What Every Girl Must Know

[bravebrian]

Before I start I want to share some facts:

1.All guys that courted a girl doesn't mean he already loves her. At first he only WANTS her.
2.Most of the girls (most not all) use their HEART to analyze the guys who courts them.
3.Girls are more emotional than guys. (wala ng kokontra d2)
4.Birds of the same feather flocks together.
5.There is no permanent thing in this world except to ONE.(ano kaya un?)
All people change as time goes by...affecting their beliefs, morals, habits, attitude, etc.

ok lets start with my ipinion.
I ask several girls kung anu ang hinahanap nila sa guys
na nanliligaw sa kanila and the top answer is

"Does he really LOVE me?"
in tagalog
"Seryoso ba sa ken tong lalaki na to?".

I think there is something wrong in this.

coz there is no guy would truly say that he
already loves the woman he's courting.

sa simula kase eh GUSTO LANG.

isa pa. LOVE ba kamo.
Cge ask ko kayo
ano ang meaning ng LOVE sa inyo?
cguro ung iba "Love is Blind" well kung ganyan lng ang pamantayan
ng Love nyo eh panu nyo nga malalaman na mahal kau nung guy. Gets?

Para kayong naghahanap ng isang bagay na hindi nyo alam kung anu un.

(kung gusto nyo malaman ang ibig sabihin ng perfect love read the bible)
1 corinthians 13:4-10 then try comparing kung anu ang love para sa inyo.

Mali ang tanong ng mga girls sa sarili nila tungkol d2.
Sa tingin ko dapat ang tanong nyo sa sarili nyo eh ganito:

"What are his intensions?" in tagalog
"Ano bang gusto nito to sa ken".

Well kung gagamitin nyo lng maigi ang isip nyo
as in gagamitin talaga.
Madali malaman ang intension ng guys sa inyo
Cguro alam nyo nyo na ung isang pinaka obvious d2.
Mas madali malaman ang intensions ng guys if sinagot nyo na.

May konting mali kc sa courtship d2 sa tin eh. Kinikilala ng
mga girls ung guys habang nanliligaw sa kanila. Sa tingin ko mali.

Meron ba namang guy na nagpakita ng masamang ugali during courting.
Well pwedeng makita nyo ung iba pero ung pinaka tinatago nyang ugali
di nyo makikita.
marami rin ngang nagsasabi n nung naging mag-asawa
na sila tsaka lang lumabas ung ibang ugali na di kgandahan eh.
what else if nanliligaw p lng.

Kadalasan kasing scenario ay ganito:

1st. liligawan ng guy ung girl
2nd. Mahuhulog na ung loob ng gurl sa guy
3rd. Sasagutin na nya
4th. Habang cla tsaka lalabas ung mga pangit ng ugali at intensions ng guy
5th. Hirap nang makipagbreak ung girl kc "mahal" na nya
6th. Darating ung time na nakuha na ng guy ung WANTS nya
7th. Break-up

Bkit di nyo i-try sagutin ung guy ng hindi pa nahuhulog ung loob nyo
tapos during the time na mag-on kau tsaka niyo cya i-analyze.

DON"T FORGET TO KNOW HIS INTENSIONS!!!

then kapag alam niyo na madali na magdesisyon kung anu susunod na gagawin
Madali hiwalayan kc di pa naman nyo cya ganun kagusto.("love" or whatever you call it)

I'm not saying na sagutin nyo lahat ng suitors nyo agad.
Isipin niyo may nagaaply sa inyo ng trabaho.
Diba cyempre may first screening, 2nd screening @ interviews un
Kung sa first screening bagsak n e di wag nyo na sagutin.

Two important pointers During Mag-on.

1.Know His Family!!!
Panu ba siya makitungo sa pamilya nya? Or close b silang buong pamilya?
kc kung sa sarili niyang pamilya di cya ganun kabaet
Panu pa dun sa girl n GF nya p lng.(Ooops di kaya pakitang tao lng)
Importante malaman niyo kung anong klaseng pamilya meron tong taong to.
Inde nagbubunga ng santol ang puno ng mangga.

2.Know His Friends!!!
tell me who your friends are, and I will tell you who you are.
well kung di nyo kilala or di kau pinakikilala sa mga kaibigan nya
1000% niloloko lng kau nyan.
Masama nyan di nyo pa alam kung saan nakatira.

