Paano kung ang GF mo ngayon naging kabit ng may asawa?

[palotina]

Paano kung ang GF mo ngayon naging kabit ng may asawa?
Anong magandang payo mga TS. Naguguluhan ako..Mahal ko siya pero parang nawalan ako ng gana sa mga nalaman ko..

 

[quickie]

hindi ka nya mahal
whatever the reason, cheating is always a choice.
ganito na ang mga babae ngayon, lalo na ung mga mahilig umasa prone sa ganitong sitwasyon
always looking for the better catch

 

[jessaya]

Hindi kana siguro mahal pag ginawa niya yun

 

[ELESI]

kung ako nasa kalagayan mo TS ganito gagawin ko, hindi ko sasabihin ang nalaman ko na naging kabit siya, tapos gagamitin ko pa din siya hanggang makahanap ako ng pamalit sakanya na gf at bigla ko siya iiwanan para makabawi ako sa panloloko na ginawa niya!

LINTIK LANG ANG WALANG GANTI HAHAHAHA

 

[quickie]

mahirap yan kapag mabuntis, sigurado kargo mo yan
sayang lang man juice mo sa kanya, ibaling mo sa gusto mo kase in the end magkakaroon ka ng attachment kapag ginagamit mo sya
reserve your juice sa mas bata at mas sexy na gurl hehe just sayin

 

[motoro]

Paano kung ang GF mo ngayon naging kabit ng may asawa?
Anong magandang payo mga TS. Naguguluhan ako..Mahal ko siya pero parang nawalan ako ng gana sa mga nalaman ko..

You love her but she doesn't really love you. She doesn't even respect you so the right thing to do is to just walk away. It hurts but it will hurt more if you stay after all, would you really want to have a relationship with a cheater? There's just no valid reason for a person to cheat while in a relationship so save yourself the misery and just let her go immediately. But if it happened before you were even in the picture then that's part of her past that you need to accept.

 

[dbeth]

Paano kung ang GF mo ngayon naging kabit ng may asawa?
Anong magandang payo mga TS. Naguguluhan ako..Mahal ko siya pero parang nawalan ako ng gana sa mga nalaman ko..

hmmm.. pansinin natin ang mga bagay bagay po..

GF mo ngayon.. Alam ba nya na alam mo? sya ba ang may sabi?
NAGING kabit ng may asawa.. NAGING.. so meaning ba neto is past? bago pa naging kau? o presently..

kung sya ang may sabi sayo.. meaning.. she trusts you with her past..
pag sa iba mo nalaman.. meaning.. she is ashamed of her past or fears it na un ang maging dahilan na baka maghiwalay kau..

if past na ung naging kabit sya.. then that is her past.. love is not easy especially if you have to fully accept her, who she is now, and who she was before..
if existing na kabit pa rin sya ng iba upto now.. eh.. niloloko ka na cguro nyan.. hiwalayan na.. o kea gamitin mo.. gat sa mka hanap ka ng mas deserving

 

[quickie]

bihira na mga matitinong babae ngayon
pokpokish na ang datingan, stone stones in the sky...

 

[-CHZ-]

Paano kung ang GF mo ngayon naging kabit ng may asawa?
Anong magandang payo mga TS. Naguguluhan ako..Mahal ko siya pero parang nawalan ako ng gana sa mga nalaman ko..

Sakin okay lang naman at walang kaso. Naging kabit lang naman sya ng may asawa. Hindi naman sya kabit ng may asawa habang kami. Kung tama nga ang pagkakaintindi ko, past niya yun. So kung mahal mo talaga ang girlfriend mo, tatanggapin mo yun kasi part na ng buhay niya yun.

 

[immabroke]

Naging kabit ng may asawa. Past tense.

Kung gf mo na siya ngayon at wala naman na siyang ibang kinakalantari. If you are willing to accept her past then ipagpatuloy mo.
If you can't accept her past, might as well let her go para makahanap siya ng lalaking talagang tanggap siya at makahanap ka ng babaeng tingin mong worthy sa pagmamahal mo.

Wag ka magstay kung mababa ang tingin mo sa kanya.

 

[niecelcream]

If don't accept her past, hindi ka deserve to be with her sa future.
Isang tsismis palang nalaman mo bumigay kana agad.
Wala pang pundasyon yang pagmamahal mo.
Pag usapan nyo. Kung totoo at hndi mo tamggap, then let go.
Di ka nya deserve kasi di mo sya tanggap.

 

[palotina]

You love her but she doesn't really love you. She doesn't even respect you so the right thing to do is to just walk away. It hurts but it will hurt more if you stay after all, would you really want to have a relationship with a cheater? There's just no valid reason for a person to cheat while in a relationship so save yourself the misery and just let her go immediately. But if it happened before you were even in the picture then that's part of her past that you need to accept.

tama ka TS it happened before we got into our current relationship. pinagsisisihan naman daw nya ung ginawa nya pero until now meron pa din sila communication and sabi nya friends nalang daw sila which is something na mahirap intindihin..baka gusto pa din ba nyang maging kabit or something?

