GIRLS, any questions tungkol saming mga BOYS? we're here to answer you

[quickie]

When a guy says "You're lovely, but it's not a compliment." What the hell does that mean? *kamot ulo" hahahaha

"i don't need to say that because we already know that"... send mo nga saken pics mo nang makilatis at masabing totoo hehehe

 

[motoro]

When a guy says "You're lovely, but it's not a compliment." What the hell does that mean? *kamot ulo" hahahaha

It could mean that he's trying to indirectly say that he like's you and not just complimenting you as a friend. Unless you're not in good terms with him and he wanted to convey that you're lovely but you have a bad attitude.

 

[zakura8]

bakit nio kailangan mag boys night out tas pag tatanungin kung san pupunta nde pa alam kung saan panu kayo papayagan...anu ba dapat ko gawin naiinis ako gusto ko sya awayin.... bat ko ba sya pinayagan ..... =( help po

 

[motoro]

bakit nio kailangan mag boys night out tas pag tatanungin kung san pupunta nde pa alam kung saan panu kayo papayagan...anu ba dapat ko gawin naiinis ako gusto ko sya awayin.... bat ko ba sya pinayagan ..... =( help po

Ganon talaga minsan. Kapag random night out lang at walang special event then everything is spontaneous. Don't be too strict on your guy especially if you'd be stricter than his parents. As long as he lets you know once they have decided where to go then there's nothing to worry about.

 

[zakura8]

last day daw kasi ng boss nia how true naman kaya un.... un ang mga palusot ng mga guys diba.....

 

[motoro]

last day daw kasi ng boss nia how true naman kaya un.... un ang mga palusot ng mga guys diba.....

You know him more than anybody else here. If you have reason to doubt him then try to look for answer instead of doubting him or confronting him. If he is fooling around you will never get a straight answer. Baka nga kahit nahuli mo nang nakapatong na siya sa isang guy or girl ay di pa rin aamin yan. Make use of that doubt of yours and try to find ways to know the truth. If you have gather enough evidences then that's the time you confront him and see the look on his face. Besides, walang lihim ang hindi lumalabas. If he is indeed fooling around it will come out at the right time. But if you're impatient then, like I said, try to do some investigating.

 

[kissie shin]

Bakit may mga lalaking para magkaayos kayo, sasabihan nyo ng matatamis na salita. Pero pag tumagal, pag feeling nyo okay na, balik na kayo sa kung ano man pinag awayan nyo. Bakit ganun?

 

[Riyae08]

Sa opinion ko..

Yun ang tinatawag na panlalambing..
Exerting additional effort. That is.. going on more than ordinary..

So of course, after all is said and done.. babalik talaga sa what is normal..

Putting it into proper perspective..
Masasabi mo pa bang panlalambing ang ginagawa nya para magkaayos kayo if natural na sa kanya yung ganun at ganun rin lang ang ginagawa nya para magkaayos kayo?

As far as experiences go..
Nope.. you'd want something different.. something more..
Girls would complain their guy not being "malambing" kasi he is not exerting more than ordinary effort.. but what if in reality yun na nga ang more than ordinary effort nya parati for you?

Plus, its not just about the sweet words and gravity of effort exerted... it is about what happens to your relationship sa kada misunderstanding at away..

Did that help both of you to understand each other more?
Did that made your relationship better? Stronger?

Or were you just tiring each other out with expectation?

*not my business.. but I believe thats something ladies should ponder a little*

Also, we guys are known be discrete with our feelings..
And some people are just not that good with sweet talk

Hence, they are only able/would try to do that if it becomes necessary..

 

[montonbrian]

Bakit may mga lalaking para magkaayos kayo, sasabihan nyo ng matatamis na salita. Pero pag tumagal, pag feeling nyo okay na, balik na kayo sa kung ano man pinag awayan nyo. Bakit ganun?

Kasi po ang paglalambing o panunuyo ay parang katulad ng chocolate o icecream.

Pero wag kayo mag sasabi ng "ok hindi na ako galit" kung unclear pa kung anu pinagtalunan nyo.
Habang kumakalma ang babai dahil sa panunuyo mode ng lalaki.
Mas maigi I klaro ng babai (initiative action) ang dahilan ng mga misunderstanding habang nasa mood pa kayo.
Wala po magagawa ang lalaki kundi mag open kung talagang sincere sya.

 

[motoro]

Bakit may mga lalaking para magkaayos kayo, sasabihan nyo ng matatamis na salita. Pero pag tumagal, pag feeling nyo okay na, balik na kayo sa kung ano man pinag awayan nyo. Bakit ganun?

Almost all people are like that when they want to fix something or ask a favor regardless of gender. The difference are, some people revert back to their old ways after getting what they want while others learn from their mistakes.

 

[quickie]

It could mean that he's trying to indirectly say that he like's you and not just complimenting you as a friend. Unless you're not in good terms with him and he wanted to convey that you're lovely but you have a bad attitude.

you nailed it. it could also mean that the guy is trying to convey dismay and giving you subtle hints about your attitude. no pun intended.

 

[Lady_£ans]

Hi..
Paanu ko ba hihiwalayan ang tao sa paraang di ako makakasakit..?
8yrs na kmi but i think its over..
I want break up
Pero hindi ko siya gustong masaktan....

 

[-CHZ-]

Hi..
Paanu ko ba hihiwalayan ang tao sa paraang di ako makakasakit..?
8yrs na kmi but i think its over..
I want break up
Pero hindi ko siya gustong masaktan....

