GIRLS, any questions tungkol saming mga BOYS? we're here to answer you

[ifer]

Tanong ko lang cos i almost forgot how to deal with guys..medyo natatawa ko sa sarili ko but since anonymous naman tayo let me give it a try haha.

"I have a crush on this guy at the office na sobrang reserved, serious and very smart.now nabrpught up lang me crush ako one time ng sabihin ko that i like guys with that nerdy look and suddenly everyone was teasing me.so everytime may tanong si guy lagi sinasabi kay kwan ka magtanong which is me.IDK if im imagining things but this guy is really gonna look into your eyes intently na minsan parang nawawala nako sa sarili ko.and same incident happened earlier, he was all smiles habang palapit ako and will look at you with that come on but since im so shy to react i just said hi sabay yoko.hahaha"

Now, how do I know if this guy is just playing around?i mean baka pinapasakay ako.or baka pang boost lang ako ng ego niya bilang lalaki.he's not making any mobes except ocassional lumalapit or nahuhuli ko once in a while and our gaze always met.please enlighten me lol

 

[motoro]

Tanong ko lang cos i almost forgot how to deal with guys..medyo natatawa ko sa sarili ko but since anonymous naman tayo let me give it a try haha.

"I have a crush on this guy at the office na sobrang reserved, serious and very smart.now nabrpught up lang me crush ako one time ng sabihin ko that i like guys with that nerdy look and suddenly everyone was teasing me.so everytime may tanong si guy lagi sinasabi kay kwan ka magtanong which is me.IDK if im imagining things but this guy is really gonna look into your eyes intently na minsan parang nawawala nako sa sarili ko.and same incident happened earlier, he was all smiles habang palapit ako and will look at you with that come on but since im so shy to react i just said hi sabay yoko.hahaha"

Now, how do I know if this guy is just playing around?i mean baka pinapasakay ako.or baka pang boost lang ako ng ego niya bilang lalaki.he's not making any mobes except ocassional lumalapit or nahuhuli ko once in a while and our gaze always met.please enlighten me lol

Imagine that this guy is someone you don't like physically but you found out that he has a crushed on you. So try to behave as if your crush is the guy who you don't like and see if he will still pay attention to you.

 

[ifer]

^dont you think that's gonna drive him away?gusto ko pa naman siya haha

 

[ninku009]

Not all guys are the same specially kung reserved, serious and smart. Don't think na pinapasakay ka niya o ikaw ang pang boost ng ego niya. Hindi masama mag-isip ng advance. Don't jump on conclusion.

Tama sinabi ni @motoro. wala naman mawawala sayo. Kung may something, let it grow. Malay mo may crush din pala sayo yun, parehas lang pala kayo. sooner or later he will make a move..


OT: shy type ka pala. haha

 

[KulasaMia]

para kanino ka bumabangon?

 

[ifer]

Not all guys are the same specially kung reserved, serious and smart. Don't think na pinapasakay ka niya o ikaw ang pang boost ng ego niya. Hindi masama mag-isip ng advance. Don't jump on conclusion.

Tama sinabi ni @motoro. wala naman mawawala sayo. Kung may something, let it grow. Malay mo may crush din pala sayo yun, parehas lang pala kayo. sooner or later he will make a move..


OT: shy type ka pala. haha

Medyo...kasi bihira lang talaga ko magka crush kaya medyo hirap ako to deal with it.parang takot na takot lang ako na malaman niya.or baka insecure lang ako kaya siguro ganun..haha
May mga instances din kasi na i was so much into that guy pero the feeling is not mutual

Ot: give me 5 signs that you are not into someone

 

[jennyrosecamille]

Tanong ko lang cos i almost forgot how to deal with guys..medyo natatawa ko sa sarili ko but since anonymous naman tayo let me give it a try haha.

