mga boss....help naman po..
what is the best way to tell someone na ayaw ko na sa kanya... kasi may mga bagay akong hinahanap na wala sa kanya....=(..
pero nanghihinayang naman ako sa pinagsamahan..
di q alam kung ano tuloy ang gagawin...
i'll give this a shot. i don't know what advice i could give pero ganito, ilalagay ko na lang yung sarili ko sa position nung guy.
mas gugustuhin ko na tapatin mo ko. sabihin mo sa akin kung ano ang wala sa akin na hinahanap mo. kasi pag pinatagal pa natin yung relationship natin at hindi ka masaya, we'll both end up hurting each other more. at parehas lang tayong mahihirapan. hindi maganda ang masyadong pagtitiis when it comes to relationships.
or.... baka naman hindi ka lang contented sa kaya nyang ibigay. baka naman marami ka lang masyadong gusto... gets? be your own judge.
why don't you open up to him and tell him kung ano ang gusto mo. kung ano ang hinahanap mo. kung anong kulang. sa tingin mo ba, kung mag-aadjust siya and give you what you want, will your feelings come back just enough for you to stay?
now, if yes, wag mo na patagalin. because one way of acquiring answers is through asking. this is serious. nakasalalay ang relationship niyo dito so be careful. if you still think there's still a good chance for you two, go gamble.
if not, stand up and concede the game. don't make it hard for you both. be straight to the point and tell him you want it over and all you can offer is friendship. if he doesn't wanna accept that friendship, don't push it. even babies throw up the food they don't like.
you yourself can answer that.
good luck and God bless. hope everythings gonna be fine with you two.
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