Broken Hearted Club (BHC) presents: [Love Advice for Broken Hearts]

[ANZKIELOVE]

Re: Sa lahat po ng mga broken hearted sama-sama po tayo. <\3

Compilations of Advices

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Note: Still Updating

3rd party problems
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9548738&postcount=46
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9552137&postcount=52
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10406121&postcount=2445
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10487388&postcount=3358
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10513216&postcount=3707
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10513745&postcount=3712


Acceptance
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10491364&postcount=3450
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10491484&postcount=3452
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10526810&postcount=3896
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10587481&postcount=4703
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10589955&postcount=4750
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10598389&postcount=4952


Break-up (Learn to fight and Learn to let go)
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9552398&postcount=56
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9553379&postcount=73
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9553557&postcount=77
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10563381&postcount=4310


do you guys follow your own advice?
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9568745&postcount=187
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9568925&postcount=191


Family
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10532525&postcount=3944
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10555640&postcount=4174


Friend lang kami
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10258087&postcount=1564
Gano kasakit maging broken-hearted
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9551251&postcount=48


Insomnia
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9568799&postcount=189


Love
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10596651&postcount=4914
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10596699&postcount=4916


Laging nasasaktan?
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9613153&postcount=376
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9613284&postcount=378

Keep a relationship working
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10381274&postcount=2189
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10482198&postcount=3269


Move on
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9567819&postcount=174
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9618554&postcount=397
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9739860&postcount=723
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9740014&postcount=724
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9747407&postcount=729
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9848270&postcount=943
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9965771&postcount=1110
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9968689&postcount=1114
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9985952&postcount=1136
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10061185&postcount=1256
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10159128&postcount=1330
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10194497&postcount=1415
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10281214&postcount=1700
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10441821&postcount=2732
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10442538&postcount=2735
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10479850&postcount=3217
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10491112&postcount=3442
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10491222&postcount=3445
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10491317&postcount=3448
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10510472&postcount=3675
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10511194&postcount=3688


Panliligaw
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10159644&postcount=1349
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10516574&postcount=3737
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10582072&postcount=4642

Pagbabago
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9589554&postcount=275
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9652050&postcount=508
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9814357&postcount=872
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9985605&postcount=1129
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10083601&postcount=1273
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10159556&postcount=1342
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10297023&postcount=1763
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10389448&postcount=2290
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10420149&postcount=2597
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10476281&postcount=3160
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10476980&postcount=3173
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10477260&postcount=3182
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10482192&postcount=3268



Panakit butas
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9759000&postcount=772
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9759364&postcount=773


Rebound
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9553106&postcount=67



Time
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=9983253&postcount=1121

TRUST
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10630950&postcount=5492



Selos
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10258299&postcount=1568


OTHER ISSUE
Pagsusulat ng tula?
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10463628&postcount=2973
http://www.symbianize.com/showpost.php?p=10463662&postcount=2974


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Caesar

View attachment 536753"No matter how strong of a person you are, there’s always someone who can make you weak."

View attachment 536753"“Iwan mo man sya at magmahal muli, huwag mong kakalimutan na pwede kang masaktan sa parehong

pagkakataon.”"

View attachment 536753"“Ang SORRY ay nakakawala ng galit, pero hindi ng SAKIT.”

View attachment 536753“Behind every successful woman, there is a satisfied men! But behind a satisfied woman, there is

an exhausted man!”

View attachment 536753"You know your in love when you love an imperfect person, perfectly"

View attachment 536753"i would never take you back i was weak because of you and now im strong and moving on ♥"

View attachment 536753"i can see your sad even when you smile even when you laugh i can see it in your eyes deep inside

you wanna cry."

View attachment 536753"Not everyone is gonna appreciate everything you've done for them. You have to figure out who's

worth your heart and kindness"

View attachment 536753"Don't Tell Someone You Love Them If You Don't Really Mean It...! Those Three Little Words Caan

Cause Soo Much Damage..!!"

View attachment 536753"Problem with boys: they make you think they love you when they dont. Problem with girls: they

make u think they don't love you when they do..."

View attachment 536753"Not everyone you love is going to love you back. That's why it's important to love yourself more

than anything"

View attachment 536753"The only way to keep someone smiling is to keep reminding them that they are not forgotten.."

View attachment 536753"“Don’t let your happiness depend on something you may lose.”

View attachment 536753"If the heart is the strongest muscle, why does it break so easily?"

View attachment 536753"A relationship without trust is like having a phone with no service. And what do u do with a

phone with no service? U play games..."

View attachment 536753"There are things we couldn't understand unless we ourselves experience it."

View attachment 536753"I KNOW when to stop. I KNOW when to let things go. I KNOW when to move on. I KNOW how to adjust.

But, "I know" is different from "I can"

View attachment 536753"Waiting is easy, you know what's hard? Realizing that the one you are waiting for is not coming

back anymore."

View attachment 536753"Sometimes you just need to distance yourself from people. If they care, they'll notice. If they

don't, you know where you stand."

View attachment 536753"Sometimes its Hard to Understand ; That Some People Can Stay in Your Heart , But Not in Your Life"

View attachment 536753"Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt

yourself putting it back together"

View attachment 536753"You better start listened to your brain if you wanna save your heart..."

View attachment 536753"“Hindi lahat ng babae ay marunong UMINTINDI, kaya yun ang dapat INTINDIHIN ng mga lalaki.”

View attachment 536753"Goodbye it does'nt mean to forget, it realy means that I will miss you...!"

View attachment 536753"Crying is how your body speaks when your mouth can't explain the pain you feel."

View attachment 536753If a person wants 2 be in ur life, they will make an effort 2 be there.. Don't bother saving a spot for them if they won't stay"

View attachment 536753 I've learned dat our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become..."

View attachment 536753"play the moments pause the memories stop the pain rewind the happiness :]"

View attachment 536753"When you're so close to someone you can hear their voice in your head when you read their texts. "

View attachment 536753"A generous person forgets what he gives and remembers what he receives you learn , earn, and return . These are the 3 phases of life."

View attachment 536753"When you say "I love you", you are making a promise with someone else's heart. Try to honor it"

View attachment 536753Actions speak louder than words, so sometimes you just have to believe what you see & forget what you hear"

View attachment 536753"Sometimes the most important lessons in life are the ones we're forced to learn the hard way."

