GIRLS, any questions tungkol saming mga BOYS? we're here to answer you

[bebsky]

how wud you react if yours friends gf is flirting with you?
what will you do in that kind of situation?

 

[Lexus88]

Ano ba kadalasang kinaseselos nyo at kinagagalit nyo sa pakikipagrelasyon?

Lalaki at Attention

how wud you react if yours friends gf is flirting with you?
what will you do in that kind of situation?

XD wala eh ang alam ku lang sa flirting ay harutan laang.
nalalaman naman yun kapag may laman yung sinasabi saka aku iiwas baka makatikim pa aku ng sabunot sa sa gf

 

[Riyae08]

how wud you react if yours friends gf is flirting with you?
what will you do in that kind of situation?

Hahaha, Wag po ate wag po!

Ako'y isang lalaki. Marupok at mahina sa tukso

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I'll try my best to resist though

pros and cons

Ano ba kadalasang kinaseselos nyo at kinagagalit nyo sa pakikipagrelasyon?

Basic na kinaseselos dapat siguro (manhid manhid din raw ako eh )

Ikinagagalit

long list,

pero basically invading my personal space without consent
and annoying me too much, nagging me too much
maybe anything negative that's too much.

di nga lang talaga ako magagalitin sa babae.

sometimes, I find them cute doing those stuffs anyway.

that is when they do it with their selfish funny reasons

 

[DnDarkAngel1]

TS pde ako mag tanong? Yung GF ko kasi, binibigay ko naman lahat sa kanya, pagmamahal, atensyon, inuuna ko pa nga siya kesa sa pag aaral. Pero bat ganun , d naman TS sa humihingi ako ng kapalit, pero bat d ako kuntento sa binibigay niya? parang ano TS parang d niya kayang tapatan ang pagmamahal ko kaya nasasaktan ako, pag sa school , siya naman lagi kong iniintindi, pero ako hindi, Paranoid lang ba ako TS, pano ko maiiwasan masaktan oo alam naman natin TS na d maiiwasan pero d na normal ang sakit sa akin eh parang palagi na lang, o atensyon TS kulang ba binibigay niya sa akin, kasi sabi niya priority niya school eh d naman nag si-sync in sa utak ko Pa help

 

[Riyae08]

TS pde ako mag tanong? Yung GF ko kasi, binibigay ko naman lahat sa kanya, pagmamahal, atensyon, inuuna ko pa nga siya kesa sa pag aaral. Pero bat ganun , d naman TS sa humihingi ako ng kapalit, pero bat d ako kuntento sa binibigay niya? parang ano TS parang d niya kayang tapatan ang pagmamahal ko kaya nasasaktan ako, pag sa school , siya naman lagi kong iniintindi, pero ako hindi, Paranoid lang ba ako TS, pano ko maiiwasan masaktan oo alam naman natin TS na d maiiwasan pero d na normal ang sakit sa akin eh parang palagi na lang, o atensyon TS kulang ba binibigay niya sa akin, kasi sabi niya priority niya school eh d naman nag si-sync in sa utak ko Pa help

unang una sa lahat.

Wrong thread ka pre. pang Girls to kasi.

pero dahil andito na yan sasagutin natin yan sa perspective ng isang lalaki gaya ko.

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The problem here might be on whether you are being too clingy
and/or she really isn't giving enough effort on the relationship.


That is I don't see reason enough na pabayaan mo ang pag aaral mo para lang sa relationship mo
kasi kung iniisip mo ang future niyo, you should strive more para mabigyan/matulungan siya
towards a better future, di ba that's how partners should work?

Pwede rin na kahit sabihin mo na di ka humihingi ng kapalit
subconciously, you wish na sana gawin niya rin sayo ang ginagawa mo
which is we can hardly demand on people we love, after all she has her way of loving you.

maybe you just can't see the signs or ways she does to show you she loves you
kasi masyado ka preoccupied na hindi niya nagagawa ang nagagawa mo
or natutumbasan ng enough ang naibibigay mo.
or sadyang may hinahanap ka na di mo matagpuan/makuha sa relationship niyo.
or sadyang the love/effort/attention she gives isn't really enough.

therefore, comes the discontentment.

Kung priority niya ang school, the more you should strive na maging magaling sa school.
kasi it will show just how much you can do to help her achieve her priorities/dreams
na kaya mo gawin ang lahat para maachieve niya yung mga bagay na ikaliligaya niya.

well, That's on the perspective of Ideal Love.

so the real questions are,

paano ka nga ba makokontento?

at ano nga ba gusto mo gawin niya?

and the solutions are either

Talk about what you want from relationship or what you want it to be or what you want to happen
it might make or break your relationship, just expect the worse but still do your best

or find something that will fill your discontentment...

