Gusto ko sabihin na batugan nga yung boyfriend mo at duwag...
pero hindi namin ang alam ang circumstances niya...
probably malaki ang fault in his part, pero mahirap manisi ng tao ng di natin alam ang pinagdaraanan niya
that is, baka kasi meron siyang bagay na hindi niya masabi sayo kasi pakiramdam niya di mo siya
uunawain
yup,
Uunawain.. Personally, di ko alam paano mo maiaaddress ang ganitong problema.
kasi there's a chance na dahil sa mga circumstances na pinagdadaanan niya nawala yung confidence niya sa sarili
nawalan na siya ng gana sa sarili niya. at nawalan na siya ng drive abutin mga gusto niya.
have we ever considered that?
ang naiisip kong tanging way na naiisip ko para dahan dahan mo maaddress yan at malaman ang ugat ng problema niya
is Ibalik mo yung confidence niya na masabi sayo mga problema niya. You don't have to say anything at all
just be there to listen attentively. Let him have his solutions. and Let him know the circumstances and why is it hard for you.
and if he can provide those solutions right now, what can he do about your problems.
you're a team after all and he is the captain.
this would take a while though, but I guess it is a good start.
gain his trust again, let him talk, then present your problems
He is stubborn, he is an idiot, because he is a guy
(sorry guys
)
I hope this helps. Separating won't solve anything at all.
It's a last resort if worse comes to worse.. but try not to. for your baby.
there are still other ways
Permanent and
Mandatory Commitment