View attachment 536753"Guys; one of the worst mistakes you'll make is walking away from the girl that stood there and waited for you..."

View attachment 536753"play the moments pause the memories stop the pain rewind the happiness :]"

View attachment 536753"I could name a thousand reasons why I hate you, but I could also name a million reasons why I love you..."

View attachment 536753"Be thankful of the bad things in life for they open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before...."

View attachment 536753"How can u love someone if they still have feelings for there ex"


Prescilla
View attachment 536753"Love is giving what you can and what you have to a person even without the promise of

reciprocity."



dade888
View attachment 536753"Love isn't blind, it just only sees what matters........"


notevirus7
View attachment 536753"Love is like a virus!!!"


akoaymalungkot
View attachment 536753"Love defies logic or reasoning?"

View attachment 536753“I don’t know why they call it heartbreak. It feels like every other part of my body is broken

too.”

View attachment 536753“To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful.”

View attachment 536753“Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let

go."

View attachment 536753“If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it.”

View attachment 536753"I thought when love for you died, I should die. It’s dead.Alone, most strangely, I live on."

View attachment 536753"final comfort that is small, but not cold: The heart is the only broken instrument that works."

View attachment 536753"They say that time heals all wounds but all it’s done so far is give me more time to think about

how much I miss you."

View attachment 536753"What is the opposite of two? A lonely me, a lonely you."

View attachment 536753"Missing you could turn from pain to pleasure, if I knew you were missing me too."

View attachment 536753"Laughter and tears are both responses to frustration and exhaustion. I myself prefer to laugh,

since there is less cleaning up to do afterward."


hanzuke


View attachment 536753"you cannot love without trust, but you can trust with or without love."

View attachment 536753"sometimes its hard to determine wether you really have feelings for someone or you are just

carried away by the good things they do."

View attachment 536753"if you love someone, don't hesitate to say what you feel, because sometimes, broken hearts are

caused by unspoken words."

View attachment 536753"LOVE doesn't always have a happy ending. Sometimes it ends up with bitterness and full of

heartaches but still, we always want to repeat it. Love is pathetic, naive, full of sorrows, lots

of patience, millions of understanding, overflowing of pain, it makes our life miserable, it

makes our life sucks, love ruins our life. But I guess, 'a LIFE without LOVE, is not life after

all'."

demon spade

View attachment 536753well other wise this a of your choice,but you'll need to be wiser..

View attachment 536753"I’ve learned…that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time

you talk with them"

View attachment 536753"loving someone is a choice and taking risk if you think you will be the deserving man to that

woman be man enough to prove it .."

View attachment 536753"no one deserve to be hurt by someone,the most tragic crime that you can commit to yourself is

let someone hurt you in the hardest way he can, life must be appreciated every seconds,so don't

let someone get it from you or might be the miserable person in the world of happiness."

View attachment 536753"to much expectation can give us a big disappointment and unconditionally confusion that can make

us miserable if we cannot hold it, in this case you should ask someone or look someone who can

listen to all of your disappointment and ask for some advice so that you can breath calmly while

your in the healing process.."

View attachment 536753"we don't have a choice but to cross the path of pain to become a better person for a lifetime,as

far as you cross this path you may need enough guts and think wiser to evade the path of pain and

change it into everlasting success story of your life"

pandasuure

View attachment 536753LOVE IS LIKE A CYCLE:
when you love,you get hurt.
when you get hurt,you hate.
when you hate, you try to forget.
when you try to forget, you start missing.
and when you start missing…
you will eventually fall in love again.


View attachment 536753Wag mong agawin ang di sayo...At lalong wag mong mamahalin ang taong alam mong kahit kelan di magiging sayo..

View attachment 536753A Friend’s Love says:
” If you ever need anything,
I’ll be there.

View attachment 536753If grass can grow through cement, love can find you at every time in your life.

View attachment 536753In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything and two minus one equals nothing

View attachment 536753''maybe im not the perfect one. .but im the right one for you''

View attachment 536753Passion makes the world go round. Love just makes it safer place.

View attachment 536753"There are times in my life that i just want 2 give up & let lose,
but have you ever thought why I’m still here fighting against depression..?"

leonard1928
View attachment 536753"mahal ko siya,mahal nya ko..bahala na sila..ang mahalaga mahal namin ang isa't isa.."

View attachment 536753HINDI AKO NANINIWALA NA ANG LOVE NANDYAN LANG YAN..DI YAN BASTA BASTA NATATAGPUAN..PANO KUNG NATAGPUAN MO NA SIYA?PAPAKAWALAN MO BA DAHIL LANG SA NAGHAHANGAD KA NG MAGANDANG BUHAY?(KALOKOHAN)

View attachment 536753We had some really good times,And we had some really bad,But the strength to keep on going,Neither of us had.


fullgaz
View attachment 536753-kung may araw ng pagluha,may araw din ng pag ngiti..
View attachment 536753-Kung nadapa ka sa paglakad,matutong bumangon para hindi ka magmukhang nagpaplanking..
View attachment 536753-Masakit masawi pero masarap magmahal..


killer sam

View attachment 536753"You can spend your life holding on, or you can show that idiot who broke your heart what he is missing."


mydarksidefy
View attachment 536753Even you're in a relationship, remember that you are separate people. You don’t own his time. He also needs time for the others too, moreover for his family. Don’t force him to do things which he isn’t comfortable with. You`ll know that he really loves you, if he`ll make time for you despite of his tight schedule..

DARKSIDEofME

View attachment 536753"You are not communicating as well as you normally do. You are constantly being misunderstood and are finding the way others behave towards you to be inexcusable. This is definitely not the time to meet up with people when you seem to be constantly aggravated by what they say. Postpone visits or meetings with people if you can until you are feeling more agreeably towards them. Instead use today for reflection and sort yourself out."



ninku009
View attachment 536753"Walang masama kung tutulungan ang isat isa para makaahon sa anino ng nakaraan at tanggapin kung

anong meron tayo ngayon"

View attachment 536753"Im not a good man anymore.... Im a better man"

View attachment 536753"Ang buhay natin parang musika, hinihintay lang natin na may liriko sa ating musika"

View attachment 536753"Mahal kita, hindi mo lang pansin dahil sa iba ka nakatingin"

View attachment 536753"Ang araw ay kailangan din magbigay daan para sa buwan tuwing gabi"

View attachment 536753"mas makikilala mo ang isang tao sa kanyang pinopost kaysa kapag kausap o kasama"

View attachment 536753Hayaan mo ang problema mamoblema ng problema niya

View attachment 536753All we need is a lil space to think, to realize













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Salamat sa pkikiramay sorry ah now lang nkapgreply,what happen po sa love life mo?... :sad: ..

