I had my wife for 14 yrs di kmi nakabuo. Right now I'm here abroad, but last year nag bakasyon ako at nakabuo ako sa ibang babae (since hiwalay na kmi nang ex-wife ko 5 years ago). My ex-wife was also menstruate regularly. Once in blue moon lg din sya nadedelay. Minsan Pina hilot ko sya dahil daw mababa ung matres nya, un at nag delay sya 10 days same with succeeding month then we stop trying na dahil she said "Ok lg yan, ako nlg baby mo", so we did. But in long term, di pala talaga maganda na walang anak ang mag asawa. We end up separated dahil na rin siguro sa walang nag babind samin other than marriage. Anyway, yon nga nakabuntis ako last year out of desperation at ngayon 4 months na baby girl ko. Medyo mahaba at may kwentong konti para detailed.
Bago ako mag bakasyon may ex-GF ako na nag communicate sakin through messenger. She was my first Love o you can call it my Puppy love. She was first to my wife then my ex-wife came. My ex-GF was my first intimate relationship at age of 16 and she was 14 then. Kalibugan ko ata noong 16 ako kaya I was so engage on sex with her, and so she was also. Our relationship ended after 8 months of 50 shades of grey experience (LMAO). Within that period of time I may have impregnate her kasi one time na delay sya nearly 3 months. Then here comes the stupidest thing we did. She took meds early in the morning like 3 to 5 tablets and eat mahogany seeds, kasi nga daw sabi nila nakakalaglag ang mapait na nakakain. I don't know what's the truth about it but it happens that she got her period after 2 days of doing that. She's irregular by the way. So after me and my ex-wife met and live-in together. I was confident that I am capable of having baby. And then my life was turned around from regular to catastrophic. My parents got separated and my dad went with younger girl (Literally a girl), she was 18 I think when they were engage. So that time my world was F**ked up. Di na rin sumagi sa isip ko na magkaroon nang anak. Until such time na nakapag bukod kami nang asawa ko. Nagkaroon ako nang skills na ibinuhay ko sa asawa at medyo ok naman ang kita. Kaya naisipan ko na bumuo nang pamilya. And then puff*, di pala magic ang paggawa nang bata. Ginawa na namin lahat except mag pa Doctor. We tried calendar method, Positioning, Healthy lifestyle at iba pa but still, wala pa rin. Until nagsawa na nga at we decided not to at nauwi pa sa hiwalayan. Balik tayo sa Ex-GF ko. Un nga nakaroon kmi nang komunikasyon tru messenger. She started flirting with me again. She was a single mom. Wala naman akong planong balikan sya o ano man. Pero napag usapan namin na since na umiidad na ako kung pwede nya akong mabigyan nang anak. At yon nga at pumayag din sya basta supportahan ko lang ung bata at sya (dahil I'm married). So that time I started planning for my vacation. 3 months bago ako mag bakasyon nag medication ako. I stopped smoking, bought vitamins and exercised. About sa vitamins nag research ako nang vits na para tumulong sa pag lago nang semelya. At ito ang mga na take ko for 3 months.
Zinc
Vit C
Testosterone Booster
Vitamin E
I took those for 3 months bago ako umuwi. Unfortunately, my ex-GF was hired to go abroad and departed 2 weeks before my arrival. Parang, hindi umayon sakin ang panahon. I was 36 that time so gusto ko na talagang maging ama since for me, mahirap maging ama pag matanda na. So I looked for possible option. There was this young lady at age of 22. She my sister's helper. Di sya kagandahan o sabihin na nating di talaga sya maganda. Pero, she is energetic and young. Di sya tabain pero di rin sya malnourished tingnan. Pweding sabihin na sexy sya. At naging option ko nga sya. I don't know how I manage to count her menstrual period that time but I did. I counted her period starting the first day until the 13th day. And on the 13th day I manage to make intercourse with her na nasundan pa nang dalawang beses. So, in all 3 times kmi nagtalik. Gusto ko lg sabihin na hindi naging intimate ang pagtatalik namin since di ko sya type at nakaw nakaw lg ang mga oras na yon. She was a virgin when I got her BTW. 42 days lg bakasyon ko noon so I go back abroad again. I did not expect anything from her since ung nangyari samin ay "Pasok Putok" lg. Parang nag deposit ka lg. But, after 5 months my sister called me asking kung ginalaw ko ba daw katulong nya. Nag maang maangan pa ako nong una pero nang sabihin nya na may hinala syang buntis, sinabi ko sa kanya na kausapin ang babae kung tunay nga na buntis ito. At PUFF* buntis nga. At sakto naman sa bilang ko. Kaya un may baby na ako ngayon. Healthy Baby Girl named Abigail Colette Sophia.
For me, hindi madali ang mag karoon nang anak. Children are Gifts from God. Hindi un pinaplano. Pinagkakaloob ito nang Dios. But, ika nga eh. Nasa Dios ang awa nasa tao ang gawa. Kaya I prepared my self, I prayed and God gives.
P.S. Cenxa na ang haba nang kwento.
