Girls, I have a couple of questions here and I'd like to know your opinion. Please answer the questions one by one although medyo may relation sila one way or another. Thank you very much in advance.
1. Kapag sinagot niyo ba isang guy ay mahal niyo na ba or usually more on like palang?
2. Normal lang ba magpaligaw ang girl ng 3 months and she's somehow into/like the guy kasi nabigyan niya ng maliit na gamit tapos he was invited to her workplace's fun run tapos nanuod pa sila ng concert together pero binasted niya si guy kasi wala daw siyang nafeel na love after 3 months of dating? Tapos ang rule daw ni girl kapag wala pa siya nararamdaman after 3 months ay binabasted na niya. Normal ba ito or tama?
3. Same scenario as No. 2 question, 3 months na nanliligaw si 1st guy kay girl and she's somehow into him tapos may nameet si girl na new guy na interested sa kanya. Binasted niya si 1st guy nung dumating si new guy. Nung naging sila ni new guy, napagusapan nila yung past nila, the girl said binasted niya yung 1st guy kasi rule daw niya ay binabasted na niya isang guy kapag wala siyang nafeel after 3 months of dating pero SHE LIED and said exactly after a month na binasted si 1st guy bago dumating si new (2nd) guy when the fact is, 2 weeks after she and the 1st guy watched a concert at di pa niya binabasted si 1st guy ay nameet na niya si new guy. So why the need to lie about it? Para hindi humaba hair ni 2nd guy kasi baka isipin niyang dahil nakilala siya kaya niya iniwan si 1st guy?
4. Normal lang ba for a girl who broke up with her BF of 4 months due to age gap (na alam na niya from the very beginning) ay nagkaroon agad ng new BF after barely 6 months?
5. I know sa panahon ngayon ay marami na nagiging practical sa buhay. Pero normal ba na maging practical isang girl to the point na kapag nag entertain siya ng guy ay ang una niyang tinitingnan ay kung stable ba yung guy or hindi before looking at spark or personality kahit she's not thinking about marriage yet? Hindi ba parang ang extreme naman niyan?
6. Mukhang pera ba si girl or naghahanap lang ng stable or what? Also tama ba ginagawa niya sa scenariong ito:
A guy(1st guy) courts the girl(NBSB). Same age sila at early 20s tapos both nagwowork for a year palang. Maliit lang sahod ni girl pero may kaya family niya tapos si guy naman malaki sahod (IT). Kwento ni girl kay 2nd guy, same sila ng good qualities ni 1st guy pero magastos si 1st guy at hindi nagiipon porket malaki sahod at di man lang makabili ng sariling sasakyan pero sabay bawi na di daw dahil dun kaya niya inayawan si 1st guy kundi immature daw. More than 3 months nanligaw si 1st guy and it's obvious that she's into him pero binasted niya si 1st guy after she met 2nd guy. She lied to 2nd guy and told him that exactly a month after niya binasted si 1st guy bago dumating si 2nd guy pero sa katunayan, nakilala niya si 2nd guy 2 weeks after she and 1st guy watched a concert together at di pa niya binabasted si 1st guy. So in truth, nagka-salisi yung 2 guy sa panliligaw.
2nd guy is 16 years older than the girl. Before nakuha ni 2nd guy yung number ni girl ay brother ni 2nd guy ang kakwentuhan niya at nabanggit ng bro na may very small business sila. When 2nd guy got her number she doesn't know his age. Nalaman nalang niya during the 1st date after a month of texting. She got surprised pero nagpatuloy pa rin siya dating the 2nd guy. Nung 5th date palang nila ay medyo nagtapat si guy spontaneously and after that she was conversing with her BFF sa FB telling her BFF, di niya alam ang gagawin pero malabo pananaw niya dito. So after 5th date palang ay may pagaalinlangan na pero tinuloy pa rin ni girl, ang pinagkaiba lang ay naging every other week ang labas nila instead of the usual every week. Hindi alam ni 2nd guy kung bakit niya tinuloy kung may doubt na pala si girl when kapag sa ibang girl nangyari ito ay malamang hindi na nagkaroon ng 2nd date after knowing the age. During their 4 month relationship, she was never that into him so lalong nagtaka si 2nd guy bakit pa siya sinagot. That time, nagkataon walang work si 2nd guy pero may ipon siya at may maliit na sideline while nagiisip ng feasible business at kung wala ay maghahanap na siya ng work at alam ni girl yung plan ni 2nd guy. Pero few months after they broke up, she told him that age gap bothers her and also parang hindi pa stable si 2nd guy at hindi naghahanap ng work kaya she left. So naisip ni guy, siguro kala ni girl mayaman si 2nd guy but since walang work ay she went as far as to go into a relationship with him to see kung talagang hindi mayaman kaya after she's convinced that di mayaman si 2nd guy, she used one of their fights to break up with him.
Now, less than 2 months BEFORE the girl broke up with 2nd guy, she became friends with 3rd guy on FB. 2nd guy don't know where she met him since no common friends and 3rd guy is not even a school mate or a common friend of her school mate or work mate. The 3rd guy is 7 years older than the girl. After the girl broke up with 2nd guy, the 3rd guy started liking halos lahat ng post ni girl sa FB. Just few weeks ago, the girl is also liking halos lahat ng post ni 3rd guy. She even gave him a panda stuffed toy - the exact same panda stuff toy she gave her ex (2nd guy). So obviously she like him and vice versa. Last night, the 3rd guy changed his profile picture and the content of the picture ay parang nagconfirm na sila na. Bale, barely 6 months after breaking up with 2nd guy ay may new BF na siya ngayon. Hindi tuloy maalis sa isipan ni 2nd guy na baka yung ginawa ni girl kay 1st guy ay ginawa rin sa kanya ngayon after meeting the 3rd guy. Nasasaktan rin si 2nd guy kasi 30 na yung guy, and although mas malapit yung age gap ni 3rd guy sa age ni girl, ay masakit pa rin compare kung same age lang ni 3rd guy si girl kasi parang lumalabas talaga naghahanap ng mayaman si girl.
So what do you girls think, naghahanap lang ba talaga si girl ng stable or mukhang pera? Tama ba ginagawa niya sa pag drop ng tao kapag may nameet na bago?
Thank you very much in advance.
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