GUYS, any questions?? sasagutin naming mga girls...

[onecruz]

doing fine... about my questions last month...
it didn't worked out...
hindi ako pinapansin...

i'm sorry to hear that... what are ur plans now?

kelan ang tamang panahon para ligawan ang isang girl after ng breakup niya... and... kelangan ba talaga itanong ang "pwede ba manligaw"??

i believe there's are three things here: court too early, somewhere in the middle, or courting too late. pero ang common denominator nito is... when does this girl need someone special (or love interest)? sadly, hindi ako makakasagot nito kundi ikaw na mas nakakakilala sa kanya. observe a little and be keen. ang challenge nito is how to see or feel it kasi not everything you see physically un na un. Some women shows the opposite of what they meant. pwedeng physically mukhang ayaw niya ng BF now but deep inside pala nag-susuffer siya, pwede ding gusto ng girl magka-BF now pero mahal niya pa rin si Ex. some girls are emotions, some are stiff. if you think that its too early pa, try to invite her to go out with you have some dinner etc or maybe a group dinner or talk and enjoy visiting with her frequently... hopefully you'll see some signs of her interest. still, you love the person so dont give up hope... kaya mo yan

 

[Poldo]

patanong lang, hehe may girl kasi akong classmate, eh madalas ako tinatawagan.. eh magkaklase na nga kame haha.. kadalasan tumatawag sya pagkauwe. parang somethings fishy lang.. sa school kasi konti lang subjects ko kaya bihira din kame magkitakita.

may meaning kaya yun? gusto ko lang malaman reaction nyo..

tapos may isang girl naman, classmate ko nung highschool, graduate kame 2006 pa, at obviously lam ko gusto nya ko, kaya lang sa ngayon ayoko ng commitment, single ako no ones above me. eh minsan ineentertain ko sya, ganyan miss na kita, kelan ba magiging tayo, gusto ko rin naman sya kaso sa ngayon wala talaga kong balak sa mga commitments, nung minsan sinabi nya na sana daw magkarron ako ng time sa kanya. madalas kasi inaaya nya ko, o kaya pupunta sya sa mga classmate rin namin dati na malapit dito samen, tapos .agtetext na ui nandito ko kila ano.. parang naghihintay na itext ko na wait mo ko jan pupunta ko.. parang ganun,.
tapos meron naman isa, 1year na yata kami magkatext, d naman xa panget pero di rin ganun kaganda, lagi ako inaaya magmeet,. at text din ng text ng iluvu at imissu paminsan minsan, haha..
nagtataka lang ako, panget ko, masama ugali ko, maangas tingnan, ano kaya nakikita nila saken??

pahingi po ng commnets...
please...

 

[onecruz]

patanong lang, hehe may girl kasi akong classmate, eh madalas ako tinatawagan.. eh magkaklase na nga kame haha.. kadalasan tumatawag sya pagkauwe. parang somethings fishy lang.. sa school kasi konti lang subjects ko kaya bihira din kame magkitakita.

may meaning kaya yun? gusto ko lang malaman reaction nyo..

#1 Classmate

question? ung bang quality time na binibigay nya sau ganun din ba sa ibang boys kesa girls or specially sa'yo lang? if yes (pati ibang boys), she's a type of girl that enjoys and more comfortable sa company ng boys kesa girls. so, probably na mimis-interpret mo sya. like i said b4, some women shows something na iba pala ang meaning sa kanila. if not, dalawa na lang ang choice either she consider you a special tropa (or friendship, may lead to another mis-interpret) OR she's really interested sa'yo. ikaw na po makaka-analyze nito kasi there's no definite answer sa little details na na-post mo... it also means, ikaw ang mas higit na nakakakilala sa kanya than anyone of us here.

fear not, give sometime to find out... unless i-court mo siya malalaman mo agad definite na sagot sa tanong mo.

tapos may isang girl naman, classmate ko nung highschool, graduate kame 2006 pa, at obviously lam ko gusto nya ko, kaya lang sa ngayon ayoko ng commitment, single ako no ones above me. eh minsan ineentertain ko sya, ganyan miss na kita, kelan ba magiging tayo, gusto ko rin naman sya kaso sa ngayon wala talaga kong balak sa mga commitments, nung minsan sinabi nya na sana daw magkarron ako ng time sa kanya. madalas kasi inaaya nya ko, o kaya pupunta sya sa mga classmate rin namin dati na malapit dito samen, tapos .agtetext na ui nandito ko kila ano.. parang naghihintay na itext ko na wait mo ko jan pupunta ko.. parang ganun,.
please...

wait!! ang daming girls tatlo pala ito. girl magnet?! haha just kidding!