Knowing a person takes time. And on my point of view
"A person's personality is almost part Family influence and part Peers influence depends on which he spent most of his time"

Last na tip ko sa inyo:

Ask straight the guy if anu plano niya bakit ka niya nililigawan.
If he's willing to marry you then it's ok.
if not then why is he courting you?
di ba't eto dapat ang main reason ng panliligaw.
"Liligawan mo lang kung sino ang gusto mo makasama habang buhay"
kung may magsasabi ba sa inyong manliligaw na...
"pede ba kita maging KASINTAHAN ngayon pero wala akong planong pakasalan ka ha"
sasagutin niyo ba?
well kung sinasagot niyo pa ang mga ganyang klaseng lalaki eh kasalanan niyo na.

Para naman sa inyong mga girls kung di pa kau handa magpakasal
wag kau sasagot ng guy.
Tanong ko naman sa inyo eh.
Bakit niyo naman sasagutin eh inde pa pala kau handa mag-asawa.?

God Bless You All

I'm open for your questions If there's any. Hit thanks if this help.

 

[radleylouis]

Meron kang point ts, need nten opinion ng mga gurls.
db meron nman mg on na pinahihintay nya ung guy na til hndi kasal hndi nya mkukuha ung gusto nya?! Pwde ding sagutin nya kung hndi mkpg hintay ung guy hndi sya seryoso all he wants ung needs lang.

 

[oneandonlyyou]

 

[bravebrian]

Meron kang point ts, need nten opinion ng mga gurls.
db meron nman mg on na pinahihintay nya ung guy na til hndi kasal hndi nya mkukuha ung gusto nya?! Pwde ding sagutin nya kung hndi mkpg hintay ung guy hndi sya seryoso all he wants ung needs lang.

Tama yan TS. Pero alam mo ung pagiging seryoso ng isang tao eh madaling magbago. Pero ung INTENTION eh inde basta basta nababago. Naaapektuhan naman ang INTENTIONS ng isang tao kung ano ang prinsipyo at pananaw niya sa mga bagay-bagay. Siyempre alam naman natin na merong baluktot na prinsipyo at pananaw.

 

[bravebrian]

What is True Love? Here it is.

1 If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is LOVE.

1 Corinthians 13 (NIV)


We all know that there is different kinds ok love. Divine love - love of God, Paternal love - love of parents, Romantic love - love of opposite sex etc...

But what we have not been knowing are its characteristics.

Why do we have different meanings of Love? why do we have our own meaning when it is already been clearly defined in the Bible. Is it because we are wiser than those who wrote the bible? Or is it that the Love defined in the bible does not truly exist in reality thats why we don't accept it?


The Love defined here is not only Divine Love (love of God).

We know that God can love us perfectly like this.

But Paul wrote this...

1 If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.

He is talking about himself as an example...

Love is something that he must have in him...

What I mean is We and Paul can also love like this. And God made us capable of doing so.

It is not impossible to Love like this


Let's talk about Love:

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 Itdoes not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

If you will notice. all of the characteristics of love is something that we must do. it is not something that we feel.

Lets look at the King James Version (first english version of the bible)

4 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,

5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;

6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;

7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.

1 Corinthians 13 (KJV)


You will also notice that the original word used is Charity ( is giving without asking something in return)

It is impossible for a person to love who does not know how to give.


1. If you are patient then you are loving

2. If you are kind then you are loving

3. If do not envy (jealous) then you are loving

4. If you do not boast on what you do then you are loving

5. If do not dishonor others then you are loving

6. If you are not self-seeking (selfishness) then you are loving

7. If you are not easily angered then you are loving

8. If you do not keep record of wrongs then you are loving

9. If you hate evil and rejoices with the truth then you are loving

10. If you always protects, always trust, always hopes, always perseveres then you are loving

If what you called love lacks even one of these then think again.
And doing all of these makes you sure that you are loving right.
doing these things takes time to perfect. by constant prayer and practice.
You will know that you perfected it

"If you felt happiness and peace every time you do it"

"There is no difference between a person who knows but does not do it to a person who does not know it at all"


God Bless...^^,

 

[bravebrian]

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[Kayeah24]

nice one TS,
nga naman..
tama nga naman.

