Tulong naman...

akala ko shema na it will work fine with me,,, kaso hindi e, kaya for me hindi working to hehehhehe

oo naman, lalo na sa mga mag-asawa.

dito sa amin, karamihan ay nasa abroad ang mga mahal nila, one month sa loob ng 2-3 years lang sila magkasama, napapalaki naman ng maayos at succesful ang mga anak na naiwan at mga bahay nila, MANSION na!

yung sister ko na US citizen, she has found her true love from a guy working in Makati. the guy waited for 10 loooong years before my sister could petitioned him as her financé and marry in US, and now they're happily married in california and has two kids now.

in my humble opinion, if you really, really love each other, TIME and SPACE (spent apart) means nothing to both of you :weep:.

sabi nga ni Robert Smith: however FAR away, I will always love you
however LONG I stay I will always love you...
...I will always Love you

Oo naman!Ako nga 4 years na sa ganitong relationship at ok na ok masaya at enjoy! You'll be proud.

long distance relationship takes a lot of effort..trust shoud be the main factor, why a long distance relationship should last ...
pero, di naman mahirap yan kasi, may mobiles,email,chat ....
just feel that the relationship is not in a distance, makehim feel that, and make yourself believe that ....

open communication is an essential part, so that your relationship will work too!

never give your partner any doubts, so try to talk to him whenever theres a problem....

its doesnt matter whether its long distance or not, but how you both trust, and openly talk with your feelings...

GoodlUck! :hi:

sometimes it works but in most of the cases I've seen, it didn't. But it depends sa mga nagmamahalan: if you really love each other, no matter how far you are, you'll still love each other. Besides may cellphones, emails, etc naman weh, tapos kung rich ka, video calls kayo lagi

as far as we are concerned :smack:, we will try...pero may iba ka bang iniisip?

:whistle:

i do believe..... it depends on trust and faith...

of course you have to overcome lot of trials and hindrances...

a big NO! kahit pa mag-asawa na..

In most cases, it doesn't work. May kakilala ako na yung lalake na naiwan dito ang nagloko. Meron rin akong kilala na ang babae na naiwan dito ang nagloko. Idealistic ka kung maniniwala ka na magwo-work to. Sure, trust is a huge factor, but what if the other party fools around?

right now im with the long relationship, were now almost 5yrs steady and she was leaving almost 5mos. now.

it is hard to get in with these kind of relationship, but you have built a trust it wont happen.

maybe i say this is a tiwala system... ako meron tiwala sa kanya sya walang tiwala sa akin :lol: kidding aside, i promise myself that im going straight no girls pls. malapitin kasi ako, kung mahal mo tlaga o nagmamahal kayo you have to wait and meet your goals together.

sana nakatulong!

Maraming Salamat!

Para sa akin banker...it depends!! cguro kung may tiwala kau sa isa't isa..eh di it will works but if u both hindi pa masyado kilala sa isa't isa o cguro biglang mawalang gana kau sa isa't isa kasi u two far each other...well it will not totally works..:D are you related with this shema?..:lol:

as far as we are concerned :smack:, we will try...pero may iba ka bang iniisip?

:whistle:

ang iniisip ko lang sa ngaun :wub: ko :whistle:

Para sa akin banker...it depends!! cguro kung may tiwala kau sa isa't isa..eh di it will works but if u both hindi pa masyado kilala sa isa't isa o cguro biglang mawalang gana kau sa isa't isa kasi u two far each other...well it will not totally works..:D are you related with this shema?..:lol:

ano sa tingin mo :naughty: :lol:

Sa tingin ko your related with this banker...:lol: so for you shema, how it works? :giggle:

didn't work on me. too bad.

why? secret. hehe...

was it my bad? nde.

yun lang :D

Sa tingin ko your related with this banker...:lol: so for you shema, how it works? :giggle:

May tama ka noosadz :naughty: :slap:

May tama ka noosadz :naughty: :slap:

bakit long distance relationship pa ang napag isipan mo shema..what if near distance relationship lang pala?...:giggle: by da way, taga saan pala yang actor na yan banker? :D ilang offer mo dun? ...deal ba or no deal? :rofl:

:wow: :lol: alam mo naman siguro ang reason why ko to naisip diba :naughty:

