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raikonnen29 said:May nakilala akong babae. Araw araw kami magkachat. Yong tipong magbf/gf na. Then nagdate kame nung linggo. Ok naman yong date, sa mall lang. Yon lang medyo wala kami masyado nagawa, medyo lakad lang ng lakad. Nilalaganat ako nung araw na yon, pinilit ko lang na puntahan sya kasi sunday lang ang day off ko. Pansin ko naman na mukha naman syang nagenjoy, base na rin sa mga kilos nya. Ibinigay pa nya sakin yong picture nya na nasa wallet nya. Bago ako umuwi tinanong ko sya kung mauulit yong date, oo nmn daw. Sunday ng hapon umuwi na ko, from quezon prov pa ko, taga batangas sya. Nagchat sya na maya na daw nya ko ichachat kasi maglalaba pa sya tsaka magluluto (dapat nung sunday ng umaga pa nya ginawa kaso nga nagdate kami.) Around 10pm magkausap na kami sa phone, wala naman nagbago. Ganon pa rin, parang magbf/gf na. Kiniss pa nya ko sa phone, goodnight kiss. Tapos monday ng umaga nag chat sya, gawa muna daw sya sa bahay nila. Home based pala work nya, from 3:30pm-11:30pm sched nya. Tapos nagtataka ako bakit nung lunch di sya nagchachat. Di nye ko nirereplyan until nung hapon nagchat ako kung may problema ba. Nagreply sya. Sabi nya sorry daw, parang wala daw syang naramdamang spark. Im a nice guy daw naman at she felt bad na parang wala syang naramdamang spark. Pero may connection naman daw kaming dalawa.
Medyo nagalit ako, bakit ganon. Dapat sinabi nya agad nung magkasama kami. Bakit yong pakikitungo nya sakin e iba na parang may gusto din sya sakin. Natandaan ko yong nasabi nya sakin na kapag di nya nagustuhan ang isang lalake e di na nya nirereplyan, binablock nya o iniignored nya msg. Hanggang ngayon magkachat pa rin kami, nagrereply pa din nmn sya. Sabi ko iblock na nya ko, ayoko na kasi lumala pa yong nararamdaman ko sa knya. Ayaw nya naman. tinanong nya ko kung nafall na ko sa knya. Inamin ko na oo. Tapos sabi nya, sige daw bigyan daw nya ko ng 2nd chance for 2nd date pero di sya sure kung ano magiging resulta. Ano maganda ko gawin sa 2nd date guys? Any tips naman. Para malinawan na rin ako. Tsaka ano magandang gawin sa 2nd date para di boring? Sabi nung ktrabaho ko e sinusubukan lang daw ako nung babae, wag daw ako padadala. Ano makakatalo sa "spark" na yan? Hehe. Salamat sa mga makakasagot.
Don't get anxious and remember that you want to win her heart so you need to be patient at all times. You cannot demand dapat this or dapat that. Chatting like bf/gf doesn't mean much, though it's positive. She could be trying to find or ignite that spark so you need to wait for it. You cannot just say that she should tell you right away instead of letting you fall further. Well, she didn't ask you to fall so you need to get a hold of your feelings. I don't think it's a good idea to tell her that you're falling for her each and everyday because that might sound desperate. Plus, if she tells you right away that you're out, you'd get upset and wish she'd give you a second chance. She cannot tell you right away because somehow she enjoys the conversation or the company so in short she's still contemplating. So, you need to be patient. For your second date, just be yourself and just go with the flow. Don't expect too much because no expectation means no depression and no frustration.