Salamat po ganda po. Naaliw po ko broken kc ako

 

[Razielle Prima]

Re: Sa lahat po ng mga broken hearted sama-sama po tayo. <\3

Naguguluhan po ako.

 

[Cyfy01]

Pa bm broken hearted here </3 T-T

 

[Caezar]

TS.... padaan sa tambayan...nakakamiss dito ah... saa akin ata pinakamarami hugot kots dati ah...

 

[markramos]

Hi T.s. nabasa ko ung thread mo.. and i want to ask advice from you..

T.S. kpg ba nafall out of love ang GF mo sayo, in a sudden, may 3rd party o tlgang nwlan lng sya ng gana??

kasi T.S. ganito un, ung 10 months n kami ng GF ko, sa loob ng 9months eh msasabi kong npkswerte ko sa kanya, sweet sya, maalalahanin, mabait, saka hindi sya malandi.

Nung June 2 t.s. lumuwas ako pra mag stay in sa alabang, taga valenzuela ako, kasi need ko mag office don kasi Marine Engineer ako bago sumampa ng barko may duty kami sa office.

Nakilala ko sya estudyante p sya, and then nagstop sya, March 7 nagdecide sya mgwork sa call center, sinuporthan ko kahit alam ko sistema ng call center, March 7 - June 3, 2015, nagwork sya sa call center pero hndi sya nagbago, lagi nya ako inaalala, kinoconsider sa lahat ng decision nya, lagi syang nagtetext pra alam ko nangyayari sa kanya, kpg matutulog sya sa office magttext muna sya for me to know at wag magalala. pero nung June 4, 2015, bigla syang nagbago, in a sudden, (nagyosi ulit sya, nagkakilala kami nagyoyosi n sya, pero nung pinatigil ko, wla png 1 month natigil nya na) ksama nya daw mga ka officemate nyang lalaki, then nagstart n ung coldness nya, hndi sya nagtetext, hndi sya nagpapaalam, 4 am ang out nya sa work pero umuuwi sya 12-2pm kpg day off nya umaabot ng 4-5pm sa office. sabi nya natutulog daw sya sa sleeping area, pero dati bago mag June 4, nggwa nya ng matulog don, pero pa isa isang oras lng, pinakamtagal 2 hours kasi daw ayaw nya kasi nabibitin tulog nya, uuwi p sya galing makati, tapos papasok ulit, before mag June 4 hindi sya lagi maaga pumasok, and wla syang gana lagi, kasi nga puyat sya, daing sya ng daing saken about sa work nya, then suddenly after June 4 prang ganadong ganado syang pumasok. 7pm pasok nya 5 nsa office n sya tapos hndi nya ko mtxt ng maayos kpg andon n sya, to think n hindi p nya duty.

And then nagtuloy tuloy ung ganung coldness hanggang June 14. so ako syempre as her BF nagtataka, dumating sa point n galit n galit ako, pero wla akong mgwa kasi hndi ko sya makausap ng maayos, ang gnwa ko umuwi ako sa valenzuela pra kausapin sya, kaso halos ipagtabuyan nya na ako, ang dami nyang dahilan, pero nakausap ko sya, kaya lng nanghihingi sya ng time for herself / space daw (June 6 2015) and then gusto nya may txt padin kasi ayaw nya nga daw ako mwla, pero wag daw ako magdedemand/command sa mga dpt nyang gwin. pero prang lumalala gngwa nya, mas late syang nkakauwi, then mas npapadalas yosi nya, kahit sinabi ko time by time tanggalin nya kasi nga hndi daw kaya ng bglaan. so (June 9,2015) umuwi ulit ako pra kausapin sya, this time 2 weeks cool off hiningi nya, pero same may txt daw, pero same p din prang wlang nagbabago, hindi n ko nagcocommand/demand pero mas lumalala situation e, then (June 10 2015) umabsent ako pra mag set ng date, pra maagapan pagiging cold nya, pero at the end of the day, gusto nya p din mag cool off kami. Nagsex kami that time, ganun p din sya, sabik p din sya saken, sweet p din sya, pero hindi n tulad ng dati, lagi pa din syang nag ailove you, pero June 15, 2015, nakipgbreak sya saken, sabi nya awa nlng daw pla ung natitira kaya nya pinagpapatuloy ung relationship, wla n daw spark. T_T sakit e.

so saken, prang why? san ako nagkulang dba, sya daw ang problema, prang nananwa daw sya. so ako pumayag na din, take note t.s. wla akong gnwang msama, hndi ako nambabae (actually 2x n daw sya naloko, so alam nya n pakiramdam non, pakiramdam ng maiwan sa ere, saka dpt cautious n sya sa mamahalin nya since naloko n nga sya twice) so ako sumuko n din, kahit msakit.

So T.S. please give me advice, i want to move on, and gusto ko malaman if may third party ba ? possible b n wla? na tlgang fall out lng sya? thanks

Im 22 y.o coming 23 this June 17 (ang ganda ng birthday gift nya saken). 20 y/o ung ex gf ko.

P.S. may pagasa pbng maibalik ung love kahit fall out n ung girl?

 

[Razielle Prima]

Hi T.s. nabasa ko ung thread mo.. and i want to ask advice from you..

T.S. kpg ba nafall out of love ang GF mo sayo, in a sudden, may 3rd party o tlgang nwlan lng sya ng gana??

kasi T.S. ganito un, ung 10 months n kami ng GF ko, sa loob ng 9months eh msasabi kong npkswerte ko sa kanya, sweet sya, maalalahanin, mabait, saka hindi sya malandi.

Nung June 2 t.s. lumuwas ako pra mag stay in sa alabang, taga valenzuela ako, kasi need ko mag office don kasi Marine Engineer ako bago sumampa ng barko may duty kami sa office.

