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miah_tere 21st Jul '07 Sat, 18:47 Women are complicated, but some things are universal
How can you charm a woman? Do they like a daily check-in phone call? Does she secretly wish you'd text her in the middle of the day for no reason but to make her smile? Do they prefer expensive dinners to home-cooked meals? Rock-hard abs? Flowers for no reason?
Identifying women's turn-ons is complicated, because they all react differently. Some women you wish came with owner's manuals so you knew exactly how they were wired. Luckily, I've done most of the legwork for you and am happy to pass this knowledge on to you.
Top 10 ways to charm a woman
Be aware. This means cracking open more than the sports section on the daily paper. Be up on current events and learn the difference between feelings, emotions and thoughts. Women are emotional beings and tend to think things through.
They are attracted to men who are as smart or smarter than them, and your knowledge of worldly matters will demonstrate your intelligence.
Demonstrate humor. Women love a man who can make them laugh. Now don't fret here if you're not a stand-up comedian. We all have a certain type of humor. You can be dry, sarcastic, hilariously funny, quick-witted or dark. Being able to poke fun at yourself and just plain old being goofy is a turn-on for women. Keep in mind that all women are not attracted to the same type of humor, so if you don't vibe, just walk away and try someone else.
Have passion. A guy who lives his life with gusto is incredibly appealing. When you speak to a woman about your life, your travels, your job, your interests, speak with passion. That passion about who you are will turn her on instantly. She will start to imagine what it will be like when you are involved with her and how passionate you will speak about her.
Be considerate. Pay attention to the little things and look for opportunities to make small gestures that show you care. A simple "How was your day?" and being able to listen to her when she wants to discuss something are huge. So many men forget about simple things like holding the door, paying for her valet or just thanking her for a great time last night. Women are all about a guy with manners -- she is not attracted to the dope who acts like a caveman.
Be honest.
Share who you are by telling her something personal. Maybe share one of your favorite childhood memories or some personal growth that you have been going through. Something that will show her that you are a trusting and honest person. It also shows that you are a confident but vulnerable man. Women love to see the vulnerable side of you. Note: Don't talk about an ex in a bad way here. If you have to talk about an ex, do so in a positive manner and share what you learned and how you grew from the relationship.
Be flexibile. Be open to her plans but surprise her with your flexibility. Take charge and surprise her with a fun night out. Instead of being the typical guy who makes a reservation, think about how you can be the guy who listens to her and plans a great date that she did not expect. If you can pull this off, she will be open to all sorts of advances from you.
Be positive. If you are positive about life, it shows in your actions. I always tell men to be extra nice to waiters, bartenders and other service people. Be a courteous driver when she's in the car. When you are in line at the movies, don't complain. Look for the humor and try to have fun with people all around you. Be positive about everything, and she will find you to be very sexy and alluring. No one wants to be with a negative hothead.
Be balanced. Women love a successful, ambitious man. They love that you work hard, but if you constantly put work ahead of her she will become turned off. She will start to imagine what life with you will be like with her needs being ignored. If you are out meeting women to date, you need to balance your life between work and play. This will be a major turn-on for her.
Have ambition. Men who are ambitious about what they do are a turn-on to women. It doesn't matter if you choose to be a rich stock trader or a painter, as long as you are passionate about who you are and what you do. If you don't love what you do, find something that really turns you on. You can't attract the woman you want with a negative ambition. Women love a man who is the best at what he does.
Be attentive. You are out with her for the very first time, and she tells you she loves a certain type of music. On the next date take her to a lounge that plays that type of music. It is all about paying attention to the details and working on your listening skills.
This list of 10 things will work in most cases. Keep in mind there is always the woman who you just can't seem to please. If you happen to cross paths with this type of woman, ask yourself, "Why would I want to be with a woman who is so difficult?"
Men tend to avoid the difficult, judgmental women. Knowing women's turn-ons and putting them into practice will help you identify women who may be relationship material. You need to realize that you want to attract and turn on the women that are attracted to you on an equal level!
trinokim 21st Jul '07 Sat, 18:53 lets here from you kung panu b tlga i-charm ang women....:thumbsup: :thumbsup:
.rika 21st Jul '07 Sat, 19:03 hehe ano daw miah tere? it should be coming from u daw
trinokim 21st Jul '07 Sat, 20:02 hehe ano daw miah tere? it should be coming from u daw
oo nga.....:thumbsup: :thumbsup:
miah_tere 21st Jul '07 Sat, 21:36 hehe ano daw miah tere? it should be coming from u daw
ahaha...ang mssabi klang, you have the guidelines there but then it still be coming from the guy,on their own style...db? hihi
lets here from you kung panu b tlga i-charm ang women....:thumbsup: :thumbsup:
try mo trinokim....hihi....
jong-jong 21st Jul '07 Sat, 21:43 try mo trinokim....hihi....
totoo ito tere?
from experience?
