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Why do men cheat? Please enlighten me

Yan din tanong ko matagal na. Haayy bat ba kasi kelangan pang mangloko kung pwede naman hiwalayan ka na lang diba? ������

Yeah, wala naman masamang makipaghiwalay basta malinaw, may masasaktan for sure pero at least malinaw ang lahat.. tatanggapin at tatanggapin naman tyak ng maiiwan eventually.. Hope so

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If someone leaves you for someone else — or you discover that someone already was getting their ducks in a row to make or force an exit, while keeping you 100% in the dark — that person will certainly do it again. There are just some people who, when things turn temporarily bad, start looking for someone — anyone — who will take them so they can make their exit, leaving their partners behind.

Ordinary decent people understand, and they work problems out with their partners; if there is an unsurmountable problem, they will seek to end the relationship first, before finding comfort in the arms of another person.

The cheater, on the other hand, distances themselves from their partner while making themselves available to others — that is, either signaling to or pursuing other potential partners — until someone bites. This someone is usually an unscrupulous and desperate type, who couldn't get anyone else, not even from the bottom of the barrel.

What distinguishes good people from low-quality people isn't how they act when they are happy and fulfilled. It's how they respond when temptation appears. Low-quality people lie, cheat and betray. Good people do the right thing.

Unless you have a severe mental disorder, it really isn't all that out of the ordinary to do the right thing.

I was in a five year relationship with a cheater. His reason was he fell out of love and na-fall siya sa girl since same interests nila. But, inamin niya na hindi lang si girl yung chinat niya, yung girl lang talaga na yon yung pumatol sa kanya kaya 'he dropped me like a hot potato.'

sorry to hear your story, sayang natatapat tayo sa mabababang klase ng tao. :(.

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Kasi may kulang.
Either time, or affection.

Kahit mahal mo talaga. May needs ka padin as a person na need mapunan.
This is why people cheats.

Kaya maganda lagi talaga ang open-ended na communication.

And take note na, it doesn't really mean na he doesn't love you if he cheated.
Sometimes, kelangan nya lang yan for a quick fix. And then sigurado babalik din sayo yan.

still nakasakit na sila lalo na at malalaman ng partner nila na nagcheat sila
 
Like a lion, guys cheat to test their masculinity.
Regardless of gender, everyone can and will cheat. women can also, or should I say more capable of cheating as well...


All about balance, Yin-yang.
 
nobody's perfect. men and women cheat. siguro for some, madali matukso o maakit.. sa iba, may nakita sigurong katangian sa ibang babae o lalake na wala sa partner nila.. others, na-fall out of love na..
 
normal lang naman amg cheat, its a matter of responsibilities na lang siguro para sa ibang hindi nagkakasala. Marami reasons pero kung ikaw ang reason, syempre hindi mo makikita yan, nature kasi ng tao ang maging bias sa sarili. (tipong, saan ako nagkamali ang drama)

ang isang successful relationship eh nakabase sa responsible couples, minsan kasi may mga mababaw na selos na pinapalaki, may mga babae akala cute mag galit galitan, meron naman walang pakialam sa nararamdaman ng partner.

Well, for both genders naman ito, not necessarily na babae or lalake, marami akong kakilala na talagang nakakabigla na malatelenobela, karamihan, babae ang nagloloko at mas matindi kesa sa lalake.

Siguro isa sa pinakapanget na ginawa ng tao ay yung kasal, para kasi talagang tali na hindi mo basta2 pwedeng putulin, kapag pumili ka ng partner, talagang nandyan ang posibilidad na may mangangaliwa or magkakasala or aayaw sa inyo, kumbaga, kung ayaw na, edi tigilan na, bakit nyo pipilitin sarili nyo sa ayaw di ba. Kaya yung iba, ayaw ng kasal, kasi ginagawang sumpa nung iba. Kasal tayo, bawal ka magloko.

Galing ako sa sa broken family, noong una, puro naririnig ko, yung mga bad side ni father, pero nang tumagal, narealize ko bakit nya pinili na iwanan mother ko.

In the end, isa lang ang sigurado, everything happens for a reason.

"the end justifies the means"
 
everything happens for a reason? Naaah.. it happened because you chose to make it happen, kahit na alam mong mali..
 
People cheat for a lot of reasons... Usually kasi naghahanap ng excitement, or para mahanap yung mga bagay na di nila nakukuha sa current partner nila, or sometimes it's simply for revenge.

But regardless of reasons, cheating is and will always be, a choice. Imposibleng maging aksidente yan. Ang mali ay mali, regardless kung ano-ano yung mga dahilan mo para mapunta ka sa ganung desisyon o sitwasyon. One can never justify it. Never.

Ang importante na lang dyan is kung magbabago ba yung taong nakapag-cheat para ma-improve yung sarili niya, o hindi.
 
Di naman siguro "Men" lang ang cheater. Buong buhay ko niloko ako ng mga naging GF ko pati nga naging asawa kaya nga hiwalay ako eh. Until now may trauma ako kaya imbis na pag aksayahan ko magkaroon ng relasyon gumagawa na lang ako ng way para ma-improve yung sarili ko at hindi ma-stress.
 
Isa sa mga nakikita at nababasa ko is: dahil ayun ang nakasanayan nyang makita sa environment na meron siya like sa circle of friends nya kung lahat ng friends nya is kunsintidor at nagloloko sa mga partner nila malamang sa alamang maiimpluwensyahan yun.

Nakadepende rin talaga rin yan sa mismong tao kung magccheat siya or hindi. Karamihan naman gusto lang for own pleasure, yung iba naman hindi "daw" masaya sa partner, yung iba naman natutukso at yung iba naman trip lang talaga manakit ng ibang tao.

PERO ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT COMMUNICATION IS ALWAYS THE KEY! 🔑
 
For me as a christian, IMO those who cheated be it men or women does not have God in the picture.
 
hindi lahat nag cheat eh. tapat tapat lang yan..
 
sa panahon ngayon babae, lalaki, pangit, bading, tumboy nag luluko... hindi naman lahat pero, parta sakin ang isa lang dahilan nyan.. "KAWALAN NG RESPETO SA PARTNER NILA" kahit pa subrang ganda at gwapo ng partner nila kong walang respeto sa isat isa.. magkakalamat talaga ang isang relasyon
 
Di ko alam, siguro gusto lang nilang maging mise-rab-le.
 
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