Why I keep on dreaming about her?

[Moreign]

Good day! I am married na po with 2 kids but I am just wondering why I keep on dreaming about this girl that I used to love before. Ok to make the story short, there was this girl na na-inlove ako although girlfriend ko na yung wife ko that time. Malapit lang sya samin nakatira while my wife is in Cainta, I was from QC when I was still single po. Actually yung babae ay pinagmulan ng maraming away namin ni wifey kasi nagseselos sya, at nahuli nya ako before na nakakausap pa rin yung girl at niyayaya mag session ng shot. Masasabi ko yung babae is naging denial sa feelings nya before sakin kasi alam kong iniisip nya is committed ako and ayun nabuntis ko pa yung wife ko nung time na napapadalas na ang punta ko sakanila.

So ayun na, may asawa't anak na ako. Hindi ko na naiisip yung babae like I totally forgot her. Nagtataka lang ako biglang pumapasok sya sa panaginip ko, and yung nangyayari sa panaginip ko is about regret saming dalawa na bakit hindi naging kami, na sinacrifice daw nya yung feelings nya kasi dahil sa naging situation ko. Hindi ko sya madalas mapanaginipan like every day, pero biglaan, and the feeling is very different like buong araw ko iniisip. Bakit po kaya? May chance kaya na naiisip ako nung tao na yun? Di po kasi ako naniniwala sa ganun e, bigyan nyo naman ako ng thoughts nyo about dito. Gusto ko lang malaman kung bakit.

 

[Rise321]

may chance pre na naiisip din nya un, mga 0.01% more likely imposible. Napapanaginipag mo kasi siguro tlgang na love struck ka sa kanya nung araw na yun. but hey TS may asawa at anak kana, wag ka na magisip isip ng ikasasama ng sitwasyon para sa pamilya mo.

 

[lyns99]

may isang parte sa utak mo nasa andun sya, malamang nasa subconcious mo sya kaya pag natutulog ka pumapasok sya sa panaginip mo, dont make it a big deal sir, you're married with 2 kids. focus on your family. stand your ground

 

[motoro]

Subconsciously you're thinking about her from time to time. Past is past and there's no reason for it to matter right now because you're in, I assume, in a healthy relationship with your wife.

 

[Moreign]

Thanks po sa mga nagbigay ng feedback. Yes po masaya po ako sa wife ko. Nagtaka lang ako, anyway kalimutan na natin un haha.

 

[Riyae08]

I think this is just more of a what-if situation...

something your mind is still curious about..

but not anything you still hold dear.


just a simple what would have been if things were different.

 

[dummyman]

Magdasal ka nalang TS mag Confess ka sa priest if catholic ka or pag hindi linisin mo lang laman ng isip mo .
Dreams lang un and malabong magkatotoo. Ang mas i prioritize mo eh ung pamilya mo ung pagmamahal mo lang sa pamilya mo ung paagusin mo sa dugo mo

Cheers!

 

[2ec4m3]

Most of our dreams are life desires. Normal lang yun if you keep dreaming of her. Pero ang masama if you pursue that dream (yung girl). Prayers lang sagot dyan ts at mawawala din sya sa isipan mo. Don't act on it.

 

[QueenKisses]

Hello TS. Honestly, I had almost the same problem, I kept on dreaming about my high school classmate. It bothered me a lot before kasi ang sweet namin sa dreams ko (he was either my boyfriend or suitor).
There was a time that I dreamed of him every night, kinabahan talaga ako kasi baka may nangyari sa kanyang masama, chineck ko FB nya, but he was alive and kicking.

Wala naman akong naging feelings sa kanya but for the record yong bestfriend ko crush na crush sya.

2013, We met again during our HS reunion. Since di naman nya kaclose yong iba, kami yong nagusap. And there was nothing special at all between us. Yon na ang last encounter namin. Up until now, wala pa din talaga akong sagot.

