View Full Version : Realizations in Love & in Life...


karead
20th Jul '08 Sun, 21:55
- It's hard to wait for someone who has no plan to come back, hard to understand someone who never explains. But, it's harder to live without that someone, who make hard things worthy.

- Let us not miss the chance of showing love today to the people who really matter to us so that when we wake up and open our eyes tomorrow, we will never regret yesterday when we have found love and lost it because we were too selfish and afraid to show it.

- In any attachment, there is an emotional investment. That's why it is harder to let go. Think about it: It's definitely time to move on when you do not feel accepted or appreciated.

- I always thought that love can melt away the pain no matter how painful it is. But now, I realized that pain can melt the love no matter how great love is.

- There is life even after several failed relationships. There is hope even if all our efforts in finding the right person had failed. Be strong in your faith because good things come to those who believe and those who start to be happy in spite of the pain they keep in their hearts.

- We shouldn't wait for tomorrow to let someone know that we care for him/her. If we pass on love today, there may never be a next day to show it and if there is still a next day, then there may never be someone to show it to.

- Always remember that real love should bring us happiness and a reassuring sense of security. We should not count on others for our happiness. If we do, then we would forever be prisoners of the fear of being alone.

Midori
21st Jul '08 Mon, 08:23
Let us not miss the chance of showing love today to the people who really matter to us so that when we wake up and open our eyes tomorrow, we will never regret yesterday when we have found love and lost it because we were too selfish and afraid to show it.


:sigh: if you love someone say it out loud, or else the moment just passes you by...

We shouldn't wait for tomorrow to let someone know that we care for him/her. If we pass on love today, there may never be a next day to show it and if there is still a next day, then there may never be someone to show it to.


:sigh: very sad, because when i did this, i lost him. maybe he was too scared to care. or maybe he doesn't feel the same way. nevertheless, he's gone. :sigh:

karead
21st Jul '08 Mon, 14:30
- Always be yourself. Take away all the pretentions you have in your life. Remember that we can only be truly happy when we are at peace with our inner selves and when we are in harmony with the people we love and with the people who loves us.

- When you want someone who can never be yours, it only gives you pain, that's why we must be careful in longing for someone because the pain is unbearable to take especially when you're longing too much for nothing at all.

- Don't focus on what you lost, but what remains. Don't focus on the pain, but how the pain shaped you. Don't focus on the failure, but on the greatest lessons the failure taught you.

- Always remember that true love isn't based on what we expect to get in return. True love has no conditions. If someone is truly meant for you, that person will return the love that you've given and make your dreams a reality.

- No one in this world can dictate to you where you can be happy. If you know where and what it is, go for it! But always remember, happiness comes from within, not from someone else.

- There is no use standing still and waiting for someone who has left you behind. You have to move on and focus on what you've been blessed with today. Only when you stop looking back can you look forward to a future where your heart will find a place to stay.

- Go for the one one who loves you, not only for the one you love. It's never wrong to love a person who belongs to someone else but, it's always better to love someone who could love you in return.

- In the maze of love, try not to lose yourself so that when love is no longer willing to stay, you will still have the greatest possession and gift that no one could take away... yourself.

- Heartaches could last as long as you let it. It would tear as deep as allow it to. But, the test isn't how soon you'll forget. It is how you were able to heal and learn.