Nakilala ko sya estudyante p sya, and then nagstop sya, March 7 nagdecide sya mgwork sa call center, sinuporthan ko kahit alam ko sistema ng call center, March 7 - June 3, 2015, nagwork sya sa call center pero hndi sya nagbago, lagi nya ako inaalala, kinoconsider sa lahat ng decision nya, lagi syang nagtetext pra alam ko nangyayari sa kanya, kpg matutulog sya sa office magttext muna sya for me to know at wag magalala. pero nung June 4, 2015, bigla syang nagbago, in a sudden, (nagyosi ulit sya, nagkakilala kami nagyoyosi n sya, pero nung pinatigil ko, wla png 1 month natigil nya na) ksama nya daw mga ka officemate nyang lalaki, then nagstart n ung coldness nya, hndi sya nagtetext, hndi sya nagpapaalam, 4 am ang out nya sa work pero umuuwi sya 12-2pm kpg day off nya umaabot ng 4-5pm sa office. sabi nya natutulog daw sya sa sleeping area, pero dati bago mag June 4, nggwa nya ng matulog don, pero pa isa isang oras lng, pinakamtagal 2 hours kasi daw ayaw nya kasi nabibitin tulog nya, uuwi p sya galing makati, tapos papasok ulit, before mag June 4 hindi sya lagi maaga pumasok, and wla syang gana lagi, kasi nga puyat sya, daing sya ng daing saken about sa work nya, then suddenly after June 4 prang ganadong ganado syang pumasok. 7pm pasok nya 5 nsa office n sya tapos hndi nya ko mtxt ng maayos kpg andon n sya, to think n hindi p nya duty.

And then nagtuloy tuloy ung ganung coldness hanggang June 14. so ako syempre as her BF nagtataka, dumating sa point n galit n galit ako, pero wla akong mgwa kasi hndi ko sya makausap ng maayos, ang gnwa ko umuwi ako sa valenzuela pra kausapin sya, kaso halos ipagtabuyan nya na ako, ang dami nyang dahilan, pero nakausap ko sya, kaya lng nanghihingi sya ng time for herself / space daw (June 6 2015) and then gusto nya may txt padin kasi ayaw nya nga daw ako mwla, pero wag daw ako magdedemand/command sa mga dpt nyang gwin. pero prang lumalala gngwa nya, mas late syang nkakauwi, then mas npapadalas yosi nya, kahit sinabi ko time by time tanggalin nya kasi nga hndi daw kaya ng bglaan. so (June 9,2015) umuwi ulit ako pra kausapin sya, this time 2 weeks cool off hiningi nya, pero same may txt daw, pero same p din prang wlang nagbabago, hindi n ko nagcocommand/demand pero mas lumalala situation e, then (June 10 2015) umabsent ako pra mag set ng date, pra maagapan pagiging cold nya, pero at the end of the day, gusto nya p din mag cool off kami. Nagsex kami that time, ganun p din sya, sabik p din sya saken, sweet p din sya, pero hindi n tulad ng dati, lagi pa din syang nag ailove you, pero June 15, 2015, nakipgbreak sya saken, sabi nya awa nlng daw pla ung natitira kaya nya pinagpapatuloy ung relationship, wla n daw spark. T_T sakit e.

so saken, prang why? san ako nagkulang dba, sya daw ang problema, prang nananwa daw sya. so ako pumayag na din, take note t.s. wla akong gnwang msama, hndi ako nambabae (actually 2x n daw sya naloko, so alam nya n pakiramdam non, pakiramdam ng maiwan sa ere, saka dpt cautious n sya sa mamahalin nya since naloko n nga sya twice) so ako sumuko n din, kahit msakit.

So T.S. please give me advice, i want to move on, and gusto ko malaman if may third party ba ? possible b n wla? na tlgang fall out lng sya? thanks

Im 22 y.o coming 23 this June 17 (ang ganda ng birthday gift nya saken). 20 y/o ung ex gf ko.

P.S. may pagasa pbng maibalik ung love kahit fall out n ung girl?

Pasensya na po at medyo busy TS natin. Nandito naman po ang iba nating advisors na handa magbigay ng payo.

Salamat po sa kaalamang naibahagi mo sa amin tungkol sa iyong edad. Siya po ba ang iyong unang kasintahan? Hindi mo na po kailangang sagutin kung hindi mo ibig ibahagi. Nandito po ang mga advisors para magbigay payo base sa naibigay na kaalaman.

Ang masasabi ko po ay maikli pa ang panahon na naging kayo. Ang panqhong iyon ay ang karaniwan na naiisip ng isa, kung hindi pareho, ang cooloff. Karaniwan po ang pagiging malamig dahil sa pagsasawa. Hindi po ibig sabihin nito ay may pangatlong partido, although pwede, pero not necessarily.

May pag-asa ba maibalik ang init ng pag-ibig? Depende na po, hindi lang sa babae, kung hindi ay pati na rin sa iyo. In my opinion, kung panghahawakan mo ang pag-ibig mo sa kanya, hindi maganda na ipipilit mo ito. Pwede ka pa rin maging sweet bilang kaibigan. Walang kasiguraduhan na mahulog muli siya sa iyo, o mangulila siya sa pagiging malambing mo. Siyempre ay depende na rin sa kanya kung hahayaan ka niya o kung tuluyan niyang putulin ang communication niyo. Decision mo na po kung ipagpapatuloy mo ba o tuluyan ka nang susuko.

In moving on, ituon mo ang sarili mo sa mga bagay na ibig mong gawin. You will not be able to move on right away, but you need to focus your attention on other things. Kung magiging abala ka, mababawasan ang oras ng pag-iisip mo sa kanya. Hindi man tuluyan, ngunit mababawasan. Ito ang pagkakataon na maaaring may pumasok na iba upang punuan ang nawawalang bahagi o bagay sa iyong puso at isipan. Ang magagawa lang po natin sa ganitong panahon ay maghintay.

 

[markramos]

Pasensya na po at medyo busy TS natin. Nandito naman po ang iba nating advisors na handa magbigay ng payo.

Salamat po sa kaalamang naibahagi mo sa amin tungkol sa iyong edad. Siya po ba ang iyong unang kasintahan? Hindi mo na po kailangang sagutin kung hindi mo ibig ibahagi. Nandito po ang mga advisors para magbigay payo base sa naibigay na kaalaman.

