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Haha. Thanks po.
Pakisabihan naman po siya na dumating na siya agad.

Sa tamang panahon ~~ Lola Nidora

 

[mugiwara05]

Kwestyon lang, may mga babae bang tapat sa sinabi nila? yung parang nangangako maging sila hanggang dulo may ganun bang babae? karamihan ba o onti lang? may kaibigan kase ako aadvice saken di ko alam sagot ko HAHAHA sinapak ko na lang siya


ano ba tama?

 

[Silverblade07]

Pag naririnig ko kasi ang term na introvert, ang demeaning niya. Pero napansin ko, yung mga previous questions mo inspired talaga sa book - (nung binasa ko yung blurb niya napansin ko). So hindi ako nakarelate. Ang dating kasi ng pagiging introvert sa akin, it's something I'm not proud of. Sa book, mukang medyo maganda ang description niya.


-this is very true...

pag nakikisocialize ako, parang sasabog ata ako dahil naooverwhelm ako. Gusto ko tumigil saglit at magkaron ng private moment, sometimes for reflection. Tapos okay na ulit ako balik sa pakikipagsocialize.

Ang pinagtataka ko, I have a guy friend who is very good in socializing. He's extrovert pero ramdam ko deep inside him na my qualities siya na pagiging introvert. Because if mali ako, it's impossible for us to become friends in the first place. Nahihilo ako sa pagkatao niya. And nahihirapan ako because masyado kami magkaiba. Pero best friend ko siya. Though war kami ngayon and before I typed this wala pa akong balak pansinin siya. What's weird is he knows me well pero ako hindi ko pala siya ganon kakilala after years of being friends. I thought kilala ko siya, but suddenly parang biglang may wall. Biglang from being an open person, tinatago na niya lahat and sinesekreto niya. Ang masama dun, nararamdaman ko kasi malakas ang pandama ko. Alam kong may mali pero hindi ko mapinpoint. I hate the guessing game and then guys will tell me "tama ka naman talaga nung una pa lang". Suddenly I'm sad. Sana may mag comment

Yun nga po madalas yung misconception sa pagiging introvert. Mas magiging malinaw po ang lahat pag lumaon, and talagang makakatulong yung book. (talagang nag'promote na ng book e )

Few possibilities in your case.
- He's an extrovert who sometimes act like an introvert for whatever reason he has (or the opposite)
- He's planning something (could be something huge, pwede din namang simple lang) kaya nagkataong naging masekreto siya
- O sadyang may bumabagabag sa kanya na hindi nya masabi
- No idea.

Once ready ka na, try to talk to him about diyan. Just make sure na hindi mo ipaparamdam na parang confrontation yung mangyayari, tipong ilalagay mo siya sa hot seat. Posible kasing maging defensive lang yung guy, or magalit o kung ano man. In that case hindi mo pa rin malalaman kung anong gusto mong malaman, hindi pa rin magiging malinaw ang mga bagay bagay.

What I mean is that, naging girlfriend mo ba siya, crush lang, naging kayo ba? about the spark thing. Just some background info but never mind.

Yung isa, siya yung last kong gf. Lasted for around 2years, another year na unstable na, then nangiwan.
Best friend ko yung isa, for almost 9years na.

 

[januaryanne]

Haha. Thanks po.
Pakisabihan naman po siya na dumating na siya agad.

Sa takdang panahon nga

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Kwestyon lang, may mga babae bang tapat sa sinabi nila? yung parang nangangako maging sila hanggang dulo may ganun bang babae? karamihan ba o onti lang? may kaibigan kase ako aadvice saken di ko alam sagot ko HAHAHA sinapak ko na lang siya


ano ba tama?

Kahit sino pag na inlove masasabing sila hanggang dulo. Pag inlove ka feeling mo okay lahat at maglalast kayo di ba. Ganun talaga may mga bagay na hindi natin saklaw tulad ng paghihiwalay. Someday it's gonna makes sense sabi nga nung kanta ng MLTR.

 

[immabroke]

Kwestyon lang, may mga babae bang tapat sa sinabi nila? yung parang nangangako maging sila hanggang dulo may ganun bang babae? karamihan ba o onti lang? may kaibigan kase ako aadvice saken di ko alam sagot ko HAHAHA sinapak ko na lang siya


ano ba tama?

Walang makakapagsabi ng hinaharap, depende na lamang yan sa sitwasyon. Alangan naman na hanggang sa dulo sila pa rin kung may mga fortuitous events (panloloko and the likes).

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Do you pick madalas ba yung

A. Madaldal / Makwela i.e madaming humor / easy to approach pero most of the time walang sense

B. Tahimik / wala masyadong humor / suplado pero may sense kausap

Which and Why?

B.

Kasi mas gusto ko kausap ang mga taong may laman ang sinasabi kesa sa puro kalokohan lang.

