Envy - noun. painful or resentful awareness of an advantage enjoyed by another joined with a desire to possess the same advantage; an object of envious notice or feeling. That's how the dictionary would define it. But most often than not this word wreaks havoc to most if not all relationships that exist on earth known to men. Friend - noun. one attached to another by affection or esteem; a favored companion; one that is not hostile. Homo sapiens define it as one who we can turn to in times of trouble; shoulder to cry on; with you through thick or thin. But a friend poisoned by envy is a different story. It would be okay if the envy will be used constructively; posing as a challenge to the envious party. But it indeed played a devious role when the friend becomes a back stabber. The friend-now-back stabber will do everything he/she can in his/her power to destroy the envied party.

Once a valued friendship goes down the drain or see it go to waste we can't help but sigh or cry or we're so flabberghasted that we just can't find the right words to describe what we feel. Then there's this feeling that we just couldn't accept the fact that a trusted friend back stabbed us and we're so mad we'd rather not talk to that person than hurl hurtful words at them or worse, spit it at their faces.

Why can't people be civilized enough to just go out in the open and say that they can't take your guts anymore and decided to cease to be a friend? Why do these back stabbers have to resort to something as harsh as this just to be even with those they envy when we didn't tell them to be envious in the first place? I guess the answer to that is right under my nose. Balance. Good and bad. Black and white. Up and down. Left and right. The list goes on. One will not exist without the other.

To those who are compelled to be back stabbers: don't even think of becoming one of the low-life-scum-of-the-earth homo sapien. Joining the force will not do you any good! And to those envied....GOOD JOB AND CARRY ON!

thanks alot sultry:smack:...we both know the purpose of this:giggle:

you're always welcome jeng :wink:

backstabbing...nangyayari naman yan khit di sa magkaibigan pero hindi talaga maganda kung sa magkaibigan pa. Alm mo na, inggitan, insecure, comparing each other, bakit di na lang tanggapin na may kanya kanyang kakayahan ang bawat tao.

ur absolutely right lovely pero ganyan talaga...reality is meron mga taong di makontento kung ano meron sila at ano lang ang kaya nilang gawin...they exceed to their limits to the point na makakasira at makakasakit na sila ng iba lalu na kung kaibigan mo sya...well ang dami ko ng nakitang iba't ibang tao pero may iisang mga ugali...BACKSTABBER!!!

please help me remove some of the knives sticking out from my back

backstabbers....they're only powerful when you got your back turned...pathetic kind of people....

ur absolutely right lovely pero ganyan talaga...reality is meron mga taong di makontento kung ano meron sila at ano lang ang kaya nilang gawin...they exceed to their limits to the point na makakasira at makakasakit na sila ng iba lalu na kung kaibigan mo sya...well ang dami ko ng nakitang iba't ibang tao pero may iisang mga ugali...BACKSTABBER!!!

mukhang galit na galit ka ah sa backstabber na yun ah

kc lovely ung mga ganyang tao sila ang sumisira sa katahimikan ng mundo...

please help me remove some of the knives sticking out from my back

ang lalim non ha....ano naman maitutulong namin syo?

ang lalim non ha....ano naman maitutulong namin syo?
jeng, ibig sabihin i've had my share of backstabbing friends and there's not so much you can do about except to alienate yourself to them or confront them first before saying good bye to them.

there's no real indication that the so called friends you are dealing with are backstabbers except after you feel they've thrusted the knife on your back and the damage is done... tsk... tsk... tsk...

hindi ka naman kayang hamunin ng suntukan ng harapan.

anyway, this would make a good topic in my friendster blog.

i made a blog na bout it merde pero i didn't post it sa FS kc nasa list ko pa silang lahat at im sure they will read my blog and react on it...kaya i made my own blogsite... :giggle:

wow, pwede bang bumisita (at kung pwede, mag-comment) sa blogsite site mo jeng? Ano ang web address?

wow, pwede bang bumisita (at kung pwede, mag-comment) sa blogsite site mo jeng? Ano ang web address?

sure pm ko syo

sure pm ko syo

jeng, wanna ask, kaw ba ang nasa pic na yan????

May na backstabbed ba lately??

backstabber?

uhm. pity those kinds of people.
but what can we do bout them. it's the only thing they know


uhm. let me say these:

[B]people can only hurt you if you let them to

bakit pa kasi naus0 ang insecurity.. :laugh: :slap:

nice share ate sultry :smack:

:pray: sana matamaan y0ng mga backstabbers :belat:

backstabber?

uhm. pity those kinds of people.
but what can we do bout them. it's the only thing they know


uhm. let me say these:

[B]people can only hurt you if you let them to

:thumbsup: that is so true! but sometimes it cannot be helped. when we share experiences or secrets with someone we trust and unknowingly they share with someone else to put you down then that's the start of a different journey - a learning experience for us. we sometimes have to go through something as ugly as this to be wiser and more careful. :D

nice mother ship! :salute:

:thanks: for this mommy sultry..:smack:

sana mabasa ng lahat:whistle:

One thing I could tell you, wag mo nang pansinin yan... she doesn't deserve your attention. :D

there will always be people jealous of you whatever you do; if I find out somebody whom I consider a friend is back stabbing me, I'd just confront him/her w/o drama to let them know I know what's going on and then move on. I will not continue hanging out with them, much less be friends with them and allow them to "use" me. :p

I am a faithful, reliable friend, but when I find out you're screwing me :ranting: sorry na lang.....no second chances kase if you did it once na wala akong kaalam alam, you'll surely do it again. so better to get rid of you :dance:

I don't need a lot of people around me to validate my existence. I am confident of my self worth and can live with just a handful of true, trusted friends.

sultry it cannot be helped but can be prevented.


choose na lang siguro the best and the right.


uulitin ko lang

no one can hurt you unless you let them to

hmmm friends come and go. it is up to you and each friend you got to maintain it. If one strays, then the friendship is compromised. ganun lng un. :)

had a friend na backstabber. I told her "pinagluksa na kita. the friend i had died, and you're not her anymore." naks! drama princess diba? pero truelala na sinabi ko sa kanya un. hurtful lalo na pag tinuring mo na kapatid mo na dba?

you really don't know kung sino ang traydor sa mga kaibigan mo. kaya when you find out e para ka talagang sinaksak ng totoo. but all you can do is be strong and don't let it bother you too much.

there's a saying na " you win some, you lose some." but pray really hard that you always win. yun lang po.:)

hay gurlaloo, waz mo na eyelash ang pipola na yonz. =p

teh pipola is nothing but a 2nd grade, trying hard, pikat! ditch teh backstabber. you don't need that personifikeyshun to ruin your rainbow life noh :D