs tO hoLd oN...

Depende yun e. What's causing the pain? Why are you hurting? You are your worst enemy. Your brain tells you to let go but your heart begs you to stay. Ah...the dilemma! If it's worth the pain and you think you'll grow in that relationship then stay. It'll be a bitter-sweet relationship, I know. But the sweet will make the bitter worth it. Again, love makes the pain go away no matter how great the pain is. But sometimes pain makes the love go away no matter how great the love is. If he's worth fighting for or you know that the relationship is worth keeping then hold on to it.

frendship lang po un

Think again. For you it's a special friendship but for the other person...does that person consider the friendship as special or superficial? It won't hurt to ask if there's something wrong since this person gets in touch with you only if this person needs help. Not a good sign.

yes we both know our friendship is special

your friend's prob'ly busy with something.give your friend a call just to ask how things are and pick it up from there. something like what's keeping your friend busy.at least in that way malalaman mo kung may tampo sha sayo o wala

ok tnx sultry...pm na lang kita ha...

no prob...anytime po.:)

"wHeN LOVE sTaRTs To hUrT...sHoULd oNe hoLd oN oR LeT gO?"

Yes! I should let go of that relationship, be it some sort of special or plain friendship..I hate it when hurt is getting in to the main scene of the relationship..I hate it getting hurt,its getting pointless...Someday , you two will realize, that letting go is the sweetest thing you'll ever do in your relationship

"wHeN LOVE sTaRTs To hUrT...sHoULd oNe hoLd oN oR LeT gO?"

---->>>>> dito ako pinapagalitan ng mga kaibigan ko... masyado daw akong martyr pagdating sa kanya... kahit nablender na nya ang puso ko... still every pieces ng puso still longs to her... di ko alam kung katangahan ba eto or im so hippocrete... i know naman na walang mapapala sugod lang ako ng sugod... i still "hold on"... even if it hurts so much....

(i know magulo kwento ko... basta i want to share my experience... sorry)

now 3 years from now we are now good bestfriends... pero nagkakailangan pa rin kapag napaguusapan namin ang nakaraan at ang pagibig... she has a new boyfriend (i think at the span of 3 years nakaka-lima na syang palit... hahaha)... i may not be able to say that i moved on kasi nasa process pa rin ako of letting go my feelings for her... haaaayyyy... ang baduy ko... yan na lang ang masasabi ko ngayon....

sa tanung na yan jeng i have no clear answer... kasi im still experiencing it...

ok lang yan ren... reality is it's really hard to let go...easy to say but hard to do...

thats very true... kahit gaano pa ako ka-:hyper: and always thinks positive things... still hinuhunt :hunter: pa rin ako ng past... waaaaahhhh ayoko naaaahhh... hahaha :weep: :hyper:

parang yung song na hopelessly devoted na "my head is saying fool forget him,my heart is saying don't let go"
and parang yung unforgettable text quote na
there was an old man whom i ask about it
should i let go or should i hold on
then he told me
you know what my son when i was young
i lost my mind because i follow my heart
but i lost my love because i follow my head

http://members.aol.com/BrQQwnEyez/heart04.gif

I still miss you...
But not like I did before.
The intense aching I felt,
Isn't there anymore.

I still whisper your name...
Not as often as I used to.
Now it may be once,
Before the day is through.

I still hear your voice...
Replaying in my mind.
But it's fading now,
Soon silence I will find.

I still long for you...
To feel your touch.
But it's not like before,
I don't dream it as much.

I still think about you...
And wonder how you are.
But my feelings have changed,
And they don't go as far.

I still feel you sometimes...
Maybe you're thinking of me?
Or maybe it's just a little memory,
Of how it used to be.

I still love you...
But it's just not as strong.
Because I'm letting you go now,
So we can both move on.

I still hear you say...
No one will love me like you do.
That's so hard to believe now,
After the hurt you put me through.

You still have a piece of my heart..
Because I always felt you here.
Now, I'm hoping and praying,
That, that too, will quickly disappear.

This will be my last goodbye..
I've nothing else to say.
Everything I felt for you,
Can now just fade away.

nice one felinor...may pagkamakata ka pala...basta love people transform into different image...

hehehe, di naman!!

parehas nangyari din sa akin yan , I give up my GF , because meron pala iba :((

sino meron iba BRX? ikaw or ung gf mo?

Basta Pag Di Kana Masaya Let Go Of That ... Sayang Panahon ..

