how would you react if you found out that one of your family member is gay? :help:

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sheeeeeeeeeeeet!!!!!!
heheh....jowk!

depende bro...sa mga kapamilya mo..kung mejo fond sila sa ibang bakla....o kung kinamumuhian nila ang bakla.....ang pinakamahirap jan eh yung sa part ng tatay at lolo at lola...alam mo na yung ibig kung sabihin...lalo na kung militar pa tatay mo..:lol:

sakin siguro ok lang bsta wag ka lang magpapakita ng kalandian na makakasira s araw ko kundi hahambalusin kita....:hit:hehehe jowk!

for me wala magbabago.. open ako sa mga ganyan kasi sis ko medyo lesbian :D pero sya pa rin un at kapatid ko pa rin sya..

i will respect the life they choose for themselves..
nothing to hide, show the real you

ok lang kung ganon sila wala naman na magagawa tanggapin na lang:)

nothing to worry...3rd sex are now accepted in the society.some may not but you are not alone.i have lots of friends,lesbians and gays.they are really as human as a normal being.They are happy to be with.it depends on how your father for example, how would he react on this situation.in the long run, you are still apart of his family,so whatever the hurt / the reactions he would show, acceptance will come still.sooner or later :pray:

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sheeeeeeeeeeeet!!!!!!
heheh....jowk!

depende bro...sa mga kapamilya mo..kung mejo fond sila sa ibang bakla....o kung kinamumuhian nila ang bakla.....ang pinakamahirap jan eh yung sa part ng tatay at lolo at lola...alam mo na yung ibig kung sabihin...lalo na kung militar pa tatay mo..:lol:

sakin siguro ok lang bsta wag ka lang magpapakita ng kalandian na makakasira s araw ko kundi hahambalusin kita....:hit:hehehe jowk!

haha grabe naman un ang brutal. haha...

anyways thanks! :lol:

umm... so is it like, "i am what i am and, it is okay?" hehe..

:think: accept him :noidea: pero wawa naman siya dahil for sure malalagot siya kay mommy and daddy :giggle: basta wag lang nia hihiramin mga heels at skiny jeans ko ah.. :whistle: hehehe :peace:

:think: accept him :noidea: pero wawa naman siya dahil for sure malalagot siya kay mommy and daddy :giggle: basta wag lang nia hihiramin mga heels at skiny jeans ko ah.. :whistle: hehehe :peace:

ummm... hindi naman siguro haha.

:lol:

okay, so we're done with the coming out process.

hearing the word gay, ano yung unang pumapasok sa utak niyo?:think:

bading!

pero kelan ko lang nalaman na ang "gay" pala eh hindi lang pertaining sa lalaking binabae......pwede din palang babae nilalake??? tma ba yun??

ok lang tlga yung nasa third sex as long as sna wag pa sila mas malala....kunwari bading sobra kalandian at kagrabe kung manalait..alam mo na...ako kasi nakaranas na ng gnun na yung bakla eh sobra sobra tlga, sa sobrang galit ko hinamon ko ng suntukan hehehe buti nlang hindi pumayag kasi mas malaki pa katawan nya sakin....:lol:..pero meron din akong mga naging kaibigan na gay at nakasundo ko sila...

gay?

:kill: :kill: :kill: :kill: GAYS!!!

yung totoong gays ha, as in yung mga lalakeng takot harapin ang mga problema sa buhay, yon ang gay! :think:

pero sa totoo lang, di ko talaga sila gusto, nasasagwaan ako hehe:lol: mas ok sakin yung mga gays pero as much as possible nagpapakalalake sila.

okay, so we're done with the coming out process.

hearing the word gay, ano yung unang pumapasok sa utak niyo?:think:

kadiri, baboy at manyakis:lol:!(isamam mo na yung mga feeling iga nan nambubugbog ng babae.. gay din sila eh).... may mga kaibigan akong bading na matitino naman kaso majority ng bading nakakadiri talaga nag pinagagawa.. pwede naman kasi maging bading basta wah lang makikipag do sa lalake:lol:

maingay na masaya na makulit with a picture coming into my mind ng isang cross dresser na gay na naka red high heels at nasa labas ng isang parlor.. (i think dahil nung bata ako may kapit bahay kaming parlor at yun yung pumapasok sa mind ko until now) haha sorry naman pero yung image na ganun tlga eh... :slap:

okay, so we're done with the coming out process.