:wow: :lol: alam mo naman siguro ang reason why ko to naisip diba :naughty:

hmm..d ko pa alam ang reason shema :noidea:...if u dnt mind can u share it to me?...well dont worry banker...u can always count on me..:naughty: ....:lol:

:whistle: ganun tlga pag inosente daming tanong...:lol: ikaw sa tingin mo mag work ba?

hmm.. I dunno shema..kaya nga nag ask ako kung nu yung reason..and what is the behind of ur story..baka sakali matulungan kita ma advice ng maayos...:D

Yung kabarkada ko kasi di nag work relationship nya. Asawa na nya yung naiwan dito. And kukunin na sana nya sa States. Nagloko si girl. Ayun, splitsville. Wala na contact. Ironic pa kasi after 2 weeks ng split dumating papers nung girl. Tsk tsk.

siguro nanghinayang ung girl :lol: tsk tsk tsk

sakin kc dpende poh...kc d mo nmn inaasahan ung mga gnagawa nya dun weh....malay mo may kabet sa dun....or malay mo niloloko k n nya....pero kung alam mo nmn na ikabubuti mo rin ung pag kalayo nyo di take it!!!hehehe... or malay mo dahil dyan mag kameron k ng mgandang future....

sakin kc dpende poh...kc d mo nmn inaasahan ung mga gnagawa nya dun weh....malay mo may kabet sa dun....or malay mo niloloko k n nya....pero kung alam mo nmn na ikabubuti mo rin ung pag kalayo nyo di take it!!!hehehe... or malay mo dahil dyan mag kameron k ng mgandang future....

magtiwala ka lang sa kanya... Malay mo behave siya dun :clap:

depende un sa nasa relationship... kasi if u'd say ur into a commitment then discipline yourself...u may be attracted to others, well its normal kasi its human nature... just dont nurse the feeling kasi nga delikado...and 1 more thing, kapag ngkalabuan, di namn maiiwasan un,,, NEVER EVER SUGGEST A BREAK UP..:thumbsup:

it really depends on the persons involved. trust doesnt mean much, IMHO. For 5 years i trusted my ex, ang hindi ko alam, may sinagot na ibang guy ang gaga kahit kami pa.

hmmm... depende then yan sa motivation ng bawat isa... are they really driven by love or wat??

hmm..

yeah!!

it w0rks..

bag0 pa ak0 sa ganit0ng relasy0n..

per0 kaya naman eh..

lal0 na pag mhal ny0 ang isa't isa..

:wub:

hmm..

yeah!!

it w0rks..

bag0 pa ak0 sa ganit0ng relasy0n..

per0 kaya naman eh..

lal0 na pag mhal ny0 ang isa't isa..

:wub:

goodluck sa relationship nyo :yipee:

Tulong naman...
just love and have faith..
coz without faith love isn't love at all..
anyway, we all need to the risk when it comes to loving.. :)

just love and have faith..
coz without faith love isn't love at all..
anyway, we all need to risk when it comes to loving.. :)

:thumbs: TRUST + FAITH = good long distancee relationship :D

depende din kc sa nagmamahalan yan.pero para sakin oo it will work promise, tyaga lng at :pray:

22o nga un pare...kaso maraming problema maaring mangyari sa LDR (long distance relationship eh) kng loyal ka tpos ung GF mo nd nmn or nag sisinungaling na (ung medyo nabubuko mo n ba? ung gnun :naughty:) eh mahirap na...ang pinakamasakit dun ung nolokhin ka tpos maghahanap xa ng iba...

tska ang tip ko wag gaano mag seryoso tska antayin nyo muna na mag 1 year kau or 5 mos. pag na hold nyo un tska nyu xa seryosohin :thumbsup: bsta kelangan mag meet din keo... tska cguradhin u mahal nyo isat isa at may tiwala kau :)

22o nga un pare...kaso maraming problema maaring mangyari sa LDR (long distance relationship eh) kng loyal ka tpos ung GF mo nd nmn or nag sisinungaling na (ung medyo nabubuko mo n ba? ung gnun :naughty:) eh mahirap na...ang pinakamasakit dun ung nolokhin ka tpos maghahanap xa ng iba...

tska ang tip ko wag gaano mag seryoso tska antayin nyo muna na mag 1 year kau or 5 mos. pag na hold nyo un tska nyu xa seryosohin :thumbsup: bsta kelangan mag meet din keo... tska cguradhin u mahal nyo isat isa at may tiwala kau :)

ch bakit kailangan pa hintayin mag 1 year or 5 mos para mag seryoso?:noidea:

depende sa taong involve yun...

kung gusto niyong magwork, you should give your trust sa partner mo... and either way, siya din sayo..

loyalty kailangan and ofcourse, communication..