Tingin ko hindi na maiiwasan yung hindi sya masaktan eh. Lalo na kung mahal ka niya. Pero mas okay na yung sabihin mo na sa kanya kaagad kung ano talaga ang nararamdaman mo para hindi na sya umasa sa wala. The sooner, the better. Masasaktan at masasaktan sya sa malalaman niya mula sayo, pero ganun talaga, at mas okay na yun kesa patagalin mo pa.

 

[P3IN]

Hi..
Paanu ko ba hihiwalayan ang tao sa paraang di ako makakasakit..?
8yrs na kmi but i think its over..
I want break up
Pero hindi ko siya gustong masaktan....

Hindi makakasakit? hindi naman yan maiiwasan... tapos 8 years pa kayo. Sabihin mo nalang agad sakanya na gusto mo na ng hiwalay wag mo na patagalin pa. Pag pinatagal mo pa yan lalo mo lang syang masasaktan.

 

[motoro]

Hi..
Paanu ko ba hihiwalayan ang tao sa paraang di ako makakasakit..?
8yrs na kmi but i think its over..
I want break up
Pero hindi ko siya gustong masaktan....

Walang paghihiwalay na hindi masaki. There's no easy way to break someone's heart. The only consolation you can give him is the truth. If he ask for a reason then just tell her honestly why whether it's justifiable to him or not. Good luck.

 

[MinenskiePortal]

Hi..
Paanu ko ba hihiwalayan ang tao sa paraang di ako makakasakit..?
8yrs na kmi but i think its over..
I want break up
Pero hindi ko siya gustong masaktan....

Ano po ba reason? Depende kase yan sa sitwasyon at rason. Some guy kayang tanggapin ang sakit as long valid at mas makakabuti yung reason. Yung iba naman hindi okay lalo na kung may jealousy na nararamdaman. Depende yan, so better ishare mo rin reason kung bakit so para mas okay yung advice na maibibigay sayo naming mga lalaki.

 

[madapaka022]

Anong dapat gawin ng gf para hindi magsawa ang bf o ano yung mga hindi dapat gawin ng gf para hindi magsawa o maisip makipaghiwalay ng bf sa kanya?
Salamat!

 

[motoro]

Anong dapat gawin ng gf para hindi magsawa ang bf o ano yung mga hindi dapat gawin ng gf para hindi magsawa o maisip makipaghiwalay ng bf sa kanya?
Salamat!

In my opinion, there's no fool proof way to make someone whether a gf or bf to stay with you forever. I believe that whatever will be will be - if someone is meant to be our husband it will happen regardless of the circumstances, if someone is destined to be your bf for only a short or long time it will happen and so on. You just have to do your part in nurturing the relationship, that way when shit happens you know you did your best and will have no regrets. You don't need to list down what to do and what not, because if your love for your bf is true it will AUTOMATICALLY show. When people are truly in love, they tend to do extra things that they never thought they'd do and don't do things they would normally do. Communication is key so don't hesitate to talk when there's a problem or when there's something bothering you. Lastly, don't cheat.

 

[Riyae08]

Just be keep trying to be the best version of you

the kind of person you'd love to look yourself up to. yung magiging proud ka na eto ako.
and then do your best both for the relationship, yourself and for the love you have.

again, like Sir Motoro have said, there is no surefire way of making someone stay willingly if they are bound to go.

what we can only do is to give our best shot at it without regrets, and hope for the best.
if someone is bound to stay.. they will stay for whatever the reason they feel like staying for
and if someone is bound to go... they will find every reason to go... petty or not.

also, as a general rule, do only the things for the relationship, the love, the person you love.. WILLINGLY
anything else may get tiring, feel unnatural, and be regrettable to us.

If its kind of love that belongs to you
it will be yours, with our without extraordinary effort.

 

[karmachug]

Re: GIRLS, baka may tanong kayo sasagutin naming mga boys...

pwedeng kinahihiya ka nya ipakilala sa family na pwedeng maka tanggap ka ng pagka kutya. pero kung mahal mo talaga ang isang tao ipapakilala mo to even may downside to or what.

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Hi..
Paanu ko ba hihiwalayan ang tao sa paraang di ako makakasakit..?
8yrs na kmi but i think its over..
I want break up
Pero hindi ko siya gustong masaktan....

ate medyo mahirap mag paalam ng ganun katagal. at imposibleng hindi ka maka sakit sa 8 years ng pinag samahan nyo.

better tell the truth your feelings kase in the end dun parin naman ang punta. or baka naman naguguluhan ka lang kaya mo gstong iwan na sya.

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bakit nio kailangan mag boys night out tas pag tatanungin kung san pupunta nde pa alam kung saan panu kayo papayagan...anu ba dapat ko gawin naiinis ako gusto ko sya awayin.... bat ko ba sya pinayagan ..... =( help po

night out? depende naman yan kung loyal talaga yan mag sasabi yan haha! pero ako kase pag aalis ako nag papa alam ako sinasabi ko kung sino kasama ko kung saan ako makakarating pero in the end wapak haha hindi parin ako papayagan unless kasama sya pero sa bf mo may gala yan haha ewan baka sa bar or what kya ayaw mag sabi. yun lang

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Boys, bakit kapag alam niyong namiss kayo ng isang babae, lalo pa kayong magpapa-miss? Bakit kayo ganyan?"

hindi naman ate kase ako pag namimiss mo ko lalo ko ipaparamdam na mas namimiss kita ganun kase ko,, hndi ko sinasayang ung love na bnbgay sakin ng mahal ko.