 

[Daughx]

Before I start I want to share some facts:

1.All guys that courted a girl doesn't mean he already loves her. At first he only WANTS her.
2.Most of the girls (most not all) use their HEART to analyze the guys who courts them.
3.Girls are more emotional than guys. (wala ng kokontra d2)
4.Birds of the same feather flocks together.
5.There is no permanent thing in this world except to ONE.(ano kaya un?)
All people change as time goes by...affecting their beliefs, morals, habits, attitude, etc.

ok lets start with my ipinion.
I ask several girls kung anu ang hinahanap nila sa guys
na nanliligaw sa kanila and the top answer is

"Does he really LOVE me?"
in tagalog
"Seryoso ba sa ken tong lalaki na to?".

I think there is something wrong in this.

coz there is no guy would truly say that he
already loves the woman he's courting.

sa simula kase eh GUSTO LANG.

isa pa. LOVE ba kamo.
Cge ask ko kayo
ano ang meaning ng LOVE sa inyo?
cguro ung iba "Love is Blind" well kung ganyan lng ang pamantayan
ng Love nyo eh panu nyo nga malalaman na mahal kau nung guy. Gets?

Para kayong naghahanap ng isang bagay na hindi nyo alam kung anu un.

(kung gusto nyo malaman ang ibig sabihin ng perfect love read the bible)
1 corinthians 13:4-10 then try comparing kung anu ang love para sa inyo.

Mali ang tanong ng mga girls sa sarili nila tungkol d2.
Sa tingin ko dapat ang tanong nyo sa sarili nyo eh ganito:

"What are his intensions?" in tagalog
"Ano bang gusto nito to sa ken".

Well kung gagamitin nyo lng maigi ang isip nyo
as in gagamitin talaga.
Madali malaman ang intension ng guys sa inyo
Cguro alam nyo nyo na ung isang pinaka obvious d2.
Mas madali malaman ang intensions ng guys if sinagot nyo na.

May konting mali kc sa courtship d2 sa tin eh. Kinikilala ng
mga girls ung guys habang nanliligaw sa kanila. Sa tingin ko mali.

Meron ba namang guy na nagpakita ng masamang ugali during courting.
Well pwedeng makita nyo ung iba pero ung pinaka tinatago nyang ugali
di nyo makikita.
marami rin ngang nagsasabi n nung naging mag-asawa
na sila tsaka lang lumabas ung ibang ugali na di kgandahan eh.
what else if nanliligaw p lng.

Kadalasan kasing scenario ay ganito:

1st. liligawan ng guy ung girl
2nd. Mahuhulog na ung loob ng gurl sa guy
3rd. Sasagutin na nya
4th. Habang cla tsaka lalabas ung mga pangit ng ugali at intensions ng guy
5th. Hirap nang makipagbreak ung girl kc "mahal" na nya
6th. Darating ung time na nakuha na ng guy ung WANTS nya
7th. Break-up

Bkit di nyo i-try sagutin ung guy ng hindi pa nahuhulog ung loob nyo
tapos during the time na mag-on kau tsaka niyo cya i-analyze.

DON"T FORGET TO KNOW HIS INTENSIONS!!!

then kapag alam niyo na madali na magdesisyon kung anu susunod na gagawin
Madali hiwalayan kc di pa naman nyo cya ganun kagusto.("love" or whatever you call it)

I'm not saying na sagutin nyo lahat ng suitors nyo agad.
Isipin niyo may nagaaply sa inyo ng trabaho.
Diba cyempre may first screening, 2nd screening @ interviews un
Kung sa first screening bagsak n e di wag nyo na sagutin.

Two important pointers During Mag-on.

1.Know His Family!!!
Panu ba siya makitungo sa pamilya nya? Or close b silang buong pamilya?
kc kung sa sarili niyang pamilya di cya ganun kabaet
Panu pa dun sa girl n GF nya p lng.(Ooops di kaya pakitang tao lng)
Importante malaman niyo kung anong klaseng pamilya meron tong taong to.
Inde nagbubunga ng santol ang puno ng mangga.