22o nga un pare...kaso maraming problema maaring mangyari sa LDR (long distance relationship eh) kng loyal ka tpos ung GF mo nd nmn or nag sisinungaling na (ung medyo nabubuko mo n ba? ung gnun :naughty:) eh mahirap na...ang pinakamasakit dun ung nolokhin ka tpos maghahanap xa ng iba...

tska ang tip ko wag gaano mag seryoso tska antayin nyo muna na mag 1 year kau or 5 mos. pag na hold nyo un tska nyu xa seryosohin :thumbsup: bsta kelangan mag meet din keo... tska cguradhin u mahal nyo isat isa at may tiwala kau :)


tingin ko d na kailangan pa mag'hintay ng taon para mag'seryoso sa isang tao. madami jan 10 years na nag'hihiwalay pa din. trust w/ each other lang po and faith in your relationship, courage to take the risk and acceptance na lahat tayo pwede masaktan.

tingin ko d na kailangan pa mag'hintay ng taon para mag'seryoso sa isang tao. madami jan 10 years na nag'hihiwalay pa din. trust w/ each other lang po and faith in your relationship, courage to take the risk and acceptance na lahat tayo pwede masaktan.

:clap: it really took enough courage to get in to this kind of relationship :yipee:

Yes, of course, it will work if both of u are in-love and sincere to each other. Trust is very important in this situation.

If ever you'll be involved with this kind of set up, you should both find time na magkasama at magkita once a week if your location is just one bus ride away from the other or once a month kaya. Depende n yan sa inyo.
Personal bonding is still very important even if you're always communicating through text, call, or chat.

If nasa other country naman cguro you should be patient to wait if kailan sya uwi dito sa Pinas....


TRUST, UNDERSTANDING, PATIENCE, SINCERITY AND LOVE are really necessary....

Good luck!!!

may mga pagkakataon talaga na this kind of relationship works...but most often than not, it doesn't. i've had this kind of relationship twice. first lasted for two years. things change, and sometimes, people change too. kahit paanong pilit ang gagawin mo para mag-last yung relationship, iba pa rin talaga yung AT LEAST once a week nagkikita kayo ng partner mo. the second lasted for a year. did everything i can to say it was all worth it. but like i said, things change and sometimes people change along with it too. kung sino ang nagloko sa amin, that's another story. :sigh:

Idealistic ka kung maniniwala ka na magwo-work to. Sure, trust is a huge factor, but what if the other party fools around?

tama si kuya batts, idealistic ka kung 100% kang confident na mag-wwork yung relationship nyo. maraming factors. lalo pa kung ang partner mo eh maraming (sobrang dami) friends. :no:

well para naman sa mga nagbabalak, o yung wala ng ibang no choice kundi mag-LDR, here are some tips for you. learned these through time and experience.

1. don't love your partner too much. matuto mag-iwan ng love para sa sarili. accept the fact na maraming pwede mangyari along the way. like he/she will goof around or v-versa. at least that way, kung sakaling magkahiwalayan na, hindi masyadong masakit.

2. be practical. it's not like you'll gonna die kung hindi ka nya tinawagan this day. maaring busy, natutulog, or whatever. not unless meron kang camera watching his/her every move, na alam mo na kung nasaan sya at anong ginagawa nya. this way, maiiwasan nyo ang palaging nag-aaway sa text or sa phone.

3. a little argument doesn't hurt. this is to add up yung sinasabi nilang "spices" sa relationship. ang pangit naman ata yung masyado kayo or palaging naglalambingan sa text. diba katagalan nakakasawa? para maiba naman, maganda rin siguro ung may konteng maliliit na away. wag lang pasobra at masyadong dinidibdib. this way, you'll know how to react in the future kung meron man kayong tampuhan or whatever.

