1. Yep, it is more of a Fact. although not everybody, but yeah.
That's why we also love to compete among ourselves, to feed our need to boost our ego over another"
- But you also love to compete with us. You guys just won't give up without a fight. I mean, we all just want an apology but BECAUSE YOU'RE EGOISTIC...
---Well, it's a habit we can't easily ward off. we lived and grown into a society of competition amongst ourselves and with ourselves.
But it's not always the case, sometime's we just see things from two different perspectives and fail to each other's perspective.. therefore, we argue more.
and lastly, we will protect our ego, our pride most of the time.. both as a natural defense mechanism
and it is what makes us.. US.
without it, we are pretty much a twerp and/or loser.
2. Not really, as long as they don't give me a reason to.
we are all a bit judgemental when it comes with people we do and we don't like.
thus, there are things that are TOLERABLE when people we like do it.
- Yes. And one good example of being judgmental/disgusted is when one "fat girl" sits beside you in a jeep.
-----well try sitting beside a construction worker who just got off from the sun.. all sweating and smelly
3. Case to case. after all a relationship it is a bilateral commitment.
and after a while we all become to comfortable. and almost everything else changes with it.
- Then why the hell you're pretending to be sweet at first if you can't stick with it for the rest of your relationship?
---it's not always pretending.. it is how we want to be seen. it is us putting our best foot forward.
Like your first days at work. always upbeat and you can't see a single un-ironed part of the dress.
and then eventually you get comfortable, decreasing the effort.. putting it somewhere else.. or nowhere at all.
4. If titignan natin to plainly, we can say Yes.
but we'll all have to account what do we consider our Girlfriends as..
and how we see them in our life.
and how we really see the relationship going from the start.
- Sir, isn't that unfair? You'll all be gaga with this hot chick you have, give it all you've got, love her unconditionally. But if your gf is not that pretty then you'll just let her manage the relationship, no efforts will be given to her at all, you'll take her for granted and she still have to be thankful for your little attention?
---It is. but it's not that simple.. Let us not forget the true measure of commitment is the trials we overcame just for that someone.
and loving unconditionally is a choice.. it always is... don't you think? 'cause it's also a sacrifice.
it's not really on the looks always.. Looks just give people an edge for attraction.. but believe me, it is the character that ties the knot