2.Know His Friends!!!
tell me who your friends are, and I will tell you who you are.
well kung di nyo kilala or di kau pinakikilala sa mga kaibigan nya
1000% niloloko lng kau nyan.
Masama nyan di nyo pa alam kung saan nakatira.

Knowing a person takes time. And on my point of view
"A person's personality is almost part Family influence and part Peers influence depends on which he spent most of his time"

Last na tip ko sa inyo:

Ask straight the guy if anu plano niya bakit ka niya nililigawan.
If he's willing to marry you then it's ok.
if not then why is he courting you?
di ba't eto dapat ang main reason ng panliligaw.
"Liligawan mo lang kung sino ang gusto mo makasama habang buhay"
kung may magsasabi ba sa inyong manliligaw na...
"pede ba kita maging KASINTAHAN ngayon pero wala akong planong pakasalan ka ha"
sasagutin niyo ba?
well kung sinasagot niyo pa ang mga ganyang klaseng lalaki eh kasalanan niyo na.

Para naman sa inyong mga girls kung di pa kau handa magpakasal
wag kau sasagot ng guy.
Tanong ko naman sa inyo eh.
Bakit niyo naman sasagutin eh inde pa pala kau handa mag-asawa.?

God Bless You All

I'm open for your questions If there's any. Hit thanks if this help.

Very well said

 

[bravebrian]

Tnx sa mga natulungan nito. I really hope that mabawasan ung mga biktima ng maling sistema at paniniwala. A long time ago kase a had this passion para malaman bakit nga ba maraming babae ang biktima ng broken relationship. I also have close relatives who's become a victim of these. It took me many years para maintindihan ko ito. Nasa Bible pala ang sagot. If you have difficulties in life I advice you all to read the Bible.

Isa pang natutunan ko about this is
"There's no way na makalalamang ang girl sa guy sa kahit sa anong klaseng relationship except if the guy allows it"

I'll give an example about this:

Sino sa tingin niyo sino ang lamang sa sitwasyon na eto?
ung Matandang Mayamang Lalaki na madaling mamatay (thats 3M) at napangasawa ng magandang batang babaeng.

points:
1. Pinakasalan ng babae ang lalaki dahil sa pera.
2. Pinakasalan ng lalaki ang babae dahil sa bata siya at maganda
3. Para sa babae ibinenta niya ang kanyang kamusmusan "Ano kaya ang halaga ng kamusmusan na iyon sa kanya?"
4. Para naman sa lalaki Binayaran niya ng Pera ang babae "Ano naman kaya ang halaga ng pera sa isang taong mayaman at malapit ng mamatay?

The way I see it is.

Parang kang nakipagpalit ng bato sa ginto.

I'm not saying that it's hopeless for the girls to find the right man.
I'm sure God has prepared someone just for you.
Pero san kaya nakakakita ng tamang lalake with the right principles?
This is a hard question diba? Well that I cannot answer.
Ang tip ko lng sa inyo eh.
"kung bibile ka ba ng Isda sa hardware ka ba pupunta?

God Bless ulit. till next time

 

[Mikey Kun]

very well said author kaya nga wala pa akong gf ngayon, dahil inaalam ko pa talaga kung anu ang mga intentions ko para sa magiging gf ko..and syempre gusto kong maging responsible na bf nya..

 

[nbats03]

Before I start I want to share some facts:

1.All guys that courted a girl doesn't mean he already loves her. At first he only WANTS her.
2.Most of the girls (most not all) use their HEART to analyze the guys who courts them.
3.Girls are more emotional than guys. (wala ng kokontra d2)
4.Birds of the same feather flocks together.
5.There is no permanent thing in this world except to ONE.(ano kaya un?)
All people change as time goes by...affecting their beliefs, morals, habits, attitude, etc.

ok lets start with my ipinion.
I ask several girls kung anu ang hinahanap nila sa guys
na nanliligaw sa kanila and the top answer is

"Does he really LOVE me?"
in tagalog
"Seryoso ba sa ken tong lalaki na to?".

I think there is something wrong in this.

coz there is no guy would truly say that he
already loves the woman he's courting.

sa simula kase eh GUSTO LANG.

isa pa. LOVE ba kamo.
Cge ask ko kayo
ano ang meaning ng LOVE sa inyo?
cguro ung iba "Love is Blind" well kung ganyan lng ang pamantayan
ng Love nyo eh panu nyo nga malalaman na mahal kau nung guy. Gets?