4. have time for everything. have time for your studies/work, leisure, socialization, symbianization, at especially for your partner. kung meron kang panahon para maglaro ng dota, makipag-chikahan sa friends mo over the phone, or simply doing nothing at all, syempre dapat may time ka rin para sa partner mo. hindi maganda yung palaging nirarason mo ay "sorry busy ako." pwedeng sagot jan eh "kelan ka ba hindi naging busy???"

5. be honest. be honest, even your partner isn't. sometimes the truth hurts pero it's the best way to have a "clean" relationship. yun bang wala kang tinatago. that way, at least alam mong hindi ikaw yung nagkulang. pagdating ng panahon ng turuan (kung sakaling dadating man), wala syang "say" sa'yo kasi naging honest ka sa relationship nyo. it's either you stay together with a happy lie or be apart with the painful truth. it's up to you.

6. communication. don't forget to keep in touch with your partner. i'm not saying na ora-orada mo sya kinukumusta, pero communication is the only way to tighten your bond with your partner, considering na LDR kayo. without this, good luck na lang.

7. be considerate and understanding. kung sinabi ng partner mo na "may klase ako bukas, 7AM. matutulog na ako" over the phone, wag mo naman isiping ayaw ka nya kausapin. syempre estudyante sya, meron din syang responsibilities. kung estudyante ka rin, maiintindihan mo yun. unless na lang tambay ka at wala kang silbi sa buhay.

8. distance makes the heart go fonder. believe in this idea. not the idea na "distance makes your partner find another." as an added recipe to your already "spiced-up" relationship, maganda rin yung namimis mo sya at namimis ka nya paminsan-minsan, yung tipo na hindi kayo nag-usap sa loob ng isang araw because of busy skeds or simply gusto mo lang sya ma-miss.

9. believe that you will make it. never believe your doubts, and never doubt your beliefs. kung iisipin mo palagi na hindi kayo magtatagal sa ganung klase ng relationship, abay talagang hindi kayo magtatagal.

10. TRUST. kahit naman siguro hindi LDR kelangan nito. kahit saan kelangan nyo talaga ng trust. :naughty: :peace:

lastly, discipline and self-control. sa mga guys, wag masyadong mabigat ang dulo. sa mga girls naman, ever heard the line that goes "hindi ka tutukain kung hindi ka magpapatuka"? :yes:
yun lang po. goodluck sa inyo and godbless. :salute:

:think: icon thanks for sharing ah... :giggle:

Wow! Dumugo ata ilong ni icon sa kaka isip ng reply ah!

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:lol:

Good one though! :thumbsup:

Wow! Dumugo ata ilong ni icon sa kaka isip ng reply ah!

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:lol:

Good one though! :thumbsup:

:laugh: yan talaga experience ko bossing. :sigh:

:think: familiar ung content :giggle:

:ashamed: familiar ba? baka pareho kami ng experience. :yes:

Does it work? Maybe no, maybe yes.

ch bakit kailangan pa hintayin mag 1 year or 5 mos para mag seryoso?:noidea:

para mas mabuo pa trust nyo..kng gano katibay ung relationship nyo pag nakapg tiis xa ng gnun ka tlagal ibig sbhin ayaw ka nya bitiwan and mahal ka nya..pero kng 3 mos. plang tpos parang na...un...la un wenta :sigh:

i know a long distance love affair that didn't work. the guy fell in love to his friend na malapit sa kanya.

:sigh:

unless you are sure na your love is real..go for it. but be prepared. laging may risk.

:ashamed: familiar ba? baka pareho kami ng experience. :yes:

malamang pareho nga kayo ng na experience! :clap: :celebrate: thanks for sharing tlga :D

it does work. my husband is in kuwait right now & he will be 1 year there by feb. and he's coming home. we can't wait to see him back.

it does work. my husband is in kuwait right now & he will be 1 year there by feb. and he's coming home. we can't wait to see him back.

am happy for you :happy:

relationship works regardless the distance, for me, i took it as a challenge, how to keep the relationship no matter how far we are...

goodluck sa relationship nyo :yipee:

tslamat p0..

:kiss:

kung nahihirapan ka man..

kayanin m0..hindi lang naman sarili m0 y0ng inisip m0 eh..

pati rin y0ng sa partner m0..

