Broken Hearted Club (BHC) presents: [Love Advice for Broken Hearts]

[dia12]

8 Years in a realationship will still be worth saving? Hello guys its my first time here and gusto ko lng sana humingi ng advice nyo specially dun sa mga naka ranas ng sitwayson na to. Kung kwento ko talaga mahaba so i'll get to the point. LDR kami ng asawa ko well hindi pa kami kasal pero may anak na kaming isa 8 yrs old. The problem is kapag nag aaway kami lagi na lang ako yung unang sumusuyo alam ko naman na boys tayo so dapat tayo ung mag susuyo pero napaisip ko dapat ba lagi tayo ung mauuna makipag ayos kahit na alam ko naman na siya yung mali. ang pinaka problema ko talaga kasi parang ako na lang ung gumagawa or nag aayos para sa relasyon namin parang naging ma pride sya lalo sya yung nag tratrabaho pero d naman ako ung umaasa lng sa kanya meron din akong maliit na business tinatanong ko sarili ko if she still love me gagawa din sya ng way na magka ayos kami pero hindi parang hinayaan nya na lang na tuluyan ng masira relasyon namin haggang dumating na sa point na mauwi sa hiwalayan. Yung kilig at lambing halos hindi ko alam pakiramdam kasi hindi ko na nararamdan or sa madaling salita sawa na ba ? mahal ko sya pero ang sakit isipin na binabalewala ka na lang nya

Kung mahal mo pa, wag mo hayaang mawala siya sayo. Isipin nyo na lang yung anak nyo

 

[dy_mands28]

Padaan muna, daming back read

 

[imba_kan]

basa comments

 

[P45T0R]

Dami paring broken hearted dito.

 

[Kukuri Kapu]

wala ako ma-advice dito...magbabasa nalang ako at makidalamhati

 

[Ventriloquist]

Keep it coming. Basa-basa muna

 

[Ventriloquist]

Keep it coming. Basa-basa muna

Salamat wala ng broken hearted

 

[armz71]

every broken heart mend to be fixed

 

[Riyae08]

Used to be an avid commenter in this Thread, way way back.

I loved reading the stories of love between people, their struggles, and success. or their own stories of moving forward.

Maybe it's time I tell mine.

 

[soulviviv]

2012 pa last post ko sa Thread na about how to move on. lumabas lang sa notification ko na dahil may nagUp ng Thread.haha
Update: nakaMoveOn na po ako. salamat sa mga advice.

Post automatically merged: Apr 16, 2024

Used to be an avid commenter in this Thread, way way back.

I loved reading the stories of love between people, their struggles, and success. or their own stories of moving forward.

Maybe it's time I tell mine.

Now its your time naman baka kami naman ang may maadvice sa iyo.

 

[imba_kan]

okay lang ba, i-kiss sya sa first date ano sa tingin nyo mga lods

 

[ALX6N]

okay lang ba, i-kiss sya sa first date ano sa tingin nyo mga lods

ok lang paps basta sa tingin mo may feelings sya sau or type niya magpakiss sau...lawayan mo na paps

 

[ALX6N]

paps effective yan.pag nalawayan mo na, naku po sayong-sayo na babes mo..wala ng kawala sayo yan.

 

[januaryanne]

Used to be an avid commenter in this Thread, way way back.

I loved reading the stories of love between people, their struggles, and success. or their own stories of moving forward.

Maybe it's time I tell mine.

Whoaa. Share na we'll listen

 

[leonard1928]

Used to be an avid commenter in this Thread, way way back.

I loved reading the stories of love between people, their struggles, and success. or their own stories of moving forward.

Maybe it's time I tell mine.

Sige wait ko.Isa ko sa pioneer dito pero di ko pa nababasa story mo. hehehe..

 

[ALX6N]

Used to be an avid commenter in this Thread, way way back.

I loved reading the stories of love between people, their struggles, and success. or their own stories of moving forward.