The most shocking thing was my best friend told me months ago that she had the same romantic and intimate dreams involving the same guy. I didn't tell her about mine, baka kung ano isipin nya. Siguro mangkukulam yong lalaking yon..

But maybe, dreams are just dreams, like what the other Symbianizers said just don't act on it and don't take it seriously.

Minsan, dumadaan pa din sya sa dreams ko, pero di na ako bothered.

 

[Moreign]

Hello TS. Honestly, I had almost the same problem, I kept on dreaming about my high school classmate. It bothered me a lot before kasi ang sweet namin sa dreams ko (he was either my boyfriend or suitor).
There was a time that I dreamed of him every night, kinabahan talaga ako kasi baka may nangyari sa kanyang masama, chineck ko FB nya, but he was alive and kicking.

Wala naman akong naging feelings sa kanya but for the record yong bestfriend ko crush na crush sya.

2013, We met again during our HS reunion. Since di naman nya kaclose yong iba, kami yong nagusap. And there was nothing special at all between us. Yon na ang last encounter namin. Up until now, wala pa din talaga akong sagot.

The most shocking thing was my best friend told me months ago that she had the same romantic and intimate dreams involving the same guy. I didn't tell her about mine, baka kung ano isipin nya. Siguro mangkukulam yong lalaking yon..

But maybe, dreams are just dreams, like what the other Symbianizers said just don't act on it and don't take it seriously.

Minsan, dumadaan pa din sya sa dreams ko, pero di na ako bothered.

Bakit kaya noh? HAHAHA napapaka playful ng dreams. Ayun chineck ko yung IG nya nakita ko niremove nya ko from one of her followers, siguro napanaginipan din ako HAHAHAHAHA.

 

[QueenKisses]

Bakit kaya noh? HAHAHA napapaka playful ng dreams. Ayun chineck ko yung IG nya nakita ko niremove nya ko from one of her followers, siguro napanaginipan din ako HAHAHAHAHA.

Ewan nga din TS, very vivid din kasi. Yong pagising mo para kang galing sa alternate Universe.


Or maybe they possess those qualities we were looking for a man/woman that we ourselves not aware of..

 

[wtfsushi]

wala kasi kayong closure. malabo kasi.

 

[aristotle23]

parehas tayo TS. long time ex ko napapanaginipan ko din minsan. pero wala na yon. kapag kasi matagal mo ding naka-relasyon o nakasama, may part na ng utak mo siguro na nandun sya, katulad ng ibang tao, for example yung mga classmate mo nung highschool at elementary. the same lang din siguro yon. naging reason lang is may interest ka sa kanya dati.

 

[sasori25]

same here ,sabi nila sya talaga soulmate mo
di nga lang naging kayo sa mundong ibabaw

 

[sleep04]

kalokohan yan, sisirain mo lang buhay ng mga anak mo pag pinagpatuloy mo yan

 

[javerwalk26]

same here ,sabi nila sya talaga soulmate mo
di nga lang naging kayo sa mundong ibabaw

siguro nga..

 

[Moreign]

Anong problema ng mga ibang nag leleave ng message dito? Napaka stubborn nyo naman po, nagtatanong lang ako. Ang highblood nyo.

 

[emzie03]

Bakit nga kaya? Haha
Kahit di mo naman iniisip. Pero sa tingin ko yun yung mga taong wala kayong closure.. maraming what if's.. Si totga kumbaga. Iniisip din nila kaya tayo? Hahaha. Weird kasi eh no. Pero baka wala lang din naman.

 

[Christler Pascual]

Wow akala ko ako lang ang ganyan... ehehe TS parehas tayo may asawa at anak na ako pero napapanaginipan ko pa rin ung highschool sweetheart ko. Hindi naging kami pero meron kaming nararamdaman sa isat't isa kasi inamin naman namin pareho.. Ang gulo di ba? Anyway ang ginawa ko lang ay ifoget na talaga si girl in the past and nagfocus na lang ako sa family ko.... Wag mo na sirain pamilya mo, isip kang mabuti kung ano gagawin mo TS.