:D

it does work. my husband is in kuwait right now & he will be 1 year there by feb. and he's coming home. we can't wait to see him back.

w0w that's nice.. :D

nasusukat bah ang trust sa long distance relationship...?
can we blame the girl\guy...if ever they found someone special,
but not as special as you..
but they never take it seriously...
parang kng kelangan nila ng masasandalan, andun agad...
is it a ground for jealousy?

Panu nga ba magmahal kapag kayo ay magkalayo?long distance Relationship.. How can you work it out?
:help::help::help::help::weep::weep::weep::weep:

same topic... merged :)

im here in florida, shes in philippines, its been 4 years and on july ill be there... and marry her... ^^

it can work but not for everybody.. :whistle:

it can work but not for everybody.. :whistle:

your right :thumbsup:

yep it does work. sa personal experience ko yan sis ha. my honey worked before sa abroad for a few years. its hard, pero we managed thru phonecalls, sms and emails. pero pagnagbabakasyon naman sya sobrang masaya kasi parang bago lang ulit kayo.:wub::lol:and this would determine if kayo talaga sa bandang huli. this won't work kung wala kayong trust sa isa't isa. and i always say that trust is the foundation of love, don't you think?

:more: sis true trust tlga ang foundation ng LOVE :wub:

:kainis: bakit kasi sinusundan ako nitong kind of relationship :sigh: :lol: :rofl:

:more: sis true trust tlga ang foundation ng LOVE :wub:

:kainis: bakit kasi sinusundan ako nitong kind of relationship :sigh: :lol: :rofl:

:lol:naku sis, pinagdasal ko pa ito sa lahat ng santo at santa(pati si sta clause nadamay na din:lol:)sabi ko :pray:"Lord pag kami e patatagin mo pa. pero kung hindi, aba!maaga pa lang e paghiwalayin mo na ng wala na pong paligoy ligoy pa, amen." e mukhang kami talaga kasi kasal na nga e.:lol:

:wow: good for you sis :thumbsup:

:weep: kung bakit pa kasi kung kelan naging kami lumayo sya sa akin :sigh: :ang hirap kasi mamuhay dito sa pinas :sigh::neo: susundan ko sya:happy: sige daan ko na lang sa santong dasalan na mag work kami ni new found LDLA(Long Distance Love Affair) :lol: :pray:

:wow: good for you sis :thumbsup:

:weep: kung bakit pa kasi kung kelan naging kami lumayo sya sa akin :sigh: :ang hirap kasi mamuhay dito sa pinas :sigh::neo: susundan ko sya:happy: sige daan ko na lang sa santong dasalan na mag work kami ni new found LDLA(Long Distance Love Affair) :lol: :pray:


sige sis just try ka lang ng try.:lol: pero dapat sure ka sa kanya kse mahirap naman invest ka n g invest tapos ogag naman ung pinag invest mo ng time and love mo davah? basta be happy. dapat pareho kayo ng goal para mas madali nyong makuha yun. kaya mo yan sis:thumbsup:

well pwedeng oo o hindi, depende s agreement nyo nung partner mo, minsan nagiging successfull ung mga ganitong set up, may fren ako and2 sya b4 s phils. then ung bf nya nsa california, i think 5 yrs. slang long distance ang relationship, then last yr. lng na grant ung visa ng fren ko so nag fly n sya s us, then after 3 months nagpakasal sla, o db successfulll, kya lng naman minsan d nagiging matagumpay if ung isa s kanila e naghanap o kya nagsawa, tingin ko lng ha,

minsan kelngan magkalayo ng bawat isa para malaman nila ang worth ng partner nila :)

mnsan din magkakalayo ang dalawa dahil sa kailangan lng talaga para mabuhay ang pamilya nila :)

long distance relationship do work :) actually depende sa parties involved un kung gaano nila vinavalue ang relationship nila at kung gaano nila kamahal ang isa't isa :)

there will be trials but if u both love each other & if u really are meant for each other, distance is just a word :)

ooh.. pwde pala sya magwork.. I always thought na hindi eh.. hmmmn.. ang hirap kasi diba. Pero sabi nyo nga.. it does work kaya ..pwde :)

