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Okay lang ba ibalik ko lahat ng bagay na binigay ng ex ko? Gusto ko sanang itapon o ipamigay kaso hindi ko kaya. Sinubukan kong ibalik sa knya nung huli kaming magkita pero nagalit siya. Respeto daw kasi mga bigay niya yun. Pero pag nakikita ko yun sa kuwarto ko mas lalo akong nahihirapan mag move on at lalo akong nasasaktan. Hindi ko naman pwede itago sa hindi ko makikita kasi malalaki iyon walang mapaglagyan. Tama bang ibalik ko nalang kahit ayaw niya?
Okay lang ba ibalik ko lahat ng bagay na binigay ng ex ko? Gusto ko sanang itapon o ipamigay kaso hindi ko kaya. Sinubukan kong ibalik sa knya nung huli kaming magkita pero nagalit siya. Respeto daw kasi mga bigay niya yun. Pero pag nakikita ko yun sa kuwarto ko mas lalo akong nahihirapan mag move on at lalo akong nasasaktan. Hindi ko naman pwede itago sa hindi ko makikita kasi malalaki iyon walang mapaglagyan. Tama bang ibalik ko nalang kahit ayaw niya?
Okay lang ba ibalik ko lahat ng bagay na binigay ng ex ko? Gusto ko sanang itapon o ipamigay kaso hindi ko kaya. Sinubukan kong ibalik sa knya nung huli kaming magkita pero nagalit siya. Respeto daw kasi mga bigay niya yun. Pero pag nakikita ko yun sa kuwarto ko mas lalo akong nahihirapan mag move on at lalo akong nasasaktan. Hindi ko naman pwede itago sa hindi ko makikita kasi malalaki iyon walang mapaglagyan. Tama bang ibalik ko nalang kahit ayaw niya?
Have you ever thought
What she is feeling right now?
na there's this person, deluded in the opinion's ng ibang tao na mahal mo pa rin siya
but then ramdam mo na nasasakal kana, nagsasawa kna at ayaw mo na ng ganun
but then this person, kahit sinabihan mo na ayaw mo na, at lumayo na sya
at bigyan ka nya ng space
eh lalo pa lumalala, lalo niya ipinagtutulakan sa iyo na dapat magkasama kayo dahil mahal mo siya
na dahil sabi ng iba mahal mo siya eh kaya ayaw ka nya tigilan dahil gusto niya ayusin ang problema
gusto niya bumalik na kayo sa dati, kinukulit ka nya, ayaw ka niya tigilan
kahit yun na nga mismo ang problema.
How would you feel?
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If you love this person, maybe you should consider her words.
if she wants you to go away, then stay away from her.
if she doesn't want to talk to you, don't initiate the conversations
if she wants space, then give her all the space she will need.
She isn't anyone's property, she is her own person.
If she wants anything done her way, let her be.
it's her life, her choices, her consequences to take.
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Nothing you do right now will be of much difference
if it goes against her desires.
what you can do is take care of yourself
be somebody more worthy of her
and let time and fate decide
if the love you have shared together
will grow to keep you together in the future
or wither.
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I know the feeling of wanting to change your circumstances
how you want to do anything, literally anything that will win her back
the pain, the frustration, the desperation.
but right now, I am led to believe na nothing you do will do much for you.
other than letting her breathe and grow up..
let her learn and realize things her own way.
not only for her, but for you too.
Mahirap rin naman na masanay sya na anjan ka parati.
It takes two to tango. just like in relationships.
Okay lang ba ibalik ko lahat ng bagay na binigay ng ex ko? Gusto ko sanang itapon o ipamigay kaso hindi ko kaya. Sinubukan kong ibalik sa knya nung huli kaming magkita pero nagalit siya. Respeto daw kasi mga bigay niya yun. Pero pag nakikita ko yun sa kuwarto ko mas lalo akong nahihirapan mag move on at lalo akong nasasaktan. Hindi ko naman pwede itago sa hindi ko makikita kasi malalaki iyon walang mapaglagyan. Tama bang ibalik ko nalang kahit ayaw niya?