Para kayong naghahanap ng isang bagay na hindi nyo alam kung anu un.

(kung gusto nyo malaman ang ibig sabihin ng perfect love read the bible)
1 corinthians 13:4-10 then try comparing kung anu ang love para sa inyo.

Mali ang tanong ng mga girls sa sarili nila tungkol d2.
Sa tingin ko dapat ang tanong nyo sa sarili nyo eh ganito:

"What are his intensions?" in tagalog
"Ano bang gusto nito to sa ken".

Well kung gagamitin nyo lng maigi ang isip nyo
as in gagamitin talaga.
Madali malaman ang intension ng guys sa inyo
Cguro alam nyo nyo na ung isang pinaka obvious d2.
Mas madali malaman ang intensions ng guys if sinagot nyo na.

May konting mali kc sa courtship d2 sa tin eh. Kinikilala ng
mga girls ung guys habang nanliligaw sa kanila. Sa tingin ko mali.

Meron ba namang guy na nagpakita ng masamang ugali during courting.
Well pwedeng makita nyo ung iba pero ung pinaka tinatago nyang ugali
di nyo makikita.
marami rin ngang nagsasabi n nung naging mag-asawa
na sila tsaka lang lumabas ung ibang ugali na di kgandahan eh.
what else if nanliligaw p lng.

Kadalasan kasing scenario ay ganito:

1st. liligawan ng guy ung girl
2nd. Mahuhulog na ung loob ng gurl sa guy
3rd. Sasagutin na nya
4th. Habang cla tsaka lalabas ung mga pangit ng ugali at intensions ng guy
5th. Hirap nang makipagbreak ung girl kc "mahal" na nya
6th. Darating ung time na nakuha na ng guy ung WANTS nya
7th. Break-up

Bkit di nyo i-try sagutin ung guy ng hindi pa nahuhulog ung loob nyo
tapos during the time na mag-on kau tsaka niyo cya i-analyze.

DON"T FORGET TO KNOW HIS INTENSIONS!!!

then kapag alam niyo na madali na magdesisyon kung anu susunod na gagawin
Madali hiwalayan kc di pa naman nyo cya ganun kagusto.("love" or whatever you call it)

I'm not saying na sagutin nyo lahat ng suitors nyo agad.
Isipin niyo may nagaaply sa inyo ng trabaho.
Diba cyempre may first screening, 2nd screening @ interviews un
Kung sa first screening bagsak n e di wag nyo na sagutin.

Two important pointers During Mag-on.

1.Know His Family!!!
Panu ba siya makitungo sa pamilya nya? Or close b silang buong pamilya?
kc kung sa sarili niyang pamilya di cya ganun kabaet
Panu pa dun sa girl n GF nya p lng.(Ooops di kaya pakitang tao lng)
Importante malaman niyo kung anong klaseng pamilya meron tong taong to.
Inde nagbubunga ng santol ang puno ng mangga.

2.Know His Friends!!!
tell me who your friends are, and I will tell you who you are.
well kung di nyo kilala or di kau pinakikilala sa mga kaibigan nya
1000% niloloko lng kau nyan.
Masama nyan di nyo pa alam kung saan nakatira.

Knowing a person takes time. And on my point of view
"A person's personality is almost part Family influence and part Peers influence depends on which he spent most of his time"

Last na tip ko sa inyo:

Ask straight the guy if anu plano niya bakit ka niya nililigawan.
If he's willing to marry you then it's ok.
if not then why is he courting you?
di ba't eto dapat ang main reason ng panliligaw.
"Liligawan mo lang kung sino ang gusto mo makasama habang buhay"
kung may magsasabi ba sa inyong manliligaw na...
"pede ba kita maging KASINTAHAN ngayon pero wala akong planong pakasalan ka ha"
sasagutin niyo ba?
well kung sinasagot niyo pa ang mga ganyang klaseng lalaki eh kasalanan niyo na.

Para naman sa inyong mga girls kung di pa kau handa magpakasal
wag kau sasagot ng guy.
Tanong ko naman sa inyo eh.
Bakit niyo naman sasagutin eh inde pa pala kau handa mag-asawa.?