Ang masasabi ko po ay maikli pa ang panahon na naging kayo. Ang panqhong iyon ay ang karaniwan na naiisip ng isa, kung hindi pareho, ang cooloff. Karaniwan po ang pagiging malamig dahil sa pagsasawa. Hindi po ibig sabihin nito ay may pangatlong partido, although pwede, pero not necessarily.

May pag-asa ba maibalik ang init ng pag-ibig? Depende na po, hindi lang sa babae, kung hindi ay pati na rin sa iyo. In my opinion, kung panghahawakan mo ang pag-ibig mo sa kanya, hindi maganda na ipipilit mo ito. Pwede ka pa rin maging sweet bilang kaibigan. Walang kasiguraduhan na mahulog muli siya sa iyo, o mangulila siya sa pagiging malambing mo. Siyempre ay depende na rin sa kanya kung hahayaan ka niya o kung tuluyan niyang putulin ang communication niyo. Decision mo na po kung ipagpapatuloy mo ba o tuluyan ka nang susuko.

In moving on, ituon mo ang sarili mo sa mga bagay na ibig mong gawin. You will not be able to move on right away, but you need to focus your attention on other things. Kung magiging abala ka, mababawasan ang oras ng pag-iisip mo sa kanya. Hindi man tuluyan, ngunit mababawasan. Ito ang pagkakataon na maaaring may pumasok na iba upang punuan ang nawawalang bahagi o bagay sa iyong puso at isipan. Ang magagawa lang po natin sa ganitong panahon ay maghintay.

Thanks T.S.
Update ko lng po..

T.S. alam mo nagtext sya kagabi, nakipagbreak sya nung monday, at sabi nya nga awa nlng nraramdaman nya at wala n daw spark, ayaw nya n daw saken, pero kagabi nag tetext sya saken, may kulang daw sa kanya, ayaw nya daw ako mwala, ayaw nya daw ako mwala pero ayaw nya ng commitment, ako naman si tanga dahil mahal ko pa nagreply ako, aun nagusap kami. Naging mahinahon ako, sinetaside ko ung galit ko, hindi daw sya masaya sa nangyayari, nahihirapan din daw sya. Ayaw nya daw ako mwala pero nasasakal n daw talga sya. gusto nya daw maging bestfriends kami.

Saken lng nag momove on na ako pero nagtext p sya, ano kayang naisip non, may spark p daw sabi nya, mahal n mahal nya p daw ako, nagwa at nsabi nya lng un kasi nga gusto nya ng space, nsasakal daw kasi sya saken. (nasakal siguro sya sa pagbbwal ko ng yosi saka ung pagbbwal ko ng mga bagay na mkksama sa kanya like alak, going together with other guy, bar/club) ito lng nmn bnwal ko e. saka gusto ko lng nman may prior notice, pra alam ko gngwa nya at nsan sya pra d ako magworry.

Ang gulo nya sobra, nakipgbreak sya dahil sa mbabaw na dahilan, nasaktan nya ang taong mahal n mahal nya, parang ang labo, so kinausap ko sya, sabi ko sige kung yosi lng problema, ok lng saken, sige unti untiin nlng n tanggalin. Pilit ko syang pinaamin if meron pbng ibang problema, actually mejo naging bastos n ako at diretsahan ko syang tinanong kung may nakasex b syang ibang guy (wala nman daw mejo nagalit sya). Wala daw syang lalaki, saken lng daw sya inlove, saken lng daw sya nakatali. Gusto nyo lang daw ibalik ung dating sya, sana daw maghintay ako wag daw ako aalis, wag daw ako mwwla. tuloy daw communication namen pra daw di ako mwla. Then nlalabuan p din ako kaya tinanong ko kung meron p bng iba, aun nagsabi n sya ng totoo (nagyoyosi daw sya araw araw) kasi sabi nya saken minsan lng. Tanong ko "Un lang ba?" sagot nya "mga utos ko p daw" mga demands ko, sabi ko naman pagusapan namen since nsaktan n ako kaya mejo ok n saken ung nangyayari, tanggap ko na kasi. Then sabi ko ok n saken ang yosi mo at hindi n din ako magdedemand, pero still she needs daw mapagisa. Iniinsist nya n hindi daw nya ugali n manlalaki, since then kasi hindi naman talaga. kaya naniniwala ako.

Ano kya dapat kong gawin, mahal ko pa oo, pero ung isip ko pilit n inaalala ung sakit n dinulot e, prang natauhan ako. Pilit nya akong tinetext na, ibabalik nya daw ung dating sya, at sana daw maaccept ko p sya, ang kinbabahala ko, bka umasa ako, then in a sudden malaman ko nainlove n sya sa iba, maghihintay ako tapos bka ako din maiwanan sa huli. Or since call center sya, bka naman gusto nya lng iexperience ung mga bgay n nagiging curious sya. tapos bbalik sya kpg sawa na sya. ano b dpt kong gawin. Thanks T.S.

 

[Razielle Prima]

Thanks T.S.
Update ko lng po..

T.S. alam mo nagtext sya kagabi, nakipagbreak sya nung monday, at sabi nya nga awa nlng nraramdaman nya at wala n daw spark, ayaw nya n daw saken, pero kagabi nag tetext sya saken, may kulang daw sa kanya, ayaw nya daw ako mwala, ayaw nya daw ako mwala pero ayaw nya ng commitment, ako naman si tanga dahil mahal ko pa nagreply ako, aun nagusap kami. Naging mahinahon ako, sinetaside ko ung galit ko, hindi daw sya masaya sa nangyayari, nahihirapan din daw sya. Ayaw nya daw ako mwala pero nasasakal n daw talga sya. gusto nya daw maging bestfriends kami.

Saken lng nag momove on na ako pero nagtext p sya, ano kayang naisip non, may spark p daw sabi nya, mahal n mahal nya p daw ako, nagwa at nsabi nya lng un kasi nga gusto nya ng space, nsasakal daw kasi sya saken. (nasakal siguro sya sa pagbbwal ko ng yosi saka ung pagbbwal ko ng mga bagay na mkksama sa kanya like alak, going together with other guy, bar/club) ito lng nmn bnwal ko e. saka gusto ko lng nman may prior notice, pra alam ko gngwa nya at nsan sya pra d ako magworry.