hearing the word gay, ano yung unang pumapasok sa utak niyo?:think:

sakin FUN FUN FUN..
masaya.. makulit.. masarap ka usap, biruan, nakakalurky.. :lol:

madami kc ko close friends na gay.. may bestfriend pa ko na gay..
masaya un lang.. sila kc ung mga tipong nagpapasaya sayo.. masarap ka biruan.. prangka.. and pagdating sa seryosong usapan sila naman ung nakikinig tpos magpapayo tpos papatawanin ka after..
they always reminds me, to take things easy.. pag may problem, relax muna.. breath and laugh para gumaan muna ung pakiramdam mo at makapagisip ka ng maayos..

lets face it meron parin na negative ung sasabhin when they hear the word "gay" pertaining to a person, but luckily most of my friends who is gay already accepted the fact that discrimination in regards to their gender, still present in our society.. same thing na meron rin naman tangap na sila..
maraming bagay na dapat iconsider when it comes to these issue.. we just have to respect each.. may mga reason kung bakit hindi parin tangap ng iba ang 3rd sex, principle or base on experience nila sa ibang bakla.. (alam ko rin naman na hindi rin lahat ng gay eh matino tulad ng mga kilala ko.. meron din naman bakla na mas lalaki pa kesa sa ibang straight na lalaki..)

its still boils down to just acknowledging the fact that 3rd sex do exist.. being civil doesn't mean you have to like the person.. its respecting them for them to respect you.. and its knowing that one doesn't pertain to all..


You dont need to like Them, They dont need to like You. You may like Them but You dont need to..

POV lang ko po

bading!

pero kelan ko lang nalaman na ang "gay" pala eh hindi lang pertaining sa lalaking binabae......pwede din palang babae nilalake??? tma ba yun??

ok lang tlga yung nasa third sex as long as sna wag pa sila mas malala....kunwari bading sobra kalandian at kagrabe kung manalait..alam mo na...ako kasi nakaranas na ng gnun na yung bakla eh sobra sobra tlga, sa sobrang galit ko hinamon ko ng suntukan hehehe buti nlang hindi pumayag kasi mas malaki pa katawan nya sakin....:lol:..pero meron din akong mga naging kaibigan na gay at nakasundo ko sila...

yup tama ka jan, ung term na "gay" eh gingamit din sa mga babae lalo na sa western countries. eh dito lang naman kasi sa pilipinas kapag sinabi mo na gay eh bakla na ang alam nila.

may difference din pala ang BAKLA sa BADING. haha...

BAKLA + may DATING = BADING

BAKLA = walang dating.

:rofl:

yup, siguro nasa tao lang talaga un, wala sa gender, kung marunong ka makisama then walang problem. hehe.

gay?

:kill: :kill: :kill: :kill: GAYS!!!

yung totoong gays ha, as in yung mga lalakeng takot harapin ang mga problema sa buhay, yon ang gay! :think:

pero sa totoo lang, di ko talaga sila gusto, nasasagwaan ako hehe:lol: mas ok sakin yung mga gays pero as much as possible nagpapakalalake sila.

haha... un mga emoticons mo binabaril ang mga GAYS. haha!!!

umm yung iba naman nagpapakalalake na lalo na sa ngayon. hehe..

sakin FUN FUN FUN..
masaya.. makulit.. masarap ka usap, biruan, nakakalurky.. :lol:

madami kc ko close friends na gay.. may bestfriend pa ko na gay..
masaya un lang.. sila kc ung mga tipong nagpapasaya sayo.. masarap ka biruan.. prangka.. and pagdating sa seryosong usapan sila naman ung nakikinig tpos magpapayo tpos papatawanin ka after..
they always reminds me, to take things easy.. pag may problem, relax muna.. breath and laugh para gumaan muna ung pakiramdam mo at makapagisip ka ng maayos..

lets face it meron parin na negative ung sasabhin when they hear the word "gay" pertaining to a person, but luckily most of my friends who is gay already accepted the fact that discrimination in regards to their gender, still present in our society.. same thing na meron rin naman tangap na sila..
maraming bagay na dapat iconsider when it comes to these issue.. we just have to respect each.. may mga reason kung bakit hindi parin tangap ng iba ang 3rd sex, principle or base on experience nila sa ibang bakla.. (alam ko rin naman na hindi rin lahat ng gay eh matino tulad ng mga kilala ko.. meron din naman bakla na mas lalaki pa kesa sa ibang straight na lalaki..)

its still boils down to just acknowledging the fact that 3rd sex do exist.. being civil doesn't mean you have to like the person.. its respecting them for them to respect you.. and its knowing that one doesn't pertain to all..