God Bless You All

I'm open for your questions If there's any. Hit thanks if this help.

Nice topic pare sapol na sapol karamihan dito.

 

[aianzky]

tama .nice ts

 

[nbats03]

Up ko lang yung topic TS.

 

[buttercup20]

hmmmm...nice post ts..
sana mabasa to ng kabataan..

usually kasi sila yung atat pumasok sa isang relationship... maraming reasons why..
1. peer pressure, nagkaasaran lang, tinukso ng friends, o sya na lang walang partner kaya ngbf/gf
2. family problem, for comfort kaya ngbf/gf
3. curious lang anu anu ang feeling na may partner
4. may mga bagay na gusto itry..

etc.

and gusto ko yang last part...

i always tell my students, wag magmadali... di naman dapat nagppraktis para at the end, magaling ka na maghandle ng relationship.. better if you and your future partner will learn together...

na for guys, pag nancourt ng girl at for girls kung sasagutin nyo yung guy, make sure na iask mo muna yung sarili mo, if willing ka at sya na ang gusto mong makasama mo forever.. i mean sya ang gusto mong pakasalan... if not then wag na ituloy ang courting at pagsagot...

pero ts meju may conflict..

May konting mali kc sa courtship d2 sa tin eh. Kinikilala ng
mga girls ung guys habang nanliligaw sa kanila. Sa tingin ko mali.

Meron ba namang guy na nagpakita ng masamang ugali during courting.
Well pwedeng makita nyo ung iba pero ung pinaka tinatago nyang ugali
di nyo makikita.
marami rin ngang nagsasabi n nung naging mag-asawa
na sila tsaka lang lumabas ung ibang ugali na di kgandahan eh.
what else if nanliligaw p lng.


then kapag alam niyo na madali na magdesisyon kung anu susunod na gagawin
Madali hiwalayan kc di pa naman nyo cya ganun kagusto.("love" or whatever you call it)

panu mo maiisip yung future nyo together if you barely know each other...? i mean bago mo sya icourt at sagutin at iask yung sarili mo if sya na ang gusto mo pakasalan, dapat kilala mo na sya....

i think better kung sa friendship talaga magstart lahat... para makilala mo ang isang tao.. not during courtship.. iba kasi ang real meaning ng courtship sa courtship na alam natin..

@thread,
try reading these books by joshua harris...
maganda.. very inspiring...

i kissed dating goodbye
boy meets girl (about courtship to)

merun atang ebook dito, pasearch na lang po..

 

[bravebrian]

hmmmm...nice post ts..
sana mabasa to ng kabataan..

usually kasi sila yung atat pumasok sa isang relationship... maraming reasons why..
1. peer pressure, nagkaasaran lang, tinukso ng friends, o sya na lang walang partner kaya ngbf/gf
2. family problem, for comfort kaya ngbf/gf
3. curious lang anu anu ang feeling na may partner
4. may mga bagay na gusto itry..

etc.

and gusto ko yang last part...

i always tell my students, wag magmadali... di naman dapat nagppraktis para at the end, magaling ka na maghandle ng relationship.. better if you and your future partner will learn together...

na for guys, pag nancourt ng girl at for girls kung sasagutin nyo yung guy, make sure na iask mo muna yung sarili mo, if willing ka at sya na ang gusto mong makasama mo forever.. i mean sya ang gusto mong pakasalan... if not then wag na ituloy ang courting at pagsagot...

pero ts meju may conflict..



panu mo maiisip yung future nyo together if you barely know each other...? i mean bago mo sya icourt at sagutin at iask yung sarili mo if sya na ang gusto mo pakasalan, dapat kilala mo na sya....

i think better kung sa friendship talaga magstart lahat... para makilala mo ang isang tao.. not during courtship.. iba kasi ang real meaning ng courtship sa courtship na alam natin..

@thread,
try reading these books by joshua harris...
maganda.. very inspiring...

i kissed dating goodbye
boy meets girl (about courtship to)

merun atang ebook dito, pasearch na lang po..

