Purpose ko sa buhay?

[sleep04]

Hello po, share ko lang po yung nararamdaman ko sa ngayon. Bale isa po akong 29 years old na tatay, may asawat at dalawang anak. Nagtatrabaho ko bilang isang call center agent. Bilang isang call center agent, maayos naman ang kinikita ko. Kaya ko iprovide ang mga pangangailangan ng mag ina ko, nabibili ko mga bagay na gusto nila mabili, nakakain kami sa labas at kung anu anu pa, pero sa kabila ng iyon pakiramdam ko hindi ako masaya sa trabaho ko. Bale kase 8 years na ako sa serbisyo, parang na realize ko ngayon na gusto ko gawin yung bagay kung saan ako masaya.

Hindi ko alam kung anu ang purpose ng buhay ko kung saan ako patungo at kung anu ang kahihitnan ng kinabukasan ng pamilya ko, anu po ba ang dapat ko gawin? Ayoko habang buhay nag tatrabaho ako para sa ibang tao, paano ko ba sisimulan ang sarili ko para makapag tayo ng sarili kong pag kakakitaan, napapagod na ako maging empleyado.

Sana po mabigyan niyo ako ng lakas ng loob.

 

[azarath]

Magandang araw po sleep04, mas kulang po ako sa karanasan kesa sa inyo. 25 pa po ako, pero ang ganitong pagmulat ng kaisipan at inyong dinudulog sa kapwa ay nakakamangha. Kadalasan ang mga ganitong tanong o realisasyon tungkol sa purpose natin sa buhay ay nangyayari sa ibat ibang yugto ng buhay mapa bata man o kahit may edad na. Tama po na subukan nyong mag umpisa ng ibang source of income katulad ng pag umpisa ng kahit na maliit na negosyo, pwede ring mag umpisa kayo ng passive income habang nag tatrabaho pa kayo katulag ng coffee vending machine o mag open ng maliit na tindahan. Mas maraming source ng passive income mas better dahil hindi ito tulad ng mag uumpisa ka agad ng negosyo na maglalaan ka ng malaking kapital at full time na attention. At kapag na achieve nyo na ang financial stability na hindi nyo na kailangang mag trabaho at hindi mo kailangan magin full time sa negosyo, ay mas mapag-iisipan mo mabuti kung ano talaga ang purpose mo sa buhay habang walang inaalalang mga bayarin. Malay niyo habang nagsusumikap sa sa mga sources of income mo, matagpuan mo ang purpose na iyon. Good luck po...

 

[motoro]

Well, everything seems to be working for you - a great family and a decent income. The mere fact that you have a loving wife and children, and your salary is able to cover most, if not all, the things you and your family needs. Raising two children at this times is no joke but since you admitted that you are able to provide for your family's needs and more, means you have a lot to be thankful for. Many people would like to be in your shoe.

I do agree that working as an employee for 8 years can be boring and many people dreamed of having their own businesses. For now, I'd advise you to think more responsibly by appreciating that you have a decent job with decent pay. You don't have to love your job but try to think about your family's welfare so that you won't feel miserable each day you go to work. Try to look at the glass half full by thinking that you only work 8 to 9 hours a day and the rest of the time you spend it with your loving family. I'm sure you would rather be in your present situation than to see your family having nothing to eat because you got unhappy with work and quit(just in case you got fed up).

It's not easy to start a business these days. Small to medium size businesses like sari-sari store, laundry, water refilling stations are many and competition is fierce to the point that they started killing each other by lowering their selling prices which, in turn, screw them up. Big businesses need huge capital. I'm not saying you can't start your own business, of course you can but not now because you are all stressed out as if you are having a problem making ends meet which, obviously, you don't.