 

[januaryanne]

Do you pick madalas ba yung

A. Madaldal / Makwela i.e madaming humor / easy to approach pero most of the time walang sense

B. Tahimik / wala masyadong humor / suplado pero may sense kausap

Which and Why?

A. Para pareho kaming walang sense

 

[verticancer]

Walang makakapagsabi ng hinaharap, depende na lamang yan sa sitwasyon. Alangan naman na hanggang sa dulo sila pa rin kung may mga fortuitous events (panloloko and the likes).

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B.

Kasi mas gusto ko kausap ang mga taong may laman ang sinasabi kesa sa puro kalokohan lang.

So mas gusto mo pala ung hindi palabiro

 

[beauty and the beast]

Do you pick madalas ba yung

A. Madaldal / Makwela i.e madaming humor / easy to approach pero most of the time walang sense

B. Tahimik / wala masyadong humor / suplado pero may sense kausap

Which and Why?

May sense kausap. Sensible. Marunong makisakay sa usapan pero naiintindihan pa din aq. Yan yung top na gusto kong meron yung guy ko. Kaya B din sagot ko. Di ko kayang magsurvive pag walang ganyan. Para bang may kulang pag wala yan.

Pero ayaw ko naman ng tahimik, suplado, walang humor.

Pag papipiliin ako sa dalawa B.

 

[Brixton11]

Girls Excuse me. . Survey lang, feel free to answer

What makes a Guy attractive to you in conversation?

 

[Silverblade07]

Pero ayaw ko naman ng tahimik, suplado, walang humor.

Bakit may mga pagkakataon na nasasabi ng babae na suplado yung lalaki kahit di pa nya kinikilala? Ano kadalasan ang basehan nyo kaya naiisip nyo ung mga ganung bagay? At paano din maiiwasan ng lalaki yung ganun?

 

[immabroke]

So mas gusto mo pala ung hindi palabiro

Sinagot ko lang based sa options given. Pero my preference will be someone na I can have intelligent conversations with, humor will always be a plus pero sa given choices kasi may sense of humor pero yun nga most of the time daw wala sense sinasabi and I can't stand talking to someone na parang airhead lang. So pinili ko na lang yung B. anyways if the guy is boring okay lang yun haha makwela naman akong tao we'll survive opposites attract naman minsan eh haha.

 

[Silverblade07]

anyways if the guy is boring okay lang yun haha makwela naman akong tao we'll survive

So. Women like these also exist. Nice to know.

 

[januaryanne]

Girls Excuse me. . Survey lang, feel free to answer

What makes a Guy attractive to you in conversation?

Hindi boring. Yung kahit ano natatopic. Wag seryoso ayoko ng mga topics na out of this world hindi kaya ng utak ko. Chill lang na usapan pero sana may sense pa rin kausap.

Alam kung kailan magseseryoso at hindi puro "siya". Mahilig sa books at sa kantahan.

Ayun. For me lang yun

 

[immabroke]

So. Women like these also exist. Nice to know.

Oo naman, yes

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Girls Excuse me. . Survey lang, feel free to answer

What makes a Guy attractive to you in conversation?

Di ba you know what's inside a girl's mind.mtell me what you think.

Anyways just to answer the question... Malalaman naman pag masayang kausap ang lalaki it's like you never run out of things to talk about, di naman kailangan rocket science dapat kahit papaano marunong bumitaw ng punchline, may nice comeback pag nababara minsan but not to the point na condescending.

Oh BTW I get sooooo turned on with guys who have good grammar, di lang magaling magsalita pero yung may sense magenglish. Occasional typos are forgiven. After all we are human. Ayoko yung madaming mali sa spelling.

 

[Silverblade07]

Hindi boring. Yung kahit ano natatopic. Wag seryoso ayoko ng mga topics na out of this world hindi kaya ng utak ko. Chill lang na usapan pero sana may sense pa rin kausap.

Alam kung kailan magseseryoso at hindi puro "siya". Mahilig sa books at sa kantahan.

Oo naman, yes

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Di ba you know what's inside a girl's mind.mtell me what you think.

Anyways just to answer the question... Malalaman naman pag masayang kausap ang lalaki it's like you never run out of things to talk about, di naman kailangan rocket science dapat kahit papaano marunong bumitaw ng punchline, may nice comeback pag nababara minsan but not to the point na condescending.

Would it be okay if a guy asked you na sabihin sa kanya kung nagiging boring na sa inyo yung usapan?
In my case po kasi dati, sometimes i get too technical, at naiisip kong baka nagiging boring na para dun sa babae. Sa ganun madalas bigla akong tumatahimik, even while in the middle of saying/explaining something. And there are also situations na mas pinipili ko na talagang tumahimik na lang, cutting the conversation short. Namimisinterpret minsan na may problema, bigla akong nagalit, o kung ano man.

