Broken Hearted Club (BHC) presents: [Love Advice for Broken Hearts]

[Razielle Prima]

Re: Sa lahat po ng mga broken hearted sama-sama po tayo. <\3

its been to 2 weeks since My wife and I broke up... sobrang hirap talaga ng pinagdadaanan ko di ako makatulog... para akong sabog sa work... di ako makpagfocus... katulad nun isang kaibigan natin di ko cya matiis hindi itext sa isang araw... para akong tanga txt ng txt wala man lang siya reply haist

Are you planning to move on or have her back? Kasal po ba kayo? You said she was your wife, but there are those, including me, who treat their beloved even, without marriage, as their wife.

 

[mynameiscloud]

Re: Sa lahat po ng mga broken hearted sama-sama po tayo. <\3

i like tha' way you think...
you should be commended

ill share my story here later.
just prioritizing stuff here in the office.

 

[Razielle Prima]

Re: Sa lahat po ng mga broken hearted sama-sama po tayo. <\3

i like tha' way you think...
you should be commended

ill share my story here later.
just prioritizing stuff here in the office.

Would be looking forward in reading your story, Ms.Cloud.

Anyway, whose way of thinking do you like?

 

[mynameiscloud]

Re: Sa lahat po ng mga broken hearted sama-sama po tayo. <\3

Would be looking forward in reading your story, Ms.Cloud.

Anyway, whose way of thinking do you like?

Yours...
Keep it up

On topic
I'll share it when I'm done

 

[Razielle Prima]

Re: Sa lahat po ng mga broken hearted sama-sama po tayo. <\3

Yours...
Keep it up

On topic
I'll share it when I'm done

Off topic po muna. Puno na po message box mo kaya hindi ako makapagReply sa iyo.

 

[mynameiscloud]

Re: Sa lahat po ng mga broken hearted sama-sama po tayo. <\3

My apologies for not noticing...

I already cleaned it up


as promised...

met a guy, siguro months ago na.
we're colleagues - same department and floor.
so lage kaming nagkikita.. lage din kami nag uusap...

meron siyang long time GF nung pumasok siya as manager.
so siya bilang bago at ako yung kalevel niya
i ended up sharing the best practices which i think would help him for that position.

hindi ko naman talaga siya gusto although i must admit that this guy is handsome.

putek mapute, makinis ang mukha tsaka meduim built, killer smile.. tapos samahan mo pa ng ateneo grad...his GF on the other hand.. model... maganda.. putek nakaka insecure...

so ito we started siguro mga three weeks ago na lageng magkasama kasi nga ako yung nagsasabi sa kanya and all that. we shared our stories hanggang sa naging comfy kami sa isat isa

lunch, breakfast..minsan nga pinagbabaon niya ko ng lunch eh. lage niya ko nittreat pagnagpapalibre ako. sweet niya tapos kung makipag usap eye to eye nakaktunaw. para kaming magjowa sa pinag gagagawa namin pero hindi ko inalis sa isipan kong taken siya..kaya siguro pilit kong ding inaalis sa isipan kong wag bigyan ng kulay ang lahat.

hanggang dumating sa point na parang nakakarinig ako ng rumors about samin.. dahil sa natakot akong lumaki. i decided to talk to him about the issue. so ayun we agreed na dumistansha din muna

impokrita ko kung sasabihin kong hindi ako naffall.. pero i didnt tell it to him...sino ba naman kasing hindi maffall dba? hanggang sa eto na nga siguro mga ilang days kaming hindi nag usap.

nag IM siya sakin.. telling na nammiss niya ko and all na ikinagulat ko... actually nagblush ako nun pero hindi ko pinansin baka way yun na pangungulit sa chat. dumidistansha na din kasi ako kasi nga ayaw kong lumala yung feelings ko towards this guy

one day, bigla niya kong hinila sa isang room. asking kung bakit daw yung treatment ko sa kanya.. he was so mad na parang feeling ko mapapatay niya ko kasi makikita mo yung galit sa mata niya.

i got scared. napaiyak ako... and then ayun ewan ko hindi ko na control yung sarili ko nag confess ako... after i told everything to him.. i waited for his response.

at ang response?

"sorry. my GF ako... didnt know you're falling na pala."
tumambling ako mga ten times with back flip sabay walk out..


after that day.. ayun putek resigned na si gago.

at eto ko ngayon.. luhaan at wasak hahaha.

 

[AGNLucy]

Over a year na di padin maka move on...
Ganito b tlga kabigat pag walang clossure?

 

[Razielle Prima]

Over a year na di padin maka move on...
Ganito b tlga kabigat pag walang clossure?

With or without closure, it is hard as long as there is nothing you can focus your attention to. Find something to avert your attention.

