Is der a way to ask a girl personally(not thru txt) if she has a bf in a non obvious way or in a non malicious way?

paki edit po yung question? naka2lito kasi nakalgay sa question mu is "if she has a gf" tas sa inbox mu "if she has a bf" anu po ba talaga? hehe :beat:

Ok na naedit na po..

:nice: .. i think for me, there's nothing better than ask me straight, but immediately break the ice .. :lol: ..just a casual conversation will do... it wont give a hint though ... its how and way you ask her ...like the way you approach the girl in a friendly way .... :)

i agree..just ask casually without letting the girl feel akward or something :wink:

Example: Angie may BF kana? :hat: :lmao:

ahahahaha..nice one marky!!!:lol: yeah,meron nah..why?:noidea:

Ok lang po un ganun basta wag seryoso dating? Btw po,di po ba mag iicp un girl na may gus2 aq sa kanya pag ganun lang po ginawa ko?

i dont think she would ... but usually when a guy ask a gurl? we would think nga ... but, if you start in a conversation in a way na di masyado pansin yung pag ask mo ..like a sort of casual comments,adlibs, mga ganun...just dont ask her when the topic of the conversation is about getting to know her or you .. i would definitely think of that ... " napanood mo na ba yung transformer? kasama mo bf mo? ako di pa eh ...maganda daw yun " pag yun sagot niya, " di pa..aka ako bf noh ..." .... thats it..mga ganung tipo ba..di masyado halata :lol:

Aztig naman po,he3..Try ko po pag nakita ko xa. Mjo torpe kasi po ako weh,ha3. Saka mejo kakatakot po magtanung,nainluv ako dati sa isang girl,parang xa n un katuparan ng drimz ko,un nga lang,may bf na pala,hu3

:lol: ayun! may hidden desire ka pala ... cge, try to be friendly na di pilit ha..wag na wag ka presko ... :salute: Good luck ..balitaan mo kami ha pag natanong mo na sa kanya ...

nice marky... hehehe :lol:

mas mahirap tanggapin un sagot na.. meron na meron nga kong baby eh.. :p

Ok lang po un ganun basta wag seryoso dating? Btw po,di po ba mag iicp un girl na may gus2 aq sa kanya pag ganun lang po ginawa ko?

ganun din iicipin nya kung tatanungin mo me bf cya..

diskarte mo na yan tol, kung talagang inlove ka sa kanya at gusto mong maghintay, try to make her as a friend period... and wag mo na tanungin kung me bf cya o wala, just make a nice fren only... wag ka mekekealam sa usapin problem nila magbf, pwera lang kung humihingi cya ng opinion sau and be nice to her .. na wag naman un advice na makakacra sa relationship nila :p ...

and one day you'll see, if she needs u ... u are always there..

pero kung ako ang magtatanong... cympre tatanungin ko na kung me bf cya para wlang hassle ika nga.. ganun din naman hinahanap mo dba? para hanap ka ulet ng available talaga. :p

-Lancelot

Pwede ding "May lakad ba kayo ng BF mo?"

Tapos sabay, "Baka kasi gusto mong mag-kape muna..."

heheheheh...

hehe :lol: enjoy nman to

:lol: ayun! may hidden desire ka pala ... cge, try to be friendly na di pilit ha..wag na wag ka presko ... :salute: Good luck ..balitaan mo kami ha pag natanong mo na sa kanya ...
he3, mejo nga po,lihim na pagtingin, ha3. badtrip po di ko sya nakita kanina. di po ako presko, torpe nga po weh, ha3.

nice marky... hehehe :lol:

mas mahirap tanggapin un sagot na.. meron na meron nga kong baby eh.. :p



ganun din iicipin nya kung tatanungin mo me bf cya..

diskarte mo na yan tol, kung talagang inlove ka sa kanya at gusto mong maghintay, try to make her as a friend period... and wag mo na tanungin kung me bf cya o wala, just make a nice fren only... wag ka mekekealam sa usapin problem nila magbf, pwera lang kung humihingi cya ng opinion sau and be nice to her .. na wag naman un advice na makakacra sa relationship nila :p ...

and one day you'll see, if she needs u ... u are always there..

pero kung ako ang magtatanong... cympre tatanungin ko na kung me bf cya para wlang hassle ika nga.. ganun din naman hinahanap mo dba? para hanap ka ulet ng available talaga. :p

-Lancelot

mas mahirap nga po un, ha3. actually po, magkaiba po tau ng pananaw about sa friendship at love, he3.. ginawa ko na po dati un maghintay sa closest friend ko na nainlove ako kinalaunan, nung una ko syang ligawan may gusto siyang iba kaya sabi ko mag-iintay ako. Di sya gusto nung guy at nasaktan siya kaya hinintay kong maghilom muna siya. Tapos biglang may nanligaw sa kanya, MU na sila halos tapos nag-away. Nagtry ulit ako pero sabi nya di nya ko kaya mahalin saka friend lang talaga ako para sa kanya.