#2 highschool friend
no more explanation here.. obviously the girl likes you. PERO what's blocking you to have a commitment? priorities ba? work? family? doubts?


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tapos meron naman isa, 1year na yata kami magkatext, d naman xa panget pero di rin ganun kaganda, lagi ako inaaya magmeet,. at text din ng text ng iluvu at imissu paminsan minsan, haha..
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#3 si 1 Year
ingat lang parekoy, they're some girl na common words na ung ILU at IMU sa text which does not mean na ganun nga, no matter how long basta enjoy ka nya kasama. i experienced that several times from college to work. kaya dont jump agad to conclusions.

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nagtataka lang ako, panget ko, masama ugali ko, maangas tingnan, ano kaya nakikita nila saken??

pahingi po ng commnets...
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wala naman sa mukha un palagi. maybe they really enjoy bonding with you. nasa character mo na yun kaya be proud.

dami nito ah, i believe plano mo na i-take into another stage ang relationship mo sa kanila. i believe plan mo ligawan ang isa sa kanila. (just one ok ) well sino ba talaga ng mahal mo?! or matimbang sa'yo?! i think alam mo na ang next step mo.

gudluk! keep on asking!

 

[onecruz]

Anong kailangang gawin ng guys to last a long distance relationship sa isa gurl?

this might help...
http://www.symbianize.com/showthread.php?p=3711963#post3711963

 

[onecruz]

anong magandang kanta or love song ang pwedeng idedicate sa girl??

im not good at songs... nor can suggest any but i hope you'll find something that will define the meaning of the songs closely to your relationship and how it stands out.

 

[onecruz]

... tanong ko po pag ba once na turn off na yung girl sau hindi na ulit siya matuturnON sau kahit anung gawin mo kahit hindi kana yung same person na naging mayabang at lumaki ulo dahil nalaman mo na may crush sau ung girl na gusto mo din tapos binalewala mo!? sana po masagot nyo po katanungan ko! thanks in advance!haha..

nope, kapag ang isang tao na turn-OFF, usually temporary lang ito. most women are very understanding and unique. kung feeling mo forever turn-OFF yan, ibang case na 'yan... or deeper emotions involve... for now, ang naiisip ko maybe it's because meron hate, raised pressure, jeolousy, or pride. binalewala?! i believe that's NOT ur intention. explain to her na ur overwhelmed sa situation and somewhat confuse.. ur not certain how to react. now face the situation, mag-usap kayo, healthy un. maiintindihan ka nya.

btw, i hope po di ka magpapadaig sa peer pressure. for some, it might be being defensive but for you, it's a noble deed of protecting someone you love or special to you.

 

[Poldo]

actually may pang 4 at 5 pa yang mga girls na yan... ayoko pa magcommit kasi may priorities ako..ang dami..yung pang 4 na girl..yun talaga gusto ko, maganda sya as in..classmate ko rin ng highschool, at i believe na kahit pano gusto rin nya ko.. ang sad part lang,, pareho kami in temrs of ayaw ng commitment.. ang sinabi nya sken, ok na raw kung ganito na lang kami, text2, tawag, konting gala with other friends. sya yung tipo ng girl na gusto ko, masunget, mataray pero mabaet. hindi sumama sa mga lalake unless kasama mga barkada nyang girls, take note, barakada,marame.. at yun.. nauwi sa sinabi nya, sige sa ngayon pwede tayong maging magbestfreinds.. hahaha.. ang ganda nya, yung ugali nya feel ko fit saken..
at ang malupet jan.. sa lahat ng sinabai ko..single siay hanggang ngayon.. hindi siya nagpapaligaw..

yung pang 5, definitely mas matimbang siya sa 4, eto yung girl na kaya magbreak ng priorities ko.. i mean, basta umoo, maloloko ko 4 sure.
nagkakilala kami nung highschool pa ko, hindi kami classmates o schoolmates..
astig pagkakilala namin kasi nagkasalubng kami sa daan.. alam mo yun, yung nagkaharangan kami, alam mo yun, yung pag kakaliwa ako, sya din tapos pag kanan, sya din tapos nagkatawanan kami..pero hindi kami nagkausap haha..mahiyain kasi ako nuon. eh me nagsabi sa akin na bestfriend daw yun ng isa kong classmate.. ayun kinulit ko para ipakilala ko..simula nuon hanggang ngayon araw2 kong sinusuyo.. yun nga lang.. wala talagang magandang pagkakataon kasi may boyfriend sya.. hay jusko.. hehehe hindi sya kasing ganda yung #4..sa 5 girls na yan, sya lang yung may boyfriend..yung #5, sya pa pinakagusto ko.. haha

 

[juvenile44321]

i'm sorry to hear that... what are ur plans now?