 

[AGNLucy]

With or without closure, it is hard as long as there is nothing you can focus your attention to. Find something to avert your attention.

May hobbies naman and i even have work right now and we just finished our team building... Di parin maalis s isip ko.

 

[Razielle Prima]

May hobbies naman and i even have work right now and we just finished our team building... Di parin maalis s isip ko.

Is there something you really like doing? Something physical, like sports? Anything competetive?

 

[AGNLucy]

Is there something you really like doing? Something physical, like sports? Anything competetive?

not sports but I do DJ as a hobby...

 

[Razielle Prima]

not sports but I do DJ as a hobby...

Do you have something competetive? Makakatulong iyon dahil sa kagustuhan ng tao manalo, it may overcome the thought of that someone.

 

[AGNLucy]

Do you have something competetive? Makakatulong iyon dahil sa kagustuhan ng tao manalo, it may overcome the thought of that someone.

I see I get it now... Nag babasketball ako before. Maybe I'll try to get back on it... If something competitive I do play Dota, does that help?

 

[Razielle Prima]

I see I get it now... Nag babasketball ako before. Maybe I'll try to get back on it... If something competitive I do play Dota, does that help?

It may. You can try it and wait for someone else to come in to your life. Alam ko kung gaano kahirap. May pagkakataon din na kahit ilang taon na ang lumipas, maaalala mo pa rin siya. The least that can happen is there will be others to occupy your mind.

 

[maxgreen0427]

Re: Sa lahat po ng mga broken hearted sama-sama po tayo. <\3

Are you planning to move on or have her back? Kasal po ba kayo? You said she was your wife, but there are those, including me, who treat their beloved even, without marriage, as their wife.

i tried my best to have her back... pero ayaw nya daw ... may nahanap na sya na bago... we have 2 kids pala... i treat her as wife... kahit di naman kami kasal... haist even sa work... di ako makapagfocus walang peace of mind...

 

[Razielle Prima]

Re: Sa lahat po ng mga broken hearted sama-sama po tayo. <\3

i tried my best to have her back... pero ayaw nya daw ... may nahanap na sya na bago... we have 2 kids pala... i treat her as wife... kahit di naman kami kasal... haist even sa work... di ako makapagfocus walang peace of mind...

Dalawang anak? Kilala ka naman nila, I assume.

 

[shame08102488]

Re: Sa lahat po ng mga broken hearted sama-sama po tayo. <\3

bakit po ba kasi ang hirap makamove on? bwisit na pagmamahal kasi eh,tapos hindi ko po alam kung sa pag uwi ko ba galing sa ibang bansa at kung magkakausap kaya kami ay maayos ang lahat? nung cnabi ko nman na uuwi ako para isurprice sya, sabi nya wag na daw ako umuwi, kc pupunta daw sya dito, anu ba yun? ang gulo. parang nagpapaintay sya sakin dito. pero panay text sya skin ng Sorry with sad smiley

 

[mynameiscloud]

hey Diary,

Got update for you.

he email me just now...

asking for forgiveness.
he wants me.
he broke up with his long time GF.

i feel guilty >.<

what do i do??

 

[Razielle Prima]

Re: Sa lahat po ng mga broken hearted sama-sama po tayo. <\3

bakit po ba kasi ang hirap makamove on? bwisit na pagmamahal kasi eh,tapos hindi ko po alam kung sa pag uwi ko ba galing sa ibang bansa at kung magkakausap kaya kami ay maayos ang lahat? nung cnabi ko nman na uuwi ako para isurprice sya, sabi nya wag na daw ako umuwi, kc pupunta daw sya dito, anu ba yun? ang gulo. parang nagpapaintay sya sakin dito. pero panay text sya skin ng Sorry with sad smiley

Long distance relationship? Mahirap talaga. Ang maipapayo ko lang ay paniwalaan mo lang ang nais mong paniwalaan. Isipin mo lang na totoo lahat ang pinapangarap mo but accept the worst. Ang hirap intindihin? Hindi ko kasi maipaliwanag ng maayos. Iyon ang kasi ang ginagawa ko sa sarili ko at iyon ang nagtutulak sa akin to move forward. Iniisip ko na may asawa at anak ako pero tanggap ko rin na kahit hindi ang magiging sagot sa akin. Madaling salita, niloloko ko ang sarili ko. Imaginary life? Iniisip ko ang makapagpapasiya sa akin pero hindi ako umaasa.

 

[Razielle Prima]

hey Diary,

Got update for you.

he email me just now...

asking for forgiveness.
he wants me.
he broke up with his long time GF.

i feel guilty >.<

what do i do??

Whoa! Did he break up with his girlfriend just because of you or were they not getting along well?