Bro Riyae.. matagal na ko nagmamasid sa mga advise mo.. Salamat tol, di lang sya natulungan mo.. Ako din.
situation ko kase kami ng ex ko Im stuck at pursuing her or not.. pero sya nakipagbreakup sakin at parehas na kaming single now, pero playing hard to get at walang respeto,, thanks.
Its been a year of our break up. Im still crying currently because i could not be the one for her. Its been a year, and yet my heart linger and missing her. I believe it is a one sided love. But it didnt matter to me that time. Until now, i dont know what should i do. I know to myself i gave it all my best of what i can be for her. Sacrifice my sleep, my time, and all i could sacrifice just to be with her. We live at opposite ends. Im from manila, she's in butuan. I still remember what she said to me on text, that she only gave me a chance and was forced due to the circumstances. What did I do to deserve that? When will my heart stops loving her even though i know she already had a new lover. Even you, the one whose reading my reply threads, confusing isnt it? Thats what on my mind when i was creating this. Its a year and a month. Damn, i still cannot forget what she says to me. Did i deserve that??? Ive done everything possible that she asked. Its just doesnt make any sense...
Tsaka, wag nating hayaan na makulong yung feelings natin sa isang tao na wala namang gusto satin.
Have you ever thought
What she is feeling right now?
na there's this person, deluded in the opinion's ng ibang tao na mahal mo pa rin siya
but then ramdam mo na nasasakal kana, nagsasawa kna at ayaw mo na ng ganun
but then this person, kahit sinabihan mo na ayaw mo na, at lumayo na sya
at bigyan ka nya ng space
eh lalo pa lumalala, lalo niya ipinagtutulakan sa iyo na dapat magkasama kayo dahil mahal mo siya
na dahil sabi ng iba mahal mo siya eh kaya ayaw ka nya tigilan dahil gusto niya ayusin ang problema
gusto niya bumalik na kayo sa dati, kinukulit ka nya, ayaw ka niya tigilan
kahit yun na nga mismo ang problema.
How would you feel?
------------------
If you love this person, maybe you should consider her words.
if she wants you to go away, then stay away from her.
if she doesn't want to talk to you, don't initiate the conversations
if she wants space, then give her all the space she will need.
She isn't anyone's property, she is her own person.
If she wants anything done her way, let her be.
it's her life, her choices, her consequences to take.
-------------------
Nothing you do right now will be of much difference
if it goes against her desires.
what you can do is take care of yourself
be somebody more worthy of her
and let time and fate decide
if the love you have shared together
will grow to keep you together in the future
or wither.
---------------------
I know the feeling of wanting to change your circumstances
how you want to do anything, literally anything that will win her back
the pain, the frustration, the desperation.
but right now, I am led to believe na nothing you do will do much for you.
other than letting her breathe and grow up..
let her learn and realize things her own way.
not only for her, but for you too.
Mahirap rin naman na masanay sya na anjan ka parati.
It takes two to tango. just like in relationships.
Hello po mga sir! I want to ask for advice on what to do with my situation.
I'm head-over-heels with this girl for a year now (1 year and seven months to be exact). Nanliligaw palang pero andun na kami sa MU stage. LDR. Sa una, enthusiastic kaming magreply sa isa't isa thru Messenger. Then nagstart kaming mag video call. All is well nung mga panahon pa na yun. I always send her quotes and long good morning messages. I am always sweet to her. Never akong nagsawa sa kanya. Kahit wala nang sense yung mga kwentuhan namin. I always find interest on her. Of course there are down times pero, bumabalik rin naman kami sa dati after a day or two.
Around April this year nagstop kaming mag video call. I tried calling her everyday but she won't answer. So I stopped na rin kasi malilipat na ko ng pwesto sa office. Marami nang makakakita. And I explained to her na ganun na ang sitwasyon ko. Ok lang daw. So chat nalang ulit kami nagkakausap.