I really dont have plans...
but i do fall easily.... i hate it

i believe there's are three things here: court too early, somewhere in the middle, or courting too late. pero ang common denominator nito is... when does this girl need someone special (or love interest)? sadly, hindi ako makakasagot nito kundi ikaw na mas nakakakilala sa kanya. observe a little and be keen. ang challenge nito is how to see or feel it kasi not everything you see physically un na un. Some women shows the opposite of what they meant. pwedeng physically mukhang ayaw niya ng BF now but deep inside pala nag-susuffer siya, pwede ding gusto ng girl magka-BF now pero mahal niya pa rin si Ex. some girls are emotions, some are stiff. if you think that its too early pa, try to invite her to go out with you have some dinner etc or maybe a group dinner or talk and enjoy visiting with her frequently... hopefully you'll see some signs of her interest. still, you love the person so dont give up hope... kaya mo yan

Actually at first, shes my online game friend, my virtual friend. Once pa lang kami nagmeet, and this meet up its not really like a date, but i get to know her more and i fall much deeper. Pero bago pa kami nagmeet, nagsasabi na siya ng sama ng loob sakin, or telling stories about her and him... i know the story on how did they went to a breakup thrice but not in full detail, im like her comforter (i've always been).... hindi ko pa din siya ganun kakilala... and kagabi lang parang shes in a relationship with the same gender...

i dont think there are signs yet, napakalambing lang talaga niya.. and i dont take that as a sign... though my heart jumps everytime na nilalambing niya ko...

 

[medieval_hit]

anu ang chances ng fat guy na makapasagot ng hot chick?

 

[Makenshi]

anu ang chances ng fat guy na makapasagot ng hot chick?

Simple lang money, look at chavit wahahaha! fat yun ah.

 

[cruxifixus]

panu pag sinsaabi mu sa gf mu na 'i love u' pero ang reply nia lang is a nod o mmmmm lang? What does that mean? Its not my sittuation but my kabarkada. I hope you could help him. Tia!

 

[nives21]

nope, kapag ang isang tao na turn-OFF, usually temporary lang ito. most women are very understanding and unique. kung feeling mo forever turn-OFF yan, ibang case na 'yan... or deeper emotions involve... for now, ang naiisip ko maybe it's because meron hate, raised pressure, jeolousy, or pride. binalewala?! i believe that's NOT ur intention. explain to her na ur overwhelmed sa situation and somewhat confuse.. ur not certain how to react. now face the situation, mag-usap kayo, healthy un. maiintindihan ka nya.

btw, i hope po di ka magpapadaig sa peer pressure. for some, it might be being defensive but for you, it's a noble deed of protecting someone you love or special to you.

Salamat po, anyway way back college days pa naman yun mga 2 years na din ang nakakaraan nung nagraduate kame kaya nawalan na ko ng pagkakataon para makausap siya pero try ko ulet alamin contacts nia para naman makapagusap kame sana lang hindi siya busy sa work, or other commitments.. at sana din mapaliwanag ko ng maayos sa kanya, anyway thanks... mga LOVE guru! hahaha...

 

[onecruz]

anu ang chances ng fat guy na makapasagot ng hot chick?

as i said before... in other threads

di naman ang pagka-pogi (or maganda) or panget... ang qualifications for love.... (MARAMI)
sometimes its:
- attitude (mostly)
- money
- power/authority
- simplicity
- physique
- etc...


keep on lovin'

 

[onecruz]

actually may pang 4 at 5 pa yang mga girls na yan... ayoko pa magcommit kasi may priorities ako..ang dami..yung pang 4 na girl..yun talaga gusto ko, maganda sya as in..classmate ko rin ng highschool, at i believe na kahit pano gusto rin nya ko.. ang sad part lang,, pareho kami in temrs of ayaw ng commitment.. ang sinabi nya sken, ok na raw kung ganito na lang kami, text2, tawag, konting gala with other friends. sya yung tipo ng girl na gusto ko, masunget, mataray pero mabaet. hindi sumama sa mga lalake unless kasama mga barkada nyang girls, take note, barakada,marame.. at yun.. nauwi sa sinabi nya, sige sa ngayon pwede tayong maging magbestfreinds.. hahaha.. ang ganda nya, yung ugali nya feel ko fit saken..
at ang malupet jan.. sa lahat ng sinabai ko..single siay hanggang ngayon.. hindi siya nagpapaligaw..