:lol:
sandwich20m 21st Jul '07 Sat, 21:45 miah d kaba na chacharm sa mga ganto ko :barbell: or sa ganto ko :boogie: hehhehee
miah_tere 21st Jul '07 Sat, 22:02 totoo ito tere?
from experience?
:lol:
hmmm....nbasa ko yan xa bok... tested and proven nrin....hihihi
miah d kaba na chacharm sa mga ganto ko :barbell: or sa ganto ko :boogie: hehhehee
aba! pa-impress ang tawag jan sand......:rofl: pewo infairness ang pagpapamacho mo...ay dag2x points nrin...naks! effort kpa mag-weights ha? :lmao:
sandwich20m 21st Jul '07 Sat, 22:08 hehhehe syemfre kaso may girls din impress sa berr belly nyahahahha
jong-jong 21st Jul '07 Sat, 22:12 hmmm....nbasa ko yan xa bok... tested and proven nrin....hihihi
talaga ha!!
hehhehe syemfre kaso may girls din impress sa berr belly nyahahahha
tama ka jan tol!!
berr belly rin kasi ako ngayon e!
:rofl:
miah_tere 21st Jul '07 Sat, 22:16 basta marunong magdala....gwapo jud eh! :thumbsup:
sandwich20m 21st Jul '07 Sat, 22:29 ahihihihih anduling na excite lang me napa berr 2loy me chori.... bir pla in tgalog hehhehe
jong-jong 21st Jul '07 Sat, 22:47 basta marunong magdala....gwapo jud eh! :thumbsup:
xmpre, minsan jan yan nadadala
hehehe
Lovely Face 21st Jul '07 Sat, 22:54 how to charm women? for me its basic, just the character and the way a man treats me.
sandwich20m 21st Jul '07 Sat, 23:09 hmmmm ganun lovely face dinner kana? ingat ka ha!!! hehhe jk...nangungulit lan po.. :peace:
Lovely Face 22nd Jul '07 Sun, 01:22 hmmmm ganun lovely face dinner kana? ingat ka ha!!! hehhe jk...nangungulit lan po.. :peace:
oo naman..i had dinner na. and breakfast as well. cguro kung di character ang hanap ng isang girl sa isang person siguro di mahalaga sa kanya yon.
merde 22nd Jul '07 Sun, 09:16 http://zangygraphics.com/quotes/6a50799c38d0aca3717133114d76b62dleanne214.gif
trinokim 22nd Jul '07 Sun, 14:40 http://zangygraphics.com/quotes/6a50799c38d0aca3717133114d76b62dleanne214.gif
In short, Mging matiyaga......:lol: :lol: :lol:
firebandit 22nd Jul '07 Sun, 18:14 sa paglalakad-lakad ko eto ang mga nakita kong sagot...
sana makatulong....
Make the woman feel that she's the most important person in the world.
Make her feel like she's worth a million dollars.
Make her feel attractive, gorgeous, wanted, and sexy.
Shower her with attention and romantic gestures.
Keep talking to her about herself. Forget about yourself.
DON'T EVER LEAVE HER ALONE! Send her cards, flowers, candy, telegrams, gifts, phone her constantly, see her as often as possible until you achieve your objectives.
SHOW HER THAT YOU CARE, DEEPLY, INTENSELY, FOR ALWAYS by the way you look at her, talk to her, pursue her, and listen to her.
STRIVE TO MAKE HER FEEL GOOD whenever she is in your presence, when talking with you, and when out on a date. This means showing her a good time, telling her jokes and interesting anecdotes, expressing appreciation of her sense of humor, behaving as if everything she utters is a bright gem.
MAKE HER DEPENDENT UPON YOU. Make her miss you when you are not around. Teach her to find you more and more essential by being a real friend, an interesting and dependable companion, a reliable antidote to loneliness, a continuous part of her life and thought.