'cause really,maybe you are the right guy for her but she's not the right one for you-

 

[bebsky]

situation:
malayo kayo sa isat isa ng partner mo..
your very open and honest sa isat isa..
one day he said that may mga guys nagpapaakyat ng girls dun sa tinutuluyan nila..
anong ibig nyang sabihin sa sinabi nyang yun?
is there any chance that he might cheat on his partner?
if ur the guy how would you handle the situation?
would you tell her?

 

[Riyae08]

situation:
malayo kayo sa isat isa ng partner mo..
your very open and honest sa isat isa..
one day he said that may mga guys nagpapaakyat ng girls dun sa tinutuluyan nila..
anong ibig nyang sabihin sa sinabi nyang yun?
is there any chance that he might cheat on his partner?
if ur the guy how would you handle the situation?
would you tell her?

Nagets ko na...

dumugo ilong ko kakaulit ng basa bago ko nagets

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the chances depends from person to person

but since malayo kayo sa isa't isa there's always the risk of one cheating.
or doing something unwanted by the other. it depends :P

pero kung mahal ka niya,

it should decrease the chances of him cheating.

or I Hope so.

 

[bebsky]

Nagets ko na...

dumugo ilong ko kakaulit ng basa bago ko nagets

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the chances depends from person to person

but since malayo kayo sa isa't isa there's always the risk of one cheating.
or doing something unwanted by the other. it depends :P

pero kung mahal ka niya,

it should decrease the chances of him cheating.

or I Hope so.

hahaha, hindi ko din alam panu itanong to eh, basta parang ganyan. hehehe.

 

[motoro]

situation:
malayo kayo sa isat isa ng partner mo..
your very open and honest sa isat isa..
one day he said that may mga guys nagpapaakyat ng girls dun sa tinutuluyan nila..
anong ibig nyang sabihin sa sinabi nyang yun?
is there any chance that he might cheat on his partner?
if ur the guy how would you handle the situation?
would you tell her?

Cheating can always be avoided..always. Its just a choice that people make. Having said that, I guess it's positive for the guy to be honest about the situation to his girl and it's normal for the girl to worry that her guy might cheat. I think, if the girl is worried, she should somehow be upfront with it like idaan sa lambing na "baka siya rin maki-join" and see if the guy would assure the girl that he will not do the same thing. If I'm the guy I will always be upfront sa girl kung ano nangyayari sa akin whether school, work or sa tinitirahan and if the girl will tell me that she's worried then I would reassure her that she shouldn't.

 

[vinlex16]

What if may gf kayo. Tapos lage nya nakakatext yung na friend zoned na guy na kasama nya sa work before. Kakaalis lang kasi ni girl sa work. Yung guy na friend zoned nya is friend nya lang talaga before, then nagsabi si guy na may gusto sya. Pero ngayon klaro dun sa guy na hanggang friends lang maoofer ni girl. Magagalit ba kau if kayo yung boyfriend nya and lage nya nakakatext yung guy na nafriend zoned nya?

 

[Riyae08]

What if may gf kayo. Tapos lage nya nakakatext yung na friend zoned na guy na kasama nya sa work before. Kakaalis lang kasi ni girl sa work. Yung guy na friend zoned nya is friend nya lang talaga before, then nagsabi si guy na may gusto sya. Pero ngayon klaro dun sa guy na hanggang friends lang maoofer ni girl. Magagalit ba kau if kayo yung boyfriend nya and lage nya nakakatext yung guy na nafriend zoned nya?

First, I'll evaluate the circumstances...

Kung gaano sila kadalas mag usap sa text,
kung ano ano ang pinag uusapan nila,
at kung bakit sila nag uusap

I won't like that, If the boyfriend is me.
so basically I'll express my dislike on what is happening

then see what she'll do.

if nothing happens.

I'll up the game a little. I'll dig her messages

then some devious plan comes along

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so basically, being a guy I am. A selfish one at that.

I won't like any motivated guy near my Lady

 

[bebsky]

situation:
girl had this bf for 4 years..
nagbreak sila for some reason.. then nagkabalikan after a few months..
after a month of being together again..
she found out from another friend that his bf and her bestfriend had a relationship..
sometime after their break up..
now, what would you suggest for the girl to do?
she likes to work things out with him but she feel betrayed after finding that out..
she feels like shes the last one to know about it..

 

[leftright1]

What if may gf kayo. Tapos lage nya nakakatext yung na friend zoned na guy na kasama nya sa work before. Kakaalis lang kasi ni girl sa work. Yung guy na friend zoned nya is friend nya lang talaga before, then nagsabi si guy na may gusto sya. Pero ngayon klaro dun sa guy na hanggang friends lang maoofer ni girl. Magagalit ba kau if kayo yung boyfriend nya and lage nya nakakatext yung guy na nafriend zoned nya?

