Hello everyone,
Newbie here!!!
I need an advise badly regarding some sexual matters.
We've been together for more than 13-years now. Had the best times of our lives and I can say we're happy together! We had kids and had a good status in the community. We're very friendly and in fact most of the people around us liked us very much - I can say that we're a respected people. Summarized below are the things that really bothers me and I would like to be as honest as I can be.
But, before anything else I would like to say something about us, who are we and our physical appearance:
Let's call my partner "Dream"... Dream is about 35 years old now and I can say she's a very hot lady. She stands about 5 feet 4 in, 100 lbs, have a slim body and have a beautiful face (medyo tisay). She's is very sexy and can't just get enough of her. She doesn't wear sexy clothes but you can still see the hotness of my lady. And sometimes my friends from their gestures would really love to be under her pants!!! I can sense that always because she's a very attractive girl. She's very sexually active!
Me: call me Ed... 36 years old, I stand about 5 ft 8 in, have a broad shoulder and quite a good looking man and have a straight hair. I don't exercise but still I was able to have a fit body, with shirt on I look like to have an athletic body. I'm about 155 lbs and a well respected man. I'm a kindhearted person and always easy to deal with. Sexually, I'm not as active as I used to be and have sex just twice a week or maybe less. I was too busy with work and and sleeps like a dead goat at home. Always tired and worry a lot about what's the future for my family. I never cheated on her and I'm proud to say that although there are some girls around flirting with me but I managed to stay focused
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Now, here's the main topic!!! Me and Dream had a talk one day. I asked her what's her sexual fantasy? And, at least we do it before we turn 40. It took her a while to answer but her answer is "you first". No choice here because I know how sensitive the talk is and I can see how shock she is... I told her that every man's sexual fantasy is to have M-F-F sexual intercourse (a threesome). That's my wildest dream and I'm sure most of the guys would love that too... I'm pretty sure! Her reaction was... OK, glad to know but that would be very uncomfortable because I'm no lesbian and I hate tomboys. She thinks its grossest thing she knows and hates the idea! And, asked her how about M-M-F? She said that would be fun but slapped me on my shoulder with a tone of excitement and asked me "And how will you do that?" and I told her that I'll figure it out (with a serious grin). I believe she welcomes the idea of M-M-F. Easy for us to say but I think this is very hard to do.
Guys, I need your advise here.
1. Does anybody in here did it already?
2. How did you do it?
3. Considering we're matured enough and open to do it, what would be the implications with respect to our relationship?
4. As a woman, do you think this is normal and would accept such indecent proposal?
5. How does it feel to see and have your partner pumped by a stranger?
6. Will we loose our love and trust with this idea overtime?
7. I know this is very exciting but is it alright? Is this a good idea to boost our sexual relationship?
8. Is there an alternative way for this?
Please help and thanks in advance! Just need some advise... that's all.