You dont need to like Them, They dont need to like You. You may like Them but You dont need to..

POV lang ko po

wow ang ganda naman ng sinabi mo. ummm.... napapaisip tuloy ako.... :praise:

kadiri, baboy at manyakis:lol:!(isamam mo na yung mga feeling iga nan nambubugbog ng babae.. gay din sila eh).... may mga kaibigan akong bading na matitino naman kaso majority ng bading nakakadiri talaga nag pinagagawa.. pwede naman kasi maging bading basta wah lang makikipag do sa lalake:lol:

hahahaha.. sa sagot mo kapag siguro sinunod nila yun, mababawasan ang bading lalong lalo na sa pilipinas... haha. mamamatay sila. :lmao:

maingay na masaya na makulit with a picture coming into my mind ng isang cross dresser na gay na naka red high heels at nasa labas ng isang parlor.. (i think dahil nung bata ako may kapit bahay kaming parlor at yun yung pumapasok sa mind ko until now) haha sorry naman pero yung image na ganun tlga eh... :slap:

yup, yan ang classic na image ng bading di ba? parlorista. pero, they are really funny kapag nakausap mo.

gays.. gays.. gays..

cguro di ka naman magagalit kung di maganda ang reaksyon ko noh?

from my religious orientation, i don't like them cuz homosexuality is immorality. im sorry. :noidea:

(ps. im not tryin to argue with anyone here. nagtanong lang po si thread starter.. :peace:)

wow ang ganda naman ng sinabi mo. ummm.... napapaisip tuloy ako.... :praise:

maganda ba? sinapian lng ako nung time nayan :lol: kidding.. ;)
ano naman naiisip mo? :think:

para sakin ok lang...... tama sla masaya,masarap kausap mga bading.. wag lang manyakis na bading hehehe..... beware cutie guys..... joke! seriously sakin ok lang if may bro. ako na bading mamahalin ko pa din sya bilang kapatid.. di dahil kadugo ko sya irerespeto ko pa din bilang tao, as long as wlang syang tatapakang iba tao wlang kaso dun.....

i have 4 boys. my husband is a law enforcer. we've discussed should one of the boys turn out to be gay. according to him babaliin daw nya lahat ng buto ng anak nya. but that doesn't change the fact na anak pa rin nya yun at tao pa rin yun na dapat i-respeto.so i told him this: I would rather have a gay son who's an achiever than having a straight son at pabigat sa lipunan. now choose...:D naintindihan naman nya ang point ko. basta no-no ang cross-dressing :slap: di ako payag dun :bawal: he can be gay basta magbihis ng tama at alang make-up.talo naman ako dun, di ako mahilig mag make-up e :lmao:

to be honest...ayoko sa sa gay people...but ano pa magagawa natin eh padami sila ng padami...:sigh: so wag lang nila ako guluhin ok na sakin...:D

:think: i don't see anything wrong with it as long as hindi naman sya nagdadala ng kahihiyan sa family. may mga gays naman na maganda ang ginagawa sa buhay nila but then again, he's a family member kaya there's nothing more to but to accept and just support him with what he wants to do with his life as long as tama ang mga decisions nya. :yes:

gays.. gays.. gays..

cguro di ka naman magagalit kung di maganda ang reaksyon ko noh?

from my religious orientation, i don't like them cuz homosexuality is immorality. im sorry. :noidea:

(ps. im not tryin to argue with anyone here. nagtanong lang po si thread starter.. :peace:)

hehe wala naman prob yung sagot mo eh... tsaka we have different POVs kaya it's ok..:salute:

i have 4 boys. my husband is a law enforcer. we've discussed should one of the boys turn out to be gay. according to him babaliin daw nya lahat ng buto ng anak nya. but that doesn't change the fact na anak pa rin nya yun at tao pa rin yun na dapat i-respeto.so i told him this: I would rather have a gay son who's an achiever than having a straight son at pabigat sa lipunan. now choose...:D naintindihan naman nya ang point ko. basta no-no ang cross-dressing :slap: di ako payag dun :bawal: he can be gay basta magbihis ng tama at alang make-up.talo naman ako dun, di ako mahilig mag make-up e :lmao:

wow, ang galing naman nun. i really appreciate what you said. i think yun nga ung magandang gawin, pag-usapan ng parents kung pano nila tatanggapin yung anak nila na gay. tsaka i think the best pa rin yung family ang unang tatanggap sa gay family member, at least may support from the family. though comes with some limitations talaga. i think nasa upbringing din ng parents kung ano ang magiging outcome ng anak. so it is a big factor talaga. parang sa stage ng Identity VS Role Confusion, kapag ndi pala naresolve to sa development stage ng isang tao eh magiging dysfunctional sila in some ways. :thumbsup: i