minsan kelngan magkalayo ng bawat isa para malaman nila ang worth ng partner nila :)

mnsan din magkakalayo ang dalawa dahil sa kailangan lng talaga para mabuhay ang pamilya nila :)

long distance relationship do work :) actually depende sa parties involved un kung gaano nila vinavalue ang relationship nila at kung gaano nila kamahal ang isa't isa :)

there will be trials but if u both love each other & if u really are meant for each other, distance is just a word :)

nadale mo sis! yan ang mga sagot na uber OK.:thumbsup:

trust is one vital foundation of a healthy relationship.. if it exist between the two.. then long distance relationship is not a problem at all :D opinion ko lang naman.. :lol:

Threadstarter says: Does long distance relationship work?

It does. (http://humblejowdie.blogs.friendster.com/online_tabletas/2006/12/bittersweet.html)

I've seen LDRs work, it happened to my cousin, they met in March '02 via internet ICQ tapos everyday chat sila, eyeball sila in Bangkok July that year and got married in the US in October same year. Many say whirlwind romance daw, but now, they are on their 6th yr of marital bliss. Nasa tao yan if they want to make it work, if they got into the relationship with sincere intentions and an open mind. Marriage is not a walk in the park, you have to work hard to make it work and it takes 2 to tango.

it does.

it only depends on how hard you'll try

if the two of you have a powerful love with each other,long distance relationship is not a big issue..its only the two of you can handle it..if you have doubts and thinking that your partner is cheating on you,well,your love for him is beggining to lose..for you are locking trust and next of it is love..

i think it does...basta may communication kayo and you trust each other...mahirap but nothing is impossible...basta you truly love each other...:)

no!! base on my expirienced.....kasi mahahati n ung atensiyon between work,family at ung guy...iba kasi pag malayo kayo,kahit everyday nagtatawagan iba p rin ung nakikita,at nakakasama mo siya....:comfort:

based on my experience po long distance relationship doesnt work...kasi gaya ng sinabi ni mherz mahahati na yung attention ng guy or either ako sa ibang bagay. kahit na sabihin natin na lagi kayong may communication, masyadong mahirap ang ganyang sitwasyon....but if both girl and boy truly loves each other maybe possible lalo na kung malaki ang tiwlaa at love nila sa isat-isa..:)

mahirap po yun long distance...para sa akin mas gusto ko parin nakikita ko sya kahit once a week lang...

mahirap po yun long distance...para sa akin mas gusto ko parin nakikita ko sya kahit once a week lang...

I agree...

but I do believe LDRs work... :D

as long as you love each other.

well it depends on how much they care about each other. My friend has a long distance relationship that lasted for a year, and thier still together today. Of course it isnt easy and there are gonna be lots of fights. Its all about trust, without it it wont work out. :)

depende sa kanila, kasi minsan gusto nila ng may kalambing kaya di nila kaya long d. pero makikita mo talaga na mahal mo ang isang tao na kahit malayo kayo, nagmamahalan kayo

Depende,for me as long as na mahal nyo ang isat isa hindi dahilan kung saan man sya ang imporatante nagkakaintindihan kau,at may communication.

long distance relationship takes a lot of effort..trust shoud be the main factor, why a long distance relationship should last ...
pero, di naman mahirap yan kasi, may mobiles,email,chat ....
just feel that the relationship is not in a distance, makehim feel that, and make yourself believe that ....

open communication is an essential part, so that your relationship will work too!

never give your partner any doubts, so try to talk to him whenever theres a problem....

its doesnt matter whether its long distance or not, but how you both trust, and openly talk with your feelings...

GoodlUck!

so true...it takes a lot of effort..plus trust and loyalty... nasa tao naman yan..kung ndi mgpapadala sa mga temptation around him or her...

i agree with you battosai

trust don't work, how about if the other person change.

kahit ilan year pa yan~ 7 or 5yrs ...hindi tlaga magwork...ang long distance relationship... dahil it happens on me and my gf ..7 yrs and 6months na kmi~ dapat ngyon.. u can add my ym: if u want~ to give u some advice~ daverene_24@yahoo.com ok. mahirap yan..mssktan k lng...habang maaga pa- pilitin mo na cya magksama kyo~ bago cya pa ang maunang maghanap or palitan ka~