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That's interesting turn of event. Now the ball is on your side of court. So what's it gonna be?
If you choose to continue, whatever you are going through right now will just continue. The only positive thing that may continue is the kissing and the hugging. But we are not sure if you can still kiss and hug her after what she said.
On the other hand, you can take a break and reassess your feelings for her. Because it seems she's not ready for a relationship right now. Whether that or she don't see as her next boyfriend. Either way both are negative. The only consolation you got was she acknowledges your effort and love for her. That way if would decide to quit you don't have to worry that she might think you love her less. Somehow it seems that no matter how hard you have tried, she's not budging even a tiny bit where she would at least go out with you. You've hit a blank wall in short. Also, she seem to easily get affected on what other people would say.
It's decision time now. Who knows letting go might give her the chance to think but it's still up to you.
nag-usap na kame kanina, I chose to continue, pero balewala, pinili nya na ibalik nalang yung friendship namen dati, ayaw nya daw akong paasahin, pwede nya daw ako pagbigyan pero dapat mawala nalang din soon yung feelings ko para sa kanya, sya din naman ang mali daw, dahil sa nasasaktan nya lang din ako dahil sa pagiging selfish nya, di nya nga ako mabigyan ng time, baka talagang di pa daw oras para magka-boyfriend.
ang sakit lang, nabasura lang lahat ng mga efforts ko sa kanya, akala ko talaga pwede, mababaw na kung mababaw dahil 2 months pa lang ako nanligaw pero napaiyak talaga ko sa harap nya, madali kase ko magmahal at magtiwala, ewan ko, hiyang-hiya ako, ang baba ng tingin ko ngayon sa sarili ko, umasa ako na yung taong mahal ko eh mamahalin din ako kagaya ng pagmamahal ko sa kanya.
nakakainis kase ano pa bang purpose nya ng pag-chat saken nung umuwi na ko like "ayusin mo sarili mo baby :'( ayokong nakikita kang umiiyak" then sorry ng sorry, ano pa bang sense!? sinaktan nya na ko, ano para wag pa din ako bumitaw sa kabila ng mga sinabi nya saken?
nakakapagod magmahal, sa umpisa aasa ka tapos sa huli wala din pala, tama na...