GIRLS, any questions tungkol saming mga BOYS? we're here to answer you

[Riyae08]

talaga bang mainitin mga ulo ng mga lalake? kahit walang rason, gagawa ng rason para magalit

^Yeah, tulad ng sabi ni DevilDark.

minsan Anger management issues na rin ng isang tao.
or unsaid or well kept na sama ng loob ng isang tao na nagmamanifest
sa pamamagitan ng emotions like aggression and violence.

try mo tanungin kung bakit siya ganun.

minsan di rin kasi pansin ng tao na ganun siya
out of habit.

 

[psyche0105]

tinanong ko po kung bakit sagot testosterone daw po. di ko maintindihan bakit magagalit ng ganyan, wala naman ginagawa masama ehh

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parang may dalaw nga po talaga

 

[Riyae08]

I don't know about having high levels of testosterone

pero I just think na naghahanap lang siya ng dahilan sa pagiging magagalitin niya.

I think he is old enough to take control of his emotions.
So I don't that is a reasonable answer

and I've read some stuffs about testosterone over the net.

basically says, na ang angression
ay nagiging effect ng testosterone kapag
nagiging higher than average ang level niya
due to artificial means like supplements
injectables, gel and patches.

if he takes some stuffs like that
well, baka.

I'm not an expert nor a doctor though.

pero pansin ko lang.

madalas nakakasanayan lang ng tao.
may mga ganyan akong kaibigan before
pero nung nanotice nila
at napaliwanag ko sa kanila
na di advantageous ang ganung attitude
eh nabago naman nila little by little.

sa kanila ang usual causes eh
family problems, and anger management issues.

afterall, we are all Masters of our own selves

 

[psyche0105]

Salamat Iexplain ko na lang po sa kanya na mali yun at dapat nya icontrol sarili nya

I don't know about having high levels of testosterone

pero I just think na naghahanap lang siya ng dahilan sa pagiging magagalitin niya.

I think he is old enough to take control of his emotions.
So I don't that is a reasonable answer

and I've read some stuffs about testosterone over the net.

basically says, na ang angression
ay nagiging effect ng testosterone kapag
nagiging higher than average ang level niya
due to artificial means like supplements
injectables, gel and patches.

if he takes some stuffs like that
well, baka.

I'm not an expert nor a doctor though.

pero pansin ko lang.

madalas nakakasanayan lang ng tao.
may mga ganyan akong kaibigan before
pero nung nanotice nila
at napaliwanag ko sa kanila
na di advantageous ang ganung attitude
eh nabago naman nila little by little.

sa kanila ang usual causes eh
family problems, and anger management issues.

afterall, we are all Masters of our own selves

 

[Riyae08]

Anyway, tulad ng lagi kong sinasabi.

it doesn't work to your advantage
na wala kang control sa sarili mo
due to unnecessary emotions.

kung galit ka sa isang tao.
siya ang dapat magalit sayo
siya ang dapat nauubos ang oras
kakaisip sayo at gumagawa ng kung ano ano
na di makakabuti sa kanya.

hindi ikaw.

kundi ikaw ang talo

 

[leonard1928]

talaga bang mainitin mga ulo ng mga lalake? kahit walang rason, gagawa ng rason para magalit

natry mo na ba makipagusap kung anu reason ng pagkagalit nya?kung wala hindi na healthy yan sa relationship niyo pero malamang sa malamang meron yan,di niya lang masabi..alam mo naman ang mga lalaki di masyado vocal yan..

 

[ithurtsyouknow]

1) Anong ibig sabihin sa inyo guys kapag may nagtanong sa inyo na girl na kung napanood mo na yung certain na movie na yun. Tapos ang sagot mo "Hindi pa nga eh. Baket? Yayayain mo ba ako?"

Is that mean, you want to spend time with her?

2) Paano malalamang nagseselos ang guy kapag nalaman nyang meron ng other guy na nag confessed sa girl na gusto siya nito? Ano mga signs?

