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Hi!
I was just wondering why men need to court women
I have witnessed many men who do not show their "real selves" when courting the women they are interested in.
They change their attitudes, do strange things, try to impress the woman by doing things they don't really like.
This in turn makes the woman expect that you are the person you showed off for the first few dates...since women usually like consistency.
After the woman takes him as a mate, he will most inevitably revert to his former self and that's where women can tend to well, wonder.
Women would wonder "why isn't he doing <this thing I expected him to do based on his courtship>?"
Isn't it better to just show your real selves from the beginning rather than following the nonsense trend of being sweet then throwing all your efforts away because you were pretending to be someone you're not?
What's your opinion on this?
If you do court women, how do you handle it?
I was just wondering why men need to court women
I have witnessed many men who do not show their "real selves" when courting the women they are interested in.
They change their attitudes, do strange things, try to impress the woman by doing things they don't really like.
This in turn makes the woman expect that you are the person you showed off for the first few dates...since women usually like consistency.
After the woman takes him as a mate, he will most inevitably revert to his former self and that's where women can tend to well, wonder.
Women would wonder "why isn't he doing <this thing I expected him to do based on his courtship>?"
Isn't it better to just show your real selves from the beginning rather than following the nonsense trend of being sweet then throwing all your efforts away because you were pretending to be someone you're not?
What's your opinion on this?
If you do court women, how do you handle it?