Since then, sinasabihan ko na ung girl na sabihan nya ko pag sumusobra na. It works sa best friend ko (we're close so this is not really an issue) but there are some who find it weird.

 

[beauty and the beast]

Bakit may mga pagkakataon na nasasabi ng babae na suplado yung lalaki kahit di pa nya kinikilala? Ano kadalasan ang basehan nyo kaya naiisip nyo ung mga ganung bagay? At paano din maiiwasan ng lalaki yung ganun?

Suplado siya sa akin. Suplado din siya sa iba. Pinipili lang niya yung kinakausap niya. Meron siyang certain group (like elite group), yun lang yung kinakausap niya. Minsan namamansin siya pag may kailangan siya Pansinin man niya ako in the end, you cannot change a person (nasa tao kung gusto niya ng pagbabago), suplado pa rin siya pag tumagal. Kunyare naging bf ko siya, siyempre at first parang hindi siya suplado, pag nagtagal kami iiral pa rin pagiging suplado niya, pag nagbreak kami ganun pa din siya mas lalala pa pagiging suplado niya

Kasi kung hindi siya suplado, no need for him na kilalanin ko pa siya vs sa taong naturally approachable.

Paano maiiwasan, nasa upbringing na kasi yun eh. Hindi na maiiwasan yun. Kung may pagbabago man it's a slow process.

Would it be okay if a guy asked you na sabihin sa kanya kung nagiging boring na sa inyo yung usapan?
In my case po kasi dati, sometimes i get too technical, at naiisip kong baka nagiging boring na para dun sa babae. Sa ganun madalas bigla akong tumatahimik, even while in the middle of saying/explaining something. And there are also situations na mas pinipili ko na talagang tumahimik na lang, cutting the conversation short. Namimisinterpret minsan na may problema, bigla akong nagalit, o kung ano man.

Since then, sinasabihan ko na ung girl na sabihan nya ko pag sumusobra na. It works sa best friend ko (we're close so this is not really an issue) but there are some who find it weird.

Would it be okay if a guy asked you na sabihin sa kanya kung nagiging boring na sa inyo yung usapan?
- Okay lang. Pero minsan nasa reaction na din ng girl eh, wala ng feedback. Ayaw ka na niyang kausapin ganun. Pero kapag nagkwkwento din naman siya, palitan kayo ng ideas, hindi pa siya bored.

Kung technical. You can ask her directly naman “Gusto mo bang malaman yung anu....?” “Ikwento ko pa ba sayu yung anu...?” “Interested ka bang malaman yung techical ng anu...?”. Alamin mo din yung side niya (baka pala sinasakyan ka lang niya) at alamin mo din kung anong kwento mo yung gusto niya, ano yung gusto mong ikwento mo.

Mas mainam na magtanong ka na now, kesa bigla na lang iniwan ka na ng kausap mo, naghanap ng ibang suitor, naghanap ng ibang kausap, or iniiwasan ka na.

 

[Silverblade07]

Suplado siya sa akin. Suplado din siya sa iba. Pinipili lang niya yung kinakausap niya. Meron siyang certain group (like elite group), yun lang yung kinakausap niya. Minsan namamansin siya pag may kailangan siya Pansinin man niya ako in the end, you cannot change a person (nasa tao kung gusto niya ng pagbabago), suplado pa rin siya pag tumagal. Kunyare naging bf ko siya, siyempre at first parang hindi siya suplado, pag nagtagal kami iiral pa rin pagiging suplado niya, pag nagbreak kami ganun pa din siya mas lalala pa pagiging suplado niya

Kasi kung hindi siya suplado, no need for him na kilalanin ko pa siya vs sa taong naturally approachable.

Paano maiiwasan, nasa upbringing na kasi yun eh. Hindi na maiiwasan yun. Kung may pagbabago man it's a slow process.



Would it be okay if a guy asked you na sabihin sa kanya kung nagiging boring na sa inyo yung usapan?
- Okay lang. Pero minsan nasa reaction na din ng girl eh, wala ng feedback. Ayaw ka na niyang kausapin ganun. Pero kapag nagkwkwento din naman siya, palitan kayo ng ideas, hindi pa siya bored.

Kung technical. You can ask her directly naman “Gusto mo bang malaman yung anu....?” “Ikwento ko pa ba sayu yung anu...?” “Interested ka bang malaman yung techical ng anu...?”. Alamin mo din yung side niya (baka pala sinasakyan ka lang niya) at alamin mo din kung anong kwento mo yung gusto niya, ano yung gusto mong ikwento mo.

Mas mainam na magtanong ka na now, kesa bigla na lang iniwan ka na ng kausap mo, naghanap ng ibang suitor, naghanap ng ibang kausap, or iniiwasan ka na.

