For all the purposes this thread was made.
I hereby share my ten cents about this.
First of all, Don't expect doing the same things (input) and expecting a different result (output).
Try to put yourself in her shoes,
Nakipag break ka sa isang tao for your own reasons
Tapos etong tao, makulit. Parang di nag sink in sa kanya na "wala na kayo"
Paulit ulit. As if makukuha sa ganun.
What more eh ipinagsisiksikan nya pa ang sarili sayo.
Ano mararamdaman mo?
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If you intend to win her back
Then you should pause for a moment.
Consider the facts, the probabilities, and uncertainties.
I know its hard to think properly when you are overwhelmed, but thats all the more reason you should keep calm to be able to properly assess the situation.
The Facts
Bakit ka siya nakipag break sa iyo?
Ano ba ang bad things na aware ka about yourself?
Ano ba ang nagustuhan nya sayo based sa usapan nyo
Ano ang mga bagay na ayaw nya
Ano ba ang gusto nya maachieve
May naitutulong ka ba dun?
Ano ang kaya mo isakripisyong resources for her?
Will she be worth the sacrifice?
Ano ba ang nakikita mong role nya sa buhay mo?
Ano ba ang role ng tulad mo sa buhay nya?
The Probabilities
Ano sa tingin mo ang turning point ng relationship niyo?
Gusto ka pa ba ng taong ito?
May 3rd party kaya?
May ginawa ka bang mali?
Ano ba ang edge sayo ng competitor mo
Ano ang edge mo against sa competitor mo
Ano nagustuhan nya dun sa guy over you
The uncertainties
Ano yung mga bagay na di mo alam
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Yang mga impormasyon na yan ang makakapagsabi kung gaano kataas ang chance mo magkabalikan kayo.
Hindi mo kailangan sagutin ang mga yan.
Pero dapat alam mo sa sarili mo ano ba ang mga sagot sa mga yan
At paano mo magagamit ang impormasyon na yan to your benefit.
When you know what you can and know the challenges you have to face
It is easier to figure out how to win those challenges
I know this wont offer a guarantee of you winning her back
But this will offer you your best chances
depending on how you read, act and react on the situation.
It might be that you need to leave her alone for now
And improve on a personal level.
And show her the worth she never saw in you
Or that she isnt really as worth it as you believe her to be
Maybe there is somebody else better for you out there.
The deal is... Think. And act accordingly.
Of course, andito kami if need mo ng creative ideas on winning her back.
But it will always be up to you to get the reading, action and reaction you need.
I hereby share my ten cents about this.
First of all, Don't expect doing the same things (input) and expecting a different result (output).
Try to put yourself in her shoes,
Nakipag break ka sa isang tao for your own reasons
Tapos etong tao, makulit. Parang di nag sink in sa kanya na "wala na kayo"
Paulit ulit. As if makukuha sa ganun.
What more eh ipinagsisiksikan nya pa ang sarili sayo.
Ano mararamdaman mo?
---------------------
If you intend to win her back
Then you should pause for a moment.
Consider the facts, the probabilities, and uncertainties.
I know its hard to think properly when you are overwhelmed, but thats all the more reason you should keep calm to be able to properly assess the situation.
The Facts
Bakit ka siya nakipag break sa iyo?
Ano ba ang bad things na aware ka about yourself?
Ano ba ang nagustuhan nya sayo based sa usapan nyo
Ano ang mga bagay na ayaw nya
Ano ba ang gusto nya maachieve
May naitutulong ka ba dun?
Ano ang kaya mo isakripisyong resources for her?
Will she be worth the sacrifice?
Ano ba ang nakikita mong role nya sa buhay mo?
Ano ba ang role ng tulad mo sa buhay nya?
The Probabilities
Ano sa tingin mo ang turning point ng relationship niyo?
Gusto ka pa ba ng taong ito?
May 3rd party kaya?
May ginawa ka bang mali?
Ano ba ang edge sayo ng competitor mo
Ano ang edge mo against sa competitor mo
Ano nagustuhan nya dun sa guy over you
The uncertainties
Ano yung mga bagay na di mo alam
-----------
Yang mga impormasyon na yan ang makakapagsabi kung gaano kataas ang chance mo magkabalikan kayo.
Hindi mo kailangan sagutin ang mga yan.
Pero dapat alam mo sa sarili mo ano ba ang mga sagot sa mga yan
At paano mo magagamit ang impormasyon na yan to your benefit.
When you know what you can and know the challenges you have to face
It is easier to figure out how to win those challenges
I know this wont offer a guarantee of you winning her back
But this will offer you your best chances
depending on how you read, act and react on the situation.
It might be that you need to leave her alone for now
And improve on a personal level.
And show her the worth she never saw in you
Or that she isnt really as worth it as you believe her to be
Maybe there is somebody else better for you out there.
The deal is... Think. And act accordingly.
Of course, andito kami if need mo ng creative ideas on winning her back.
But it will always be up to you to get the reading, action and reaction you need.
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