Ang gulo nya sobra, nakipgbreak sya dahil sa mbabaw na dahilan, nasaktan nya ang taong mahal n mahal nya, parang ang labo, so kinausap ko sya, sabi ko sige kung yosi lng problema, ok lng saken, sige unti untiin nlng n tanggalin. Pilit ko syang pinaamin if meron pbng ibang problema, actually mejo naging bastos n ako at diretsahan ko syang tinanong kung may nakasex b syang ibang guy (wala nman daw mejo nagalit sya). Wala daw syang lalaki, saken lng daw sya inlove, saken lng daw sya nakatali. Gusto nyo lang daw ibalik ung dating sya, sana daw maghintay ako wag daw ako aalis, wag daw ako mwwla. tuloy daw communication namen pra daw di ako mwla. Then nlalabuan p din ako kaya tinanong ko kung meron p bng iba, aun nagsabi n sya ng totoo (nagyoyosi daw sya araw araw) kasi sabi nya saken minsan lng. Tanong ko "Un lang ba?" sagot nya "mga utos ko p daw" mga demands ko, sabi ko naman pagusapan namen since nsaktan n ako kaya mejo ok n saken ung nangyayari, tanggap ko na kasi. Then sabi ko ok n saken ang yosi mo at hindi n din ako magdedemand, pero still she needs daw mapagisa. Iniinsist nya n hindi daw nya ugali n manlalaki, since then kasi hindi naman talaga. kaya naniniwala ako.

Ano kya dapat kong gawin, mahal ko pa oo, pero ung isip ko pilit n inaalala ung sakit n dinulot e, prang natauhan ako. Pilit nya akong tinetext na, ibabalik nya daw ung dating sya, at sana daw maaccept ko p sya, ang kinbabahala ko, bka umasa ako, then in a sudden malaman ko nainlove n sya sa iba, maghihintay ako tapos bka ako din maiwanan sa huli. Or since call center sya, bka naman gusto nya lng iexperience ung mga bgay n nagiging curious sya. tapos bbalik sya kpg sawa na sya. ano b dpt kong gawin. Thanks T.S.

Nasa iyo na po ang decision. Ang masasabi ko po, ganoon na siya dati pa. Kung minahal mo siya, bakit kailangan mo siya baguhin? Ang pagbabago ay gawain ng kaibigan, ang pagmamahal ay pagtanggap ng lahat kung ano man siya. Humingi siya ng space. Ibig sabihin ay may space ka na sa iyo. Gamitin mo ito upang mapag-isipan kung mahal mo ba siya, kung kaya mo ba tanggapin kahit wala kang ipagbawal sa kanya, kahit hindi siya magbago. Kung hindi, dapat binago mo muna siya bilang kaibigan bago mo siya niligawan.

 

[ninku009]

@markramos

give her time, but it doesn't mean na itutuloy nio pa din ang nakasanayan nio nun kayo pa. Both parties may mali, sa kanya ang pinakamali. UU mahal ka nia, ang tanong totoo ba? Kung ako tatanungin mo, hindi.. habang binabasa ko ang nangyari sayo, tumatak sa isip ko na nag-stay pa din sia sayo dahil sa AWA. Bilang lalaki, isang sampal satin yun lalo na kung mahal mo yun girl. Then gusto nia pa magkatext kayo? what the....

If you really love her, you should guide her to the truth, teach a lesson,...

Kung talagang mahal ka niya, hindi na nia kailangan magsabi na magbabago na sia, gagawin na nia for the better change.

Tell her you love her from the time na kayo pa, tao ka din, nasasaktan. That feelings won't dissappear easily, kung wala siang gagawin na paraan para sa pagbabago, maybe what the two of you will be in history..

As for you, have self preservation..mas makakatulong ang hindi makipag communicate sa kanya sa kahit anong pamamaraan, let both of you grow matured. If true love exist in both of you... it can truly wait

 

[reiko08]

tama si ninku009 TS.. kung talagang mahal ka nya sya mismo magkukusa.. tingin ko makasarili masyado yang EX mo.. pabor sa kanya lahat ehh... ayaw ka nya pero ayaw ka nya mawala.. kung kakayanin mo TS bawasan or itigil mo na muna ang communication nyo.. make her realize kung ano ka talaga sa kanya.. kung talagang mahal ka nya, gagawa at gagawa yan ng paraan para maging kayo ulit

 

[markramos]

Nasa iyo na po ang decision. Ang masasabi ko po, ganoon na siya dati pa. Kung minahal mo siya, bakit kailangan mo siya baguhin? Ang pagbabago ay gawain ng kaibigan, ang pagmamahal ay pagtanggap ng lahat kung ano man siya. Humingi siya ng space. Ibig sabihin ay may space ka na sa iyo. Gamitin mo ito upang mapag-isipan kung mahal mo ba siya, kung kaya mo ba tanggapin kahit wala kang ipagbawal sa kanya, kahit hindi siya magbago. Kung hindi, dapat binago mo muna siya bilang kaibigan bago mo siya niligawan.

Thanks T.S.

Actually po T.S. nung bago ko sya makilala nagyoyosi n tlga sya, but then nung naging kami at syempre hndi kasi ako nagyoyosi, hindi rin ako umiinom kaya hanggat maari pinatanggal ko, pero T.S. hindi ko sya binigla, sabi ko lng pwde bang tanggalin nya, since mahal nya ako tinanggal nya naman, 1month after maging kami hindi n sya nagyoyosi, tumagal ung hindi nya pagyosi ng 9months, sabi nya nga saken hinding hindi n sya magyoyosi, nandidiri n kasi daw sya. pero ayon nga bumalik dahil npasok sya sa call center, laht kasi ng ka team nya nagyoyosi, siguro natukso.

 

[Razielle Prima]

Thanks T.S.

Actually po T.S. nung bago ko sya makilala nagyoyosi n tlga sya, but then nung naging kami at syempre hndi kasi ako nagyoyosi, hindi rin ako umiinom kaya hanggat maari pinatanggal ko, pero T.S. hindi ko sya binigla, sabi ko lng pwde bang tanggalin nya, since mahal nya ako tinanggal nya naman, 1month after maging kami hindi n sya nagyoyosi, tumagal ung hindi nya pagyosi ng 9months, sabi nya nga saken hinding hindi n sya magyoyosi, nandidiri n kasi daw sya. pero ayon nga bumalik dahil npasok sya sa call center, laht kasi ng ka team nya nagyoyosi, siguro natukso.

