When we meet the right person to love, when
we're
at the right place at the right time, that's
chance.

When you meet someone you're attracted to,
that's
not a choice. That's chance.

Being caught up in a moment (and there are a lot
of couples who get together because of this) is
not a choice. That's also a chance.

The difference is what happens afterwards. When
will you take that infatuation, that crush, that
mind-blowing attraction to the next level? That's
when all sanity goes back, you sit down and
contemplate whether you want to make this into a
concrete relationship or just a fling. If you
decide to love a person, even with his faults,
that's not a chance. That's choice.

When you choose to be with a person, no matter
what, that's choice. Even if you know there are
many people out there who are more attractive,
smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you
decide to love your mate just the same, that's
choice.

Infatuation, crushes, and attraction come to us
by chance. But true love that lasts is truly a
choice. A choice that we make. Regarding
soulmates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I
believe is so true about this: "Fate brings you
together, but it's still up to you to make it
happen.
"I believe that soulmates do exist, that there is
truly someone made for you. But it's still up to
you to make the choice if you're going to do
something about it or not. We may meet our
soulmates by chance, but loving and staying with
our soulmate is still a choice we have to make.
We came to the world not by finding someone
perfect to love, BUT to learn how to love an
imperfect person perfectly.

E kaw? San ka jan.... sa chance or sa choice?

life is a matter of choice but we can sometimes hold on to chances...get it?get it?

life is a matter of choice but we can sometimes hold on to chances...get it?get it?

got it.... :salute:

Life's a choice we all have. There may be things that we say we never really chose but then come to think of it if you did not let it it wouldn't happen at all. Have anyoere watched the movie-THE SECRET. That'll answer this thread.

I have a question....nag let go ako ng person in the past...pero in my dreams nakikita ko pa rin siya. Pinilit ko siyang ibaon sa limot even my feeling for that person dahil di nga puede. Til such time i got married. Sabi ko sa mga kaibigan ko and even to myself..nalampasan ko na yon..pero last nyt napanaginipan ko na naman siya. Nasa UK na siya..at alam kong masaya na siya. Maybe married na din. Pero bkit ganon, hina haunt pa rin ako sa dreams....its not because i have problems from time to time with my husband, it has nothing to do with my relationship with him. It's just my feelings. Your opinions please.

maybe because u still have unfinish business with him...may closure ba ung naging past nyo? or maybe because u didn't really let go of the past...baka sa isip mo u had let go but in ur heart nandun pa rin sya...believe me im still there...same ground!

When we meet the right person to love, when
we're
at the right place at the right time, that's
chance.

When you meet someone you're attracted to,
that's
not a choice. That's chance


we always have a chance but it's is our choice if we will grab that chance and change our life forever...
choices...we don't have any idea if it's for our own good or make our life worst till we experience the consequences of our own decision....

I have a question....nag let go ako ng person in the past...pero in my dreams nakikita ko pa rin siya. Pinilit ko siyang ibaon sa limot even my feeling for that person dahil di nga puede. Til such time i got married. Sabi ko sa mga kaibigan ko and even to myself..nalampasan ko na yon..pero last nyt napanaginipan ko na naman siya. Nasa UK na siya..at alam kong masaya na siya. Maybe married na din. Pero bkit ganon, hina haunt pa rin ako sa dreams....its not because i have problems from time to time with my husband, it has nothing to do with my relationship with him. It's just my feelings. Your opinions please.
Dreams are nothing but dreams. You cant really use it as a basis to justify something. We even dreamed of our friends or close relatives sometimes. Such dreams only remind us of the memories of those people that are kept within the depths of our mind. Unfortunately or fortunately, only the good memories are showed on our dreams. Well, that's the nature of a dream. Otherwise, it would be a nightmare and not a dream. ;)

Hmmm, feeling ko tuloy ako si Joe D' Mango o kaya si Jojo Aquin (tama ba? yun ba yung astrologer? :D).

you're absolutely right Lance...even me i always dream of my childhood days with my old pals...maybe because i miss them alot...i miss my life before in the philippines! i always dream of my family when we were still complete and together! but those were just simply a dream...can't happen in reality!!! just a sweet memories from the past :weep:

waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa sobrang tinamaan ako jan huhuhu

its a matter of choice kc kahit my chance na dumating kung wala ka pa rin choice e d choice pa rin!

Thanks for your opinion, sana may iba pa kong marinig.

hmhmmm...agree ako dun sa mga sinabi ni mommy jeng...

hmhmmm...agree ako dun sa mga sinabi ni mommy jeng...


alin ang agree ka? pansin ko laging bitin ang posts mo.

senya...masyado kasi marami iniisip...super busy pa...buti nga nakakaonline p ko..

nice post! This is what I need right now....

Thanks Sir Lance1 :salute:

ang prob dun if you really bothered by that dream then there is something within you na still has missing. sabi nga ni JENG baka closure ang kelangan pero nasassayo pa rin yun.

Ang dreams po could be interpreted in many ways depending on what is the basis and kung anu man ang belief ng isang tao. it is how we managed to believe what is pointing out in us. Whatever we believe in our dreams and tend to aknowledge it by paying attention and solving makes yourself satisfied and fulfilled. :D