bakit may mga lalaking mamas boy? at bakit kayo nagiging mamas boy? ano ba pakiramdam maging mamas boy? okay lang ba na binibaby pa rin kayo ng mother niyo kahit 20+ na ang age niyo?
please give me the authority to handle this one.
sorry for my sudden intrusion.
i, for myslef, for the freaking sake of the deities, would like to answer your question, ma'am because i can relate. hell bloody yeah...
i was a mama's boy.
and i am 25 years of age.
and i was not proud about it.
first things first, there are certain levels of being a mama's boy, a daddy's girl. simply put, they only pertain to the one being the favorite kid.
i am an only child.
and i am a member of a clan in which the family is the most important thing next to God. i despised myself for being an only child and i despised it the most when i was called a mama's boy, if that's how some people would look at me.
but inspite of the ridiculous grounds and grips my mother has with me, i can't blame her. some parents are just too afraid to lose their kids and whenever i think about it, maybe i'd be just the same in the future. in my personal case, being such a person is difficult, only if you couldn't accept it. and if you can't break through it.
i talked to my parents when i turned 21. we talked as deeply and profoundly as possible. i asserted my points and my concerns about their treatment. yeah, my dad too is pretty strict until now. imagine, their son is now an architect, has his own car, is ready for getting stable with someone and yet they treat him as if he's just about to learn how to walk.
and that vision made me realize that it's up to me. i had to work on that so that they could see me as an adult. as a growing human being.
i started to act and decide as a man.
i solved it because no other people will.
some guys may have been mamas' boys because they probably, unknowingly, like being treated like young kids. they have to prove something. they have to prove themselves.
a mother bird won't leave her youngs 'till they learn to fly on their own.