For now, go to work as an employee as usual. You're still young and you can still earn a lot of money with your age and energy and not to mention that your family will serve as additional inspiration. I'm sure no matter how much you hate being an employee, you feel happy if you were able to provide the needs of your family and you see them happy after a full meal. So continue going to work but instead of thinking where life will lead you just work hard for the money and for your family. Heck, even starting a business requires money (capital) so continue working and start saving and just go with the flow. If having a business is meant to be it will definitely happen. Additionally, with your current dilemma and mindset, you can't think straight so take one step at a time by working and saving. I think one thing that covid-19 pandemic has taught us, is always save for rainy days.

Again, with your current mindset and frustrations, it will be difficult for you to think straight much more think of a business. For now just relax, because you are just making yourself miserable without making any difference. Believe me, it is more difficult to be working as an employee with meager salary and barely making ends meet while seeing the kids not being able to buy nice toys and clothes and eating unhealthy food. So try to be happy for now and try to look at the bright side for your family especially your children.

 

[rgtchln]

Pareho tayo ng delubyo. A few months back nadepress ako kasi hindi ako masaya sa trabaho ko. Maraming nangyari sa trabaho na kung iisipin mo magkuquiit ka talaga. Naisip kong magcontracting, gumawa ng sarili kong company, malaki ang sweldo kaya lang marami ding downside like walang kasiguarudhan walang benefits at maaring less time sa family. Tapos may nakilala ako na dating nagtatrabaho sa current company ko. Ginago rin siya (mahabang storya). Pareho kami ng naranasan. So dahil hindi niya ako personal na kilala parang naisip ko kung ano man ang sasabihin niya. Magiging totoo siya. Although, part of me naiisip ko na maaaring ayaw din niya ng competition kaya dinidiscourage niya ako. Marami siyang binigay na advice. Halos lahat maganda. Pero ang pinaka tumatak sa akin. Yung sabihin niya nung sinabi ko na emotional ako sa work... Sabi niya F*ck emotions, maipapakain mo ba sa pamilya mo yan. Makakapagbayad ba yan sa pangangailangan nyo like bills?

Then napag-isip ko bakit ko nga ba kailangang umalis. E kung lilipat ako sa ibang company di ko naman masisiguro na hindi nila ako gagaguhin. Or kung magcocontracting nga ako, wala naman kasiguraduhan kung makakakuha ako ng regular na kita. Lalo na sa time na yun maraming competition sa field ng work ko. Sa sweldo naman at benefits maganda naman.

Looking back, ngayong nagka-Covid. Kung saan ilang buwan na akong nagwowork from home. Naisip ko na okay naman yung company kasi hindi naging problema ang Covid at sumusweldo pa rin naman ako ng tama.

Mahirap ang pinagdadaanan mo pero depende kasi sa priority mo. Ano ba ang priority sa buhay mo?

 

[The Realest]

Sama ka saken sa bible study namen

 

[darshdar01]

Bilib ako sayo bro. Mas maganda talaga nailalabas yung mga saloobin natin. Hindi ko man alam exactly yung bigat na nararamdam mo pero one thing for sure "In this world, there's full of tribulation." Share ko lang konti kung okay lang. Maging yung mayayaman at maraming pera nakakaranas din sila ng anxiety that leads to deep depression. Actually 1 out of 8 American ang nagpapakamatay because of depression. I just want to make my point bro and I hope na makatulong ito. Nakatulong ito ng malaki sa akin at sa maraming tao. Ang sabi ng bible "Jesus is the way, the truth and the LIFE.", "apart from him we can do nothing." Hindi yaman o salapi ang kailangan ng tao to have peace in mind and heart, dahil mas maraming balisa at nagpapakamatay na mayaman. Without Christ there will always be an empty hole in man's heart. Contentment and peace ang kailangan ng tao an it can only be found in Him. The bible says "He is the Prince of Peace." And he is ready now to fill that hole inside your heart. Since hindi ka naman nahiya na ipost yung pinagdadaanan mo dito then I guess there's nothing wrong on trying. I am encouraging to take time and talk to HIM, He is just waiting for sure. Tell Jesus what's happening, what do you feel, and ask Him to fill that hole in your heart. I hope makatulong po ito. God bless Mobilarian Peeps.