 

[Riyae08]

1) In my opinion, kaya nya nainterpret that way ang tanong is that
gusto niya kasi manood kayo ng movie..

but really, in my opinon too,
mataas ang chance na di pumayag ang girl sa ganitong approach
kasi mafi-feel ni girl yata na parang siya pa ang nag aaya

maybe because di kayo ganun entirely close
na madali magyayaan sa ganung bagay..

at siya yung tipo ng lalaki na palabiro
mahilig tumawa at parang di seryoso
kaya dinadaan niya sa simpleng hirit ang gusto niya sabihin.

or sadya lang ganyan sya sumagot
pag tinatanong siya

2) Paano nalalaman na nagseselos si guy?

nag iiba si guy..

nagiging either more aggressive sa actions niya towards you
or nagiging regressive at pinipili niya na lang lumayo para di ma-hurt

either way, something changes kung gusto ka ni guy
kasi mahirap iwasan na manood ka lang sa nangyayari
na kinukuha sayo dahan-dahan ang taong gusto mo

 

[verticancer]

1) Anong ibig sabihin sa inyo guys kapag may nagtanong sa inyo na girl na kung napanood mo na yung certain na movie na yun. Tapos ang sagot mo "Hindi pa nga eh. Baket? Yayayain mo ba ako?"

Is that mean, you want to spend time with her?

2) Paano malalamang nagseselos ang guy kapag nalaman nyang meron ng other guy na nag confessed sa girl na gusto siya nito? Ano mga signs?

1.) gusto nyang makasama ka na sabay nyong panoorin ung movie.
2.) Yung parang kapag kinausap mo sya parang dededmahin ka na nya. ung ilang na sya sau unless na lang kung lambingin mo talga ang guy.

 

[blaze2341]

1) Anong ibig sabihin sa inyo guys kapag may nagtanong sa inyo na girl na kung napanood mo na yung certain na movie na yun. Tapos ang sagot mo "Hindi pa nga eh. Baket? Yayayain mo ba ako?"

Is that mean, you want to spend time with her?

2) Paano malalamang nagseselos ang guy kapag nalaman nyang meron ng other guy na nag confessed sa girl na gusto siya nito? Ano mga signs?

1.)ang babae magulo tlga yan sasabihin nyang ayaw nya pero gusto naman so kapag sinabi mo na yayayain mo ba ako pwede isagot nyan eh hindi pero in my opinion ang magandang sagot eh "Hindi pa nga eh. Gusto mo panoorin natin treat ko for sure si girl papayag yan

pero d natin alam na gusto ka na nya tlga pwede bored lang sya or may problema

2.)sa experience ko para sakin gusto ko salvage ung guy na nagtapat sa kanya parang ganun kaya gagawa kami ng hakbang para mapalapit pa sa inyo kung susugal si boy lahat gagawin yan pero kung hindi sya susugal lalayo yan, ika nga if you want to success you should take a risk .

PS. konting kaalaman kakanood ng drama movie
NGSB po ako torpe kase .

 

[melala]

Hi everyone, hihingi sana ako opinion niyo if you guys don't mind.
Pero hindi to about lovelife ha? Hindi ko kasi alam kung san ba dapat ipost, eh ayoko naman gumawa pa ng bagong thread so ayun.

Kasi ganito, I was bullied in high school to the point na gusto ko na magpakamatay.. ganung level. Glad I was able to overcome it na in college. Nag strive ako from that experience at pinangako ko sa sarili ko na kailangan maging successful ako not only for myself, but partly, to prove these people wrong.

One of my high school classmates na nangbully sakin, lumapit sakin lately seeking for my financial assistance dahil yung son daw niya may malalang sakit. Sinearch ko yung sakit, sobrang serious nga na pwedeng ikamatay nung son niya.

I don't know what to do or how to feel kasi... to be honest, nawawalan ako ng gana tulungan siya knowing yung mga ginawa niya sa akin.
Worst, parang hindi siya aware sa mga ginawa niya na nakuha pa niyang lumapit sakin..