"I have a crush on this guy at the office na sobrang reserved, serious and very smart.now nabrpught up lang me crush ako one time ng sabihin ko that i like guys with that nerdy look and suddenly everyone was teasing me.so everytime may tanong si guy lagi sinasabi kay kwan ka magtanong which is me.IDK if im imagining things but this guy is really gonna look into your eyes intently na minsan parang nawawala nako sa sarili ko.and same incident happened earlier, he was all smiles habang palapit ako and will look at you with that come on but since im so shy to react i just said hi sabay yoko.hahaha"

Now, how do I know if this guy is just playing around?i mean baka pinapasakay ako.or baka pang boost lang ako ng ego niya bilang lalaki.he's not making any mobes except ocassional lumalapit or nahuhuli ko once in a while and our gaze always met.please enlighten me lol

Ayain mo lumabas. Hahahahaha I asked my bf 5 years ago, and here we are livbing together na. Hahahahaha

 

[Riyae08]

5 signs guys are not interested


We dont care
We dont bother
We dont share personal info
We dont ask about you
And we wont do anything.

But since workmates kayo.
He may/will/should act accordingly.

He will show obvious signs eventually if he likes you.
Approach you himself.
Try to talk to you in private
Share things only a few people know
Try to make a little more effort than usual
Smile at you and look into your eyes waiting for your approval

Again: not foolproof signs. But when a guy really likes someone. He gets a little less confident than usual.

 

[fjsavella13]

Re: GIRLS, baka may tanong kayo sasagutin naming mga boys...

May tan0ng po ako sa iny0, in what way niyo po, pinapandama kung ayaw niyo na sa Gf, niyo??
Naguguluhan na po kasi ako sa mga pinapakita sakin ng bf ko.

ako, i tell her directly na ayaw ko na sa kanya kesa maghinatayan pa kami at baka lalo pa kami magkasakitan, hihiwalayan ko na kaagad and magrarason nlng ako para matapos na relasyon namin, depende rin naman din sa lalaki yan e, if naguguluhan k ana, dapat mag usap kau, seryosong usapan

 

[veauty05]

Re: GIRLS, baka may tanong kayo sasagutin naming mga boys...

ask q lng anu possible reason neto:

first bf q sya, then a day before our 1st monthsary may nililigawan p pala syang iba that lasted for 4 months while kmi nmn 5 months n ofcourse he denied me when the girl ask him if his already taken.. i did support him in his every decisions kht minsan may tampo that happens nmn tlga in every relationships and naayos nmn nmin that time. i support him not just emotional/physically but also financially due to his situation right now. thats considered cheating right? actually nlaman q to more than 1year n kmi. i ask him to be honest with me about it bu the denied it. nung pinakita q n s knya ung chat history nila dun sya nag sabi n yan b then he even said n dati p un bkt binalikan q p. kumbga nglit sya kasi di q n dw dapat un inungkat. which may point nmn is kahit dati p un, nanyari un nung kmi n at bago plng kmi huh.. ang sabi nya lng guilty sya when i ask him why. hnd nga sya nag sorry eh theres no point n dw kasi nanyari n sya in the past. thats why maraming tanung s srili q ngaun. bkt nya un ngwa if i did something wrong b para magawa nya un.. wala nmn dw. then tinanung q on his own pov why? but he didnt answer. he just said that his already guilty not even saying sorry. actually tuwing may tampo kmi kht wala nmn aq gngwa para lng matapos aq n una sumusuyo. which i also pointed on him n baka kasi kampante sya s relationship nmin ngayun. ang ugali nya kasi ayaw nya pag usapan ang problem. mas ok dw s knya n palipasin n lng dw eh kht hnd n pagusapan. actually its not the first time n nayrai. ung una kasi nalaman q n he always likes pictures ng girls n halos labas n lht. but theres a certain girl n lagi nya nilike. he ven added girls n hnd nya kilala. nung nanyari un. ang sabi nya d nmn nya minimessage. so theres no point s inis q that time. nagkayos nmn kmi because he assure me n wala lng un. un pala before that ayun n nga n halos magtwo time n sya. kasi while kmi nanligaw sya ng iba. legal kmi s fam q after a month n mging kami. pinakilala nya n dn aq s fam nya although tru vidcall lng kasi nsa province sila. ngaun halos dito n sya nkatira.