MEET HER FAMILY as soon as possible and treat them as if they were royalty. Get her family on your side in persuading her of your charm and desirability.
heheh kaya mo yan!!!
firebandit 22nd Jul '07 Sun, 18:16 cguro ang pinaka-importante sa lahat eh... magin totoo ka sa feelings mo... tpos sundin mo ung mga guidelines... kasi lahat ng tamang gawin eh mali parin kung hindi totoo yung feelings mo...
miah_tere 22nd Jul '07 Sun, 18:41 cguro ang pinaka-importante sa lahat eh... magin totoo ka sa feelings mo... tpos sundin mo ung mga guidelines... kasi lahat ng tamang gawin eh mali parin kung hindi totoo yung feelings mo...
hwaaaaa.....tama2x... swerte pla ang mga may bf na symbianizers! follow the guidelines lng!!!hahaha.....
trinokim 22nd Jul '07 Sun, 20:36 cguro ang pinaka-importante sa lahat eh... magin totoo ka sa feelings mo... tpos sundin mo ung mga guidelines... kasi lahat ng tamang gawin eh mali parin kung hindi totoo yung feelings mo...
nice one bro.... :salute: :salute:
sandwich20m 23rd Jul '07 Mon, 05:55 go go go firebandit nyahahha flirt ka sabi ni trinokim nyahahha
aLgiE 23rd Jul '07 Mon, 11:42 sa paglalakad-lakad ko eto ang mga nakita kong sagot...
sana makatulong....
Make the woman feel that she's the most important person in the world.
Make her feel like she's worth a million dollars.
Make her feel attractive, gorgeous, wanted, and sexy.
Shower her with attention and romantic gestures.
Keep talking to her about herself. Forget about yourself.
DON'T EVER LEAVE HER ALONE! Send her cards, flowers, candy, telegrams, gifts, phone her constantly, see her as often as possible until you achieve your objectives.
SHOW HER THAT YOU CARE, DEEPLY, INTENSELY, FOR ALWAYS by the way you look at her, talk to her, pursue her, and listen to her.
STRIVE TO MAKE HER FEEL GOOD whenever she is in your presence, when talking with you, and when out on a date. This means showing her a good time, telling her jokes and interesting anecdotes, expressing appreciation of her sense of humor, behaving as if everything she utters is a bright gem.
MAKE HER DEPENDENT UPON YOU. Make her miss you when you are not around. Teach her to find you more and more essential by being a real friend, an interesting and dependable companion, a reliable antidote to loneliness, a continuous part of her life and thought.
MEET HER FAMILY as soon as possible and treat them as if they were royalty. Get her family on your side in persuading her of your charm and desirability.
heheh kaya mo yan!!!
:nice: I LKE THIS A LOT!!!!! :kiss:
firebandit 23rd Jul '07 Mon, 13:06 :nice: I LKE THIS A LOT!!!!! :kiss:
:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
miah_tere 23rd Jul '07 Mon, 18:48 Don't tell a woman she's pretty;
tell her there's no other woman like her, and all roads will open to you.
ahihihihihihi.........nabasa ko lang!:thumbsup:
sandwich20m 23rd Jul '07 Mon, 22:10 miah hehehhe d ba mas masarap kung sasabihin mo sa partner mo na maganda sya? nyahahha tapos lagi mo kiss :smack: heheh un tumataas self confident nyo pag ganun dba?
Lovely Face 24th Jul '07 Tue, 01:58 MAKE HER DEPENDENT UPON YOU. Make her miss you when you are not around. Teach her to find you more and more essential by being a real friend, an interesting and dependable companion, a reliable antidote to loneliness, a continuous part of her life and thought
Dito po ako mejo di sang ayon...hindi dapat nagiging dependent ang woman sa man...hindi talaga. We can be loving and we can serve them of course, but never dependent on them
sandwich20m 24th Jul '07 Tue, 05:20 lovely_face mas ok na ung dependent ka sa bf mo kesa sa frend mo lang dba?
miah_tere 24th Jul '07 Tue, 11:29 miah hehehhe d ba mas masarap kung sasabihin mo sa partner mo na maganda sya? nyahahha tapos lagi mo kiss :smack: heheh un tumataas self confident nyo pag ganun dba?
ahihihi....tama ka sandwich...super swit knaman. yan ang gawain mo sa mga gurls noh? haha...cguro ang point lang nun ay...more on doing than talking...db? pewo agree pa rin ako sU...:beat:
miah_tere 24th Jul '07 Tue, 11:32 lovely_face mas ok na ung dependent ka sa bf mo kesa sa frend mo lang dba?
pewo db sand, naiirita kU sa mga girlfriend nyo na dependent sainyo? minsan it will lead pa sa pgging posesive ng gurl? agree gud ako ke lovely face...:lol:
sandwich20m 24th Jul '07 Tue, 21:43 hiba iba yan case to case basis kasi..... baka naman oa ung pagkaka dependent ng girl dun sa boy hehhe
miah_tere 24th Jul '07 Tue, 21:55 hiba iba yan case to case basis kasi..... baka naman oa ung pagkaka dependent ng girl dun sa boy hehhe
sabagay....oa tlga yung mga yun...accdng 2 wat i observe lang....hehehe...
