bakit ang mga boys hindi makuntento sa isang girlfriend.......haays napakademanding pati.
well, this seems to go back to square one. it's like having us guys questioning your extreme mood swings and weathered attitudes.
it's like judging you girls, IN GENERAL.
and i know, you wouldn't want that.
okay, let's avoid generalizing. let's work on it this way...
"bakit ang
ibang boys hindi makuntento sa isang girlfriend....... haays napakademanding pati."
i won't play the perfect guy's role here. i admit, i had been unfaithful for countless times. i cheated. i lied. i flirted with and dated a lot of girls in a single moment. a bigshot as i was, i thought it'll be fun, forever. but it all happened when i was way younger. everything has changed. i got tired i am now satisfied. i am happy now.
back to your query...
as human's, we tend to neglect the people and things around us because we never get to be satisfied with what we have. that is the primary subject of contest and no one could ever explain that. it makes us humans. we look for a lot of things. we want a lot things. it's plain as that.
have you ever felt like you wanted to eat something but you weren't able to specify what food it was that you wanted?
or you wanted to do something you didn't know where to start?
conceptually, it's the same.
not only us guys. some of you girls also find it hard to be satisfied with their partners alone. maturity is interconnected with actions. however, this doesn't apply to everyone.
soon, you'll get to know the guy you really wanted. just don't push it. but open your world. don't sulk and burn bridges. our world is a big stage. there are actors and the crowd. it's up to you if you'll play the drama too or watch them execute their lines.
take it easy. don't fall too easily. i know it's beyond control but you have to give yourself some slack. when you love a guy, don't contain him too much. love him as he is and trust him. if he ruins that trust and throws your love away, it's not your loss okay. it's his, not yours.
demand is also a general term. we simply want you to look at us as men. but most of us, including myself, have soft spots within us. you just have to find those.
nagdedemand kami ng gusto namin. pero di niyo alam kung paano kami kiligin deep inside 'pag sumusunod kayo sa gusto namin.
hope this helps.
God bless.
-cholz-