ang tanung ko

dpat b hnd q n lng tlga un inopen p skanya?
and s tingin what are the possible reason ng gnwa nya in mens pov.
kasi s totoo lang sinisisi q srili q. kept thingking what i did wrong.

thanks and sorry mahaba.. need lng tlga malabas to..

 

[chazzaeigens]

Re: GIRLS, baka may tanong kayo sasagutin naming mga boys...

ask q lng anu possible reason neto:

first bf q sya, then a day before our 1st monthsary may nililigawan p pala syang iba that lasted for 4 months while kmi nmn 5 months n ofcourse he denied me when the girl ask him if his already taken.. i did support him in his every decisions kht minsan may tampo that happens nmn tlga in every relationships and naayos nmn nmin that time. i support him not just emotional/physically but also financially due to his situation right now. thats considered cheating right? actually nlaman q to more than 1year n kmi. i ask him to be honest with me about it bu the denied it. nung pinakita q n s knya ung chat history nila dun sya nag sabi n yan b then he even said n dati p un bkt binalikan q p. kumbga nglit sya kasi di q n dw dapat un inungkat. which may point nmn is kahit dati p un, nanyari un nung kmi n at bago plng kmi huh.. ang sabi nya lng guilty sya when i ask him why. hnd nga sya nag sorry eh theres no point n dw kasi nanyari n sya in the past. thats why maraming tanung s srili q ngaun. bkt nya un ngwa if i did something wrong b para magawa nya un.. wala nmn dw. then tinanung q on his own pov why? but he didnt answer. he just said that his already guilty not even saying sorry. actually tuwing may tampo kmi kht wala nmn aq gngwa para lng matapos aq n una sumusuyo. which i also pointed on him n baka kasi kampante sya s relationship nmin ngayun. ang ugali nya kasi ayaw nya pag usapan ang problem. mas ok dw s knya n palipasin n lng dw eh kht hnd n pagusapan. actually its not the first time n nayrai. ung una kasi nalaman q n he always likes pictures ng girls n halos labas n lht. but theres a certain girl n lagi nya nilike. he ven added girls n hnd nya kilala. nung nanyari un. ang sabi nya d nmn nya minimessage. so theres no point s inis q that time. nagkayos nmn kmi because he assure me n wala lng un. un pala before that ayun n nga n halos magtwo time n sya. kasi while kmi nanligaw sya ng iba. legal kmi s fam q after a month n mging kami. pinakilala nya n dn aq s fam nya although tru vidcall lng kasi nsa province sila. ngaun halos dito n sya nkatira.

ang tanung ko

dpat b hnd q n lng tlga un inopen p skanya?
and s tingin what are the possible reason ng gnwa nya in mens pov.
kasi s totoo lang sinisisi q srili q. kept thingking what i did wrong.

thanks and sorry mahaba.. need lng tlga malabas to..

Girl, di natin talaga malalaman sagot if tayo yung may problema.
Honestly for me I were in your situation, sasabihin ko talaga sa kanya about sa nililigawan nya dati. So it's good na inopen mo yun sa kanya to clear your mind bakit nya ginawa. eh sa pag ka kwento mo malabo din yung sagot.

C'mon common sense tayo dito, bakit nya ginawa? More chances of winning, he likes to play eh. Choice nya yun.
And about him denying it sayo, girl this man can be a liar so red flags on that.

Liking pics of girls? lmao yung sakin nga sinabi ko sa kanya iunfollow nya lahat ng babae. Ginawa nya naman takot nya lang.