sandwich20m 24th Jul '07 Tue, 22:06 hmm ganun ba? hihihi baka naman from ur experience un? heheh joke
miah_tere 24th Jul '07 Tue, 22:23 hmm ganun ba? hihihi baka naman from ur experience un? heheh joke
ndi nman...maunawain nga ako eh...:lmao:
Lovely Face 25th Jul '07 Wed, 00:38 lovely_face mas ok na ung dependent ka sa bf mo kesa sa frend mo lang dba?
that's not what i suppose to mean. what i mean is that, wag namang laging nakaasa ang desisyon, pananaw, paniniwala, at lalo na sa pera ang babae sa lalaki. yun yon.
miah_tere 27th Jul '07 Fri, 21:04 may pride na kc ang mga babae ngaun:slap:
Lovely Face 29th Jul '07 Sun, 01:57 may pride na kc ang mga babae ngaun:slap:
You bet. At di na uso martyr ngayon....that's girl power, di ba:)
sandwich20m 29th Jul '07 Sun, 12:07 hahhaah sus anong now meron ng pride girls? naku since birth pa kaya kayo may pride naku....... hehheh bsta may ex ako ganyan!!!! super taas pride...
firebandit 29th Jul '07 Sun, 13:28 weee bsta let the love reigns over every matter... wla n kaung problema... if everything seems complicated... just stick to the core of ur relationship... FRIENDSHIP, happiness and LOVE....
miah_tere 30th Jul '07 Mon, 11:34 hahhaah sus anong now meron ng pride girls? naku since birth pa kaya kayo may pride naku....... hehheh bsta may ex ako ganyan!!!! super taas pride...
waaaahhh...ndi nman lahat ah..iba nga jan...sarap na pukpokin ang ulo para matauhan lng sa sobrang mrtyr... naku ang ex mo...4sure since birth na pagka pride nyan sandwich :rofl:
miah_tere 30th Jul '07 Mon, 11:35 weee bsta let the love reigns over every matter... wla n kaung problema... if everything seems complicated... just stick to the core of ur relationship... FRIENDSHIP, happiness and LOVE....
waahh...prang mhirap yan ah...kaya kya ng mga lalaki yan??? :noidea: :pray: :pray: :pray: :pray: :pray:
roselle 30th Jul '07 Mon, 14:10 alam mo kahit mahirap kung talagang gusto mo gagawin mo
miah_tere 30th Jul '07 Mon, 15:23 alam mo kahit mahirap kung talagang gusto mo gagawin mo
hmmm....tama2x...:yipee:
firebandit 31st Jul '07 Tue, 01:06 waahh...prang mhirap yan ah...kaya kya ng mga lalaki yan??? :noidea: :pray: :pray: :pray: :pray: :pray:
kaya yan... bsta totohanan pag-iibigan ninyo...
Lovely Face 31st Jul '07 Tue, 01:28 hahhaah sus anong now meron ng pride girls? naku since birth pa kaya kayo may pride naku....... hehheh bsta may ex ako ganyan!!!! super taas pride...
Cguro dahil alam niya ang worth nia. pero nilulugar naman ang pride..di rin maganda ang masyadong mataas ang pride. Dyou know dat pride is the attitude of satan?
miah_tere 31st Jul '07 Tue, 13:44 kaya yan... bsta totohanan pag-iibigan ninyo...
dapat kaw ang role model d2 fire bandit....:excited:
jong-jong 1st Aug '07 Wed, 09:01 waahh...prang mhirap yan ah...kaya kya ng mga lalaki yan??? :noidea: :pray: :pray: :pray: :pray: :pray:
kaya yan boK!
la ka lang tiwala sa mga lalaki!
sandwich20m 1st Aug '07 Wed, 09:08 Cguro dahil alam niya ang worth nia. pero nilulugar naman ang pride..di rin maganda ang masyadong mataas ang pride. Dyou know dat pride is the attitude of satan?
huwat? heheh ok lang naman un past isa past
miah_tere 1st Aug '07 Wed, 12:38 kaya yan boK!
la ka lang tiwala sa mga lalaki!
hirap na kc mkahanap ng sincere this days bok... hmm...pewo xempre agree rin nman ako sU....:salute:
wasak 8th Aug '07 Wed, 11:03 charm a woman? ASK ME!!!
miah_tere 11th Aug '07 Sat, 14:25 y should we ask u? hahahaha
sandwich20m 11th Aug '07 Sat, 15:08 wow taray ni miah!!!! hehhehe
balasubasako 12th Aug '07 Sun, 16:21 para sa akin..humor is still one of the best way to charm a woman...
