When you give your opinion to something or to a certain topic or issue...does it mean you also judge?

If it is, lahat pala ng tao ay humahatol sa isa't isa.

Say, i want to give opinion to people who commit extramarital affairs..then on my opinion sasabhin ko, imoral sila...am i judging? Di ba opinion lang yon? And everyone is entitled to have his or her own opinion and there is nothing wrong with an opinion.

What can you say?

I think yes. We all judge. And those judgements are based on your own beliefs and experiences. Not the collective thought of all the people that are reading the topic (unless, maraming tao on the same topic na nagkaroon ng same experience o belief), hence your judgement is simply an opinion.

Like what Im doing right now, Im judging na lahat ng tao e prone to making a judgement. That statement is based on personal belief and experience. But its only my own, hence the title of my post.


Say, i want to give opinion to people who commit extramarital affairs..then on my opinion sasabhin ko, imoral sila...am i judging? Di ba opinion lang yon? And everyone is entitled to have his or her own opinion and there is nothing wrong with an opinion.


Absolutely, you are entitled to give you own opinion. But not to the point na its already tactless and nakakasakit na ng damdamin. Instead of saying directly na "Imoral ka kasi me kabit ka", you can say "Extramarital affairs is considered immoral by the Roman Catholic Church.", so as not to hurt anyone. Im not saying that we sugarcoat our words but wee need to say it in a frank but less harsh way. Me cases kasi na malay mo hindi pala Katoliko ung original poster (and his Religion agrees to extramarital affairs), nanghihingi lang sya ng payo kung sinong pipiliin niang girl.

If you really need to say it in a harsh way (some forums call it Flaming, which is a big no-no), just be ready if you get flamed back upon.

Opinion is Freedom. And every Freedom comes with Responsibility.

Kaya nga ang isa sa rule ng mga forum na sinasalihan ko ngayon eh..

Dont make your opinion or beliefs to be a standard for the others.

Kung ayaw mo ang isang thread, huwag mong basahin.

Maganda na ang ruling sa dati kong forum na sinalihan, kaya binalikan ko na.:yipee:

Pero paano naman kung pinupuna mo ang mali niya..supposed a person is engaged in an extramarital affair and your making comment on his or her act, do you judge her? Minsan kasi whenever i post things about a certain act (esp immoral acts), people would tell me that im judging..your say?

This depends on your motive or intention for commenting. Other comment to hurt other's feelings... deliberately. And others have the noble intention of rebuking the erring party. For me, it depends on your motive.

Just simple like this "Don't Judge the Books by it's cover"

^^I'd rather agree on the statement "And others have the noble intention of rebuking the erring party"

Pero paano naman kung pinupuna mo ang mali niya..supposed a person is engaged in an extramarital affair and your making comment on his or her act, do you judge her? Minsan kasi whenever i post things about a certain act (esp immoral acts), people would tell me that im judging..your say?

Hmm... Depends on how you comment the person also... Kung medyu harsh para sa tao na yuon yung sinabi mo, try to explain that you did not meant it like that. :D

just don't be harsh in saying your opinion.. be frank pero in a way na hindi ka makaksakit.. dapat kapag nagstate ka ng opinion dapat as opinion lang talaga at open for mistakes.. yung iba kasi sabi opinion lang daw eh pero halos ayaw tumanggap ng mali kasi sa tingin nila yun na yung tama:lol:

just don't be harsh in saying your opinion.. be frank pero in a way na hindi ka makaksakit.. dapat kapag nagstate ka ng opinion dapat as opinion lang talaga at open for mistakes.. yung iba kasi sabi opinion lang daw eh pero halos ayaw tumanggap ng mali kasi sa tingin nila yun na yung tama:lol:

Very true... :clap:

just don't be harsh in saying your opinion.. be frank pero in a way na hindi ka makaksakit..

Pano kung nasabi niya yun out of emotion? Judgment na ba iyon?

Pano kung nasabi niya yun out of emotion? Judgment na ba iyon?

it depends naman on how you deliver it.. ang judgement naman kasi is may conviction ang opinion naman is merley a statement of your idea(hirap explain pero madali namng malalman yun eh hehe;)).. kung mejo harsh ka sa pagsabi ng opinion mo well na sa kanya na yun..;).. syempre kapag ganun expect mo na balik nun;)

^salamat kurabo....pero sana may magbigay pa ng opinion....

There's a big difference when you think about judgment and opinion..judgement requires disciplinary action while opinion is just an opinion only for viewing not necessarily based on your fact or knowledge... That's my opinion...hehe:yipee:

tama si kurabo... dapat maging praktikal pagbigay ng opinyon...

Pano kung nasabi niya yun out of emotion? Judgment na ba iyon?

There is a big possibility na nag judge na sya kung out of emotion ang bitaw nya ng salita. Remember na yung iniipong sama ng loob eh lumalabas pag puno na ang dibdib. Just my two-cents worth. :)

^pero may mga taong sabay bumabawi ng: nasabi ko lang yun dahil naiinis ako sayo.....