Okay. Point taken.
Matagal na umiwas e.
Thanks anyway.

 

[januaryanne]

Would it be okay if a guy asked you na sabihin sa kanya kung nagiging boring na sa inyo yung usapan?
In my case po kasi dati, sometimes i get too technical, at naiisip kong baka nagiging boring na para dun sa babae. Sa ganun madalas bigla akong tumatahimik, even while in the middle of saying/explaining something. And there are also situations na mas pinipili ko na talagang tumahimik na lang, cutting the conversation short. Namimisinterpret minsan na may problema, bigla akong nagalit, o kung ano man.

Since then, sinasabihan ko na ung girl na sabihan nya ko pag sumusobra na. It works sa best friend ko (we're close so this is not really an issue) but there are some who find it weird.

Okay naman. Basta ba huwag lang puro ikaw yung salita ng salita sa usapan ha.

Tsaka para sakin kung gusto kita kahit na boring yung topic siguro ill listen attentively kasi curious ako sa sinasabi mo eh. And i'll feel interested kasi gusto ko ung taong nagsasalita. It's my one way of getting to know the person parang ganun.

Basta ayoko lang na puro siya kuda ng kuda at nasa listening side lang si girl dapat two way process ung usapan.

 

[Silverblade07]

Okay naman. Basta ba huwag lang puro ikaw yung salita ng salita sa usapan ha.

Tsaka para sakin kung gusto kita kahit na boring yung topic siguro ill listen attentively kasi curious ako sa sinasabi mo eh. And i'll feel interested kasi gusto ko ung taong nagsasalita. It's my one way of getting to know the person parang ganun.

Basta ayoko lang na puro siya kuda ng kuda at nasa listening side lang si girl dapat two way process ung usapan.

Point taken. Monologue na nga naman na kasi yun kung siya't siya lang yung magsasalita at makikinig lang yung babae.
Thanks po.

 

[edwata2k15]

Hello everyone,

Newbie here!!!

I need an advise badly regarding some sexual matters.

We've been together for more than 13-years now. Had the best times of our lives and I can say we're happy together! We had kids and had a good status in the community. We're very friendly and in fact most of the people around us liked us very much - I can say that we're a respected people. Summarized below are the things that really bothers me and I would like to be as honest as I can be.

But, before anything else I would like to say something about us, who are we and our physical appearance:
Let's call my partner "Dream"... Dream is about 35 years old now and I can say she's a very hot lady. She stands about 5 feet 4 in, 100 lbs, have a slim body and have a beautiful face (medyo tisay). She's is very sexy and can't just get enough of her. She doesn't wear sexy clothes but you can still see the hotness of my lady. And sometimes my friends from their gestures would really love to be under her pants!!! I can sense that always because she's a very attractive girl. She's very sexually active!

Me: call me Ed... 36 years old, I stand about 5 ft 8 in, have a broad shoulder and quite a good looking man and have a straight hair. I don't exercise but still I was able to have a fit body, with shirt on I look like to have an athletic body. I'm about 155 lbs and a well respected man. I'm a kindhearted person and always easy to deal with. Sexually, I'm not as active as I used to be and have sex just twice a week or maybe less. I was too busy with work and and sleeps like a dead goat at home. Always tired and worry a lot about what's the future for my family. I never cheated on her and I'm proud to say that although there are some girls around flirting with me but I managed to stay focused .

Now, here's the main topic!!! Me and Dream had a talk one day. I asked her what's her sexual fantasy? And, at least we do it before we turn 40. It took her a while to answer but her answer is "you first". No choice here because I know how sensitive the talk is and I can see how shock she is... I told her that every man's sexual fantasy is to have M-F-F sexual intercourse (a threesome). That's my wildest dream and I'm sure most of the guys would love that too... I'm pretty sure! Her reaction was... OK, glad to know but that would be very uncomfortable because I'm no lesbian and I hate tomboys. She thinks its grossest thing she knows and hates the idea! And, asked her how about M-M-F? She said that would be fun but slapped me on my shoulder with a tone of excitement and asked me "And how will you do that?" and I told her that I'll figure it out (with a serious grin). I believe she welcomes the idea of M-M-F. Easy for us to say but I think this is very hard to do.

Guys, I need your advise here.
1. Does anybody in here did it already?
2. How did you do it?
3. Considering we're matured enough and open to do it, what would be the implications with respect to our relationship?
4. As a woman, do you think this is normal and would accept such indecent proposal?
5. How does it feel to see and have your partner pumped by a stranger?
6. Will we loose our love and trust with this idea overtime?
7. I know this is very exciting but is it alright? Is this a good idea to boost our sexual relationship?
8. Is there an alternative way for this?

Please help and thanks in advance! Just need some advise... that's all.