sandwich20m 12th Aug '07 Sun, 17:23 wow balasubas dats true po niceone :rock:
miah_tere 12th Aug '07 Sun, 20:50 wow taray ni miah!!!! hehhehe
hahaha....ask klang po kc c wasak...2be specific! hehe....:noidea:
light 13th Aug '07 Mon, 05:19 money... fame... looks... brains...
sadly wala aku nung mga un..:weep:
i can only offer my time, my ears, and my heart... :yes:
wasak 17th Aug '07 Fri, 18:52 money... fame... looks... brains...
sadly wala aku nung mga un..:weep:
i can only offer my time, my ears, and my heart... :yes:
unfortunately, ako rin :upset: except for brains hehe. pero dapat may humor din. ako di sa pagmamayabang, ako lng naman ang ...:noidea: wala ako hehe, i dont exist:upset:
sandwich20m 17th Aug '07 Fri, 19:46 ang drama niyo light at wasak sense of humor lang kailangan nyan.... effective yan kahit wala pera, wala looks....tignan nyo ko heheh joke lang hehehe
mykmarc 17th Aug '07 Fri, 23:38 Pag walang HUmor yung lalaki eh nakakabato...yung looks and money eh nawawala yan..pero yung Humor ng isang tao eh dala dala nya na hanggang pagtanda nya...Mas magaan ang buhay pag laging MASAYA.
wasak 18th Aug '07 Sat, 17:51 sabi nga ng pinsan ko, kung di nya ko pinsan, mag-on na raw sana kami, kac maysense daw ako kausap, pero ala rin sense kausap hehe!!! brains+humor= ano pa kailangan mo? diba? :rofl:
light 18th Aug '07 Sat, 22:50 :lol: da best k tsong! :lol:
Earl 18th Aug '07 Sat, 23:05 ahh.. :)
so prang 10 commandments to charm a woman.. :slap:
ASTIG AH! :thumbsup:
NEILWORX` 2nd Sep '07 Sun, 11:35 Nice..! Marami akong natutunan... Marami pong salamat sa post..! Nyahahaha..! '^_^'
firebandit 2nd Sep '07 Sun, 13:21 dpende po yan... kung may humor nmn tapos hndi nasasakyan ng gurl.. X pa din... dapat right timing ng humor para swak... dun mo makukuha ung gurl sa kiliti nya.. tandaan nyo lng wag maxado maging humorous kasi pag masyado na eh nakakairita na yun...
dont be some one na makikita ng gurl na prang lagi na lang tawa-ng-tawa...
dapat ung magpapatawa ka eh yung may sense....
dapat right timing... kahit kaunting humor lng bsta at the right timing at may sense... SAPUL yan!!!! :thumbsup:
nirvana9 5th Sep '07 Wed, 23:52 tnx tlaga sa advice mo................hehehehe
sana effective yan hahhhh?????????heheheheheh
kid101 23rd Oct '08 Thu, 20:20 mga bro! base sa experience ko. tignan mo ng malagkit ung girl na gusto mo! tas ngiti ka lang ng ngiti. proven yan bro!
Jayce Guillermo 24th Oct '08 Fri, 08:06 bakit ganun, my friend ako n suplado pero malapit cya sa girls...? :noidea:
wainiew0823 24th Oct '08 Fri, 19:58 pano po ba pataasin nag sense of humor ??:noidea:
youllbedead02 24th Oct '08 Fri, 20:38 mga bro! base sa experience ko. tignan mo ng malagkit ung girl na gusto mo! tas ngiti ka lang ng ngiti. proven yan bro!
eh pano kung bungi?
youllbedead02 24th Oct '08 Fri, 20:41 bakit ganun, my friend ako n suplado pero malapit cya sa girls...? :noidea:
tsk tsk tsk...ibig sabihin nyan charming lang tlaga...wala na tayong magagawa dyan...biniyayaan ng lubus-lubus eh...idaan na lang natin sa talent.
dressel_098 24th Oct '08 Fri, 20:44 ..Tumpak nakuha mo..Hehe..Pro konti lang ang nabiyayaan..Ako mjo lng..
youllbedead02 24th Oct '08 Fri, 20:54 kasi uso na ngayun ung mala manga na buhay...ung tipong ung mga good-looking guys na masusungit sila pa itong habulin ng chicks...un ata ung tipo ng mga babae ngyun...baligtad sila ung naghahanap ng hard to get na lalake...ang tanging maasahan lang talaga natin eh talent laban sa mga mala-sasuke na lalake...guys improve ur talent(s)...yan ang avatar natin.
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