Kung tanggap mo at hindi mo naman ipipilit, bakit siya nasasakal? Hindi tayo sigurado kung gumagawa lang siya ng dahilan o wala lang sa mood niya ang commitment. As my fellow advisors, Ninku and Reiko said, self-centered ang kagustuhan ng babae. Mahirap para sa ibang tao tanggalin ang bisyo, pero bakit kailangan niyang umiwas dahil lang doon? Hihintayin mo ang magiging decision niya? Kahit ano maging decision niya, decision niya iyon at hindi magiging mahirap para sa kanya ang transition. Paano naman ikaw? Ikaw ang labis maaapektuhan. Mabuti kung positive. Paano kung negative? Naghintay ka sa wala?

Kung sa tingin mo ay kaya mo naman, decision mo pa rin iyan. Paano kung ikaw naman ang magsawa? Pagsisisihan mo ba ang panahong nasayang mo, o matututo ka at tatanggapin ang consequences? Isa po itong decision na dapat pag-isipang mabuti. Ikaw lang po ang makakasagot.

"There is no regret in a decision that was thought of carefully and thoroughly. If there is, the blame is on the decision-maker".
-Razielle

 

[markramos]

Kung tanggap mo at hindi mo naman ipipilit, bakit siya nasasakal? Hindi tayo sigurado kung gumagawa lang siya ng dahilan o wala lang sa mood niya ang commitment. As my fellow advisors, Ninku and Reiko said, self-centered ang kagustuhan ng babae. Mahirap para sa ibang tao tanggalin ang bisyo, pero bakit kailangan niyang umiwas dahil lang doon? Hihintayin mo ang magiging decision niya? Kahit ano maging decision niya, decision niya iyon at hindi magiging mahirap para sa kanya ang transition. Paano naman ikaw? Ikaw ang labis maaapektuhan. Mabuti kung positive. Paano kung negative? Naghintay ka sa wala?

Kung sa tingin mo ay kaya mo naman, decision mo pa rin iyan. Paano kung ikaw naman ang magsawa? Pagsisisihan mo ba ang panahong nasayang mo, o matututo ka at tatanggapin ang consequences? Isa po itong decision na dapat pag-isipang mabuti. Ikaw lang po ang makakasagot.

"There is no regret in a decision that was thought of carefully and thoroughly. If there is, the blame is on the decision-maker".
-Razielle

Thanks po sa reply.

Mahal ko p sya pero hindi na tulad ng dati, wala n akong tiwala, gusto nya makipgusap saken sa sunday, gusto nya daw kasi maging malaya, walang bwal, walang report, gusto nya daw maging matured ang relationship, nagsasawa daw sya kasi praning ako, saken lng normal nmn nag magalala diba lalot hindi nagsasabi ung girlfriends mo kung nsan n sya diba, may load nman lagi, may fb, so anong reason pra hindi magtxt / chat. now she's asking 2 months cool off, wow ang tagal, pra daw matanggal ko ung ganung ugali, may gusto atang gawin n ayaw sabhin kaya ganon e.

Gusto ko kayo maging friend sa FB, please send me private message

 

[Razielle Prima]

Thanks po sa reply.

Mahal ko p sya pero hindi na tulad ng dati, wala n akong tiwala, gusto nya makipgusap saken sa sunday, gusto nya daw kasi maging malaya, walang bwal, walang report, gusto nya daw maging matured ang relationship, nagsasawa daw sya kasi praning ako, saken lng normal nmn nag magalala diba lalot hindi nagsasabi ung girlfriends mo kung nsan n sya diba, may load nman lagi, may fb, so anong reason pra hindi magtxt / chat. now she's asking 2 months cool off, wow ang tagal, pra daw matanggal ko ung ganung ugali, may gusto atang gawin n ayaw sabhin kaya ganon e.

Gusto ko kayo maging friend sa FB, please send me private message

Gusto niya ng "matured" relationship kaya gusto niya maging malaya?? Saan ang maturity doon? That statement of hers is enough to point out that she is at fault. Hindi niya alam kung ano ang relationship. Hindi siya handa para sa isang relationship. End of story. My final advice? Same as Ninku said. Sa una ay dumedepende pa ako sa nararamdaman mo kung kaya mo ba o hindi ang pagtanggap. Now, because of that "maturity" statement, hindi ko sasabihing iwan mo siya, pero sasabihin kong tama lang na tapusin mo na ang relationship niyo. Kailangan niyang maintindihan kung ano ito bago siya pumasok dito. Sa una masasabi kong kawawa ka sa paningin nv iba kung tunay kang nagmamahal. Now, if you really love someone, you would want her to grow. Kung nasa tama sana ang reason niya, mapagbibigyan ko pa. Kung mali na, then I will say stop, it is enough.

If you really love her, you should guide her to the truth, teach a lesson,...

Hindi lang po ako ang advisor dito. May dalawa pa po na nagbigay ng opinion nila. Hindi rin po ako ang thread starter. Si Demon Spade po at maaaring makapagbigay po siya ng masmaliwanag na payo at paliwanag.

 

[markramos]

Gusto niya ng "matured" relationship kaya gusto niya maging malaya?? Saan ang maturity doon? That statement of hers is enough to point out that she is at fault. Hindi niya alam kung ano ang relationship. Hindi siya handa para sa isang relationship. End of story. My final advice? Same as Ninku said. Sa una ay dumedepende pa ako sa nararamdaman mo kung kaya mo ba o hindi ang pagtanggap. Now, because of that "maturity" statement, hindi ko sasabihing iwan mo siya, pero sasabihin kong tama lang na tapusin mo na ang relationship niyo. Kailangan niyang maintindihan kung ano ito bago siya pumasok dito. Sa una masasabi kong kawawa ka sa paningin nv iba kung tunay kang nagmamahal. Now, if you really love someone, you would want her to grow. Kung nasa tama sana ang reason niya, mapagbibigyan ko pa. Kung mali na, then I will say stop, it is enough.



Hindi lang po ako ang advisor dito. May dalawa pa po na nagbigay ng opinion nila. Hindi rin po ako ang thread starter. Si Demon Spade po at maaaring makapagbigay po siya ng masmaliwanag na payo at paliwanag.