Maybe it's time I tell mine.

share mo na yan samen...pagtulungan natin yan lodz

 

[Riyae08]

Nasa Orig Lit guys

Here is the link

Hahahha, I don't really need much of an advice right now.
But I would like to share. I just want to shout it out to the world
my fight, might failure, and how it went down in my eyes.

I would add some context sa overtime.

Right now I'm struggling to pull my self together.
pero I know I already did everything to the best of my ability and more.

now only time will tell.

 

[plexi00]

i think i really need a big advise right now ... and im so cofused about this lady na 29yr old from bacolod city. i met her .. then i got Her instagram .. after nun we TALKED on IG syempre guys IG un .. ang problem hindi ako ina accept .. she follows 88 , but she only follows 1. di ko naman talaga makita kasi naka private.. same as me. so She keeps giving me SELFIES every single day ... even 2x or 3x na pics and videos na short like 4sec. to 15sec clips sa IG .. pero hindi pa rin ako inaacceept. ( potek na yan )
hangang sa about 1month na .. marami na kami napag uusapan i even told her about my personal schedules sa work, and i even know her schedule...
sabi pa nga nya " im Harley and you are my Joker".
tapos lately naka grad na sya ng masters nya in accounting..
and even sa work nya tinanong nya pa opinion ko kung magpapa promote ba sya at first .. ayaw nya.. so we talked about it.. and 2 days later heto na .. sabi nya shes busy doing her portfolio kasi magpapa promote sya.. so then i ask for her mobile number kasi nga asar na rin ako sa IG dahil tuwing magtatawagan kami sa CAlls ayaw mag pop up nun. and missed call parati un. so i asked her for number, and yes up till now ayaw pa rin ibigay.. im asking for her number politely because i wanna talk to her na hindi kami nag huhulaan ng kelan nya ko masasagot sa tawag ko or kelan ko masasagot tawag nya. anyways she told me she wanna go back to the gym and work out kasi nga 26 na raw waist nya... para raw balik alindog program.
its been already like 2months na rin eh.. i mean i really like her and she knows it, i know a lot of things about her kasi personal na ung usapan as in personal..pati family side..even un sikreto nya. i made it clear on day one that i am not a type of guy who plays games im too old for that kind, and she even told me shes also not playing .. kaso ..
.. that kind of treatment. like.. number na lang di mo pa ibigay, sabi ko nga add n lng nya sa work bigay dahil nasa manila naman ako.. ayaw rin. kasi sinasabi nya " soon"

-mapapa isip ka na lang talaga by the end of the day kung ano ba talaga gusto nya.

 

[imba_kan]

i think i really need a big advise right now ... and im so cofused about this lady na 29yr old from bacolod city. i met her .. then i got Her instagram .. after nun we TALKED on IG syempre guys IG un .. ang problem hindi ako ina accept .. she follows 88 , but she only follows 1. di ko naman talaga makita kasi naka private.. same as me. so She keeps giving me SELFIES every single day ... even 2x or 3x na pics and videos na short like 4sec. to 15sec clips sa IG .. pero hindi pa rin ako inaacceept. ( potek na yan )
hangang sa about 1month na .. marami na kami napag uusapan i even told her about my personal schedules sa work, and i even know her schedule...
sabi pa nga nya " im Harley and you are my Joker".
tapos lately naka grad na sya ng masters nya in accounting..
and even sa work nya tinanong nya pa opinion ko kung magpapa promote ba sya at first .. ayaw nya.. so we talked about it.. and 2 days later heto na .. sabi nya shes busy doing her portfolio kasi magpapa promote sya.. so then i ask for her mobile number kasi nga asar na rin ako sa IG dahil tuwing magtatawagan kami sa CAlls ayaw mag pop up nun. and missed call parati un. so i asked her for number, and yes up till now ayaw pa rin ibigay.. im asking for her number politely because i wanna talk to her na hindi kami nag huhulaan ng kelan nya ko masasagot sa tawag ko or kelan ko masasagot tawag nya. anyways she told me she wanna go back to the gym and work out kasi nga 26 na raw waist nya... para raw balik alindog program.
its been already like 2months na rin eh.. i mean i really like her and she knows it, i know a lot of things about her kasi personal na ung usapan as in personal..pati family side..even un sikreto nya. i made it clear on day one that i am not a type of guy who plays games im too old for that kind, and she even told me shes also not playing .. kaso ..
.. that kind of treatment. like.. number na lang di mo pa ibigay, sabi ko nga add n lng nya sa work bigay dahil nasa manila naman ako.. ayaw rin. kasi sinasabi nya " soon"