Pwede ding "May lakad ba kayo ng BF mo?"

Tapos sabay, "Baka kasi gusto mong mag-kape muna..."

heheheheh...

Astig po un a, he3

kelangan COOL "NENE,MAY BOYFRIEND KA NA?"pag sinabi niya wala..sabihin mo "AH BAKIT?PUWEDE KO BA MAKUHA NUMBER MO?":lol:..--->Joke lang to..kelangan tlga serious tska may respect at mas maganda kung relax lang,,diretsuhin mo siyang tanungin..ayun :D

Tatanungin ko po kaso next wik ko pa xa makikita

I think it may be best to ask her directly and in person. Girls like it direct, honest and sincere.

i dont think she would ... but usually when a guy ask a gurl? we would think nga ... but, if you start in a conversation in a way na di masyado pansin yung pag ask mo ..like a sort of casual comments,adlibs, mga ganun...just dont ask her when the topic of the conversation is about getting to know her or you .. i would definitely think of that ... " napanood mo na ba yung transformer? kasama mo bf mo? ako di pa eh ...maganda daw yun " pag yun sagot niya, " di pa..aka ako bf noh ..." .... thats it..mga ganung tipo ba..di masyado halata :lol:

hekhek galing talaga ni crush algie :cloud9:

haha..... madali lang yan...the simplest way to get a gurl's heart is to get friends w/ her. Nd u can ask anyting u want. easy to say though!

haha..... madali lang yan...the simplest way to get a gurl's heart is to get friends w/ her. Nd u can ask anyting u want. easy to say though!

epektib pa rin po ba un kakaibiganin muna? Dami ko na po nakita sitwasyon na kinaibigan tapos hanggang dun lang, laging 'sori, kaibigan lang kaw para sa kin weh'

epektib pa rin po ba un kakaibiganin muna? Dami ko na po nakita sitwasyon na kinaibigan tapos hanggang dun lang, laging 'sori, kaibigan lang kaw para sa kin weh'

depende naman kc sa diskarte yan...iba2x kc mga taste ng babae... 1 ting 4 sure if like ka tlga ng gurl khit anung gwin mo, u wont be sory... friendship is stil the best way in any kind of relationship. if may motive ka pla, eh di...."timing is evryting!" i min bka its not the ryt time pa db?

epektib pa rin po ba un kakaibiganin muna? Dami ko na po nakita sitwasyon na kinaibigan tapos hanggang dun lang, laging 'sori, kaibigan lang kaw para sa kin weh'

Kaibiganin mo man sya o hinde, kung talagang hinde interesado yung girl, wala tayong magagawa.

Yun nga lang, being friends first, you have a higher chance of winning her heart. But you need time and effort for that. Is she worth it? Ikaw na bahala magdecide.

Another good thing about being friends first, is that you get to know her better. Malay mo, malakas pala sya humilik. At least nalaman mo ng maaga. Things like that. Knowing her early on saves time and heartache.

Kaibiganin mo man sya o hinde, kung talagang hinde interesado yung girl, wala tayong magagawa.

Yun nga lang, being friends first, you have a higher chance of winning her heart. But you need time and effort for that. Is she worth it? Ikaw na bahala magdecide.

Another good thing about being friends first, is that you get to know her better. Malay mo, malakas pala sya humilik. At least nalaman mo ng maaga. Things like that. Knowing her early on saves time and heartache.

korek! haha

Tama na kailangan kilala mo un love mo. And agree ako,kaibiganin o ndi,kung ayaw talaga sau,la magagawa. But then,i don't believe dat knowing someone requires friendship. Acquaintances would do,i.e. get to know. Coz pag naging friends na, u'll just be a part of dat person's friends. U wud be treated equally w/ her oder friends. Pero iba pag love. U aspire to be loved > her friends. Bsyds, U as a friend would be sumwhat useless in courtship coz u wud be a different person. D girl wud also be sumwhat a stranger to u. May malixa na kz. So u wud have to acquaint again 4 u r both different. Y nt acquaint den court?

naku! if i were 2 ask....kung magpapakita ka ng motive sa gurl... mrramdamn mrin nman yan if may gus2 xa or ndi...ang iba nga jn..khit ndi pa cla frends...court agad! ayun! busted! haha...

naku! if i were 2 ask....kung magpapakita ka ng motive sa gurl... mrramdamn mrin nman yan if may gus2 xa or ndi...ang iba nga jn..khit ndi pa cla frends...court agad! ayun! busted! haha...