yung pang 5, definitely mas matimbang siya sa 4, eto yung girl na kaya magbreak ng priorities ko.. i mean, basta umoo, maloloko ko 4 sure.
nagkakilala kami nung highschool pa ko, hindi kami classmates o schoolmates..
astig pagkakilala namin kasi nagkasalubng kami sa daan.. alam mo yun, yung nagkaharangan kami, alam mo yun, yung pag kakaliwa ako, sya din tapos pag kanan, sya din tapos nagkatawanan kami..pero hindi kami nagkausap haha..mahiyain kasi ako nuon. eh me nagsabi sa akin na bestfriend daw yun ng isa kong classmate.. ayun kinulit ko para ipakilala ko..simula nuon hanggang ngayon araw2 kong sinusuyo.. yun nga lang.. wala talagang magandang pagkakataon kasi may boyfriend sya.. hay jusko.. hehehe hindi sya kasing ganda yung #4..sa 5 girls na yan, sya lang yung may boyfriend..yung #5, sya pa pinakagusto ko.. haha

bro, dami nito ahh... nice life. like i said, go for the one you love most and be honest.. be attentive for positive or negative signs of interest and timing if necessary. masaya naman sila sa'yo kapag kasama ka, big bonus yun. love is happiness. we enjoy happiness from being love. keep on lovin'

 

[onecruz]

I really dont have plans...
but i do fall easily.... i hate it

i see your confuse but do not hate yourself. its not a crime, sin (sorry if it's a strong words) or whatever... check the results or your past experiences. basta ba hindi dumadating sa punto na ikaw na mismo nakakasakit sa sarili mo... then its ok to easily fall inlove. i dont see it as totally a negative thing... the fact is how we learn to cope up after everything good or bad. keep on lovin'

Actually at first, shes my online game friend, my virtual friend. Once pa lang kami nagmeet, and this meet up its not really like a date, but i get to know her more and i fall much deeper. Pero bago pa kami nagmeet, nagsasabi na siya ng sama ng loob sakin, or telling stories about her and him... i know the story on how did they went to a breakup thrice but not in full detail, im like her comforter (i've always been).... hindi ko pa din siya ganun kakilala... and kagabi lang parang shes in a relationship with the same gender...

i dont think there are signs yet, napakalambing lang talaga niya.. and i dont take that as a sign... though my heart jumps everytime na nilalambing niya ko...

the fact is she's happy with you around. she's secured and comfortable whenever kayo magkasama or in any means of contact. its a very good thing to hear you saying, "hindi ko pa din siya ganun kakilala..." its means you accept some sort of limitations and aware ka whatever she's doing. in some scenarios, minsan ang fear there is being rejected after proposing his love or moving a wonderful friendship into a new level.

additional advices ko (i know naman u know this already): be optimistic. i believe mas mahihirapan kung ike-keep mo lang yan. i believe sooner you'll step forward and declare your love. do not worry much for chances of success. if things go wrong, wag mo lang papa-ikutin ang mundo mo sa kanya or do unlikely things (i'm no exemption, which i learned the hardway) she finds you kind, desirable, a good listener and having positive attitudes. never loose hope. keep on lovin'

i have this poem below, hope it will cheer you up:

Friendship is a quiet walk in the park with the one you trust.
Love is when you feel like you are the only two around.

Friendship is when they gaze into your eyes and you know they care.
Love is when they gaze into your eyes and it warms your heart.

Friendship is being close even when you are far apart.
Love is when you can still feel their hand on your heart
when they are not near.

Friendship is hoping that they experience the very best.
Love is when you bring them the very best.

Friendship occupies your mind.
Love occupies your soul.

Friendship is knowing that you will always try to be there
when in need.
Love is when you will give up everything to be at their side.

Friendship is a warm smile in the winter.
Love is a warming touch that sends a pulse through your heart.

Love is a beautiful smile to which nothing compares:
A tender laugh, which opens your heart,
A single touch that melts away your fears,
A smell that reminds you of the tenderness of heaven,
A voice that reminds you of the innocence of youth.

Friendship can survive without love.
Love cannot live without friendship.
--Author Unknown

.... hindi ko pa din siya ganun kakilala... and kagabi lang parang shes in a relationship with the same gender...

why? how? may naka same-sex relationship na ba siya dati?