-mapapa isip ka na lang talaga by the end of the day kung ano ba talaga gusto nya.

bro kung simpleng mobile number lang di nya maibigay move on na dyan pre, kung gusto may paraan kung ayaw maraming dahilan.

 

[ALX6N]

i think i really need a big advise right now ... and im so cofused about this lady na 29yr old from bacolod city. i met her .. then i got Her instagram .. after nun we TALKED on IG syempre guys IG un .. ang problem hindi ako ina accept .. she follows 88 , but she only follows 1. di ko naman talaga makita kasi naka private.. same as me. so She keeps giving me SELFIES every single day ... even 2x or 3x na pics and videos na short like 4sec. to 15sec clips sa IG .. pero hindi pa rin ako inaacceept. ( potek na yan )
hangang sa about 1month na .. marami na kami napag uusapan i even told her about my personal schedules sa work, and i even know her schedule...
sabi pa nga nya " im Harley and you are my Joker".
tapos lately naka grad na sya ng masters nya in accounting..
and even sa work nya tinanong nya pa opinion ko kung magpapa promote ba sya at first .. ayaw nya.. so we talked about it.. and 2 days later heto na .. sabi nya shes busy doing her portfolio kasi magpapa promote sya.. so then i ask for her mobile number kasi nga asar na rin ako sa IG dahil tuwing magtatawagan kami sa CAlls ayaw mag pop up nun. and missed call parati un. so i asked her for number, and yes up till now ayaw pa rin ibigay.. im asking for her number politely because i wanna talk to her na hindi kami nag huhulaan ng kelan nya ko masasagot sa tawag ko or kelan ko masasagot tawag nya. anyways she told me she wanna go back to the gym and work out kasi nga 26 na raw waist nya... para raw balik alindog program.
its been already like 2months na rin eh.. i mean i really like her and she knows it, i know a lot of things about her kasi personal na ung usapan as in personal..pati family side..even un sikreto nya. i made it clear on day one that i am not a type of guy who plays games im too old for that kind, and she even told me shes also not playing .. kaso ..
.. that kind of treatment. like.. number na lang di mo pa ibigay, sabi ko nga add n lng nya sa work bigay dahil nasa manila naman ako.. ayaw rin. kasi sinasabi nya " soon"

-mapapa isip ka na lang talaga by the end of the day kung ano ba talaga gusto nya.

Lodz para mawala doubt mo at habang may feelings ka pa kay Bacolod girl mo, make a bold move now...puntahan mo siya at kitain mo ng personal...if hindi nya naibigay office address nya siguro naman alam mo office building nya, doon mo puntahan..if hindi mo pa rin alam, edi puntahan mo yung gym na pinupuntahan nya..if di mo alam gym nya, edi baligtarin mo lahat ng gym sa lugar nya at doon mo itanong ang address nya (for sure alam mo real name nya at meron sya record sa gym) - HARD EFFORT - yan gawin mo ngaun..pag nagkita kayo doon mo malalaman if may feelings sya sayo at doon mo rin malalaman if dapat mo pa i pursue feelings mo kay BACOLOD girl..

Basta Lodz wag ka muna bumitaw hanggat hindi kayo ulit nagkikita..Basta i-surprise mo sya pag nahanap mo sya..magdala ka ng isang truck na flowers ☺ tapos magdala ka ng balloon na may nakasulat na missing you/ longing for you - BASTA ROMANTIC dapat EME mo sa kanya...

Pag nagawa mo yan sa taas dude, doon mo malalaman ang lahat ng kasagutan