 

[sleep04]

Magandang araw po sleep04, mas kulang po ako sa karanasan kesa sa inyo. 25 pa po ako, pero ang ganitong pagmulat ng kaisipan at inyong dinudulog sa kapwa ay nakakamangha. Kadalasan ang mga ganitong tanong o realisasyon tungkol sa purpose natin sa buhay ay nangyayari sa ibat ibang yugto ng buhay mapa bata man o kahit may edad na. Tama po na subukan nyong mag umpisa ng ibang source of income katulad ng pag umpisa ng kahit na maliit na negosyo, pwede ring mag umpisa kayo ng passive income habang nag tatrabaho pa kayo katulag ng coffee vending machine o mag open ng maliit na tindahan. Mas maraming source ng passive income mas better dahil hindi ito tulad ng mag uumpisa ka agad ng negosyo na maglalaan ka ng malaking kapital at full time na attention. At kapag na achieve nyo na ang financial stability na hindi nyo na kailangang mag trabaho at hindi mo kailangan magin full time sa negosyo, ay mas mapag-iisipan mo mabuti kung ano talaga ang purpose mo sa buhay habang walang inaalalang mga bayarin. Malay niyo habang nagsusumikap sa sa mga sources of income mo, matagpuan mo ang purpose na iyon. Good luck po...

Salamat bro sa mga payo, sa totoo lang sinubukan ko mag tayo ng maliit na printing shop, maliit lang as in kase isang printer lang yung binili ko, tapos dito lang sa bahay, maayos naman yung kita hindi ganun kalaki pero at least may kita pakonti konti sa isang araw, salamat sa payo boss.

Well, everything seems to be working for you - a great family and a decent income. The mere fact that you have a loving wife and children, and your salary is able to cover most, if not all, the things you and your family needs. Raising two children at this times is no joke but since you admitted that you are able to provide for your family's needs and more, means you have a lot to be thankful for. Many people would like to be in your shoe.

I do agree that working as an employee for 8 years can be boring and many people dreamed of having their own businesses. For now, I'd advise you to think more responsibly by appreciating that you have a decent job with decent pay. You don't have to love your job but try to think about your family's welfare so that you won't feel miserable each day you go to work. Try to look at the glass half full by thinking that you only work 8 to 9 hours a day and the rest of the time you spend it with your loving family. I'm sure you would rather be in your present situation than to see your family having nothing to eat because you got unhappy with work and quit(just in case you got fed up).

It's not easy to start a business these days. Small to medium size businesses like sari-sari store, laundry, water refilling stations are many and competition is fierce to the point that they started killing each other by lowering their selling prices which, in turn, screw them up. Big businesses need huge capital. I'm not saying you can't start your own business, of course you can but not now because you are all stressed out as if you are having a problem making ends meet which, obviously, you don't.

For now, go to work as an employee as usual. You're still young and you can still earn a lot of money with your age and energy and not to mention that your family will serve as additional inspiration. I'm sure no matter how much you hate being an employee, you feel happy if you were able to provide the needs of your family and you see them happy after a full meal. So continue going to work but instead of thinking where life will lead you just work hard for the money and for your family. Heck, even starting a business requires money (capital) so continue working and start saving and just go with the flow. If having a business is meant to be it will definitely happen. Additionally, with your current dilemma and mindset, you can't think straight so take one step at a time by working and saving. I think one thing that covid-19 pandemic has taught us, is always save for rainy days.

Again, with your current mindset and frustrations, it will be difficult for you to think straight much more think of a business. For now just relax, because you are just making yourself miserable without making any difference. Believe me, it is more difficult to be working as an employee with meager salary and barely making ends meet while seeing the kids not being able to buy nice toys and clothes and eating unhealthy food. So try to be happy for now and try to look at the bright side for your family especially your children.