Pero at the same time, naaawa naman ako sa bata...

Any advice will be appreciated just please respect what I currently feel.. Hindi niyo alam napagdaanan ko nung binully ako so I guess I deserve to somehow feel this way against her.

Salamat!

 

[Riyae08]

Hi everyone, hihingi sana ako opinion niyo if you guys don't mind.
Pero hindi to about lovelife ha? Hindi ko kasi alam kung san ba dapat ipost, eh ayoko naman gumawa pa ng bagong thread so ayun.

Kasi ganito, I was bullied in high school to the point na gusto ko na magpakamatay.. ganung level. Glad I was able to overcome it na in college. Nag strive ako from that experience at pinangako ko sa sarili ko na kailangan maging successful ako not only for myself, but partly, to prove these people wrong.

One of my high school classmates na nangbully sakin, lumapit sakin lately seeking for my financial assistance dahil yung son daw niya may malalang sakit. Sinearch ko yung sakit, sobrang serious nga na pwedeng ikamatay nung son niya.

I don't know what to do or how to feel kasi... to be honest, nawawalan ako ng gana tulungan siya knowing yung mga ginawa niya sa akin.
Worst, parang hindi siya aware sa mga ginawa niya na nakuha pa niyang lumapit sakin..

Pero at the same time, naaawa naman ako sa bata...

Any advice will be appreciated just please respect what I currently feel.. Hindi niyo alam napagdaanan ko nung binully ako so I guess I deserve to somehow feel this way against her.

Salamat!

I am not a very Godly person.

But if someone who really needs help comes to us
we should at least do hear them out first.

eventhough at times,
they are/used to be the worst people in our lives.

First things first, meet his son.
check the details carefully.
the validity of the sickness
and how much help his son needs.

We are talking about money.
and with it comes the risk.
so we had to be sure too.

next, ask yourself this
how much can you give
without feeling bad for yourself
well, we need the money too
he maybe just needs it more
and again, chances are it will take him a while to pay
or it can also happen, that it will be just a thank you.
that is why you should consider this carefully
but I'm sure any kind of help will do.

after that,
maybe you can ask some friends
old classmates/colleagues
who might want to donate and help

Some other things other than financial assistance
I can think of that can you help him with
is if you have a friend who is a doctor
and can directly assist that old classmate of yours.
he might be able to help him reduce costs for hospitalization and others

another is to help him seek out agencies
which can also aid him some assistance with his son's predicament

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So why should you help an ass like him?
he who made your highschool life a hellish one

Simple,

You are not him.

Certainly, You are better than him.

what he did to you defined who he is
and helped you be the better you today.

but his son is out of the question..

di naman siguro kailangan idamay ang anak niya na nangangailangan
sa naging alitan niyong dalawa before..

and by the way you said it.. his son needs serious help if that is true.

So maybe, You can settle it later and help his son first.

then maybe later you can make him feel sorry later for what he did to you.

or just forget it, and just thank God for being good to you
and feel better for yourself for being the better person.

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I know this is quite a tough decision for you

but having asked somebody else's opinion
means you already knew what is the right choice

you aren't just sure yourself if that will make you feel better
nor will it be okay to go with that choice.

so all in all,

Just give what you can with what you have
and hope it would be enough to help his child.
so whatever happens,

you did your part.

 

[punkz14]

nice nemen....

 

[ithurtsyouknow]

Anong ibig sabihin ng guy kapag ganito ang scenario:

Kasi may nalaman ka na this guy said to your close friend na gusto ka pa nyang kilalanin.

Then nagdeactivate ka sa FB for a couple of days.
Tapos nag chat ka kay guy ng..

