Paano po Mangligaw?

[callepogi]

Pa help naman po paano po magtapat sa isang babae.. ? Wala po akong experience kase sa pangliligaw

 

[D0N0tDisturb]

HAHAHA..itanong mo sa babaeng gusto mong ligawan baka alam niya ang sagot

 

[Demnit]

Normal lang. Wala kang dapat ipangamba, ikatakot, ikahiya parang tropa lang.
Kung pano ka maitungo sa mga friends mo ganon din sakanya.
Wag ka mahihiya kung hindi mo pa kaya ipagtapat yang nararamdaman mo iparamdam mo na lang.
Actually hindi ka pa nga nanliligaw eh, dumidiskarte ka pa lang.
Sabihin mo kung bakit gusto mo siyang ligawan, ano ba maasahan niya sayo ? Sasaktan mo ba siya ? Papaiyakin mo ba siya ?
Sabihin mo yung mga dahilan mo pag pinayagan ka na edi mag usap kayo about sa buhay buhay Kung ano ang gusto at ayaw niya sa isang lalaki.
Higit sa lahat kilalanin niyo mabuti yung isa't isa, mahirap mag mahal madaling masaktan

 

[louin]

pakatotoo ka lang brad

 

[suavehombre]

Una sa lahat kaylangan mo ng LAKAS NG LOOB !

 

[Blue Lemon]

Ngumiti pero ingat sa pag ngiti baka mapagkamalan manyak
Wag pilitin kong ayaw baka mapagkamalan stalker
Wag mong titigan ng mabuti baka mapagkamalan magnanakaw

 

[motoro]

Pa help naman po paano po magtapat sa isang babae.. ? Wala po akong experience kase sa pangliligaw

If you should ask then perhaps you're not ready yet.

In a nutshell, it's either you go up to the girl you like and ask her point blank if you could court her or not, or you can just court her by treating her good and making her feel special until she falls for you.

In my opinion, I don't think asking the girl whether you could court her or not is a good idea. If she's in a bad mood or if she doesn't like you completely then she will just give you a big NO. On the other hand, she might like you a bit but she finds that question silly so you'll get a NO again. After being turn down you'd think you will just move on and look for another one - no big deal. However, there are tons of cases where the guy cannot move on yet and is still looking for ways to win her heart. So in a way, asking her if you can court her or conveying your feelings early on like a love-sick pup is not really a good idea in my opinion.

The other way, is to befriend her so to speak. You treat her like friend just enough for her to be comfortable with you and at the same time you treat her good and make her feel special as a signal of your intentions This can be a good way because less pressure on your part and at the same time you're letting her get to know you instead of turning you down right away. If the girl don't really like you then she will turn you down and you have to move on because you have done your part. If the girl is not sure about her feelings at least you can leverage on "ma-develop" in the long run. After all, the purpose of courting is make someone like you and fall for you. Unless, you are extremely good looking and you have some panty-dropping qualities then you have to take it slowly.

At the end of the day, whichever method you choose, remember to be yourself and don't be so aggressive like acting as if you'd die if you didn't win her heart because that will make you look pathetic and weak.

 

[nightlife678]

Sana may book na mag guide kung ano ang dapat gawin sa pagdiskarte.

 

[jinzol]

Pa help naman po paano po magtapat sa isang babae.. ? Wala po akong experience kase sa pangliligaw

Kaka break up lang namin more than 4 years din kami ng gf ko.. masakit kase pinagpalit pa ako,, di ko lang maintindihan eh ako pa sinisi nya na naghanap xa ng iba.. masakit masyado.. lalot ako pa tumulong sa kanya dati tapos ganito lang susukli nya,, mas naawa pa xa sa bago nya kesa sakin na more 4 years na kilala nya ako..pero dun sa bago nya eh months palang, proud pa xa sa kanya ginawa at mas proud pa xa dun sa bago nya di ko maintidihan takbo ng utak nya parang me diperensya mahilig talaga xa sa lalake.. sinabihan pa nya ako"tumikim din tayo ng iba" nyeta! sa lahat ng mabubuting nagawa ko sa kanya ganito lang ginawa? tinry ko din open ung fb nya may nabasa din akong meron sya kachat na naman ibang lalake! hay nako! anong klaseng babae xa! may bf na nag hahanap na naman ng iba,, lumabas talaga totoong kulay nya! d lang yan nung isang araw nag usap kami bakit buh wala pa kaming months naghiwalay eh may bago na naman xa.. sinabi pa saken "Kailangan ko talaga ng BF di pwede wala" may sayad talaga! di ko na xa kilala!

Matanong lang po TS di ba ikaw din yung nagpost ng How to move on na thread? Base pa dun eh may ex gf ka na. Tama ba? just wondering pano ka nagkagf kung wala kang experience manligaw? Kinda confusing kasi...