Girl up, girl. Wag mo sisihin sarili mo, sisihin mo sya. He has the audacity na gawin nya sayo yun? If you can't bend your man thrn he is not fof you. Kung di sya nasunud, then he don't respect you sa mga ayaw mo or what.

 

[-CHZ-]

Re: GIRLS, baka may tanong kayo sasagutin naming mga boys...

ask q lng anu possible reason neto:

first bf q sya, then a day before our 1st monthsary may nililigawan p pala syang iba that lasted for 4 months while kmi nmn 5 months n ofcourse he denied me when the girl ask him if his already taken.. i did support him in his every decisions kht minsan may tampo that happens nmn tlga in every relationships and naayos nmn nmin that time. i support him not just emotional/physically but also financially due to his situation right now. thats considered cheating right? actually nlaman q to more than 1year n kmi. i ask him to be honest with me about it bu the denied it. nung pinakita q n s knya ung chat history nila dun sya nag sabi n yan b then he even said n dati p un bkt binalikan q p. kumbga nglit sya kasi di q n dw dapat un inungkat. which may point nmn is kahit dati p un, nanyari un nung kmi n at bago plng kmi huh.. ang sabi nya lng guilty sya when i ask him why. hnd nga sya nag sorry eh theres no point n dw kasi nanyari n sya in the past. thats why maraming tanung s srili q ngaun. bkt nya un ngwa if i did something wrong b para magawa nya un.. wala nmn dw. then tinanung q on his own pov why? but he didnt answer. he just said that his already guilty not even saying sorry. actually tuwing may tampo kmi kht wala nmn aq gngwa para lng matapos aq n una sumusuyo. which i also pointed on him n baka kasi kampante sya s relationship nmin ngayun. ang ugali nya kasi ayaw nya pag usapan ang problem. mas ok dw s knya n palipasin n lng dw eh kht hnd n pagusapan. actually its not the first time n nayrai. ung una kasi nalaman q n he always likes pictures ng girls n halos labas n lht. but theres a certain girl n lagi nya nilike. he ven added girls n hnd nya kilala. nung nanyari un. ang sabi nya d nmn nya minimessage. so theres no point s inis q that time. nagkayos nmn kmi because he assure me n wala lng un. un pala before that ayun n nga n halos magtwo time n sya. kasi while kmi nanligaw sya ng iba. legal kmi s fam q after a month n mging kami. pinakilala nya n dn aq s fam nya although tru vidcall lng kasi nsa province sila. ngaun halos dito n sya nkatira.

ang tanung ko

dpat b hnd q n lng tlga un inopen p skanya?
and s tingin what are the possible reason ng gnwa nya in mens pov.
kasi s totoo lang sinisisi q srili q. kept thingking what i did wrong.

thanks and sorry mahaba.. need lng tlga malabas to..

Dapat ba hindi ko na lang talaga yung in-open sa kanya?
- Karapatan mo naman mag-tanong kasi magkarelasyon naman kayo.

What are the possible reason ng ginawa niya in mens point of view?
- Simple lang. Hindi siya kuntento sayo.

Tama ka naman sa sinabi mo na nag-cheat na siya kasi in a relationship naman na kayong dalawa nung ginawa niya yun. Tsaka isang malaking red flag na yung pinakita mo na yung evidence sa kanya yet he chose to deny it still. Sign na yun ng hindi niya pagiging faithful. Isama mo na din dyan yun pag-iwas niya sa pag-hingi mo ng explanation kung bakit ganito, bakit ganyan. Kung totoong mahal ka kasi niya, i-eexplain niya yun sayo kahit gaano o ano pang galit o sama ng loob ang maramdaman mo para lang maging maayos ang lahat sa pagitan nyong dalawa. At hindi pa niya magawang humingi ng sorry sayo kasi sabi niya parang past is past gayong ginawa niya yun na kayo na? Tsk tsk tsk! Tsaka hindi maganda yung hindi pinag-uusapan yung problemang kinakaharap nyong dalawa. Wala namang bagay siguro na hindi nadadaan sa magandang usapan. Kaso ayun, mukhang umiiwas si boyfie mo na tadtarin mo siya ng puro tanong. Also, yung pagllike sa mga picture ng babae. As much as I hate to admit this one, pero guilty din ako sa bagay na yan sa FB/IG. Nung nakita ng mahal ko na ang dami kong like/follow na puro babae, pina-tanggal niya, which I did. Di ko na kailangan pang makipag-argue sa kung bakit ko ba kailangang gawin ang bagay na yun. Okay lang naman din sakin dahil wala naman ng mas importante pa sa akin kundi yung babaeng pinakamamahal ko. Kaya kung hindi kayang gawin yan ng boyfie mo, mag-isip isip ka na. Tapos panay pa add ng mga babae na hindi naman niya kilala. Naku po, mag-isip isip ka na.