Yup you're right. Starting in Friendship pa rin ang the best way. Lalo na kung matagal mo siyang naging kaibigan. Kase inde mo na kailangan masyado i-analyze ung lalaki or girl kase nga mas kilala mo na siya. kaya nga sinabi ko sa post ko na "Knowing a first person takes time". Ung post ko is expecially for those doesn't know it. Yung mga kabataan nga gaya ng sabi mo and their reasons gaya rin ng sabi mo.
Regarding naman sa courtship.
Usually naman lalaki ang nanliligaw diba. napaka-akward naman kung meron kang nakitang babaeng nagustuhan mo at first time mo lang nakita then sinabihan mo agad na gusto mo siyang ligawan. Although di ko sinasabing inde pedeng mangyari to. But kung matinong lalaki un di niya gagawin yun. Siyempre I suggest for those good guys na be friends with the girl muna. Pede niyo na kilalanin ang isa't-isa during this period naman eh. And eventually mararamdaman ng girl ung intentions mo. then If you're ready. Proposal na. Be sure to propose something really good for the girl. Kaya nga proposal eh. Nag-aalok ka ng isang bagay na maganda. Pero wag kayo ma madismaya kung Negative ang sagot ng girl. Remember that love is something that you give to others and not for yourself. Doing good for others is enough to feel better.

Kung ginawa niyo ung guide na eto eh I assumed na malaki na ang pagkakilala niyo sa partner niyo if ever na kayo nga ang magkatuluyan.
Tungkol naman dun sa pagplano ng future eh madali lang un basta lagi niyo lang iisipin na always for the benefits of the other.
We can not tell our tomorrows eh. Only God knows what will happen tomorrow. But what I'm sure is "He has perfect plans for"

Different topic na to. Tungkol na sa marriage to.
Sana nasagot ko ung Conflict mo TS.
Keep sharing your insights and let us learn together.

God Bless.

 

[DARKSIDEofME]

TS babae ka ba or laaki.. hehe

"Bkit di nyo i-try sagutin ung guy ng hindi
pa nahuhulog ung loob nyo
tapos during the time na mag-on kau
tsaka niyo cya i-analyze.
DON"T FORGET T"

awts.. parang kawawa nmnung giys dito pra skin kc lahat nmn may badside isa na ako dun. "darkside" pero nice thread ts.

meron bapra sa atin? what to know about girls..?

 

[jnatskie]

wow galing n2 ts..

 

[bravebrian]

TS babae ka ba or laaki.. hehe

"Bkit di nyo i-try sagutin ung guy ng hindi
pa nahuhulog ung loob nyo
tapos during the time na mag-on kau
tsaka niyo cya i-analyze.
DON"T FORGET T"

awts.. parang kawawa nmnung giys dito pra skin kc lahat nmn may badside isa na ako dun. "darkside" pero nice thread ts.

meron bapra sa atin? what to know about girls..?

Sana na nabasa mo TS ung post ko na "Walang pagkakataon na makalalamang ang girls sa guys when it comes to relationship" So don't worry about it. Pero i disagree na lahat may bad side.
Although walang taong perpekto we still have the choice on what we do. Para mong kasing sinabing pinanganak ka nang ganyan.
Kung ano tayo ngayon TS eh dahil yan ang pinili natin maging.
So there's always a chance to change and make the right decisions. Depende pa rin sa tin kung anu ang pipiliin natin.
Inde kase ako naniniwalang inde kayang magbago ng isang tao.
Walang kasing pinanganak na may ugali na. Lahat tayo eh parang blangkong papel na habang tayo'y lumalaki at nagkakaisip eh meron tayong isinusulat dun. At lahat ng isinisulat natin dun eh may kakayahan din tayong burahin. It's your choice TS kaya kung ano man ang nangyayari sa buhay natin eh we have no right to blame others even our parents.
Sabi nila "Sa mata ng mga bata ang mali ay nagiging tama kapag ito'y ginagawa ng mas matanda". Totoo naman eto kung talagang bata ka.
Pero ang totoong bata eh yung hindi alam ang tama sa mali
Ask yourself if at what age din you already know na masama magnakaw? or mali ang magsinungaling?...
Sana nakuha mo ung point ko TS regarding this.

God Bless You

 

[jaylordamar03]

galing mo otoy!

 

[bravebrian]

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