Girl: musta (insert tawagan)
Guy: Na block mo ba ako? Kasi one time ichachat kita. Ayaw na e... wala ka pang pic
Girl: Hindi ah nagdeactivate lang
Guy: Weee bakit naman?
Girl: wala lang Trip ko lang haha
Guy: Ok
Girl: Bakit ano ba yun ichachat mo?
Guy: Wala lang mangangamusta lang sana hehe
Girl: Ah haha. balita?
Guy: Naghahanap kay forever
Girl: hahaha ganun nasan ba?
Guy: hahaha ewan


Tapos bigla siyang nagsabi...

Guy: [insert name] pag nag ka bf ka, friends parin tayo ah
Girl: Haha oo naman

 

[tmacnel]

^malamng gusto ka niyan haha

sa last part e parang gusto niyang sabihin siya nalang bf mo. oooyyy

 

[ithurtsyouknow]

^ hahaha! ganun ba yun? paano mo naman nasabi?

out of nowhere kasi bigla yung sinabi nya dun sa last part na bigla ka nalang mapapaisip bakit bigla nyang nasabi yun. Haha!

 

[tmacnel]

^ang lalaki kasi minsan parang babae din yan, pagsinabi namin na ayaw namin pero ang totoo gusto namin

matanong kita nanliligaw ba yan?

 

[ithurtsyouknow]

^ kainis naman pag ganun. -_- ano yun? parang nagpaparinig siya sakin?
does he mean ba na wag ko siya iwasan pag kunwari nag ka bf na ako? hindi ko kasi magets eh.
biniro ko nga na baka magmamadre nalang ako eh haha tinawanan pa ko, sabi nya "hahaha nice"

I don't think nanliligaw siya. It's too earlyto say eh but he's been asking me out for several times like gala, nood sine, hike, kain (KKB or not) but I turn them down not because I don't like him huh.
Once ko lang siya pinagbigyan, nung nagkita kami last week. Ayun, just catching up. Kwentuhan...tawanan.

 

[tmacnel]

^yes parang ganun minsan kasi ung ibang lalaki e direct to the point magsalita kapag sinabi nilang gusto ka nila gusto ka nila ung kagaya ni kakilala mo e kagaya ko siya kami ung tipong nagbibiro lang pero malaman lahat ng sinasabi namin.

^ano ba pansin mo sa mga kilos nya nung time na nagkita kayo? kung inaaya ka nya gumala he's really interested sayo from a guy perspective di ko aayain ang taong di ko gusto. matanong kita m.u kayo? haha or do u feel something special dito sa lalaki na tp?

 

[ithurtsyouknow]

^ hirap kasi mag assume eh. Ayoko naman din maging feelingera. Hahaha! Pero yun talaga yung last part na sinabi nya yung pinagtataka ko sa kanya eh. xD

Hmm... parang medyo awkward pa kami eh. LOL kasi first time talaga namin magkakwentuhan ng seryosohan. Hanggang sa napunta na yung topic namin sa work, nag reminisce sa mga pinagusapan namin noon. Btw, former classmate ko si guy huh. Pero one thing na hndi ko makalimutan nung mag separate ways na kami kasi nga gabi na, bigla siyang nag raise ng left hand (imagine yung taong nagbaba-bye yung action) and bigla kong parang nakipag apir sa kanya using my right hand naman. naalala ko bigla siyang nautal... parang biglang nakalimutan nya pa yung sasabihin nya pati ako eh nabibitin. Nakasmile pa siya non. Hahaha! Nakuryente ata! Joke.

Do you think yung pagkikita namin na yon is considered a date narin? Kahit kwentuhan lang sa park?
Regarding sa question mo kung M.U kami. I think so? Ewan ko. Haha sabi ko nga sayo I don't want to assume things though kay close friend ko nga nalaman na pakiramdam nito eh gusto ako ni guy, yun din naman ang sabi sa kanya, at kikilalanin din daw pa ako nito. PERO bakit hindi naman masabi ng diretsuhan sa akin ni guy yung mga sinabi nito kay close friend ko?

He's special to me. Bet ko talaga siya. Hahaha!