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You don't seem confident about your decision to forgive her. Did you just forgive her because you think you don't have a choice since you're married? I hope not. I don't think you are obligated to forgive her just because both of you are married. You only forgive a person if you find genuine peace in doing so otherwise it may haunt you in the future. I always believe that once a cheater will always be a cheater. I don't know about you but if I were to be in your place I would let her go because I know I would only get paranoid and miserable especially if I were to go back abroad. But if you're not like me then maybe you will fine.
Based on the timeline of your stories, I think it would have saved you the trouble had you not confront her right away whenever you discover something. Because based on your stories, what you read on smstracker were just leads and not really evidence yet. You could have dig deeper since she's screwing behind your back already. Actually you did that several times in your story. Whenever you have a lead you confront right away. Unfortunately, nobody in their right mind would admit that they are being unfaithful and it is very easy to make up excuses. The way she cried like a baby when you were able to get the evidence you need is a classic reaction of a cheater. You could have made some extra effort like asking fellow Pinoy abroad to buy the app using their credit card and paying them cash for it. That way you could have find out everything and you could have avoided getting married and be a free man because you don't deserve to be treated like that. Imagine how she gave all sorts of excuses when you confronted her at the beginning and she doesn't even want to do it with you. Normally, women becomes cold in bed once they are screwing another guy.
Well, what's done is done. What you can do is to continue monitoring her actions/messages unless she had already earn your trust - yes trust is earn and not given. But since you let the cat out of the bag by telling her how you found out about her then it might become difficult for you to monitor her if she decides to cheat again. For now, as long as you don't get paranoid and if this is something that you want to do then go ahead.
nakakalungkot to TS. pag ako to hiawalay agad. mahirap magtiwala ulit lalo na at nasa ibang bansa ka. minsan kahit mahal mo hindi naman pwedeng nagmamahalan kayo pero puno ng pagdududa. magaaway lang kayo nyan lagi TS. Better show her what is the consequences of her actions. Kc parang pinatawad mo lang basta basta. ung nakikita mo sa kanya baka pakitang tao lang kasi kailangan ka nya. Iba kasi ung kailangan ka nya kasi mahal ka nya sa mahal ka nya kaya kailangan ka nya.
( Mark 11:25-26 )
25 And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.
26 But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses.
yan lang ang sagot kung kailangan mo pa bang patawarin o hindi na....