hahaha ok lang sana if 2 lang kaso indi eh ... pang apat na atah ahahha a.. imagine inalagaan ng mama ko ang mga anak nio sa una grabe.. heheh dinala pa ang pera ni mama para sa bago nia... nagpatayo ng bahay at kame naman nawala...
kung kayo tatay na pag papalit nio ba ang anak nio na dugo nio sa babae... ngayon naman nag hihirap sya dun ... grabeh .... hehhehe
Ok I'm here...
Make sure when you read this, You must open your mind.
I ask you before this post that is your mom a nagger? and if not I know exactly what happened!
Your dad is a typical type of a a person who's really not satisfied with her relationship with your mom, excuse my language here. I just need to point out the issue here. but I'm not telling you that this is your mom's mistake OK!
I think You will understand what I'am going to tell you.
Do you know the saying If you eat your favorite dish like sinigang mauumay ka pagkalipas ng isang taon.
what happened in a relationship like this the spark was already gone right before your mom's eyes, and before she knew something is going on it's already too late.
Your dad is not yet finish with his fleshly satisfaction.You know what I mean,right no need to elaborate... baka mayari ako dito.
then time goes by after they got married and things at first are smooth they keep on doing what their doing like maybe your dad put your mom on the center his life, that he doesn't care about the people around them, little they know this kind of closeness will bring them to failure to grow in their relationship.
sa paulit ulit na masaya at maging naglalambingan ang relationship nyo without other external power for them to overcome, unti unti magkakasawaan sila sa isa't isa kasi parang paulit ulit nalang ang nangyayari.
Gaya ng magkasintahan kapag paulit ulit ang ginagawa ni lalaki sasabihin ni babae nagsasawa na sya kesyo I need some time to think para kasing I'm falling out of love. Pero ang totoo yung girl din ang may kasalanan kasi pini-pressure si lalaki to do things na gusto ni girl, and to please the girl si lalaki gagawin ang lahat.
Paulit ulit ang ganung scenario hanggang sasabihin na ni girl parang nasasakal nako sa ginagawa mo ,pwede bang mag-cool off muna tayo?
Nakakatawa diba para na ngang tuta si lalaki pero at the end kawawa pa siya...
It's almost the same here...
but your dad is the one stepping out of love. maybe because his not happy anymore with your mom.
Why?
parang paulit ulit ang mga nangyayari sa buhay nila, after a long years ng pagsasama ayun di na nakapigil si lalaki naghanap ng excitement sa ibang babae. Which of course is very wrong...
He should of said something to your mom, that I feel like there is something wrong with our relationship and I feel like I'am falling out of it... The problem is ayaw ng DAD mo magsabi ng ganun at kakakubli ng nararamdaman nya... dun sya nasira kasi parang baliw na baliw na sya dun sa ganung trill na patagong relasyon kasi feeling nya may excitement at trill.
But I cannot blame your mom about this kasi may ugali lang talaga tatay na maging ganun kapag nababagot sya at ang solusyon nya ay fleshly needs.
Although I strongly disagree with what your dad did, I think somehow your mom felt something before even di pa nangbabae tatay mo. kaso ang broblema di alam ng nanay mo gagawin sa ganung nararamdaman nya. Ang naging resulta ayun nagpakaloko tatay mo sa ibang girls...
Actually hanggat di nagsasawa tatay mo sa babae nya di pa makakaisip na mali ang ginawa nya, maybe naiisip nya ngayon pero di talaga ganun kalalim kung isipin nya.
So Gir lpayong kaibigan lang if your partner somehow is hidding something or acting weird lately don't nag him instead approach him in a nice way and tell him na parang nagbabago sya. Makikita mo makokonsensya yun. Tapos you don't treat him badly.
Yun eh kung mahal nyo talaga partner ninyo.