"wHeN LOVE sTaRTs To hUrT...sHoULd oNe hoLd oN oR LeT gO?"
This message was sent to me by a friend whose so special to me...medyo tampo sya..hehe ...and i think it can be associated with the question..


In life, you will realize that the people you meet have a purpose..Some were put there to test you, some would use you, some would teach you, and some would bring out thebetter if not the best in you...Some may even cause you pain and heartache, but one must learn to move on...
So let go of the people who can't treat you right, and hold on to those who love you back & see your worth..:)

you are totally right dazed_confused...one of my friend told me that i have to choose which one is important and i have to drop the people who don't give a damn...

letting go is the hardest part but when you overcome the chalenges and the pain...DAMN IT FEELS SO GOOD! :excited:

try to figure out kung mhal mo pero na huhurt ka e sobrang mahal mo parin...wag mo muna i let go hehehe magpaka martyr ka muna

depende sa status ng ralationship..
basta mahirap mg Let go pag love mo pa ung tao

it dpends..u could hold on if may possibility pa na mag work..but if not, might as well let go kse along the way, u could find someone na mas deserving sa love mo..dont waste your time and effort to someone na taken ka for granted

mahirap talagang i LET GO pag mahal mo yung tao...
pero when love STARTS to HURT.... do something, maawa ka naman sa sarili mo.
bakit ko naman papahirapan sarili ko kung nahu hurt naman ...
hindi naman forever na mag stay ung sakit...
(lintik na pag ibig yan!)

@JENG eto lang advice ko....

sabihin mo sa special friend mo na hindi na friend tingin mo sa kanya... sabihin mong mahal mo xa as more than friends.... as being somebody to make a relationship to... as someone to be a partner in life....

Kung sasabihin nyang hindi pareho ang feelings nya sayo... na hindi ka nya mahal preho ng pagmamahal mo sa kanya.....
Wag kang magdalawang isip na iwan xa.... there's nothing to hold unto...

pero kung sasabihin nyang hindi nya alam... hindi sya sigurado sa feelings nya sayo... bigyan mo siya ng taning.... mga ilang araw isang week.. mataas na yun... mga tatlong araw....
dpat pagkatapos ng tatlong araw naka-decide na xa kung ano ba talaga kayo.... kung mahal ka diin nya o hindi.... kung preho din bah feelings nya sayo....

kung gagawin mo eto youre in a WIN WIN situation... kasi if you'll leave him becuase he said that he don't love you... then you will be clarified of the things thats bothering you... you will know where to stand between youre relationship... na-kunan na worries mo dba? heheh ala na stresss...

Next win situation is.... Kung maging kayo.... THEN thats the better of the two WIN WIN situation... good luck na lang sayo ate JEN!!!!

This is just my advice its still up to you if you will follow it.... GOD BLESS

@JENG eto lang advice ko....

sabihin mo sa special friend mo na hindi na friend tingin mo sa kanya... sabihin mong mahal mo xa as more than friends.... as being somebody to make a relationship to... as someone to be a partner in life....

Kung sasabihin nyang hindi pareho ang feelings nya sayo... na hindi ka nya mahal preho ng pagmamahal mo sa kanya.....
Wag kang magdalawang isip na iwan xa.... there's nothing to hold unto...

pero kung sasabihin nyang hindi nya alam... hindi sya sigurado sa feelings nya sayo... bigyan mo siya ng taning.... mga ilang araw isang week.. mataas na yun... mga tatlong araw....
dpat pagkatapos ng tatlong araw naka-decide na xa kung ano ba talaga kayo.... kung mahal ka diin nya o hindi.... kung preho din bah feelings nya sayo....

kung gagawin mo eto youre in a WIN WIN situation... kasi if you'll leave him becuase he said that he don't love you... then you will be clarified of the things thats bothering you... you will know where to stand between youre relationship... na-kunan na worries mo dba? heheh ala na stresss...

Next win situation is.... Kung maging kayo.... THEN thats the better of the two WIN WIN situation... good luck na lang sayo ate JEN!!!!

This is just my advice its still up to you if you will follow it.... GOD BLESS


very nice advise fire :clap:
pero di naman po to the point na mahal ko sya kaya ayokong magLET GO...
at di rin po to the point na magiging kami or i want to spend the rest of my life with him...
di po pwede un :rofl:

survey lang po to

:thanks: fire

well.. if you hold on surely you will still be hurt.. over and over again... but for me, before you let go, be sure your ready, wag k nang umangal na masakit dahil kkmbal tlga un ng love... panindigan mu nlng ung desisyon mo...we all know na masakit peo as i said kkbal un ng love.. whether you like it or not.