Umilag ako kaso tinamaan pa rin. Aray!:boxer:

@ miah_tere
i stil believe better ang acquaintance den courtship. Anyway,reaction lang to ur last post.Sabi u pag nagpakita motive,malalamin naming guys kung may gus2 kami nung girl. I beg to disagree, mas mahirap po malaman kasi kadalasan sa girl,nagpapakipot muna kahit konti. Pabago-bago rin ng icp kadalasan ang mga girls.

@ miah_tere
i stil believe better ang acquaintance den courtship. Anyway,reaction lang to ur last post.Sabi u pag nagpakita motive,malalamin naming guys kung may gus2 kami nung girl. I beg to disagree, mas mahirap po malaman kasi kadalasan sa girl,nagpapakipot muna kahit konti. Pabago-bago rin ng icp kadalasan ang mga girls.

tama krin nman dknight...may twag gud jan.. "testing the water!" hehe.. i min...gurls do like puting guys on the test.. kya mhirap splika ang mga gurls..but 1 tings 4 sure.. as long as youre always der sa gurl.. probably, jan nffall ang mga gurls. pwamis! kunwari manhid but deep insyd...alam na!

Umilag ako kaso tinamaan pa rin. Aray!:boxer:

tnmaan tlga? hehehe...

Di lang mahirap,napakahirap maintindihan girls,wahaha. May nabasa ako sa txt dati na pag sabi ng girl weh no,yes daw un,22o ba un?

Di lang mahirap,napakahirap maintindihan girls,wahaha. May nabasa ako sa txt dati na pag sabi ng girl weh no,yes daw un,22o ba un?

*This might be useful to the guys getting to know their ladies.
*This might differ from woman to woman. This is only based on experience

A Man's Guide to Female Common Answers

LEGEND: What she says = What she really mean

I need = I want
Its your decision = The correct decision should be obvious by now
Do what you want = You'll pay for it later
We need to talk = I need to complain of something
Sure...go ahead = I dont want you to
Im not upset = Of course Im upset! You moron!
You're...so manly = You need to shave and you sweat a lot
Im not emotional and Im not over-reacting = Ive got my period
Be romantic, turn off the lights = I dont want you to see my flabby thighs
This kitchen is so inconvenient = Remodel the house
I want new curtains = and carpeting, furniture and wallpapers.
How much do you love me = I did something today that you're really not going to like
I'll be ready in a minute = You can watch the 40-minute game
Is my butt fat? = Tell me Im beautiful
You need to learn to communicate = Just agree with me
Are you listening to me = Too late, you're dead
Yes = No
No = No
Do you like this recipe = Its easy to cook so you'll better get used to this

You ask her "What's Wrong?"

The same old thing = Nothing
Nothing = Everything
Everything = My PMS is acting up
Nothing, really = its just that you're bugging me
I dont want to talk about it = leave me alone and come back later, and bring something sweet.

:lol:

*This might be useful to the guys getting to know their ladies.
*This might differ from woman to woman. This is only based on experience

A Man's Guide to Female Common Answers

LEGEND: What she says = What she really mean

I need = I want
Its your decision = The correct decision should be obvious by now
Do what you want = You'll pay for it later
We need to talk = I need to complain of something
Sure...go ahead = I dont want you to
Im not upset = Of course Im upset! You moron!
You're...so manly = You need to shave and you sweat a lot
Im not emotional and Im not over-reacting = Ive got my period
Be romantic, turn off the lights = I dont want you to see my flabby thighs
This kitchen is so inconvenient = Remodel the house
I want new curtains = and carpeting, furniture and wallpapers.
How much do you love me = I did something today that you're really not going to like
I'll be ready in a minute = You can watch the 40-minute game
Is my butt fat? = Tell me Im beautiful
You need to learn to communicate = Just agree with me
Are you listening to me = Too late, you're dead
Yes = No
No = No
Do you like this recipe = Its easy to cook so you'll better get used to this

You ask her "What's Wrong?"

The same old thing = Nothing
Nothing = Everything
Everything = My PMS is acting up
Nothing, really = its just that you're bugging me
I dont want to talk about it = leave me alone and come back later, and bring something sweet.

:lol:



wow! san mo nkuha yan shinigami? hehe.... true bya yan! guys lng kc are so insensitive...just read it b/n the lines. yan gus2 ng mga gurls ipahiwatig! hehe:thumbsup:

Di lang mahirap,napakahirap maintindihan girls,wahaha. May nabasa ako sa txt dati na pag sabi ng girl weh no,yes daw un,22o ba un?

lam mo mniwla ka ke shinigami... dats 95% true, dknight! khit ppano may ego rin nman ang gurls, kya gngawa nla yan. hehe...

san mo nkuha yan shinigami?