Magagalit ako — hindi sa babae, pero sa lalake siguro.

'Di naman siguro masama kung bibigyan ko siya ng warning o kaya signage na 'Keep Out'.

Free naman siya ( gf ) gawin yung gusto niya, yun ang gusto niya e. Basta 'di lang kami apektadong dalawa.

 

[Riyae08]

situation:
girl had this bf for 4 years..
nagbreak sila for some reason.. then nagkabalikan after a few months..
after a month of being together again..
she found out from another friend that his bf and her bestfriend had a relationship..
sometime after their break up..
now, what would you suggest for the girl to do?
she likes to work things out with him but she feel betrayed after finding that out..
she feels like shes the last one know about it..

Ask, Talk, Be Rational.

If you really wanna build a better relationship than the last one
you should know how to solve such doubts in a reasonable way.

Yes, nakakasama ng loob yung ginawa ni guy.

but that's done. whatever the reason it happened, it happened anyway.

maybe that's the reason kung bakit kayo nagkabalikan.
kung bakit mas gusto ka niya more than ever
kung bakit mas naaappreciate ka niya ngayon.

we'll never know kung di mo itatanong directly why it happened.

There are a lot of possibilities of how come it happened.

pwedeng yung bestfriend niya ang naging rebound niya.
or yun din ang cause ng breakup niyo.
or probably some other reason.

all in all, You gotta Ask and Talk.

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Well, That's how I believe the reasonable thing to do is.

Wag rin masyado conclusive

just like I did

 

[bebsky]

Ask, Talk, Be Rational.

If you really wanna build a better relationship than the last one
you should know how to solve such doubts in a reasonable way.

Yes, nakakasama ng loob yung ginawa ni guy.

but that's done. whatever the reason it happened, it happened anyway.

maybe that's the reason kung bakit kayo nagkabalikan.
kung bakit mas gusto ka niya more than ever
kung bakit mas naaappreciate ka niya ngayon.

we'll never know kung di mo itatanong directly why it happened.

There are a lot of possibilities of how come it happened.

pwedeng yung bestfriend niya ang naging rebound niya.
or yun din ang cause ng breakup niyo.
or probably some other reason.

all in all, You gotta Ask and Talk.

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Well, That's how I believe the reasonable thing to do is.

Wag rin masyado conclusive

just like I did

i cant help but to smile with your answer riyae..
the girl just did that you know..
and they become a couple for another 8 years...
throwback question.. hahahaha..
^__^

 

[vinlex16]

Tingin ko po may problema ako. Haha. I don't know but di ko maiwasan icompare ang bf ko dun sa na friend zoned na guy. Actually my bf knows this guy, pero di ko sya ininformed na may gusto sakin yung guy. Kase alam ko susugod yun sa work ko. Wala kameng any current problem with my bf, pero kasi naiicompare ko silang dalawa.
Bf ko kasi parang wala balak magtrabaho. Hindi sa pag aano ha, pero parang inaasa nya kasi sa magulang nya yung magiging trabaho nya sa ibang bansa. I mean shmpre nga naman, mas malaki ang sahod dun. Pero kasi matagal pa sya mkakapunta dun e. Katwiran ko maghanap muna sya habang andito pa sya sa pina. Kaso lage lang naglalaro yun sa gabe.
Etong c guy naman, friend ko naman to sa work e. Napapansin ko sa kanya parang opposite with my bf. Napaka sipag magtrabaho. Yun bang pang graveyard kame, tapos dederecho sya para magturo ng english language near san company namin without sleep. Naririnig ko sa ibang friends ko na ilang oras lang tulog nya makapag work lang.
Feeling ko kasi nagugustuhan ko yung guy in the sense na responsible sya. Yun bang kaya na nya tumayo magisa sa sariling paa. Di naman sila ganon ka kapos dahil may business naman daw sila. ( feeling ko nagiging unfair ako sa bf ko dahil dito.

