I have few quick questions guys I hope you don't mind.
1. Bakit kaya may mga guys na proud to be two timer / babaero like it's really something to be proud of? As I see it, parang defense mechanism kasi yun to mask a personality flaw they just can't accept for themselves. What could be the reason behind such disgusting personality?
2. How do I break it off to someone that he's not my priority as of now lalo na kung nag expect na siya sakin noon before? Do you think he will understand? Salamat sa sasagot.
1. well, Dahil di ganun kadali maka-two time after all
pero totoo naman di ba?
from a guy's point of view (mine)
What's not to be proud off
You make two or more people fall for you helplessly
even make them BOTH your GIRLFRIEND
MAINTAIN that number of GIRLFRIENDS
Additional Bragging rights ika nga.
It's like how we measure our Greatness
Kung gaano ka kagwapo at kahusay sa babae
Though don't get me wrong.
I'm not a womanizer myself.
Haven't tried and Haven't had the fanciest Idea why I would.
Investing on just one girl is too much of a cost to me
The Reason
There's a topic in Psychology na nagpepertain jan.
It's like this is how those people fulfill the feeling of being needed
see the point in there?
You add the dissatisfaction, the lust, the greed, discontentment
and other factors which really pushes Some to do the Act
For me, It's a matter of discontentment and comfort-
finding more comfort at another when one can't suffice to provide.
Haba noh?
2. Break it off?
Most guys are simple-minded creatures...
and yeah that includes me.
If you don't break it to our face directly
na hindi mo kami kayang ipriority talaga
at you're into another thing...
we'll just dismiss the thought as a
"Try again Later" Thing
Maybe an easy and nice way to do it is
Show him that you have no time for love
and you'll just consider other as friends, no more
"dami na nanligaw sa akin...
though I don't find anything bad with having a BF
it's just wala akong time kasi ganito ganyan (
)
sayang lang yung relationship kung hindi makapag invest ng time"
mga tipong ganyang linya habang nagkkwento
I think you see the point in there
So syempre kung ako yun
I'll insist
(persistent and insistent akong tao :rofl)
Pero eventually mauubos din ang effort ko
kasi nga, I know and I can see na
you don't see me any better than any other
Kahit di mo ko layuan, kahit wala magbago
Pero iba yung feeling na walang development efforts mo
FRIENDZONED
haba no?
I hope it would help.