Then came July, Saturday. I did my routine (a long good morning message with a bible quote). She replied, but unlike before, it was a cold reply. Isang tanong, isang sagot. I thought, siguro busy lang sya. Kasi ganun sya kapag busy or may problema sya eh. So ok lang sakin, sabi ko sa sarili ko "I will just ask her later at lunch time or in the afternoon when she's free". Natapos na yung araw, I asked her if there is a problem or if she's super busy..no reply. "Siguro she needs her alone time.", sabi ko. Then came next day, I did my routine again with her not replying. Kahit tanungin ko sya kung anong nangyayari, wala talaga. Next day again, kinulit kulit ko na pero seen and no reply pa rin. Nagstart na kong mag worry kasi baka may nasabi akong di maganda or naiinis sya sakin.
Fourth day dun lang sya nagreply. Sabi nya wala naman daw akong masamang nasabi or nagawa. Gusto lang daw nyang magpahinga. Sabi ko, ok sige. Baka nga naman nauumay na sya. So I just did my routine again the next day but still wala nanaman ulit reply. Until ganun na ang nangyari buong buwan. Hanggang August.
One day, dineretso ko na sya kung ano ba talaga ang problema? Ang sabi nya sakin nahuhulog na daw sya para sakin. I'm so confused about what she said to me at that time kasi kung nahuhulog na sya sakin bakit parang lumalayo sya? Umiiwas sya? She told me that I don't deserve her kasi sobrang bait ko daw. Kesyo natatakot daw sya kasi lahat ng naging lover nya iniwan sya. I thought to myself, na sobrang weird ng dahilan nya para lang umiwas. Ok na yung dahilan na takot syang maiwan at maloko pero yung umiwas sya sakin dahil nahuhulog is absurd. I was not convinced kaya pinalipas ko muna ng ilang araw.
Then I asked her again. Bigla nalang nyang na brought up na baka iniisip ko daw na baka meron na syang iba kaya daw nya ko iniiwasan. Which is the last thing that I will think unless there's proof. Tsaka sinabi nya na wala syang ineentertain na iba so I just need to trust her and keep faith na wala nga. But saying those things will actually make me think na baka meron nga. Pero ayokong isipin.
Everytime na sinasabi ko na gusto kong magkwento naman sya sakin about sa kung anong nangyayari sa buhay nya meron syang mga dahilan. Iba't ibang dahilan. Kesyo gusto daw muna nyang mag lay-low, nakakahiya na daw sakin kasi may problema rin daw akong personal, etc. Pero nararamdaman ko talaga yung pag-iwas nya. Dati, sinasabi nya pa sakin kung san sya pupunta. Ngayon, nagugulat nalang ako na may nagtatag nalang sa kanya na mga kaibigan nya na andun pala sa bahay ng kaibigan nya. I know it's not my right na malaman ko lahat kasi suitor palang ako eh. Pero andun na eh, nasanay na ko. Alam kong MU na kami at mahal na mahal ko sya.
Sobrang napapagod nako sa kakaisip kung bakit nya ginagawa sakin yun. Lagi ko syang tinatanong kung bakit ganun nalang sya naging kalamig sakin. I tried to change my routine. Hindi na ako unang nagmemessage sa kanya tuwing umaga. Wala na rin yung mga "long good morning messages" ko. Nag memessage naman sya, kaso after that na rereplyan ko sya wala na ulit.
I'm already at the state of depression and it's hurting me so much na parang bigla nalang akong iiwanan sa ere ng taong minamahal ko. It's like I'm loosing my purpose. Andito na ko sa point na ayaw ko nang kumausap ng ibang tao. Naiiyak nalang ako bigla kasi ang bigat na sa dibdib ko.
I just need someone na makakapag advice sakin. Kung tama bang huminto na ko kasi sobrang sakit na ng nararamdaman ko? Or ituloy ko pa rin kahit andyan na, nakikita ko na pero nagtatanga tangahan at binubulag ko nalang yung sarili ko na lumalayo na sya sakin?
Thank you sa makakabasa and for giving the adivce. Sorry medyo napahaba.
Question ko sayo sir, nagkita na ba kayo in person? Nagkasama? Nagkaroon ng bonding time? Kung hindi, bakit?