 

[leftright1]

Tingin ko po may problema ako. Haha. I don't know but di ko maiwasan icompare ang bf ko dun sa na friend zoned na guy. Actually my bf knows this guy, pero di ko sya ininformed na may gusto sakin yung guy. Kase alam ko susugod yun sa work ko. Wala kameng any current problem with my bf, pero kasi naiicompare ko silang dalawa.
Bf ko kasi parang wala balak magtrabaho. Hindi sa pag aano ha, pero parang inaasa nya kasi sa magulang nya yung magiging trabaho nya sa ibang bansa. I mean shmpre nga naman, mas malaki ang sahod dun. Pero kasi matagal pa sya mkakapunta dun e. Katwiran ko maghanap muna sya habang andito pa sya sa pina. Kaso lage lang naglalaro yun sa gabe.
Etong c guy naman, friend ko naman to sa work e. Napapansin ko sa kanya parang opposite with my bf. Napaka sipag magtrabaho. Yun bang pang graveyard kame, tapos dederecho sya para magturo ng english language near san company namin without sleep. Naririnig ko sa ibang friends ko na ilang oras lang tulog nya makapag work lang.
Feeling ko kasi nagugustuhan ko yung guy in the sense na responsible sya. Yun bang kaya na nya tumayo magisa sa sariling paa. Di naman sila ganon ka kapos dahil may business naman daw sila. ( feeling ko nagiging unfair ako sa bf ko dahil dito.

Try mo muna i-open yang hinanakit mo sa bf mo. Ikaw na bahala kung itutuloy mo yang 'clandestine' ng pagkagusto sayo nung frinendzone mo.

Ang sakin lang, give your present a chance. Kung ayaw niya talaga magsikap, edi saka ka magdesisyon. Baka naman kasi meron ka ding hinahanap dun sa bf mo na wala dun sa masipag na kung-sino-man-yon.

Reality-wise ka naman, alam mo naman yung makakabuti sa'yo. 'Wag mo lang muna putulin yung kaya mo pang tanggalin yung buhol.

 

[Lexus88]

Ask, Talk, Be Rational.

If you really wanna build a better relationship than the last one
you should know how to solve such doubts in a reasonable way.

Yes, nakakasama ng loob yung ginawa ni guy.

but that's done. whatever the reason it happened, it happened anyway.

maybe that's the reason kung bakit kayo nagkabalikan.
kung bakit mas gusto ka niya more than ever
kung bakit mas naaappreciate ka niya ngayon.

we'll never know kung di mo itatanong directly why it happened.

There are a lot of possibilities of how come it happened.

pwedeng yung bestfriend niya ang naging rebound niya.
or yun din ang cause ng breakup niyo.
or probably some other reason.

all in all, You gotta Ask and Talk.

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Well, That's how I believe the reasonable thing to do is.

Wag rin masyado conclusive

just like I did

Eto panalo sinabi ni pards
Mas maganda ang sasabihing sagot kapag tinanung ng daretso

Tingin ko po may problema ako. Haha. I don't know but di ko maiwasan icompare ang bf ko dun sa na friend zoned na guy. Actually my bf knows this guy, pero di ko sya ininformed na may gusto sakin yung guy. Kase alam ko susugod yun sa work ko. Wala kameng any current problem with my bf, pero kasi naiicompare ko silang dalawa.
Bf ko kasi parang wala balak magtrabaho. Hindi sa pag aano ha, pero parang inaasa nya kasi sa magulang nya yung magiging trabaho nya sa ibang bansa. I mean shmpre nga naman, mas malaki ang sahod dun. Pero kasi matagal pa sya mkakapunta dun e. Katwiran ko maghanap muna sya habang andito pa sya sa pina. Kaso lage lang naglalaro yun sa gabe.
Etong c guy naman, friend ko naman to sa work e. Napapansin ko sa kanya parang opposite with my bf. Napaka sipag magtrabaho. Yun bang pang graveyard kame, tapos dederecho sya para magturo ng english language near san company namin without sleep. Naririnig ko sa ibang friends ko na ilang oras lang tulog nya makapag work lang.
Feeling ko kasi nagugustuhan ko yung guy in the sense na responsible sya. Yun bang kaya na nya tumayo magisa sa sariling paa. Di naman sila ganon ka kapos dahil may business naman daw sila. ( feeling ko nagiging unfair ako sa bf ko dahil dito.

Sabi nga nila "walang taung perpekto maliban kay pekto XD"
Ganun talaga maam nagustuhan mu sya dahil mahal mu sya at late mu na nakikita ang mga negative quality nya kapag nalaman mu na yung tunay nyang ugali.
Hindi masama sabihin sa kanya yung mga ganun kasi may karapatan ka na baguhin sya para din sa inyo yun.
Nagpapakita ka lang ng kabaitan at konsern ka lang sa kanya dahil ganun mu sya kamahal.
Natural lang yun. Kaya ayun sabihin mu yung gusto mo na mbago sa kanya.
Wag lang yung mhirap gaya ng maging leeminho ka lookalike. Mahirap yun XD

 

[bebsky]

How to tell if a guy likes you more than a friend?

 

[Sagge]

Paano kayo magpamiss?