:think: i don't see anything wrong with it as long as hindi naman sya nagdadala ng kahihiyan sa family. may mga gays naman na maganda ang ginagawa sa buhay nila but then again, he's a family member kaya there's nothing more to but to accept and just support him with what he wants to do with his life as long as tama ang mga decisions nya. :yes:

very well said!

nakakarelate ako sa sinabi mo about sa kahihiyan sa family..

well one of my uncles told me na kahihiyan daw ang may gay sa family... well, that how he see gay people and i'll prove him wrong. :beat:

very well said!

nakakarelate ako sa sinabi mo about sa kahihiyan sa family..

well one of my uncles told me na kahihiyan daw ang may gay sa family... well, that how he see gay people and i'll prove him wrong. :beat:


THATS THE SPIRIT :alright: di naman salot ang pagka gay or lesbian na may malinis na intensyon at puso...... ang kahiya hiya e yung mga namumuno sa gobyerno natin diba.......

very well said!

nakakarelate ako sa sinabi mo about sa kahihiyan sa family..

well one of my uncles told me na kahihiyan daw ang may gay sa family... well, that how he see gay people and i'll prove him wrong. :beat:

:alright: that's good! ang dami-daming mga gay people ang achievers no? sometimes nga mas nag-eexcel sila kesa sa mga straight people. :yes:

ako, tested and proven na. i know a lot of gay people and one thing lang talaga ang hanga ako.. they're really CREATIVE. :salute: galing!

friend, don't worry about what people think of you, what matters is what GOD thinks of you. if you use the life He gave you in good ways, and you do something worthwhile, there's nothing to worry. :approve:

THATS THE SPIRIT :alright: di naman salot ang pagka gay or lesbian na may malinis na intensyon at puso...... ang kahiya hiya e yung mga namumuno sa gobyerno natin diba.......

yup i agree with you.. :excited:

yup.... i just don't mind other people kung ano man ang sinasabi nila. kunyari na lang bingi ako. haha. what they say is not that important. and i know myself better... ;)

it's just so sad that other people judge you easily without knowing you first. they over generalize and think stereotypically... but that's life, i think the best thing you can do is to prove them that everyone is special, no labels and gray areas.

right.. tama un, sabi ko nga sayo diba.. You don't have to like them, they dont have to like you.. You my like them but you don't need to..
live you life as you desire.. we can't please everybody but and we dont have to..
just keep in mind na people succeed, once they're happy on what they are doing and what they have.. :beat:
and halos lahat ng gay people na kakilala ko eh successful na.. taray nga eh.. :lol:

sad lng kc meron pa mga tao na instead maging supportive sa ibang tao eh.. ginajudge kagad or minamaliit ung kakayanan.. pro sabi mo nga thats life.. instead na magpaapekto ka sa ganon, un ung gamitin mo para maprove mo sa kanila na mali sila.. ;)

-- uso nmn na yun ngaun..


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-- additional lang.. halos lahat ng gays na kilala q..ee matatalino.. cla pa nga ang mas maraming contributions sa society

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-- uso nmn na yun ngaun..


:thumbsup:

-- additional lang.. halos lahat ng gays na kilala q..ee matatalino.. cla pa nga ang mas maraming contributions sa society

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you are super right! thanks for giving a comment!

salitang gay?!okey lang kasi ndi pa ko pinapanganak sa mundo meron ng gay diba? iba-iba lang talaga yung pag tanggap nila merong okey lang sa ibang tao meron namang ndi agree sa mga bading! marami kaya akong mga kakilalang gay....but am very proud of them kasi sila yung madalas na makatulong sa family nila, ang dami kayang successful na bading!:lol:

alitang gay?!okey lang kasi ndi pa ko pinapanganak sa mundo meron ng gay diba?

super true. nasa history yan. hehe.

sa akin okay lang, mas okay pala, 2 n 1 pa :giggle: wala naman sigurong masama doon, as long as hindi sya gagawa ng kalokohan :naughty:


wag lang pala sana yung papa ko ang gay :D baka di ko matanggap agad.