 

[onecruz]

panu pag sinsaabi mu sa gf mu na 'i love u' pero ang reply nia lang is a nod o mmmmm lang? What does that mean? Its not my sittuation but my kabarkada. I hope you could help him. Tia!

depende kasi kung paano ito in-express. it can say like that but still it shows a positive feeling. di ko alam ang setup ng scenario, kung alive naman ang relationship... pwede ring kasi na stress lang siya, pagod, busy.. etc...

pero most the time at sa minimal details po parang me some kind of trouble sa relationship nila. needs to be keen or sensitive dito. i believe, its a negative answer. still, he should check out the stand of their relationship... kung meron mahirap na kung too late. sana naman po walang panlalamig na nararamdaman si GF.

gud luck!

 

[vgallardo_22]

Bat ganun kahit anong effort mo sa girl naglupasay ka na't lahat ala pa rin haha ganito na ba kahigpit mapasagot mga babae ngayon?

 

[shaney11]

Bat ganun kahit anong effort mo sa girl naglupasay ka na't lahat ala pa rin haha ganito na ba kahigpit mapasagot mga babae ngayon?

Kuya, baka naman hindi ka lang niya gusto talaga? Kung ganun nga, hayaan mo na lang.

 

[juvenile44321]

i see your confuse but do not hate yourself. its not a crime, sin (sorry if it's a strong words) or whatever... check the results or your past experiences. basta ba hindi dumadating sa punto na ikaw na mismo nakakasakit sa sarili mo... then its ok to easily fall inlove. i dont see it as totally a negative thing... the fact is how we learn to cope up after everything good or bad. keep on lovin'

Anlaki talaga ng pinagbago ko because of her (my HS classmate). I can say na bato ako, or talagang wala pang interes to go into a relationship that time, then she came having problems with her BF... naging comforter niya ko (my first time doing the role, and i guess this is my role in life, to comfort someone's girfriend). Dun ko naramdaman ang lambing, care etc etc. ng isang babae, that i think made me to fall easily on women this time. I'm just quite hating the part that shes there to teach me how to love but shes not there to love me for the rest of our lives... <<< ang corny ata...

the fact is she's happy with you around. she's secured and comfortable whenever kayo magkasama or in any means of contact. its a very good thing to hear you saying, "hindi ko pa din siya ganun kakilala..." its means you accept some sort of limitations and aware ka whatever she's doing. in some scenarios, minsan ang fear there is being rejected after proposing his love or moving a wonderful friendship into a new level.

additional advices ko (i know naman u know this already): be optimistic. i believe mas mahihirapan kung ike-keep mo lang yan. i believe sooner you'll step forward and declare your love. do not worry much for chances of success. if things go wrong, wag mo lang papa-ikutin ang mundo mo sa kanya or do unlikely things (i'm no exemption, which i learned the hardway) she finds you kind, desirable, a good listener and having positive attitudes. never loose hope. keep on lovin'

i think it would be hard to propose my love for her, siya yung type ng girl na "lapitin", marami ang umaaligid sa kanya, probably theres a competition but i havent joined the competition yet...

pessimistic talaga ko sir, ang logic ko is if she rejected me then ok i knew it... and if she says a "yes" doble ang saya.... ang gulo noh

i have this poem below, hope it will cheer you up:


Friendship is a quiet walk in the park with the one you trust.
Love is when you feel like you are the only two around.

Friendship is when they gaze into your eyes and you know they care.
Love is when they gaze into your eyes and it warms your heart.

Friendship is being close even when you are far apart.
Love is when you can still feel their hand on your heart
when they are not near.

Friendship is hoping that they experience the very best.
Love is when you bring them the very best.

Friendship occupies your mind.
Love occupies your soul.

Friendship is knowing that you will always try to be there
when in need.
Love is when you will give up everything to be at their side.

Friendship is a warm smile in the winter.
Love is a warming touch that sends a pulse through your heart.

Love is a beautiful smile to which nothing compares:
A tender laugh, which opens your heart,
A single touch that melts away your fears,
A smell that reminds you of the tenderness of heaven,
A voice that reminds you of the innocence of youth.

Friendship can survive without love.
Love cannot live without friendship.
--Author Unknown

thanks sir!!

why? how? may naka same-sex relationship na ba siya dati?

eto ang di ko alam sir, i've seen the status in her FB last night, maybe shes just a close friend... and napagtripan nila....

 

[chardness]

Attract the ladies using your..."edge" or your most beautiful feature.

Just be yourself. Do not pretend to be someone else.