Tsaka wag mo na patayin sarili mo sa kakaisip kung saan ka man nagkamali o nagkulang. Kasi nasa boyfriend mo yung problema at wala sayo. Nasa edad naman na siguro kayong dalawa, at syempre alam nyo na ang tama ang mali. May choice siya na gawin ang mga bagay na yun sayo o hindi. Pero mas pinili niya ang gawin kasi gusto niya.

 

[Ventriloquist]

Re: GIRLS, baka may tanong kayo sasagutin naming mga boys...

@veauty05

dpat b hnd q n lng tlga un inopen p skanya?

- may karapatan ka namang magtanong gf ka nya eh.

and s tingin what are the possible reason ng gnwa nya in mens pov.

- hindi sya kuntento o sadyang kampante lang sya sa relasyon nyo dahil alam nyang mapapatawad mo sya.

kasi s totoo lang sinisisi q srili q. kept thingking what i did wrong.

- wala ka namang ginawang mali, sadyang naghahanap ka lang ng dahilan na ikaw yung may mali kaya nya yun ginagawa.

 

[chazzaeigens]

Re: GIRLS, baka may tanong kayo sasagutin naming mga boys...

Bakit sakit nyo na gumamit ng mabubulaklak na mga salita? Hahaha

 

[jkilyo]

para kanino ka bumabangon?

para sa pamilya ko..
at sa sarili ko,..

kailangan lalo na pagpanganay ka sa magkakapatid.. kailangan mong maging maayos yung pamumuhay mo.. yun ang reason.. ko.. or sagot sa tanong na yan.

 

[2ec4m3]

Re: GIRLS, baka may tanong kayo sasagutin naming mga boys...

Bakit sakit nyo na gumamit ng mabubulaklak na mga salita? Hahaha

Most guys natural na yan. Pero ako di ako ganyan. Haha

 

[Ventriloquist]

Re: GIRLS, baka may tanong kayo sasagutin naming mga boys...

Bakit sakit nyo na gumamit ng mabubulaklak na mga salita? Hahaha

Natural lang naman siguro yan kung gusto mo yung tao. Pambobola, pagbibiro at compliment sa tingin ko same lang yan depende lang sa sitwasyon o paggamit nito at iisa lang ang motibo ang mapasaya yung tao. Nasa sayo na lang talaga kung ano ang reaksyon at desisyon mo.

 

[macedonian]

Re: GIRLS, baka may tanong kayo sasagutin naming mga boys...

Bakit sakit nyo na gumamit ng mabubulaklak na mga salita? Hahaha

Same reason na nagaayos kayo ladies, nagpapaganda at nagpapasexy, kasi weakness ng guys ang maganda at sexy. Guys know, well yun mga players know too well na weakness nyo ay flattery disguised in sincerity.

 

[hoppin44]

Ano ba ang kadalasan ginagawa nyo pag bitter kayo sa babae

 

[BaeJing]

Ano ba ang kadalasan ginagawa nyo pag bitter kayo sa babae

on what case/scenario po?...