Thanks sa pag emphasize

Sorry typo error "girlfriend" hehehe

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He's i am also having a hard time understanding kung ano b gusto nyang matured relationship hahaha, siguro gusto nya OPEN RELATIONSHIP, well sya bahala. Ako depende lng, kung makita ko ulit na pinahahalagahan nya ako, i would come back, pero not the same person, since nsaktan n tlga ako, ayoko muna mag seryoso and ill try if mag work out pa, pero kung wla n tlga, i will let her go, since may trust issues n din ako sa kanya, hirap nyn kasi sakit sa ulo hahaha, so enjoy nlng muna siguro ung ganito, hirap n din tlga magseryoso e, ikaw kwawa sa huli, atleast naexperience ko n ung ganung pain

Thanks sa advise nyong lahat or comments i really appreciated po

 

[Razielle Prima]

Thanks sa pag emphasize

Sorry typo error "girlfriend" hehehe

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He's i am also having a hard time understanding kung ano b gusto nyang matured relationship hahaha, siguro gusto nya OPEN RELATIONSHIP, well sya bahala. Ako depende lng, kung makita ko ulit na pinahahalagahan nya ako, i would come back, pero not the same person, since nsaktan n tlga ako, ayoko muna mag seryoso and ill try if mag work out pa, pero kung wla n tlga, i will let her go, since may trust issues n din ako sa kanya, hirap nyn kasi sakit sa ulo hahaha, so enjoy nlng muna siguro ung ganito, hirap n din tlga magseryoso e, ikaw kwawa sa huli, atleast naexperience ko n ung ganung pain

Thanks sa advise nyong lahat or comments i really appreciated po

Open relationship. Ito nga siguro ang hinahanap niya. Anyways, hindi pa rin magbabago ang sinabi ko. She is not ready for a serious relationship.

 

[ninku009]

Open relationship. Ito nga siguro ang hinahanap niya. Anyways, hindi pa rin magbabago ang sinabi ko. She is not ready for a serious relationship.

+1. Iba talaga ang ambience kapag nagtatrabaho ka sa call center kaya ganun ang gusto nia...

 

[demon spade]

sorry for being inactive for a long time.

i think isa lang ang nasa isip namin nila sir.ninku at razzielle

gaya nga ng nasabi ko sa fb. mas magandang pag-usapan niyo ng matino ito at sabihin mo lahat ng nararamdaman mo sa kanya. tingin ko din di pa siya handa sa pang matagalan na commitment

 

[shame08102488]

Re: Sa lahat po ng mga broken hearted sama-sama po tayo. <\3

,tanggapin na lang natin ang isang masakit na katotohanan, di rin naman natin pdeng sabihin na hndi tau ngkulang at naibigay na natin ang lahat, may mga bagay tau na hndi natin kayang ibigay sa kanila, sa kabila ng lahat minahal ka naman nya at un nlng ang dapat mong pahalagahan, appreciate what she/he voluntered into your life, heal from the pain b'coz of love, tandaan mo sa bawat pagbangon mula sa kabiguan, nagkakaroon ng pagbabago sa ating pagkatao na di mo namamalayan, be on positive way, mahirap pero we don't have a choice but to cross the path of pain to become the better person,..

Sobrang hirap talga masaktan, ako nga dumadaan ngayon sa ganyan, hindi ko na alam gagawin ko, umalis ako ng bansa para sa future naming dalawa, araw araw naman akong nagtetext sa knya, tinulungan din nya ko para makaalis para sa mas maayos na buhay sana nmin, kc mataas din pangarap nya, 1 year n ko dito sa abroad, ay wala pang 1 year lumayo loob nya sakin, kaya pala hindi na sya masyado nagtetext, d na nag a iiloveyou, laging pilit na ang text nya, ayun nangyari na ang lahat, nag break kami. halos hinihiwa ko na ng cutter ang braso ko, halos 1 month akong hindi kumakain, hindi natutulog pang gabi pa work ko, cnasabi ko sa kanya, kinukunan ko ng picture ang bawat sugat na gawin ko sa katawan ko, makalimot lang ako sa sakit ng puso ko, pero still baliwala sa knya, until now khit alam kong baliwala ako sa knya, kagaya mo, im still hoping na magkaayos kami,. nag aapply sya ngayon dito sa bansa kung nasaan ako, sa ngayon, nagbabakasakali ako n kung papalarin syang makarating dito, baka magkaayos din kmi. kung dito nga saya mapupunta, haizt lintik kcng pagmamahal yan, kung bakit nauso pa eh.Sobrang sakit, nagtetext pa din ako sa knya araw araw na prang kami, pero hindi nmn sya nagrereply, bihira lang. Panu ba magandang gawin? kung magsuicide nlng kaya ako? marealized kaya nya na sana binalikan nlng nya ako? mag 6 years n nga pla sana kmi nung july 8, pero may 7 nagbreak kami, huhuhuh. wala pang 2 months ngayon. hindi ko na alam gagwin ko, mahirap manuyo pag gantong kalayo ang distansya nmin.

wew salamat sa sagot pro nagpapaawa na kz ako..napakadsprado ko na para bumalik xa sa akin..i think may gusto na siyang iba kaya ganyan inaasta nya...ang sakit talaga tangapin..damn!pero now im stl hoping pa rin kahit ang sakit na..

gaya mu im still hoping. yun nlng magagawa ntin.

mmhh kuya parang naiiyak naman ako sa iyo... nasasaktan ka na nga dahil iniwan ka niya tapos nasasaktan ka pa kasi kahit anung gawin mo ayaw na niya... para sa akin lang ah parang mapupush away mo siya lalo kasiayaw na niya tapos pinipilit mo pa din... why don't you give her time...

ginawa ko nga n pilitin sya, kaso lalong nagalit, pinipilit kong hindi magtxt sa knya, 1 day 2 days, kaso bigla nmn sya magtetext, so hindi ko sya mtiis magrereply nmn ako, pagkareply ko hindi na nmn sya magtetext, tapos ako nmn, itetext ko n nmn sya ng ittext, hindi ko mpigilan sarili ko. panu ba?

 

[maxgreen0427]

Re: Sa lahat po ng mga broken hearted sama-sama po tayo. <\3

its been to 2 weeks since My wife and I broke up... sobrang hirap talaga ng pinagdadaanan ko di ako makatulog... para akong sabog sa work... di ako makpagfocus... katulad nun isang kaibigan natin di ko cya matiis hindi itext sa isang araw... para akong tanga txt ng txt wala man lang siya reply haist