 

[zeus001]

if you cant undestand her past and trust her with the future

then hiwalayan mo, its not love that you feel trust me

 

[palotina]

hmmm.. pansinin natin ang mga bagay bagay po..

GF mo ngayon.. Alam ba nya na alam mo? sya ba ang may sabi?
NAGING kabit ng may asawa.. NAGING.. so meaning ba neto is past? bago pa naging kau? o presently..

kung sya ang may sabi sayo.. meaning.. she trusts you with her past..
pag sa iba mo nalaman.. meaning.. she is ashamed of her past or fears it na un ang maging dahilan na baka maghiwalay kau..

if past na ung naging kabit sya.. then that is her past.. love is not easy especially if you have to fully accept her, who she is now, and who she was before..
if existing na kabit pa rin sya ng iba upto now.. eh.. niloloko ka na cguro nyan.. hiwalayan na.. o kea gamitin mo.. gat sa mka hanap ka ng mas deserving

nalaman ko sa iba at tinanung ko sa kanya..nung una todo deny pa siya na friends lang daw nya un na maraming beses kong tinatanung sa kanya and later on umamin na din naman at ang masaklap pa neto meron pa din sila communication na hindi daw nya kayang itigil at foreigner ang kabit nya.. willing naman akong tanggapin kung anung nakaraan nya pero siya mismo ayaw bumitaw.. at nagbabanta pa ung asawa ng kabit nya na ikakalat nya ung sex video nilang dalawa.

 

[motoro]

tama ka TS it happened before we got into our current relationship. pinagsisisihan naman daw nya ung ginawa nya pero until now meron pa din sila communication and sabi nya friends nalang daw sila which is something na mahirap intindihin..baka gusto pa din ba nyang maging kabit or something?

Well, if it happened before then it shouldn't be an issue anymore if you really love her. Most people have past relationships and one of her past happens to be a married man. Ideally, she shouldn't have entered that kind of relationship but this is not an ideal world. But you're also entitled to your preference, if it bothers you then you have every right to walk away. Regarding her still communicating with her, she should have stopped it already once their relationship ended if she's REALLY regrets getting into a relationship with him. However, it continued even now that both of you are having a relationship. I don't think she ever regretted it and might have told you that to make her less guilty. Better talk to her and tell her that you're not comfortable that she still communicates with the guy and see what she will say. At the same time, be on the lookout if they are still communicating if she promised to end their communication.

 

[manilaboy20]

papiliin mo kung yung kabit na foreigner ba or ikaw. kase nga kung mahal ka nya ikaw pipiliin nya at hnd yung foreigner na yun at kung yung kabit nya. tanggapin mo kung anu mn desisyon nya. ganyan kase yung nagmamahal may nasasaktan at nakakasakit.

 

[Ronskie1999]

Alam ko ang iba gagawan pa rin ng paraan para maayos to pero sa tingin ko GENERALLY bad idea to. Break up nalang talaga, tandaan mo gaya nung sinabi nung unang nagreply. Cheating is always a choice, madali ang mag cheat at madali rin ang hindi magcheat. Cheating is a bundle of small mistakes, hindi aksidente ang pagcheat. Mabuti nga na nalaman mo na may kabit sya na mag GF at BF palang kayo, paano na kung kasal kayo? Lalo't na walang divorce dito sa atin. Marami pa rin ang mabubuting babae at marami rin ang mga masasamang babae, naoovershadow lang talaga ng masasama.

EDIT: Since naging kabit pala ng may asawa at HINDI NA NGAYON. Assuming nalang na hindi sya aware noon na may asawa napala yung karelasyon nya. Okay lang lalo't na nakaraan na iyon pero kung para sayo malaking bagay to bitawan mo nalang. Sabi mo may communication pa sila hanggang ngayon isang BIG NO yan, may karapatan ka na sabihan sya na kung pwede i cut off yung contact nila. Lahat naman kasi may sekreto at hindi lahat ng sekreto dapat malaman.

 

[10reason]

move on na ts hanap ka na lang ng iba. ganyan din nangyari sa ex ko pero take note may anak na siya ngayon pero single mom siya paano ko nalaman? tinignan ko facebook niya at nabasa ko yung comment sa bawat picture niya. sa ngayon ang pinagkaka abalahan niya sa buhay ay magpapansin at kung anu-ano pa, pati picture ko panay like na lang siguro na realize niya na ako yung the one that got away.

 

[libbylorenzo1018]

Let her taste her own medicine TS. "Sweet Revenge."

 

[MegaCharizard]

ayusin mo muna kwento mo TS. mejo magulo eh. di malaman kung nakaraan nya na yon o niloloko ka nya ngayon. pero sang ayon ako sa sinabi nila dbeth, immabroke, at iba pang katulad na sagot.