Base lang po sa naipong experiences at naipong mga sampal sa mukha, because of wrong interpretations. Hehehe. :chair:

Base lang po sa naipong experiences at naipong mga sampal sa mukha, because of wrong interpretations. Hehehe. :chair:

:lmao: wel, cguwo expert kna ngaun sa mga gurlz shinigami...:rofl:

:lmao: wel, cguwo expert kna ngaun sa mga gurlz shinigami...:rofl:

Hindi pa rin e. Kumapal lang yung kalyo sa mukha at mas expert na ako ngaun umilag sa mga sampal! :dance:

Hindi pa rin e. Kumapal lang yung kalyo sa mukha at mas expert na ako ngaun umilag sa mga sampal! :dance:

wow! anu na kya ang itsura m0 ngaun? madalas pla kaw masampal ha? :rofl:

naku d na uso paliguligoy ngayon ask her straight... ganun me e talk to her with ur heart not wid ur brain hehhe un lang ung saken

i don't nid to ask na po. Alam ko na po e

naku d na uso paliguligoy ngayon ask her straight... ganun me e talk to her with ur heart not wid ur brain hehhe un lang ung saken

hmmm.gwain yan ng mga hunk.... :clap:

kung ako ikaw ganito sasabihin ko: ang ganda mo swerte talaga ng bf mo noh!..mas gusto ng mga babae pag tatawagin sila ng maganda. kung wala cya bf of course sasabihin nya wala

why dont you try daanin sa biro or segway like "so kumusta namn kayo ng boyfriend mo?" in that way di masyadong obvious na you just want to know kung meron sya boyfriend or what...tama ba???:peace:

and yeah! its true ganyan dati ang diskarte ko sa gf ko nung hindi pa kami! I just told her na, "Hmm... Baka naman magalit ang bf mo dahil katext mo ako imbis na cya?" then she said, "huh? wala ahh.. wala me bf." then biglang napa ganito ako:happy:. bwahaha

question lang: ung aayain mo bang gurl e gusto mo pro may bf n? kc kung gusto mo ung gurl n un at may bf n sya, y bother asking her,kung taken n sya, db unappropriate naman ata un, pro kung friendly friendly lang walng masama....

question lang: ung aayain mo bang gurl e gusto mo pro may bf n? kc kung gusto mo ung gurl n un at may bf n sya, y bother asking her,kung taken n sya, db unappropriate naman ata un, pro kung friendly friendly lang walng masama....

yah tama ka nga kuya. At saka marami pang babae dyan.:upset::upset::upset:

goodluck nalang...kaya mo yan...act natural lang wag kang kakabahan :giggle: pra di xa mailang

just be yourself.. tska wag kang matakot.. di naman siya aswang o aso na pwede ka kagatin.. wala naman mawawala sayo.. pag sinabi niya na meron.. eh di meron.. basta maging totoo ka lang :D

Dapat dyan two birds in one shot. Ask mo di kaya magalit ang boyfriend mo pag niligawan kita. Depende sa sagot niya malalaman mo na kung may bf na siya at kung may pagasa ka.Basta di pa kasal try ka lang kesa maburo naman yang feelings mo.

honga! dami p babae dyan, lam mo pre pra malaman mo kung may bf yung type mong babae, spy mo malalaman mo naman kung may sumusundo dyan o wla, hehehe

ganito sabihin mo......

kapag nahuli mo siyang tumingin sayo....

sabihin mo agad na type ka niya at gusto ka niyang maging bf.

ewan ko lang kung di siya mahingan syo... pero matatawa naman.

May nag aalaga naba sau? yan simple lang dba?

Use tact;) Then with sincerity and your most sincere voice pop the bomb. It's just that simple ewan ko lang sa mga torpe. Usually I have no trouble asking that question. If friend mo yung girl the better feel at ease na sya sayo.

Type mo ba yung girl or me balak ka pa lang dumiskarte?

aun. lumabas din torpe ka din heheheheh.

marami ako kilala na ganyan katulad nio. ahihihihihihi

ok lang naman yan eh. ganito gawin mu. uhm. magtanong ka.
un lang. kasi marunong ang nagttanong

ok ah

may boyfriend ka na?

if sinabi nyang meron... eto sabihin mo

gusto mo ng MANFRIEND... matured ako hehe :lmao:

ayuz mga diskartre ah! kakaaliw!:thumbsup:

go go go guys!!! show your style!!! ahihihi!!! :p:p:p

try saying dis to her: ui, ok lang bah na kinakausap kita ngaun? bka magalit ang bf mo ha..:giggle: its either she'll answer na "di un magagalit"(which means meron nga :slap:) or she'll answer:" ui, la po akong bf.."(of course, it means wala xang bf:yipee:)

may friendster ka ba? how can be be lovers if wer not friendsters...
joke3x may bf ka na ba? how can we be lovers... if... meron? :slap:

tapos humalakhak defiantly... tas tingin sa malayo...