Salamat sa payo boss, napakaling tulong ng mga binanggitn iyo sir, ngayun mas okay na ang pag iisip ko, inisip ko na lang na kahit papaano ay maswerte parin ako, siguro nalulungkot lang ako sa trabaho at na stressed ng sobra kaya nakakaisip ako ng kung anu anu, pero ngayun medyo okay na ako. Salamat

Pareho tayo ng delubyo. A few months back nadepress ako kasi hindi ako masaya sa trabaho ko. Maraming nangyari sa trabaho na kung iisipin mo magkuquiit ka talaga. Naisip kong magcontracting, gumawa ng sarili kong company, malaki ang sweldo kaya lang marami ding downside like walang kasiguarudhan walang benefits at maaring less time sa family. Tapos may nakilala ako na dating nagtatrabaho sa current company ko. Ginago rin siya (mahabang storya). Pareho kami ng naranasan. So dahil hindi niya ako personal na kilala parang naisip ko kung ano man ang sasabihin niya. Magiging totoo siya. Although, part of me naiisip ko na maaaring ayaw din niya ng competition kaya dinidiscourage niya ako. Marami siyang binigay na advice. Halos lahat maganda. Pero ang pinaka tumatak sa akin. Yung sabihin niya nung sinabi ko na emotional ako sa work... Sabi niya F*ck emotions, maipapakain mo ba sa pamilya mo yan. Makakapagbayad ba yan sa pangangailangan nyo like bills?

Then napag-isip ko bakit ko nga ba kailangang umalis. E kung lilipat ako sa ibang company di ko naman masisiguro na hindi nila ako gagaguhin. Or kung magcocontracting nga ako, wala naman kasiguraduhan kung makakakuha ako ng regular na kita. Lalo na sa time na yun maraming competition sa field ng work ko. Sa sweldo naman at benefits maganda naman.

Looking back, ngayong nagka-Covid. Kung saan ilang buwan na akong nagwowork from home. Naisip ko na okay naman yung company kasi hindi naging problema ang Covid at sumusweldo pa rin naman ako ng tama.

Mahirap ang pinagdadaanan mo pero depende kasi sa priority mo. Ano ba ang priority sa buhay mo?

Parehas na parehas tayo ng pinag daanan bro, salamat sa mga salita mo naisip ko na napakaswerte parin natin, laking tulong talaga nitong Mobilarina, salamat sa inyong Lahat!!!!

Bilib ako sayo bro. Mas maganda talaga nailalabas yung mga saloobin natin. Hindi ko man alam exactly yung bigat na nararamdam mo pero one thing for sure "In this world, there's full of tribulation." Share ko lang konti kung okay lang. Maging yung mayayaman at maraming pera nakakaranas din sila ng anxiety that leads to deep depression. Actually 1 out of 8 American ang nagpapakamatay because of depression. I just want to make my point bro and I hope na makatulong ito. Nakatulong ito ng malaki sa akin at sa maraming tao. Ang sabi ng bible "Jesus is the way, the truth and the LIFE.", "apart from him we can do nothing." Hindi yaman o salapi ang kailangan ng tao to have peace in mind and heart, dahil mas maraming balisa at nagpapakamatay na mayaman. Without Christ there will always be an empty hole in man's heart. Contentment and peace ang kailangan ng tao an it can only be found in Him. The bible says "He is the Prince of Peace." And he is ready now to fill that hole inside your heart. Since hindi ka naman nahiya na ipost yung pinagdadaanan mo dito then I guess there's nothing wrong on trying. I am encouraging to take time and talk to HIM, He is just waiting for sure. Tell Jesus what's happening, what do you feel, and ask Him to fill that hole in your heart. I hope makatulong po ito. God bless Mobilarian Peeps.

Salamat bro tatandaan ko yang mga sinabi mo bro.